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Modest Curves #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze curving with friends

“Curves” is one of my favourite words. Neither bent nor straight,
neither callous nor sharp.

A curve is, by it’s very nature, smooth and sensual. A calming, comforting gradual change in shape and direction, that generally makes one feel warm and relaxed . . . and, as in this case . . . aroused and intoxicated. Wouldn’t you agree?

For more Calming Curves at this week’s Wicked Wednesday gently
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Xxx- K

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A Modest Ice-Lolly #sinfulsunday

One of the many fun things I’ve learnt from the past eight years of setting my Modesty Ablaze here, is the wonderfully diverse range of sinfully
fun activities and experiences, that so many of us enjoy.


And over the course of those eight years . . . as I’m sure you can imagine . . .
I’ve had lots and lots of “requests” to share my own photos and videos of all sorts of kinky fun and quirky desires.


Such as . . . sucking on ice-lollies for example !!!

For lots more sinfully kinky fun . . . and quirky desires . . . just tap
the Sinful Sunday lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Reading #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze reading A Curious History of Sex

On such a wet and windy Sunday morning, I thought I’d just lounge and lose myself in the pages of my new book which arrived during the week.

I’d so enjoyed the presentation by Kate Lister at Eroticon 17 that I’d immediately subscribed to her “The Curious History of Sex” Unbound page.

After all, it is one of my specialty subjects . . . but as I’m sure you can imagine
. . . I’m always keen to learn more!!!

A Filthy Fanny Chapter at A Curious History of Sex

And you can learn more at Kate’s remarkable Whores of Yore pages
or @WhoresofYore

For many more Sinful Sunday indulgences, kiss the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Letters of Love #F4T

The Modesty Ablaze Diaries

The current theme at Food For Thought is “Love Letters” . . .

Now, I’ve always enjoyed receiving flattery and gifts or presents . . . and still do
. . . LOL !!! So I suppose it’s true to say that I am a “romantic” at heart.

And although I don’t think I’ve ever specifically composed a “Love Letter” to Hubby, he’s often referred to my sharing with him the scribbled notes in my personal diary, as being the best letters of love and lust that he could ever have wished to receive.

I’d begun noting coded entries in my diary when I began my earliest affair, just a few years into our marriage. Just short references to the when’s and where’s of my (at that point, guilty and clandestine) meetings with my “lover”. It was in truth, an office fling that I’d thought was a one-off, silly, spur-of-the-moment indiscretion. Something that the guilt and immorality of our liaison would, or should, never be repeated.

But, the thrill . . . the difference . . . the excitement . . . became an obsession. Something I couldn’t resist. A thirst I just had to quench.

Until of course, on the sobering journies home, the wrenching feelings of guilt and shame . . . and the lies and excuses I knew I would have to make . . became more and more unbearable as the “never again” flew into weeks . . . and then into months!

I’ve mentioned before (and on my The More I Have page) how the unforgettable release of the inevitable confrontation . . . and my confessions . . . changed our life, and turned our love into something even more wonderful than either of us could have imagined.

This was all long, long before we had home computers of course (and decades before Modesty Ablaze). But when Hubby asked about the “when’s and where’s”, and I showed him my diary notes, his excitement and arousal was so joyously obvious!!!

So, in our newfound freedom, my affair . . . and then shortly after that, my affair(s) . . . blossomed.

The aftermaths of my “evenings out” then quickly grew from just Hubby waiting-up on the sofa for me to return home, to the thrill (for both of us), of me scribbling out my blow-by-blow memories into diary form for him to read again and again, in the days and weeks after the event. Until the next one!!!

And many excerpts from those diaries . . . lovingly cherished and re-read from time-to-time . . . have subsequently been used as chapters in my The Modesty Ablaze Diaries E-books.

So, probably not “Love Letters” in the form in which they would normally be described, but certainly “letters of love” in every sense for us !!!

