Tag Archives: Swinging

April 8, 2016 · 7:37 am

Modest Club Wear #Boobday Friday

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Whenever we venture out to one of our favourite Swingers Clubs I like to wear something I haven’t worn before . . . you know, just to be different!!!

And there is always something different at Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, different shapes and different sizes that is, because as Hyacinth says:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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February 10, 2016 · 8:20 am

Ménage Ablaze #wickedwednesday

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Ménage à trois ? . . . some people may think it’s just plain greedy.

Well . . . I prefer to think of it as just spreading the love!!!

Ménage à trois is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday . . .  and if you tap on the Button below I’m sure you’ll discover lots more about three-somes
and more-somes!

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Xxx – K

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August 19, 2015 · 9:35 am

Open Monogamy and Modesty Ablaze? #wickedwednesday

ModestyAblazeMonogamyToday I’m “opening-up” to this weeks prompt of “monogamy” at Wicked Wednesday . . .  the popular definition of which (from Marie’s source) is: “Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time . . .”

Opening-up because, If you’ve visited me here before, you might be surprised to hear me say that I have been in a completely . . . and wonderfully fulfilling . . . monogamous relationship for over 33 years (31 of them married).

Monogamous? . . . How??? . . . when, from almost the very beginning of those 33 years, I have indulged in “extra-marital partnerships” with lots and lots of different lovers, many of whom I still regularly meet with . . . and many of whom have become wonderful friends as well as wonderful lovers.

Now I know that many people may describe the partnership I share with my Lover No.1, as an “open relationship” and completely the opposite of a monogamous relationship. But I would disagree . . .

Because . . . for me at least . . . I would define monogamy very simply as sharing absolutely everything with one special person.

And by “absolutely everything” I mean every emotion, every desire, every touch, every sensation, every want . . . and every need . . . completely and exclusively with someone in your life that you just know you would never want to be without.

So, whilst my own relationship may not match that “only-one-partner” of the conventional definition of Monogamy. . . for me, my “only-one-partner” makes for a truly Monogamous Modesty Ablaze.

And as with everything in life, I believe that every description and every convention, should have a different and entirely individual meaning for all of us.

We should all be happy to be who we are . . . and not what the conventions of society would have us be!!!

You can read lots of other thoughts on Monogamy this Wednesday by tapping the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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July 29, 2015 · 7:51 am

Modestly Peeping #wickedwednesday

Whilst I’ve never done any peeping myself . . . you probably won’t be surprised to learn that I do admit to enjoying being peeped at myself occasionally.

I suppose it is just the exhibitionistic thrill of knowing that I’m doing something ever-so slightly naughty . . . and that someone else may enjoy watching me lose myself in some wonderful moments of spontaneous fun.

Passionate Kisses that . . .

Whether it’s sharing one of my lovely “evenings in” with a special lover above . . . or perhaps one of my “days out” Scavenger Hunt adventures below . . .

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And I hope that my sharing these occasional special fun moments brings a smile to someone else’s face and makes them feel a little better for my sharing.

See who else has been peeping, or perhaps been peeped at . . . by tapping the
Wicked Wednesday button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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May 4, 2015 · 9:42 am

“Steamy Kisses” #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

ModestyAblazeSteamierKissesI had such a wonderful night of “Passionate Kisses” with Lover No.50 on our first evening together, that I just couldn’t wait to arrange another meeting. And I was so thrilled when he said he felt the same way! And that second meeting . . . on International Happiness Day . . .  was even more passionate than the first!

Starting with a steamy, soapy shower together, this is the longest of any of my MLNP videos . . . fifty minutes long in fact! But it was all so lovely that I just didn’t want to leave anything out. With multiple orgasms from all three of us (yes Hubby comes out from behind the camera on several occasions) I think the wonderful, fun, #realworldsex we all enjoyed, will be obvious throughout our “Steamy Kisses“.

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The latest “MakeCheekyLove” post on the MakeLoveNotPorn-blog previews “Steamy Kisses” as:

“Modesty Ablaze’s longest MLNP submission to date starts out with some #showertime fun. Because, as we’re sure Modesty knows, getting someone nice and slippery in the shower also provides great lubrication for some steamy #handy action! Things then heat up on the bed between her and Lover No. 50, with hubby filming the entire rendezvous. He eventually joins in, much to everyone’s delight, leading to a menage-a-trois filled with giggles, orgasms, and a raw candidness that’s incredibly real, hot and mesmerizing to watch.”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Steamy Kisses”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Steamy Kisses” is my seventeenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my seventeen #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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March 11, 2015 · 8:51 am

It matters to me #wickedwednesday

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This Wednesday’s theme at Marie’s #wickedwednesday is “Nothing Really Matters”. Based around a recent song of the same title . . . but a statement that can be interpreted in lots of different ways.

Because . . . of course . . . so many things in our world do, and should, matter!

