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Modestly Pinching #BoobDay #212

Mistress Modesty Boobday 212 Pinching

Just gently of course … because quite often Modest Pinches make more than just ones nipples erect!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – June 2021 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze June 2021 Newsletter

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for June 2021 … with a round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Members Video and Photo Gallery.


Now, you may have noticed that my Modcast is a little bit late this month, and that is because the past few weeks have just been so … SO … busy!

And that is good news for you all really … as I have lots of new … and fun … videos to share … once they have all been properly edited of course.

But this month’s first … Free-2-View Members Video … is one that has just been exclusively edited from last weekend. And I’m sure that all of you who have been asking for more of my “FemDom” sessioning-videos will really enjoy it.

It’s called “Taking Mistresses Ten Inches” … and I’m sure you can guess just what Ten Inches I’m referring to can’t you?

This month’s Members Photo Gallery is especially for Sally who has asked for more of my “naked holiday” photos. And these individual photos have never been published before, and are all from my summer vacations. Fingers-crossed I’ll soon have more, from this year, to share in the future.

But, as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them.. 


So … looking back at my most popular posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com …


Modestly Prepared Boobday

I published another four Boobday posts in May … my own favourite beingModestly Prepared Boobday No. 211 … and you can probably guess why ! !!
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze introduces "Eat Before Beer Time" Real World Sex movie

My Eat Before Beer Time Real World Sex video … which I posted early in the month … also had a holiday theme. A rather naughty one in fact … you’ll just have to rent it from my Make Love Not Porn pages to see what sort of “eating” I actually mean! >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Leather

One of my other passions … apart from holidays … is Leather. And I was able to talk about that in my post early in May … which perfectly fitted-in with the current memes at Wicked Wednesday, Kink of the Week … and Food For Thought. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Used Panty Seller

And to carry-on with the theme of “clothing and accessories” … I posted about my Modest Pantiesearly in the month as my Used Panty Sales have been really, really popular recently. … But don’t worry, I do have an endless supply … so if you’d like to order a pair of your own … or perhaps choose from lots and lots of my other “fully personalised” items, just follow the link or search for “Mistress Modesty’s Fun Store”. As you will see, I really do have lots of fun things there to choose from. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Naughty Scavenger Hunt Turret

I haven’t had many opportunities to get out and about … and add more locations to my Scavenger Hunt pages recently … but myModest Turret posting at Sinful Sunday was one such occasion from my Staycation last summer which I hope will qualify for a new location category. But if not, I will of course add it to my “Expose Vu” collection!!!
>>> Read more>>>


So thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modestly Looking #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Sinfully Sunning

Looking for the sun that is … and it actually came out in London today for the first time in what seems like weeks and weeks.

This is not from today obviously … we don’t have the luxury of sand and sea in our garden … but sometimes it’s nice to just close ones eyes and wish!!!

And hopefully there may be more sunshine to be viewed at this week’s Sinful Sunday from the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Prepared #BoobDay #211

Modestly Prepared at Boobday Friday

It’s always important to pack one’s toys for a fun day at the beach, isn’t it?

They must be waterproof of course … which is why this lovely Satisfyer is one of my favourties!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Foxy Touch Massager @foxy_ltd

Foxy Touch Massager 1

Whenever I’m asked to undertake a new product review I always insist on taking my time so that I can properly “road test” the item(s) in question.

First impressions are important of course, but I almost always find that giving a “new toy” repeated testings over a longer period of time is … for me anyway … a much better way to properly evaluate what it does, and possibly doesn’t, do for me. And sometimes I know that my slower approach, and slower response times to posting my review, has led to some suppliers becoming a little impatient in the past.

So it has been such a pleasure that since being contacted by Foxy Touch a new-to-me and London based company … a month or so ago, that all the communications since then have been perfectly polite and professional, and without any pressure of asking “when will you be publishing your review?”

And that professionalism is certainly reflected in the quality of their lovely Foxy Touch Wand Masssager

Foxy Touch Massager 2

The massager is beautifully packaged with a glossy white outer sleeve featuring a photo of the wand, and product information and details on the sides and back. Sliding the sleeve off reveals a stylishly designed strong black laminated cardboard box with matching lid.

Foxy Touch Massager 3

The wand itself is cradled in a black bed of strong cardboard with a white USB charging cable clipped into a slot at the end.

Lifting the wand out of it’s die-cut enclosure reveals a double-sided Quick Start Guide card with product operation, charging and cleaning information. All perfectly legible and readable (unlike so many other “product manuals” that I’ve experienced from other suppliers in the past).

Fully charging the Foxy takes two hours and is easily achieved as the USB cable attaches magnetically to the charging points on the side of the handle near the base of the stem.

But presentation and ease of charging is one thing … it is the performance that is key, so … what does it do for me?

Foxy Massager 4

Well … I LOVE everything about this lovely Foxy Wand Massager … absolutely EVERYTHING.