There are sure to be lots more on “Love Letters” and “Romance” at this week’s Food For Thought, by clicking upon the button below.

Food For Thought Friday

Xxx- K

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Sexit . . . #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Sexit

One word Verb /vəːb/: . . . “To raise one’s spirits?” . . . Sexit !!!

One word Sinful Sunday – kiss the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Sex In Las Vegas … Does It Stay There

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Las Vegas is hands down among the most outrageous if not the most outrageous city within the United States. The infamous slogan ‘what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas’ lends itself to that reputation. People travel from far and wide to go there and let go of all of their inhibitions without fear of judgment or retribution. Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever your dream is yours when you’re in Vegas. What about the people who live and work there? Does this concept apply to them too?

Throughout many parts of Nevada, state laws have had sex work legalized except in Las Vegas. The state has developed a reputation for its porn, prostitution, and strippers. This market could not flourish if it were not for the willing women out there selling sex. The women in the industry make good money and seem content with their lives in Nevada. What is this life like selling sex in Las Vegas?

Life For Sex Workers In Las Vegas

Escort workers who sell sex in Las Vegas indicate some aspects of their work may not surprise many people, but then some parts may shock you.

  • Many women turn to prostitution in Las Vegas because it pays more than video work, webcam, or things of that nature. Some webcam sites will keep a majority of the proceeds from the work being done with the girls making very little at the end of the day. This leads the ladies to turn away from those mediums and go where the money is…prostitution.
  • There’s more to it than just sexing. There is a difference between being an escort and being a prostitute in Las Vegas. When you’re with a prostitute, you have sex, and they leave with no communication being exchanged. An escort has the responsibility to pose as a faux girlfriend or a friend. They refer to this as the ‘GFE’ or the ‘Girlfriend Experience’.

The escort interacts and socializes with the client. They will have drinks at the bar, perhaps go to dinner and see a show. She may act as a guide around town for the man, basically a companion. There are times that they never even have sex in the escort scenario.

The escort industry is extremely competitive in Las Vegas meaning women have to work harder in this type of role. They have the added benefit of advertising when they’re an escort because the men are paying for companionship as opposed to prostitution. Read here to learn the legalities of nudity in Las Vegas.

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  • Typically, if you’re working out of a brothel, that’s also where you live. The brothel has a structured regimen that you’re to follow when you live there. There is time for the gym, having their hair done and outfit selection, and then the day starts. The system used for booking appointments as well as negotiating/collecting payments is very sophisticated, complete with a computer program and a hostess ensuring that everything went well, with the client having a good time.
  • Among those managing the brothels and the escorts, the most critical aspect for the men is discretion. None of the men want to be found out by their families or with their jobs as having received services from a sex worker. This is also the case with many of the sex workers who are also married with jobs of their own during the day. It is just as important for the ladies that things be kept quiet. It’s not unheard of for clients to be asked to sign a non-disclosure agreement.
  • Brothels offer safety and security that the girls wouldn’t have if they were out on their own. In a different situation as with a pimp, they wouldn’t get to pick who they sleep with and most often they are abused. Brothels mandate that the girls go through STD screenings and there are strict rules which protect and benefit the girls who work there. They maintain a weekly shift schedule while living there. The girls have a contractual obligation once they arrive at the brothel and are bound to that contract until the end date. Go to https://thenevadaindependent.com/article/the-indy-explains-how-legal-prostitution-works-in-nevada to read more about legalized prostitution within Nevada.
  • The escorts are busy providing companionship to a wide variety of different men which sounds like they’re being wined and dined consistently. But the fact is they indicate that this is actually among the loneliest of lives to be involved in. Prostitutes bond with each other because the industry has a stigma that brings them together.

A majority of men will not publicly date a prostitute if they find out what she does. Even developing true friendships within the industry becomes difficult based on the level of competition. Not being able to fully communicate the life that you live with those around you makes becoming close with people very difficult. That’s their reality.

