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Modest Thoughts #F4TFriday

Modesty Ablaze Food For Thought Friday

I haven’t participated in “Food for Thought Friday” before . . . and as you can tell, I am almost a week late in joining in on this occasion. But a regular reader suggested that I definitely should partake in this Friday’s theme, because it asks several questions that she apparently has always been curious about when visiting my “modest” pages here.

So Food For Thought Friday asks:
A number of us in this community take part in the #SinfulSunday or FebPhotoFest memes run by Molly Moore, while others share photos via Boobday by Hyacinth Jones.
1) If you take risqué photographs, what is it that you enjoy most? The creativity, the composition, the feedback you get from those who see them?
2) If you participate in any of the memes above, what made you decide to take part? How did you feel the first time you linked a post for others to see?
3) How comfortable are you sharing semi-nude/nude/sexually explicit photos of yourself, either online or via a “sext”?

Well as I do, quite regularly, join in with SinfulSunday and BoobdayFriday, I would answer:
It was Sinful Sunday that first motivated me to begin including more “risqué” photos on my blog. I found the different array of images each week interesting and inspiring, and whilst I knew that the artfulness and creativity of many of the images were beyond my abilities, it was the fun aspect that appealed to me. I’ve always wanted to have . . . and share . . . fun in everything I do, and if I don’t feel that fun or enjoyment in something, then I know it isn’t for me.

As I began (slowly and “modestly” at first) submitting images to Sinful Sunday I eventually became aware of other memes such as Scavenger Hunt and Boobday Friday that appealed to me not only for the obvious enjoyment of the images I was discovering there, but also because of the pride and positivity of those taking part. Being proud of one’s sexuality, positive about our bodies and so strongly expressing the right of each of us to be able to follow our natural desires and worth as a person, just struck a chord with me.

Yes I did feel nervous, and apprehensive, after those first posts . . . in fact I still often do. But then I remind myself that there is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s natural . . . it’s fun !!!

Of course I do admit, particularly with my Scavenger Hunt posts, that I enjoy the thrill of the “outdoors-nature” of the poses. It brings out the exhibitionist streak within!

But most of all, as I say in the “Rider / Warning panel” at the top of my pages, I hope my posts will go some way to promote Body Positive and Sex Positive issues and to bring smiles and giggles to those that come across them.

For more Food For Thought on the subject of “Photos”
just click on the button below.

#F4TFriday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Giggling Persuasion” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Giggling Persuasion" #realworldsex videoI’ve called my newest #realworldsex video at Make Love Not Porn, “Giggling Persuasion”, because . . . as you will see . . . it features lots of giggling, and lots of gentle persuasion!!!

It is from Day 2 of an amazing weekend visit to Lover No.14’s lovely hotel and carries on directly from my “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” video, featured here on my Make Love Not Porn pages recently.

We’d had a short break, re-energising ourselves after our earlier exertions, with some “unusual” chocolate treats.

I then wanted to give No.14 some special kisses . . . as he’d thoroughly spoilt and exhausted me with his own, very special kisses earlier.

But of course, he insisted my kisses would be far more “satisfying” standing right in front of his hotel windows, overlooking the busy railway station below . . . with the curtains still wide open!!!

He was soon quite excited though, so I was happy that we moved away from the windows and back on to the bed . . . for the sake of my modesty . . . and to rest my knees!

Modesty Ablaze embracing Lover No.14But in his excited state, No.14 wasn’t going to let me rest any other parts of my body as he slowly began to renew his explorations, and with lots of “different” kisses . . . and patient and fun persuasion . . . we were both soon locked in wonderful, passionate, and quite “energetic” embraces.

So energetic that he soon had me convulsing in another lovely, and exhausting, orgasm.

We’d been playing on the bed for so long . . . and after all that champagne earlier . . . that I was desperate for a widdle, so I hope you won’t mind that “Giggling Persuasion” ends rather abruptly as I had to dash off to the bathroom to relieve myself.

But there is still more fun to come from this wonderful evening . . . so Part Four (which I think I will call “Special Splashes”!!!) will be “coming soon”.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Day 2 – Starting Over” in their special Make Flourishing Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze had so much fun showing up at lover No. 14’s hotel suite wearing nothing but a trench coat, that she decided to do it all over again — this time with the added excitement of riding the train all the way there! Once en suite, Modesty quickly disrobes and No. 14 sets about doing what he does best — tying Modesty up and making her delirious with delight! Totally focused on Modesty’s pleasure, this video has the same charming banter we’ve come to enjoy from Modesty’s other videos with hubby and Lover No. 14. I just love how polite they all are while indulging in exhibitionism, bondage, and some intense #realworldorgasms!

You can view my introduction to “Giggling Persuasion” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

Modesty Ablaze in bed with Lover No.14There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Giggling Persuasion”  is my 53rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Breakfast #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Breakfast BoobsEven whilst abroad . . . breakfast just has to end with a nice cup of tea.

And, of course, with some respite from the blazing sun!!!

For more, nice “cups”, I suggest you visit this week’s Boobday Friday.

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modest Morning Lounge #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Morning LoungeNot really sinful . . . but certainly indulgent . . . and oh how I wish every morning could begin like this.

So please excuse me whilst I savour every moment that I can.

But there is sure to be more Sinful lounging to be discovered this coming Sunday, from gently rubbing the lips below!Sinful SundayXxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Sticky, Wet & Sweet” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Sticky Wet & Sweet at MLNPIf you viewed my last video with Lover No.14 , Day 2 – Starting Over,
you will know that having been bound in rope and brought to an amazing orgasm, I just needed to collapse onto the bed and slowly come-down from that lovely, exhausting high!!!

