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Modestly Strapping-in #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 1

“It’s so lovely to hear that you’ve missed me. And there’s simply no need to worry about being a little out of practice …”

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 2

“Because … I rather feel it’s a bit like riding a bike really. One just has to start slowly and build-up a gentle rhythm!”

To discover lots of others strapping-in and saddling-up this Sinful Sunday, just push gently on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Tipped #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Tipped at BoobDay Friday

Shall I ? … or shan’t I ? … wear a bra into the office today???

Well, the answer to that question always depends on what else I have chosen to wear … as I would never wish to cause any discomfort or embarrassment for other colleagues, or co-commuters, that I may encounter during the day!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – April Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Mistresses Submission Cover Part 2

My first Pour Me A Glass Members mid-month update for April is Part Two of my “Mistresses Submission” which I’d posted here on my Members page to fulfill a special request from one of my longest PMAG members, the lovely Sally.
And as several of you messaged to say how much you’d enjoyed the passion, and my obvious enjoyment of our fun, I could hardly not post Part 2 now could I?

I do have more in my archives of this wonderful evening … and in fact lots more in my archives of this amazing Lover … so do let me know if you would like to see more. Or perhaps instead you may prefer some of my Femdom fun, or perhaps more of my Naked Exhibitionism excursions.

Because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past two weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modest Grips #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday White Grips

You know what it’s like when working in front of a hot oven … one needs some protection to avoid burning one’s … finger-tips!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modesty on Courage #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty holding Chastity Cage

One of the most important, and certainly empowering, things that I have learnt from my Mistressing sessioning is to do with courage.

No … not about my courage … but instead about the courage of many of the people who have contacted, and subsequently, visited me over the past seven years.

Many people wrongly assume that the sort of person who wishes to visit a Female Dominatrix, is in some way abnormal or inferior to the rest of us … and by “rest of us” I mean what is always portrayed in general society as “normal people”.

But in my experience the majority of my visitors … and in the context of this post I don’t want to refer to them as “submissives” … are absolutely normal people, from absolutely normal, everyday backgrounds and walks-of-life.

And through the conversations, discussions, and of course the interactions that always occur around and throughout our meetings, it usually quite quickly becomes clear how much courage these people have needed to accept and acknowledge their desires and their wish to be a little bit “different”. Courage to be able to take that first step to discover themselves in a way that they really feel they can’t share with their immediate loved ones and family … or that would not be “acceptable” among their vocational colleagues, or organisations … because of the stigma and constraints that general society places on us all.

So during our meetings they can be, at least just for the two or three hours of our time together, who they really want to be. To release themselves from the “norms of the everyday” whilst recognising the need that we must all return to and uphold those norms so that others can decide their own paths, their own way, and in their own time. Naturally and equally as it should always be … for all of us.

That takes courage … and understanding … and acceptance.

For more thoughts on ‘Courage’ at this week’s Wicked Wednesday … simply click on the button below!

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Xxx- K

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Modest Legs Eleven #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Lilo Apr21

Lucky for some? … I’m certainly hoping and praying that my numbers come up again for this summer!!!

Just so I can lay back in the manner I’ve become accustomed to …
and so obviously deserve … and be pushed slowly back and forth
along my favourite beach!!!

I’m sure there will be lots more Pick ‘n Mix, Cups of Tea, Knocks at the Door and Garden Gate to Eye Spy at this week’s Sinful Sunday, by tap, tap, tapping on the Lucky-Lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Droplets #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday April 9th 2021

I do love a morning shower … just a few moments alone (usually!!!) with my thoughts … to start the day invigorated and refreshed for all that lies ahead.

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – April 2021 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass of Wine Podcast for April 2021

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for April 2021 … with a round-up of my most popular posts over the past month … AND news of this months Members Video and Photo Gallery.


I’d like to welcome several new Pour Me A Glass Members who have joined me here in the past few weeks … and I’m happy to say that an upgrade to the PMAG section of my “Modest Server” … something technical I’m told, not one of my Submissives … not only means that the videos should play more quickly than before, but also that I’m able to keep more of the previous Members Videos live and available to view for longer than previously. Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for back-links to view.  

So … onto my first Members Video for the month which is especially for Sally who requested “another video with one of your special Lovers”.

In fact Sally actually asked for a video featuring one Lover in particular … whom she has seen in several of my #Real World Sex videos on my Make Love Not Porn profile. I think she has a bit of a “thing” for him actually … and you know me … I’m always willing to share !!!

And watching it all over again did bring back such lovely memories … and you will be able see just which Lover it is in April’s first Video. So I hope you will enjoy it as much as I … rather obviously … did !!!

This months Members Photo Gallery is to answer a question I’m often asked about whether or not I ever “double-session” with another FemDom dominatrix … and as you will see from these photos … I occasionally do !!!

Now as I always say, I have lots and lots of videos and photos in my archives, so just let me know what sort of fun you would most like me to share. The choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.


So … looking back at my most popular posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com …


Modesty Ablaze 200th Boobday Friday

I was happy to once again to be able to post a Boobday Friday post each week during the month . … starting with aGift Nettingphoto of a lovely Bodystocking I received from my Wishlist.
But a rather special post for me was for the second Friday of the month, when I actually celebrated my 200th Boobday posting since my very first Boobday in September 2015.
I’m not sure that I will be able to manage another 200 photos of my boobies in the future … but I will, of course, keep trying if you’d like me to !!
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Mouth Open Wide Eyes Tightly Shut

I posted two Wicked Wednesday postings during the month … Mouth Open, Eyes Shut and Modestly MILF … which both featured extracts from my “Modesty Ablaze London Hotwife Diaries” … of which I hope to have a new edition published on my Amazon, Gumroad and Etsy pages later on in the year. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Architecture

I’m always in awe of the beautiful photos that I see on Sinful Sunday each week … and whilst I could never hope to match the creativity and artistry of many of them … I was rather proud of Hubby’s Architecture photograph for the last Sunday of March.


>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Exposure at 4Thoughts for Fiction

I don’t manage to join-in with May More’s 4 Thoughts or Fiction meme as often as I’d like to …

But I simply couldn’t resist the “Exposed” theme during the month with my Modest Exposure posting.


>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Lunchtime Garage Quickie

And for my final post of the month I was happy to add another Real World Sex video to my Make Love Not Porn collection. MyMe-Time Lunchtime Quickie in the Garage was actually filmed during our first lock-down last year … but I didn’t really think it was appropriate to release it back then. But then recently I thought, well why not? It was, after all, just a little bit of much-needed, enjoyable, self-indulgent fun … like all of my videos at Make Love Not Porn are!!! >>> Read more>>>


So thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For almost two now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Mirrored Doorway #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Mirrored Door

Goodness it’s like playing Spin-the-Bottle isn’t it? … I mean this week’s Sinful Sunday!!! But instead of removing an item of clothing, one has to find a photo to fit the words where the spin stops.

Well my spin stopped at “Doorways” and “Mirrors” but … I still just couldn’t stop myself … bad habits you see!!!

For more Spinning Right Round this Sinful Sunday, simply spin
on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Breakfast Bun #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Breakfast Bun

I can’t think of many things more enjoyable, on a sleepy Good Friday morning, than a Hot Cross Bun in bed.

Well perhaps one or two things … hopefully that will come when one has to clean-up the crumbs!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

Pour Modesty Ablaze A Glass of Wine

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