“Well I did tell you not to lie there and wallow in it!” I told him. “What do you expect from wet newspaper on a marble floor!!!”
An outtake photo from later in the evening of my “Mopping Up“ last year . . . though this wet wasn’t from the rain!!!
“Outtake Photos” is the theme at this week’s Sinful Sunday . . . so slide over the lips below, to read more news and view more prints!!!
Xxx – K
As this week’s Food For Thought Friday so correctly says . . . “the type of sex we have often depends on the mood we are in and the circumstances we find ourselves in. Sometime we like to take our time, draw things out, wallow in extended foreplay and have things take as long as possible. At the other extreme, sometime the mood grabs us and all we we have time for is the heady rush of a quickie in the most inappropriate of locations.”
I couldn’t agree more . . . so my responses to the following questions, would be:
When you are in the mood, do you initiate sex, or do you wait for your partner to do so?
I’m a great believer in letting things just develop, or happen, naturally. Quite often the best, and most fulfilling, of liaisons occur quite spontaneously without particularly planning or desiring something in particular. And if the chemistry, and the situation I find myself in, is right . . . then lovely things often just happen of their own accord.
What are your preferred means of letting your partner know that you are in the mood?
For me it is always through laughter and subtle touches . . . suggestive comments and recalling previous fun situations. And then probably reaching out for the others hand, stroking their arm or a gentle squeeze or cuddle.
What methods of foreplay do you most enjoy?
Kissing . . . it must always start with a kiss. Casual and teasing at first, slowly becoming more and more passionate . . . and then !!!
What methods of foreplay would you like more of or more often?
Well . . . once those passionate kisses have got me going, I tend to forget about foreplay!!!
What was the most daring/risky quickie that you have ever had, and how did it come about?
I had to really think about this question as I’m not a fan of a “quickie”.
I much prefer to not rush things, but to take ones time and relax into those special moments of togetherness.
But I suppose the most “risky” liaison I have had, was some years ago on a
night-out for “just for a drink” with one of my lovers. We’d decided to take a detour through our local park . . . and pause for a “rest” on a bench on one of the pathways. As was usually the case, I’d gone without knickers, so was able to easily sit astride his lap . . . and quickly get carried away with myself, thinking about how much Hubby would enjoy me telling him all about our “rest” . . .
as soon as I got home!!!
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Xxx- K
You probably won’t be surprised to learn that I receive quite a lot of “custom video” requests from my pages here at Modesty Ablaze dot com.
You also won’t be surprised that they are often quite naughty requests . . . occasionally too naughty even for me to contemplate.
But sometimes they stir my imagination . . . not always straight away on first reading . . . but perhaps weeks later a particular “request” will come to mind . . . usually on a Sunday afternoon when I am lounging in bed and suddenly feeling a little horny and in need of some quick “Me-Time”.
Well actually . . . it normally isn’t quick . . . because when I feel in the mood for some play-time fun I like to make it last as long as I can.
And it’s during those moments, that memories of those “request emails” pop back into my head . . . and as I lay back and start indulging . . . I usually find myself getting more and more excited . . . and more and more carried away with my thoughts and fantasies.
So on one such Sunday recently . . . I called Hubby upstairs and told him to get his camera ready.
I quickly searched in my drawer for a pair of Pink Panties . . . as “requested”
and popped down the hallway for a quick widdle, also as “requested” . . . telling him to have my favourite toys ready for when I returned.
Well, those pink panties didn’t stay on for very long . . . but this video certainly does . . . and you will just have to watch it to see what I mean!
You can view my introduction to “Pink Panty Playtime” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.
There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.
“Pink Panty Playtime” is my 59th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.
The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled “Pink Panty Playtime” with tags such as:
HANDY / ILUBEU / SOCLOSE / SUCCULENT / COMMUNICATIVE / CLITASTIC / DRINKRESPONSIBLY / TOYTIME / DRESSY / GIRLTIME
So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.
It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
It’s nice to be missed . . . but it has just been such a busy, busy few weeks!
So this is for the nice gentleman who messaged to say he’d missed
my “lovelies” recently.
I did, of course, point out that there are always lots of “lovelies” at Hy’s fun Boobday Friday every week, because . . .
Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.
Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . . Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!
Xxx – K
My Boobday Friday post several weeks ago certainly generated lots of email requests for a more naked view . . . and those emails have continued to pour in!
