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Modesty & Dee at The Gazebo . . . Two for One #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze & Curvaceous Dee at The GazeboAnother Two-For-One from my recent sunny afternoon with the delightful Curvaceous Dee . . . this one at a Gazebo in the beautiful surroundings of what is my favourite park.

Hubby always brings me here whenever we visit, and it is simply one of the most beautiful, peaceful and serene central-city parks of any that I’ve ever been to, anywhere in the world.

And, of course, sharing some naughty photo-fun with Dee made this afternoon even more beautiful . . . though with all our laughing and giggling it probably wasn’t quite as serene as it normally would be!!!

Curvaceous Dee & Modesty Ablaze at The GazeboIt was actually quite busy . . . with lots of busy workmen looking up from their digging (in the orange jackets across the road in the background) whilst we adjusted ourselves for these (and more*) Sinfully fun poses.

*There are LOTS more Two-For-One flashes with the wonderful Curvaceous Dee for naughty . . . and wickedly fun . . .  flashes if you’d like to see more! Just let me (and Dee) know!!!

Sinful Sunday is all about the image . . . and those special, sexy, erotic, arousing . . . and daring . . . pictures!!!

See who else is being delightfully Sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

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Xxx – K

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Book Review – “The Retreat” by Kay Jaybee

We’re all familiar with Fairytales . . . whether from distant memories of wonder and enchantment from our own childhood, or attempting to stimulate imagination and excitement in reading to our own children at bedtime.

But never . . . ever . . . could Hans Christian or the Grim Brothers have imagined such tales as those told between the covers of “The Retreat”.

TheRetreatNewRopeRegular readers here will remember that I’ve previously described authoress Kay Jaybee’s first instalment in her trilogy of submission and dominance, “The Perfect Submissive”, as “the most arousing and inspiring” book I’ve ever read. So I’d awaited this second instalment with huge anticipation . . . and expectation.

I’d wondered what the future held for Jess and what fearsome, and exciting, tasks she’d be asked to perform. Surely the imagination of her mistress had already reached the limit of all bounds of reasonable possibility?

But Kay Jaybee is clearly a woman apart . . . and the new scenarios and surroundings of a mysterious castle in the Scottish highlands seems the perfect setting to unleash yet more of her wild and wicked imagination.

My heroine Jess finds herself caught in a whirlwind of new masters and new submissive partners . . . and set a series of new tasks and new challenges at every twist and turn of the castles cold and unwelcoming corridors.

Just as with “The Perfect Submissive” each new chapter of “The Retreat” had me tingling with wonder and excitement (rather than enchantment in this instance) at Ms Jaybee’s extremely vivid imagination.

The tension builds throughout towards Fairtasias climatic finale-ball . . . quite unlike those bedtime stories of times long gone by!!!

Without wishing to divulge too much of the plot and positions required, and enacted here, there are some arousingly descriptive moments which had my pulse racing to the sort of dangerous levels I’ve not experienced since reading . . . and re-reading . . . the pages of “TPS”.

But, more than just simple lust and eroticism, Kay Jaybee’s story has that unusual skill of engaging her characters somehow into ones pysche . . . I wanted to share each new challenge with Jess, worried for her strength of will, worried just how that final chapter would unravel. A Fairytale end to the ball . . . or will the wicked Witchtress prevail???

And that, quite simply, is something that I don’t often find in my other reading, not just in erotica (and you know how much I enjoy reading naughty stories! LOL!!!), but in “normal” books . . . or normal media.

I remember thinking as I shuddered through the final pages of “TPS” that someone, somewhere, somehow should make it into a movie (and that I wanted to be in it! LOL!!!)

“The Retreat” may well be a more difficult movie to make (I still want a part though Kay!!!), but I urge you to read the real words . . . as they were first written . . . before this book, and “TPS”, and the now eagerly awaited final “Knowing Her Place” find their way to Holly(or Pine)Wood.

And, whilst you are at it, and in the mood . . . as I’m confident you surely will find yourself . . . visit Kay Jaybee on-line to marvel at and devour some of the most arousing erotica I think you will ever find!!!

Xxx – K

Modesty Ablaze & The Retreat

P.S. – Just couldn’t resist – Even 12,000 miles from home I found that “The Retreat” was never far from my mind!!!

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Modesty Flying the Flag . . . Two for One #sinfulsunday & #scavengerhunt 11

Modesty Ablaze Flying The FlagI’m currently abroad . . . guess where??? . . . But proudly Flying the Flag for Sinful Sunday and absolutely delighted to . . .

Modesty Ablaze and Curvaceous Dee. . . meet up with the wonderful, deliciously exciting Curvaceous Dee for a naughty . . . and wickedly fun . . . Two-For-One flagpole #scavengerhunt flash.
I hope it brings as much of a smile to your face viewing it, as it did for Hubby and I to be actually meeting and sharing Dee’s company.