Sometimes they see their lifestyle as a good thing, and then there are other times that they’re sorry they got involved. It can be extremely dangerous, but if you were to ask them, most would say it’s what they want. People are going to buy and sell sex, so really, we need to get rid of the stigma. It’s happening all around us and not necessarily just in Vegas. But what is happening in Vegas, stays in Vegas.


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Modesty Ablaze “Dragon’s Tail Pt.3” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Introduces "Dragon's Tail Part 3" at MLNP

I’m delighted to tell you about my latest #realworldsex video at Make Love Not Porn.

It’s from the same evening as my previous two Dragon’s Tail videos with Lover No.83.

And this new video, “Dragon’s Tail Part Three”, follows on directly from the wonderfully energetic . . . but totally exhausting . . . fucking that I’d just enjoyed moments earlier.

It was so exhausting . . . well, probably more so for me . . . that we just laid back on the bed, giggling and chatting, playfully stroking each other as we relaxed.

But it was soon obvious, that my playful stroking, was getting No.83 aroused . . . and erect . . . all over again.

Now I really, really enjoy, giving my lovers special, “encouraging kisses”, and No.83 has such an impressive member that I soon got completely carried away and lost in my enjoyment, until . . . well, you’ll just have to view our fun to see the lovely climax for yourselves.

“Dragon’s Tail Part 3” is my 66th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch this Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Dragon’s Tail Part 3” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I mentioned above, “Dragon’s Tail Part 3”  is my 66th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Dragon’s Tail Part 3” with tags such as:

YUMMY / MESSY / YES!YES!YES! / GUYTIME / DRINKRESPONSIBLY / D/S / COMMUNICATIVE / CHATTY / BLOWJOB / SPANKING / GIGGLY

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Taking Stock #sinfulsunday

After my Throned post at Sinful Sunday last weekend, I received several emails asking just what my punishment for latecomers would be???

Well, it would start with a good caning in my stocks . . . of course!!!

And there’s bound to be lots more punishments, or otherwise, dealt at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Just gently spank those lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Lipstick Hearts #Boobday Friday

Often, when I’m getting myself ready for a special night out, I like to prepare a little “surprise treat” to be enjoyed as the evening unfolds!

And, before my lipstick gets too smudged, I thought I’d share it here at Boobday Friday.

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Dragon’s Tail Pt.1” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

If you’ve viewed my A New Celebration #realworld sex video from my Make Love Not Porn pages you will know how that lovely evening began . . . and the passionate “foreplay” we enjoyed as we explored each other more and more.

Well “Dragon’s Tail Part 1” follows on directly from where “New Celebration” ended . . . after we’d had a little recovery time and some relaxing, winding-down conversation.

And that conversation led to No.83 teasing me that I could smack his bottom if I wished. And with such a lovely smooth bottom . . . how could I resist!!!

Then . . . when 83 brought out his Wartenberg Wheel . . . I really began to enjoy myself. Especially as I was able to trace it round the intriguing shapes of his Dragon Tattoo which looked so appealing on his silky smooth back.

But, of course, it wasn’t only his smooth back that I wanted to enjoy . . . I wanted to have more of those smooth front bits as well . . . so I was soon instructing him to turn over and let me explore. And I hope that you will be able to feel part of those explorations as you watch our fun unfold!

You can view my introduction to “Dragon’s Tail Part 1” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Dragon’s Tail Part 1”  is my 63rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Dragon’s Tail Part 1” with tags such as:

GRINDING / NIPSY / TOYTIME / DRINKRESPONSIBLY / COMMUNICATIVE / CHATTY / HOTELROOM / JOYFUL / HANDSON / KINKY / GIGGLY / TATTOOED

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Oh, and YES . . . there is a “Dragon’s Tail Part 2” . . . where things become even more “intimate” shall we say. I hope to upload that video quite soon, so do keep checking back here regularly for that next update.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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