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Modest Doughnuts #Boobday Friday

This week has been National Doughnut Week here in the UK . . . which just happened to coincide with an “away-day” trip to the seaside!

And what could be more appropriate, before strolling along the Pier, than a visit to the local Doughnut shop!

Especially as I do enjoy sweet and sticky occasionally!!!

Which, of course, is an ideal situation to be in for Boobday Friday . . . because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modest in Black #Boobday Friday

At last week’s Boobday Friday I mentioned how wearing my “Nights-in White Satin and Lace” always made me feel special.
Well . . . of course . . . I LOVE my Black Lace as well.

Especially as black-lace always makes me feel slightly more naughty!!!

And, as I’m feeling “slightly naughty” this morning, I thought I would share it here at Boobday Friday . . . because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Turning a Modest 50 at #realworldsex @makelovenotporn

Fifty? Goodness . . . Yes, I’ve just recently had my 50th #realworldsex video published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

I know I’ve posted several times previously about my thoughts on MakeLoveNotPorn . . . but I thought that turning 50 at MLNP was worthy of post all of it’s own, to celebrate that fun and message of Make Love Not Porn.

Because all those years ago, way back in 2013, I would never have dreamt that I would ever have FIFTY videos in my MLNP library . . . in fact I was quite surprised I’d had the courage to even submit one!!! And when I watch it now, I do giggle, with embarrassment, but also actually with the fun memories as well.

Because, as I hope you will already have gathered if you are a regular visitor at my blog-pages here, I always want fun to be at the heart of EVERYTHING I do. Giggling and smiling means we are happy, and being happy means making those around us feel happy too . . . even if only for short moments in time . . . being happy should be natural and normal.

And when so much of what happens in the world these days, seems to be un-happy and un-natural, the #realworldsex fun at MakeLoveNotPorn gives such welcome feelings of happiness . . . and naturalness.

From the moment I first heard, and viewed, MLNP founder Cindy Gallop’s amazing and inspirational presentation video from her TedConference appearance in 2012, I knew I simply had to be part of the MLNP community.

If you haven’t yet viewed that Ted video, or her equally inspiring first presentation at Ted2009, then I urge you to do so . . . because listening to Cindy’s words . . . and the fun and motivational style in which she delivers them . . . was one of those defining, almost life-changing moments for me.

I say almost life-changing because of course I was, already, experiencing and enjoying lots and lots of #realworldsex moments . . . and had been for a long, long time . . .

. . . but although my pages here at Modesty Ablaze already existed, I suppose that I still had those nagging feelings of . . . well not, shame about the lifestyle Hubby and I were enjoying . . . but a worry that perhaps more “normal” people wouldn’t understand or accept the relationship choices we had made over our years together.

Cindy’s passion for the philosophy of MakeLoveNotPorn in those Ted videos was obvious and contagious . . . that our sexuality could be, and should be, fun and real and normal. A celebration of life and love and respect! And that inspired me to overcome my doubts . . . and modesty . . . to submit that first video.

And the fun has not only continued, but grown ever more fulfilling and empowering over the past five years, with another 49 #realworldsex videos!

From those first modest me-time moments . . .


To introducing new friends . . .


Adventures at our favourite dungeon . . .


Special girly-times . . .


Steamy Kisses . . .


Fun holiday frolics . . .


Strap-On Fun . . .


Festive Occasions . . .


Naughty Holiday Memories . . .


To simply . . . Amazing Hotel Evenings


BUT this post is not meant to be about JUST my videos . . . because I hope that by sharing some of these special, fun, moments of my own, it may inspire more people to investigate and experience the wonderful feelings of fulfilment, empowerment and sexual-confidence that being part of the community at MakeLoveNotPorn can bring . . .

There are full details of all of my #realworldsex videos, and the stories behind them, at my MakeLoveNotPorn page >here< . . . and much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

Make Love Not Porn

Enjoy !!!

Xxx – K

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Modestly Minimalist #sinfulsunday

“Oooh – it’s a bit like spin-the-bottle isn’t it?” I said to Hubby as I read the prompt for this week’s Sinful Sunday.

“What? You haven’t told me about your ‘spin-the-bottle’ days!” he exclaimed!

“Later!” I replied. “You spin first. – Oh look, you’ve landed on ‘Minimalist’ . . . very apt!!! . . . Now it’s my turn.”

“Toys” he laughed (a little grumpily). “That’s a rather appropriate one
for you then, isn’t it! Anyway – ‘Minimalist Toys’ – what are you going
to do for that?” he asked.

“Well,” I giggled, “I’ve got just the thing in my drawer! . . .
Don’t you remember that toy you bought me all those years ago?
The one I used to call ‘The Very Minimum’ !!!”

Modesty Ablaze – 1986

“Surely that would fit the prompt” I told him. “Why don’t we give it a . . . whirl?”

Modesty Ablaze – 2018

Now . . . let’s see how other people have made their own prompt fit
by pushing on the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past
B
e Proud of Who You Were . . . and Be Proud of Who
You Have Become!