Oh, and p.s., there are LOTS more Two-For-One flashes if you’d like to see more! Just let me (and Dee) know!!!

Sinful Sunday is all about the image . . . and those special, wonderfully fun and memorable occasions!!!

See who else is being delightfully Sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Scavenger-Hunt-Gold

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Queening Box

Modesty's Queening Stool

Sinful Sunday is all about the image . . . and those special, wonderfully fun and memorable occasions!!!

This is one such memorable occasion . . . from this Friday evening actually . . . when I spent a fabulous evening with two of my subjects enjoying the delights of the Queening Box at the Hoxton Dungeon Suite.

Things got very hot . . . and very wet . . . as I’m sure you can imagine.

See who else is being delightfully Sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

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Modesty’s Valentines kiss – 3 for 1!

It really has been a busy year already . . . and the coming week is just as busy . . . so I thought I’d wish you all an early Happy and Sexy Valentines Day for this cumming Friday.

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And . . . as a special Valentines bonus . . .  if you buy just one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries during the next two weeks, I will email you any two other books of your choice completely FREE.

Details of all my current E-Diaries are available on my E-books page and they can be downloaded from my Amazon, Smashwords and Gumroad profiles. (You can hear me reading a short extract from two of my books at my Modesty Speaks page).

So, three kisses for one!!!

And I hope you have . . . and give . . . lots and lots more sexy and fun kisses over the next few days.

Xxx – K

P.s. Thank you to the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar) and, of course, the lovely Hubby . . . for their pictures above.

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#24

IMG_28941Photo courtesy of Property Of Potter

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

Contests

Dildos

Vibrators

Anal Toys

Bondage, Impact & Fetish Gear

Miscellaneous

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Visit my Sex Toys page for some of my new favourites!

Visit my Erotic Classes page . . .

Visit my Swingers Clubs page . . .

 

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It’s been a Marvellous Year . . . Part 1

It really has been a marvellous year for me.

Marvellous milestones . . . marvellous moments . . . marvellous meetings . . . and I thought it might be nice to share some of those “Marvellous Mmm’s” with you here over the next two weeks.

Marvellous milestone . . . marvellous Make Love Not Porn . . .

ModestyHumpDayFeaturePornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing . . . but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” . . . because for me, Nina Hartley* was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year when I discovered Cindy Gallop** and Make Love Not Porn***. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman . . . and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple . . . because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” . . . that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating . . . and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles . . . and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos . . . we have also rented and enjoyed a number of different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship . . . that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment . . . and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.

So yes . . . marvellous Make Love Not Porn

It’s free to join the MLNP community and free to view all of the MLNP-stars profiles and “Free Peek” clips and introductions. You can visit the Modesty Ablaze Hump Day feature by clicking on the first image above at the beginning of this post, or see one of my own “Free Peeks” by clicking on the image immediately below!!!

ModestyMLNPfeatureSo I really do recommend you visit and enjoy, and share, the love and excitement yourselves !!!

Xxx – K

*More about Nina Hartley at my “Other Places I Like” page.

**More about Cindy Gallop and ***MakeLoveNotPorn.tv at my “Modesty Ablaze Videos” page.

AND huge Kisses all over to the Marvellous Lover No.14.

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Modesty says Yes to natural lubricants

yes_logo_organic_lubricants_darkerAlthough it’s true to say that everyone is more aware of, and finds it far easier to buy, lubricants nowadays . . . I’m sure that many people still take for granted the actual content of what they are spreading all over their most delicate, and sensitive, bits.

I’m now ashamed to admit, that I probably did !!! . . .

That was until I met the lovely Lavinia and Susi of Yes Natural Lubricants at their stand at Eroticon 2013.

YesWater25SideOf course what first caught my eye was the wonderfully stylish and attractive packaging . . . but after just a few minutes listening to Lavinia explaining the ingredients and technology involved in producing what was inside those lovely bottles, I was convinced I just had to try.

And now, nine months later, I just wouldn’t use anything else.

For me the Water-based Yes is my preferred option, as (like all Oil-based lubricants), the Oil-based Yes is not condom-compatible. However, when I’m playing with just Hubby, I love using Yes’s “Double-Glide” suggestion of applying the Oil-based first, and then stroking the Water-based lube on top. It does indeed give lovely, long-lasting, ‘double-gliding’ satisfaction!!

Of course if you are confident that you are in a completely monogamous, relationship . . . (unlike yours truly! LOL!!!) . . . the Yes Oil-based lubricants may be all you need. And you can rest assured that unlike many other oil-based lubricants, which are often made from petro-chemical bi-products (like Vaseline) and simply coat the skin making a barrier underneath which bacteria can get trapped, Yes’s oil-based lube is made from natural vegetable oils. Their sweet almond and sunflower oils will slowly get absorbed into the mucosal tissue leaving your personals nourished and wonderfully soft.

