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A Modest Red Top #Boobday Friday

A Modest Red Top at Boobday Friday

Red is my favourite colour … in so many different ways.  It’s been that way for as long as I can remember.

So I thought it was time I featured my favourite beach robe here on Boobday Friday … especially as it doesn’t usually stay on very long at the beach!!! 

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

So … I urge you all to join-in by clicking on the new BoobDay badge below!

BoobDay Badge for Boobday Friday

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Cooling Apartment Cucumber” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Cooling Apartment Cucumber"

As most of you will probably already know, I do so love my favourite Grecian Holiday Beach.


Enjoying a refreshing … naked … swim each morning and then lying back on the sand, soaking up the warming sun on my bare skin, until it gets too hot and I have to dash back to the water for another dip.


And, of course, splashing about on my Lilo, which always makes me horny!!!


But getting horny on the beach, eventually makes me feel TOO hot and sticky, so I have to insist on heading back for my daily “Me-Time” fun in the cool and comfort of our apartment.


And my new video “A Cooling Apartment Cucumber” at my Make Love Not Porn pages is from one of those occasions.


Why is it called “A Cooling Cucumber” ??? … well I do love my salads and my fruit and veg … and when a nice, thick, cucumber has been in the fridge for a few days it does feel so cool and lovely on one’s skin.


Well, not just ON one’s skin … but everywhere really … I’m sure you will know just “where” I mean
.

You’ll just have to watch the video to see just how much I enjoyed devouring that Cucumber !!!

Modesty Ablaze Cooling Cucumber 1

You can view my introduction to the video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Modesty Ablaze Cooling Cucumber Beach Stroll

A Cooling Apartment Cucumber  is my 81st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Cooling Apartment Cucumber with tags such as:

#blissful #clitastic #handson #handy #happy #holiday #hotelroom #ilubeu #intimate #joyful #loud #married #metime #onthebeach #playful #relaxing #sensual #toytime #vacationtime #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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The Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife … @DirtySexyWorld

Dirty Sexy Words at YouTube reading of Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife

As I mentioned in my Diaries of a London Hotwife post just before Christmas, I’m hoping to have “Modesty Unleashed – Part 8” of my personal diaries published sometime soon.


But I was delighted to be featured in a reading by Zak Jane Keir on the London Alternative Market  live-stream event last weekend.

I first met Zak years ago at an Erotic Book reading at TeamSh in Hoxton. Her enthusiasm for books, and fetish, was immediately apparent … and quite infectious … after just a few minutes of chatting with her.


And we’ve since bumped into one another on several occasions since at other events, and of course on my regular visits to LAM (before lockdown) where she always has a well-stocked bookstall … as well as online ordering from her Dirty Sexy Words website.

Along with an encyclopedic knowledge of fetish and erotica books, Zak also publishes books of her own and I would highly recommend her The Masters Voice which I took away with me on my Kindle for my holiday last summer. (And I can tell you that reading it on the beach made the sun feel even hotter!!!)


So, as I’ve always loved the tones and textures of Zak’s voice, it was an absolute thrill, and honour, to hear her reading a passage from my “Modesty Unmasked – Part 7 of The Diaries of a London Hotwife” on that LAM livestream.


And, it is now also available on Zak’s DSW Books YouTube Channel … just click on the Video Screen above or >here< to listen.


There are links to all of my Diary Editions from my Ebooks page >here< including my new Etsy Shop … and I have a new Modesty Diary Twitter feed at @ModestyDiary … so do follow me there for special offers and updates.

And be sure to follow Zak at her @DirtySexyWorld for lots more literary erotica !!!


Xxx – K

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A Modest Site #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Building Site 2020

Several people have asked over the past few months if I had any new “Building Sites Revisited” photos from my vacation last September.

Well actually most of the building-in-progress apartments we’d been passing over the last few years, had all been completed this summer … but there was still one that hadn’t changed much at all since we first walked by in 2016.

I’m desperately, desperately praying that we will be able to check back this coming summer. Here’s hoping!!!

But, in the meantime, I will distract myself with regular visits to the
Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – I will though, add this 2020 update check to my previous Building Sites” visits to my Exposé Vŭ memories below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modestly Beachcombing #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Beachcombing at Boobday Friday

I do so love strolling along my favourite beach every morning on my summer holiday. Paddling in the shallows, feeling the warming sun on one’s … back … and, occasionally, collecting unusual trinkets and decorations along the way.