BUT . . .  sometimes when one is caught in a particular moment of fun and enjoyment, or love and lust, or attraction and affection . . . it is a wonderful release to just completely give-in to those feelings. To let yourself go and to give your whole being to that precise moment in time . . . moments when nothing else really matters at all. Just to share and enjoy, and to give back to those you are with, the pleasure and fun you are experiencing.

And, as you can probably gather from the snapshot above,  for me at this particular moment in time, nothing else mattered at all!!!

And I expect you will discover lots of other things that matter . . . or not, as the case may be . . .  by visiting Wicked Wednesday from the button below!!!

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P.S. The snapshot above is the “prequel” of the “sequel” I shared last weekend at Sinful Sunday. Both of which are taken from a new video which I hope to tell you about  soon on my Modesty Ablaze Videos page.

 Xxx – K

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March 8, 2015 · 9:04 pm

Sinfully Swinging @ #sinfulsunday

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It’s been so, so busy lately . . . but I still managed some “Girl On A Swing” fun on a very, very Sinful Sunday!!!

And it really was such (sinful) fun that I may just soon share the . . . prequel . . .
if I’m asked nicely!

You are sure to see lots more sinful fun at this weeks Sinful Sunday from pushing on the lips below!

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Xxx – K

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February 8, 2015 · 9:16 pm

Modesty’s “A Touch Of Glass” #realwordsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

ModestyATouchOfGlass2The joy of sharing my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv has always been about showing how, for me, the best sex is always about having fun.

When I’m having fun I know that my partner(s) are having fun as well . . . and those occasions are always fulfilling and exciting.

But occasionally I also enjoy that different, special kind of thrill, of playing alone and this video, my newest at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is of one of those occasions . . . 15 minutes of rippling and exhausting orgasms, and probably the most “personal” of the videos that I have ever submitted to MLNP. Just me, all on my own, with my Diamond Dream Glass Dildo from the glass dildo specialists A Touch of Glass (you can find out more about them and read my recent review of The Diamond Dream >here<).

As I think you will see, I quickly forgot all about the camera as I became completely lost in my own thoughts and desires, and that private cocoon of sensations and emotions.

I hope you will be able to feel and share those emotions with me . . . and yes, there are some glimpses of my butt plug as well!!!

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “A Touch Of Glass”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“A Touch Of Glass” is my fourteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from the Modesty Ablaze page >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 14 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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February 4, 2015 · 10:48 pm

Marie Rebelle’s “A Splash of Red” – 2009 #polaroidspast

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Marie Rebelle’s “A Splash of Red” 2009

One of the experiences I’ve enjoyed most in my three years of posting here at Modesty Ablaze, has been discovering and meeting people with a similar outlook on life.

Similar experiences, similar stories . . . and similar fetishes (LOL!!!)

And one of those people has been the lovely Marie Rebelle. Not only is Marie one of the most prolific bloggers of all things erotic at her rebellious Rebel’s Notes . . . and the creator and curator of the delightfully wicked Wicked Wednesday . . . she also has an envious collection of biographical images and photographs. Such as her lovely “A Splash of Red” photograph from 2009.

And it is so lovely . . . and so in-keeping with my Polaroids Past theme of  “looking back at ourselves and celebrating the person we were . . . AND the person we have become”.

I loved Marie’s image and post so much that I just had to ask her if she would allow me to re-post it here. And I am so thrilled that she said “yes”. And, judging by the fact that she has made it one of her #febphotofest series, I suspect there will be many more exciting splashes at Rebel’s Notes to come.

If you would like to join Marie and I in celebrating your own #polaroidspast please do get in touch by clicking on the Polaroids Past image below.
(Now, who can that be???)

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Xxx – K

 

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January 7, 2015 · 8:31 am

A 1988 Office Affair #wickedwednesday

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Oh dear, all our Festive Fun is definitely well and truly over! Back in the office and back to the stresses and strains of “normal” office life.

But have you ever found yourself tempted at the office . . . into an office affair? That is just what Marie is asking at this week’s Wicked Wednesday!!!

“Office Affair. Did you ever have one. Or wished you had one with the hunk of the office or the sexy secretary? Do you have a fantasy about someone at the office? If you have or had an office affair, how did it start? And how did it end? Why did it end?”

Well, I have to honestly answer Marie’s question that . . . Yes I did. A long time ago . . . 1988 actually. So Marie’s prompt brought back (nice for me) memories. I’m  not going to share all the details here, but just couldn’t resist including one of my “Polaroids Past” photographs from that very year which seems to perfectly fit the Office-Affair theme.

What I can tell you is that the affair had an amazing impact on my marriage . . . and life since (see “The More I Have”).

BUT, But, but . . . I was very, very lucky and I would never suggest that one’s work-place is really the right environment for indulging in extra-curricular activities. But I’m sure there will be quite a wide variety of different answers, anecdotes and memories . . . to be found by tapping on the Wicked Wednesday  button below.

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Xxx – K

 

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