Join me at #polaroidspast .

Xxx – K

 

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Modest Satin & Lace #Boobday Friday

Satin and Lace always makes me feel special . . . and sexy too !!!

And this “Nights-in White Satin” is one of my favourites . . . and seems to be
a favourite of several of my special friends as well !!!

So I thought I would share a glimpse of it here at this week’s
Boobday Friday . . . because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Lace & Lingerie” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

We all love lingerie don’t we ? Well, I know I do . . . although it never seems to stay on for very long ! (LOL !!!)

But . . . it does make me feel sexy whenever I slide into one of my outfits. Not that I ever wear nighties or pyjamas to bed of course!

Instead, I wear my lingerie items for special occasions . . . perhaps for entertaining a special friend . . . or, perhaps when Hubby and I are going out for an evening of fun at a local club or bar.

But . . . I do like to feel sexy . . . just in case. (LOL !!!) So, before setting out for the evening, I always like to take my time, going through my wardrobe, to choose an outfit that best suits my mood at the time. Pulling out one item after another, trying them each on . . . and teasing Hubby with a mini fashion-parade . . . which often leads to a fun delay before reaching a final decision.

And as an extra part of our playtime . . . those “fashion-parades” are often captured on Hubby’s video camera. So I thought it would be quite fun . . . especially as last Thursday it was National Lingerie Day . . . to put together a compilation of some of those different outfits, coming out of my wardrobe and being slid into . . . and out of.

Now, as I said, I always end-up feeling quite sexy and aroused on occasions like this. So sometimes one just has to calm things down, before leaving on our journey for the evening ahead . . . by laying down and having naughty flashbacks about previous occasions when I have worn some Lingerie and Lace!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” in their special Make Lingerie Love Not Porn edition as:

In Modesty Ablaze’s 50th #realworldsex video to MLNP (!!!) she shares some of her favorite lingerie moments. This compilation has a fashion show for hubby where Modesty shows off her enviable lingerie collection, and then flashbacks to some amazing nights with Lover No. 36 and Lover No. 50. Congratulations on 50 videos, Modesty!!!

You can view my introduction to “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie”  is my 50th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest “Medals” #Boobday Friday

No these are not from last weekend’s run through Central London. But I do enjoy regular exercise . . . the “equivalent” of at least two mini-marathon’s a week!!!

And as they normally feel like “award-winning” occasions, I thought I would share some . . . “medals” . . . here at this week’s Boobday Friday . . . because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly on the Rocks #BoobdayFriday

Yesterday was the hottest April day here in the UK for decades . . . and shut away as I was in my office, I was longing to be outside enjoying some of that heat on my bare breasts!

So no, this wasn’t me sneaking out for a naked lunch! Rather I was thinking of some of the summer fun I enjoyed on my last holiday . . . and so, so looking forward to the next!

And I’m sure that there will be lots more bare breasts to enjoy at this week’s Boobday Friday . . . because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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A Modest Cover Reveal

It has been so very flattering since the release of my “Further Adventures – Part 6 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” to have received so many requests for more excerpts from my personal diaries.

So I am delighted to reveal that “Modesty Unmasked”, my seventh published Ebook Diary compilation, will soon be available from my Amazon and Gumroad profile pages.

But . . . I have a dilemma for which I need some help and advice!

You see, it’s become more and more difficult as I have published each of my diary excerpts, to choose a Cover image for each book. And as “Modesty Unmasked” is perhaps the most open, and un-edited of my journals so far,
(in that it recounts my experiences evolving into three-somes, and more-somes, and fun “swingers club” adventures), I really did want the cover of the book to reflect that title.

But I realise that, in the interests of common decency . . . and despite what you may think, I really do never wish to offend, or disturb, anyone . . . I wonder if my first choice of cover photo might be rejected by both Amazon and Gumroad as displaying “too much”.

The very reason I publish both my Diaries . . . and my posts here at www.modestyablaze.com . . . is because I really do feel that we all have the right to express our own sexuality and enjoyment of who we are, and who we enjoy sharing our love and freedom with.

So I would hope that either of the above Cover images would be accepted . . . but what do you think? Which image do you think I should submit?

Any advice in comments, or emails, gratefully accepted.

Xxx – K

 

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Modestly Tampered #sinfulsunday

“Cricket!” I laughed when my new sub told me his favourite sport, as we began his session this afternoon.

“Well,” I said forcefully. “I must say I didn’t understand all that fuss and controversy over ball-tampering a few weeks ago . . . and having to watch
grown men cry afterwards!”

“Just stand still will you!” I told him, as he shuffled from foot to foot.
“Stand still . . . and perhaps you can explain it to me!”

He did seem to get quite emotional . . . and seemed in some discomfort . . .
as he tried to explain.
And when I told him there were some bats and balls in the cupboard . . . well!!!

For more sporting excitement fun just rub gently on
the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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