And, as you will see in this video, No.14 did gently untie me and then gave me a lovely, soothing massage. But it wasn’t long before his fingers and thumbs . . . and his licking tongue . . . began exploring all over again.

So my massage was slowly turned into another, calmer, but still rippling orgasm, eventually followed by some giggling recovery-time . . . and a new way to enjoy eating chocolate!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Day 2 – Starting Over” in their special Make Flourishing Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze had so much fun showing up at lover No. 14’s hotel suite wearing nothing but a trench coat, that she decided to do it all over again — this time with the added excitement of riding the train all the way there! Once en suite, Modesty quickly disrobes and No. 14 sets about doing what he does best — tying Modesty up and making her delirious with delight! Totally focused on Modesty’s pleasure, this video has the same charming banter we’ve come to enjoy from Modesty’s other videos with hubby and Lover No. 14. I just love how polite they all are while indulging in exhibitionism, bondage, and some intense #realworldorgasms!

Now, this latest video . . . which I’ve called “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” . . . follows on directly from “Day 2 – Starting Over and is still from early-on in our evening. So, as the night was still young, I’m sure you can imagine that there was lots more fun to come . . . and that will be for a Part Three which be available in the next week or so.

But, in the meantime, I hope you will enjoy . . . and feel part of . . . our Sticky, Wet and Sweet fun..

You can view my introduction to “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

Modesty Ablaze at MLNPThere are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Sticky, Wet & Sweet”  is my 52nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Glimpse #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze glimpsed at Boobday Friday“Aren’t you going to wear a bra into the office today?” Hubby asked as I dressed this morning before my commute into work.

“No I’m not, it’s far too hot!” I replied. “And, if you are lucky, I might just do this . . . when you pick me up from the station tonight!”

“And, anyway,” I continued, “It is Boobday Friday after all !!!”

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Unmasked” – Part 7 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries

As I’ve mentioned on several occasions previously, my pages here at Modesty Ablaze started almost as a form of therapeutic release.

Celebration and release actually, because I can’t deny that it was a thrill to satisfy that exhibitionist streak within that we all have, and to be able to share . . . “anonymously” . . . some of the personal diaries that I’d been writing for years and years.

Because I often wanted to shout-out to many of my “normal” friends, that one shouldn’t be ashamed of, our sexual feelings or desires. And that if we all talked about, and expressed those more openly with our partners, it just may lead their relationships to places they’d never imagined . . . as it had for myself.

Because for years I had been meeting several different lovers . . . with the complete knowledge and acceptance of Hubby . . . and had been keeping a record of every meeting in my diaries. So sharing some of those diary entries in the early pages of my blog, made me feel as though I was sharing the joy . . . and love . . . that such wonderful relationships can bring.

And to my absolute surprise, within the first month of those initial postings,
I began receiving emails asking for more . . . and then several suggestions
that I should publish them as Ebooks.

So . . . slowly at first . . . “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” were born.

And, as I still often receive requests for more, I am happy to say that “Modesty Ablaze Unmasked – Part 7 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” has recently been published at both my Amazon, and Gumroad pages.

Modesty Unmasked” follows on directly from “Further Adventures”, with more diary entries of my personal meetings and . . . in the latter chapters . . . how those  “meetings” just seemed to naturally evolve into amazing three-some fun with Hubby as well. And then from there, into our first wonderfully sex-citing Swinging Adventures.

And . . . if you are sitting comfortably . . . you can listen to a reading from the beginning of Chapter 19 – “New Club Couple” from the audio link below.



Modesty Ablaze Unmasked” is now available in Ebook format from my Amazon US, and Amazon UK pages . . . or in downloadable and printable PDF format at my Gumroad pages.

Visit my Ebooks page >here< for information, and links, to all six
of my previous editions of “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries”.
I hope they may bring you fun and enjoyment!!!

Xxx – K

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A Modest Squeeze #Boobday Friday

Whenever I meet-up with the wonderfully lovely SheLover for “one quick” after-work drink . . . “one” always turns to “just one more”.

Then, before we know it, one thing just seems to lead to another!!!

And what better way to celebrate all that fun and laughter, and gentle squeezes and kisses . . . than to share them here at Boobday Friday . . .
because as Hyacinth says:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “May Me-Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

As I’m sure most of you are already aware . . . the month of May has been “International Masturbation Month”. And the lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv are celebrating with a special “Me Time” edition.

Of course, I don’t really need an excuse to indulge in some Me-Time Fun of my own . . . after all, we all know how good it is for one’s health and well-being . . . but I just couldn’t resist joining in with all the other #realworldsex people at MakeLoveNotPorn . . . and sharing my latest one-to-one indulgence!!!

It is actually from a lovely weekend break away recently . . . after Hubby and I had returned to our hotel after a fun Scavenger Hunting photo-expedition . . . which always leaves me feeling excited and horny!

Plus, being away from home, in a nice hotel room with a chilled bottle of champagne was even more arousing.

And . . . I don’t know about you . . . but I usually find that a new environment, and with new things on my mind, make each “Me Time” occasion completely different and, sometimes, really surprising in it’s intensity!!!

So intense in fact that . . . on this occasion . . . I was shudderingly speechless in my climaxing conclusion!!!

You can view my introduction to “May Me-Time” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“May Me-Time”  is my 51st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Fifty One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Doughnuts #Boobday Friday

This week has been National Doughnut Week here in the UK . . . which just happened to coincide with an “away-day” trip to the seaside!

And what could be more appropriate, before strolling along the Pier, than a visit to the local Doughnut shop!

Especially as I do enjoy sweet and sticky occasionally!!!

Which, of course, is an ideal situation to be in for Boobday Friday . . . because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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