And, which-ever your personal preference or the circumstances in which you are playing, both products are great for use with toys and the oil based lube is fine for use with Silicone toys. So, as I do enjoy toy-play . . . in company, and solo, from time-to-time . . . I always have both bottles handy in my make-up bag.

yes_water_groupOh, and that’s another big plus point! – you’ll never need to feel embarrassed at carrying a bottle of Yes in your everyday-bag. The design and look of the bottles and tubes are SO stylish and subtle, it will never be immediately apparent to the uninitiated just what wonderful contents are bottled within. And the Yes products are available in a wonderful array of sizes (from 25ml, 75ml, 125ml) and different packs and multibuy options.

So if . . . like me . . . you like to say “Yes” often . . . say Yes with the comfort and safety of Yes Natural Lubricants . . .

ModestySaysYesI have done a little product-demonstration video for my Video page >here< (or click the video screen above) . . . but you can find out more information about the complete Yes range of Natural Organic** Lubricants (and purchase them directly on-line) by clicking on any of the product pictures above . . . or from Sh! Women’s Emporium on-line >here< . . . or,  if you prefer, you can actually buy in person at the Sh! store in Hoxton, here in London.

Oh, by-the-way, I haven’t been paid for saying any of the above . . . I really do genuinely feel that more people should know about, and be using, products like Yes as their first choice of personal lubricant. And, in fact, I have bought and re-bought my Yes bottles from Sh! on a number of occasions since that original “Yes moment” in March . . .

OVERVIEW

Yes WATER-BASED Lubricant
Ingredients:
Water, Aloe vera*, Flax Extract*, Guar Gum*, Locust Bean Gum*, Xanthan Gum, Citric Acid, Potassium Sorbate, Salt, Phenoxyethanol.
*Organically grown indredients.

Description:
– Natural plant-based intimate moisturiser and lubricant to alleviate vaginal dryness.
– Free from fragrances, colour, taste and residue.
– pH balanced for the vagina.
– Latex compatible.
– Certified Organic by the Soil Association (UK).
– A soft, clear bio-adhesive gel which adheres to the vaginal walls to lubricate and protect the tissues.
– Guaranteed purity through its certified organic status.
– Free of all known skin irritants (No glycerin, no petrochemicals, no parabens).
– Hypoallergenic: formulated to minimise the risk of allergies.

Yes OIL-BASED Lubricant
Ingredients:
Sunflower Seed Oil*, Shea Butter*, Sweet Almond Oil*, Bees Wax*, Cocoa Seed Butter*, Vitamin E.
(Also available with organic Madagascan vanilla extract).
*Organically grown indredients.

Description:
– Natural plant-based intimate lubricant to alleviate vaginal dryness.
– Lasting lubricity and glide, with a velvety sensuous feel.
– The natural plant-based alternative to silicone lubricants.
– No known side effects.
NOT compatible with condoms.
– Safe for use with silicone toys but not latex compatible.
– Plant oils and butters condition the skin with no need to wash off.
– Certified Organic by the Soil Association (UK) and approved by The Vegetarian Society.

So . . . all of the above makes me even happier to always say “Yes” . . . but don’t just take my word for it, visit the Yestimonials page for lots of personal recommendations from lots (and lots!!!) of other happy Yes-people.

**AND, finally, don’t miss the YesGarden for much, much more information on some of the delightful ingredients that are used in making my favourite lubricant!!!

I ALWAYS say “Yes” . . . Xxx – K

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Yes Mistress Fetish & Photography tonight at Hundred Years Gallery

ModestyYesMistressCuffsI’m excited to be visiting an evening of Photography and Fetish at the Hundred Years Gallery in Hoxton here in London tonight . . . November 29th from 6.30 til 9.30 p.m.

It’s the first in a series of collaborations between the art world and the secret world of the Dominatrix and features some wonderful photographs by the lovely Kate Peters.

There will also be a “Deviant Corner” where professional Dominatrix Miss Deviant and some of her colleagues from Madame Caramel’s Erotic Art Collective will be giving demonstrations . . . oohhh can’t wait!!!

The theme of the night is Female Dominance and is open to all. Visit Hundred Years Gallery for much, much more information. I will definitely be there . . . so please come over and say hello . . .

. . . Or possibly even join me later in the evening at the 10th Anniversary of Club Pedestal the “playground for the dominant women and those who worship her” . . . I hope to see you there later this evening!!!

Xxx – K

P.S. The picture of me above with my “Wrist Studs”, is not being exhitibed, but is from a session with the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar link) from earlier this year.

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