Usually Hubby is reluctant to let me bring them home … but sometimes, with some gentle-persuasion, I can convince him!!! 

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

So … I urge you all to join-in by clicking on the new BoobDay badge below!

BoobDay Badge for Boobday Friday

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – January & Exciting News #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Cooling Cucumber Pt 1 Cover

So … I have two items of exciting news for my first Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members Update for 2021!!!


Firstly … and because of all the simply lovely messages from all of you following mySilly Naked Beach Lilo Fun video last month, I have added another holiday video which follows on directly from that one.

It starts out on the beach, but because I was feeling all hot and sticky, quite quickly decamps to the air-conditioned comfort of our apartment … and the cooling relief of a lovely … cucumber.

Cucumber? … yes cucumber … you’ll have to view the video to see what I mean!

And the second bit of good news is that the lovely gentleman who hosts my Pour Me A Glass Members videos for me, has upgraded his servers. (No nothing to do with my submissives and their servitude … it’s something technical to do with where the videos live and how they are streamed).

And what that means is that my PMAGOW videos should now load, and play, much quicker … which is particularly important as there are now lots more of you than when I first started my Members page two years ago.

And it also means that I can keep videos current on the pages for longer than I previously could. (So you will be able to browse backwards and re-live moments from earlier months).

Anyway, this video falls into the more “candid” category of my Members postings again and if you enjoy it, as much as I did, then do let me know and I will upload more for my next members update.


So … thank you once again for spoiling me here and helping me to regularly top up my wine glass.

And to the several new members who have joined over the past few weeks I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Power #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Transformer 2020

Way back in early 2015, I mentioned that I’d recently discovered how much
I enjoyed the … transmission of power.

And Hubby reminded me of that photo he’d taken back then, as we set-out for one of our evening strolls last summer. This isn’t the same transmitter … they are perched on poles like this all over the island … so I can’t add it as a new location to my Scavenger Hunt collection.

But, although they may not exactly be things of beauty, I do feel a certain attraction to them … so I may start a new sub-category during my next visit.

Until then, I shall make do with investigating all the different transmissions available by switching on the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – Until I have enough Power to start that new “sub-category” I shall add this one to my Exposé Vŭ memories.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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A Modest Precursor #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modest Precursor Boobday

I believe one should always start a session with a new slave by showing them what they can … and what they can’t … have!!! 

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

So … I urge you all to join-in by clicking on the new BoobDay badge below!

BoobDay Badge for Boobday Friday

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews Tantalize Me Gift Boxes @TantalizeMe_com

Modesty Ablaze Tantalize Me Gift Boxes 1

We could all do with some joy and enlivenment at the moment couldn’t we! Something to motivate and invigorate us from the uncertainty and unease which currently seems to burden our everyday lives.

Well, I think I have the perfect suggestion to brighten up our days, and nights, and it comes from a new, to me at least, company called www.tantalizeme.com

Now, as well as offering a wide range of high-quality sex toy products, from some of the most well-known manufacturers in the world, Tantalize Me specialise in Adult Subscription Boxes and Sexy Gift options.

I’m sure lots of you are familiar with subscription boxes delivering everything from books, arts and crafts, fashion accessories, beauty products and food and ready-made meals.

But for me, none of the above have inspired or excited me as much as when I recently received my first Tantalize Me Gift Box.

Now, Tantalize Me, offer 12 Adult Toy and Lingerie Collection Box options, including a Ladies Solo Box, Gents Fleshlight Box, Ladies & Gents Couples Box, BDSM and Kinky Boxes and Lelo and Coco-de-Mer Boxes. Or, of course, you can choose the Build Your Own Collection Box.

I chose the Lelo Couples Gift Box

As you would expect, the package arrived discretely packaged in a plain, strong cardboard, outer delivery box. But, as I hope my photographs will show, the Tantalize Me box itself is anything but plain.

It is beautifully constructed from strong, matt-laminated, heavy black cardboard with the Tantalize Me tastefully printed logo on the top of the hinged lid. This is delightfully secured with a fabric ribbon, tied teasingly … and tantalizingly … in a lovely bow at the front. The ribbon slides through a slot in the narrow folded-down lip of the lid which corresponds with a same-sized slot in the front of the box.

