I’ve been prompted on a number of occasions over the past few months that I need to update my “Swingers Club” pages as some of the Clubs mentioned appear to no longer exist.
However, things have been so hectic this year . . . particularly since we returned from our summer holidays . . . that I still haven’t managed to properly research or make those changes.
Partly because Hubby and I don’t actually indulge in our “clubbing nights out” as much as we used to.
There was a period, a few years ago, where every other weekend seemed to be spent at our favourite “local” club . . . or if not there . . . meeting privately with “friends” we’d met there previously.
And I do admit to revelling in the excitement of discovering those new friends and new situations, and that wonderful “freedom” of discovering those new
fun and thrills.
But, as with all things I suppose, the excitement and expectation of that uncertainty of possible new adventures, began to wane.
I knew what I liked, I’d met lots of new people whose company I enjoyed . . . so our visits gradually became less regular.
Besides which, I’d also discovered some new fun and, new-to-us, fetish clubs that we’d learnt about through my new femdom hobby. And whilst there can sometimes be a cross-over between “swinging” and “bdsm” clubbing,
the two were, from my point-of-view at least, different experiences and a different direction.
But although our visits to our “local” have become less frequent, we do still visit occasionally and I must admit that when we do visit, we still sometimes meet and make new friends.
Anyway, it has definitely been some time since I have checked the links on my Swingers Page here, so I will be doing that in the coming week or so.
Therefore my “Question” to you all is that if any of you would like me to add some recommendations of clubs you have visited and particularly enjoyed . . . no matter where in the world you are . . . please do let me know and I shall add them to my pages.
In the meantime, for more thoughts and experiences of Freedom, visit this week’s Food For Thought by clicking upon the button below.
Xxx- K
It is always good to make new friends and also to have the freedom to do so xx
It’s a fair point – sometimes the novelty wears off an whilst you don’t reject something, it holds less appeal. There’s nothing wrong with sticking to what you enjoy – I’m pretty sure life at Modesty Mansions is never dull!
When I see your posts I always think, now there is a couple that gets out there and enjoys themselves. It must be fun to have a partner in crime in these escapades and I love the fact that you have built a life that has fun and pleasure at its centre. As for clubs, I have been to very few but I did enjoy a CMNF event at a club in the Midlands in another life 🙂
I used to enjoy it too. I have pondered going back as a single woman but not sure it will work for me
Molly