So to fulfill those requests, I leant towards the camera . . . with barely a moment to spare . . . before leaving for the office this morning!!!
Oh . . . I did manage to quickly pull a blouse and skirt on before
rushing for my bus!!!
But you will probably find more leisurely, and better composed,
Boobday Friday breasts bared today by clicking below!
Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.
Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . . Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!
Xxx – K
The theme this Wicked Wednesday is “Social” . . . which seems to go hand-in-hand, with this week’s Food For Thought Friday questions, so . . .
Casual sex, dating, friends with benefits, hook-up, one night stand, fuck-buddy; have you ever had one (or more) of these arrangements? What is the difference?
I have been incredibly blessed to have been with the same partner for over 38 years, and over the course of our wonderfully loving relationship, I have been able to indulge in and enjoy . . . and in fact still enjoy . . . all of the experiences mentioned above.
They didn’t all happen immediately, nor all at once of course, but even in the first few months of our marriage we were able to talk-about and express our desires and fantasies.
I did find it awkward at first to overcome those feelings that we all have in our early years that one should feel “guilty” about having sexual thoughts. That sex should be “lights-out and private” and only to procreate and certainly not to admit that it was actually enjoyable!
But, to be honest, and perfectly clear about putting this post into true perspective, it wasn’t until I unexpectedly and unexplainably, “strayed” into an office affair . . . and Hubby’s reaction to that . . . that I was suddenly, and completely, able to release myself from all of those shackles and fears and become true to myself . . . and to our marriage.
So, to answer the question above specifically, our open and honest lifestyle has allowed us to enjoy all of those experiences to the full.
And yes, on the one hand, they are all different . . . and yet all based on the same (for us) principle of just talking to each other, expressing our “interest” and both agreeing that each of us is completely happy with the situation(s) we find ourselves in.
What is the most interesting way you ever met a partner?
Apart from that earliest office acquaintance, we have met most of our friends at Clubs or Party Events . . . so all of them have been “interesting” in one way or another.
Have you ever had a hook-up become a relationship? How do you know that it had happened?
Whilst a lot of those experiences have been one-off adventures, we have been incredibly lucky to have formed several long-lasting regular relationships with a number of people whom have become friends in every sense of the word, not just in the sexual context. And those sort of friendships only evolve if one feels totally at ease and comfortable with each person involved.
How would you tell a potential partner you want a non-monogamous or D/s relationship? If you are already in one, how did it evolve?
Whenever, or however, I am approached . . . whether singly or by a couple . . .
I always immediately tell people about my relationship with Hubby and that everything is always completely open and straightforward, and I explain exactly what my expectations and “rules” are.
Over the years I suppose I have grown into the more dominant role in our own situation, (particulary since discovering, and enjoying, my FemDom fun), so now I will only switch, just occasionally, with one long-standing, friend.
As I mentioned earlier, our relationship just seemed to naturally evolve from one adventure to the next . . . and it still continues to do so . . . with new people we meet and new experiences we share.
And that is what makes it so wonderfully fulfilling.
If your relationship is poly, what is its principal dynamic? Do you have a primary? A few fuck buddies? Is everyone equal? Does everyone know?
I would describe our relationship as “open and fun” and the principal dynamic is that, nowadays, we always play together.
We do have small circle of reasonably regular friends . . . and whilst they may not all personally know one another, they will all know of each other.
What does your ideal relationship look like? Are you already in it?
My ideal relationship is most definitely the one I am already in. And it often looks . . . and always feels . . . like fun !!!
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And more “Relationship” answers can be found from
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Xxx- K
After my “Prickly Pair“ Boobday post last week, I received several emails and comments, complaining about my “ornamental accessory”.
So . . . here I am, seated at the same bar, completely naked . . . because I always like to try to keep everyone happy!!!
And if you visit this week’s Boobday Friday I’m sure you’ll find lots
more happiness in abundance!
Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.
Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . . Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!
Xxx – K
One of the (many) highlights of our Christmas vacation abroad, was enjoying the lovely bar in one of our holiday homes.
It did feature some rather unusual miniature cacti however . . . one of which I quickly decided would make an ideal prop for my Boobday Friday collection!
Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.
Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . . Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!
Xxx – K
Nothing feels better, than some lovely Grecian sun on my breasts!
Well . . . possibly some things . . . but not many!!!
But, as you can see, if you are baring yours for this Boobday Friday
you simply must “Slip-Slap-Slop”!!!
Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.
Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . . Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!
Xxx – K
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