Modesty Ablaze Tantalize Me Adult Gift Boxes 2

Upon undoing the bow and lifting the lid, one is presented with a black tissue-paper wrapping sealed with a tiny gold heart in the middle. Everything about the presentation exudes quality and care, a feeling perfectly mirrored in the contents of the box as well.

Tantalize Me choose only quality products and those of you who have purchased any Lelo items before will know the quality of manufacture of their products.

Modesty Ablaze Tantalize Me Adult Gift Boxes 3

My selection had the Lelo Tiani 3 and the Tor 2 Vibrating Couples Ring along with a 240ml bottle of Wicked Hybrid Intimate Lubricant … and a luxurious 200pp Taschen book.

I will possibly review the Lelo toys in the future as this post is about the concept of Tantalize Me’s Subscription Box range, rather than the specific contents. But I simply have to mention the luxurious, soft-covered, book by Taschen that was also included in the box.

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It’s 200 pages are filled with gorgeous soft-focussed, sepia toned, wonderfully erotic photographs and intriguing interviews with many of photographers models on their personal desires and fantasies that accompany their self-playtime moments. It came as a complete surprise to me, and something that I would never have known about had it not been included in my Gift Box.

And that is for me what is one of the most appealing and interesting aspects of Tantalize Me’s boxes. That element of surprise and intrigue, that sense of something different and new. All packaged and presented with superb quality and attention to detail.

Of course the Boxes are not just about surprise or difference because as a subscriber you can let Tantalize Me know what items you already own and so don’t want duplicates of. They will then adjust the contents of your Gift Box accordingly … even should you be ordering one of their Monthly Date Night, or Quarterly Premium Subscription Boxes.

And you can choose different themes and moods, box by box, from the Tantalize Me Collection Boxes options as well. So the perfect opportunity to try something a little Kinky, or some BDSM themed-fun, or from a choice of Lady & Gent Couples, Lady Couples, Male Couples or perhaps just for Solo Playtime indulgence.

There are combinations to suit all tastes and desires … and in fact, with that sense of difference and anticipation in mind, I think any of those combination boxes make a perfect surprise gift for a loved one, or “special friend”.

Modesty Ablaze Tantalize Me Adult Gift Boxes 6

Or perhaps you have your mind set on trying a particular vibrator, wand or item of lingerie yourself from the amazing range of Tantalize Me’s accessories. All compiled with that attention to quality and detail that I mentioned earlier.

So … as I say, we could all do with some fun and excitement at the moment … and I can thoroughly recommend that by visiting Tantalize Me you are sure to find something to inspire and excite, not just for the moment, but for days and nights to come!!!

The Tantalize Me Lelo Couples Gift Box
Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Superb quality packaging, presentation and inspiringly curated Adult Sex product collections.
Cons: I couldn’t fault anything about my Gift Box … but subscriptions may be paused or stopped at any time should you wish.
Box Material: Heavy duty, matt laminated, cardboard.
Measurements: 140mm x 140mm and 105mm deep.
Supplier Product Link: Tantalize Me Adult Subscription Boxes
Additional Supplier Links: Tantalize Me Blog
Twitter: @TantalizeMe_com

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The Tantalize Me Lelo Couples Gift Box was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx- K

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Modestly Staring #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Staring 1

“I was not rude to her!” I said to Hubby. “She was just standing there staring,
so I just asked her if she was coming up … or not!”
“Well she seemed to be shaking her head and muttering something about ‘rudeness’ as she walked on” he said.

Modesty Ablaze 2

“Well look … there’s plenty of room for her to have walked up and passed me by” I said. “So I don’t know why she would storm off in a huff!”

Modesty Ablaze Staring 3

“And of course I would have tied my belt up tighter!” I laughed. “You’re not suggesting I’m some sort of ‘exhibitionist’ or something are you???

Mind you, I’m sure if you step down onto the Sinful Sunday lips below, you’re bound to see lots of people making exhibitions of themselves.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – I will admit though, that I do rather have a thing for Stairs … and Stairwells … so I shall add these particular steps to my Exposé Vŭ memories.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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