Now as I said in my introduction, I always like to take my time with my new “testings”. I like to see if different playtime situations, different playtime moods and possibly different playtime partners, lead me to a different conclusion about how I feel about a particular toy. There have been moments in the past where I have, for one reason or another, been initially unimpressed with a new plaything. Perhaps I wasn’t in the right frame of mind, perhaps I was too intent on the “review” aspect of the experience, perhaps I was finding the actual operation of the toy confusing or awkward to get used to.

But right from the moment I lifted the Foxy out of it’s box, I was smitten.

I love silicon of course. Always have. And I already have lots … and lots … of smooth silicon toys in my drawer. But the Foxy just feels different somehow. Perhaps it is the lovely dark black colour, perhaps it is the shape, the weight and how it feels perfectly balanced in the palm of my hand. But none of those things are exclusive to the Foxy … perhaps it is just the combination of all of those things together.

Foxy Touch Massager 5

There are three easy to use buttons perfectly positioned on the handle for operating the Wand. Holding the bottom power button down for a few seconds turns on the Foxy at it’s default lower power and continuous vibration setting. The middle button changes the vibration settings, cycling through 7 different modes of pulses and patterns with one push changing to the next setting and so on. Personally I’ve never been a great fan of differing pulses and vibrations so am perfectly happy with that first pattern (wonderfully happy LOL!!).

But that top button … oh that is such fun to play with … and those different playtime situations, moods and partners that I mentioned earlier, have meant that I have tried, and enjoyed, them all. AND this is where I have found that the Foxy has impressed me the most … it’s power. Because it is impressively powerful for it’s size and lightness and in fact I have rarely gotten past the medium setting before convulsing into shuddering orgasms.

So, I have laid out all of those important measurements, material and technical details about the Foxy below, because you do of course need to know those …

BUT … does the Foxy do it for me? Oh YES … and for so many reasons I thoroughly, completely and unreservedly recommend you get “Foxy”

P.S. – From my understanding, Foxy Touch is a new company with a newly launched, and at the moment basic, website. And as part of their launch they are offering a FREE gift pack with every purchase. So even more of a reason for you all to get “Foxy” !!!

The Foxy Touch Wand Massager
Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Very, very powerful. Feels lovely to touch and hold. Easy to locate, and operate, function-buttons.
Cons: I can’t think of any at all.
Material: Body-safe, Medical Grade Silicone.
Colours: Black.
Measurements: Overall length = 7.9 inches. Head = 2 inches long and 2 inches in diameter. Handle length = 5.12 inches tapering down from it’s bendable neck to it’s shiny ABS Plastic base.
Charging: Re-chargeable. Magnetic-locking USB cable supplied.
Power Level: Very powerful given it’s size and weight.
Noise Level: Pleasantly discreet, though once I lose myself in the moment the only sound I can hear is my own gasps and moans.
Waterproof: Yes.
Cleaning: Wash before and after use with warm mild-soapy water. Use with water-based lube.
Supplier Product Link: Foxy Touch Massager
Excellent Video Link: Foxy Touch at Vimeo
Twitter: @foxy_ltd

Foxy Touch Wand Massager 6

For more information and to take advantage of Foxy Special Offers, click below!!!

Foxy Touch where women are Blissed

The Foxy Touch Wand Massager was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx- K

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A Modest Cuckqueanry #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty applies Cuckqueanry

“Well … you did tell me earlier that you might like to involve him as well, didn’t you?”

“I can send him back to the naughty corner if you wish. But it seems such a shame to waste his appreciation!”

“Anyway … I mustn’t talk with my mouth full. I’ll come over and ask you again if you’re still sure about that … in a little while”.

I’m sure I can’t be the only one being Sinful this weekend! Let’s suck down on the Sinful Sunday lips below to find out shall we?

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – Just in case you might think that my fun wasn’t completely consensual, “Cuckqueanry” is when a woman is quite happy to watch her partner involved with another and, in fact, experiences a heightened arousal from doing so.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Slip #BoobDay Friday

Mistress Modesty Red Bodystocking

I do love this Red Bodystocking that I first mentioned in last week’s Boobday Friday post.

But it is rather prone to slipping down during my spanking sessions … and once I begin really getting into my rhythm, I can’t be bothered to keep pausing to pull it back up again!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – May Members Update Video #PMAGW

Mistress Modesty's Face-Sitting Reward

My first Pour Me A Glass Members mid-month update for May is especially for Terry who asked for more of my #femdom Mistress Modesty videos … and specifically if I had any “Facesitting” videos.

Terry has been subscribing to my Pour Me A Glass Members page for almost two years now, so I was absolutely thrilled to receive this first request from him … which I hope you will all enjoy too.

It is actually from a session some time ago when, as my willing SubKN had completed all my tasks most satisfactorily, I decided to reward him with one final task before sending him on his way. And that was to . . . well, you’ll just have to view the video to see what I required of him.

So as I say, I hope you will all enjoy, as much as I obviously did … but do remember that if perhaps you would prefer more of my Swinging fun, or perhaps more of my Naked Exhibitionism excursions, then you only have to ask …

Because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Turret #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Turret Scavenger Hunt

“Mmmm … well I don’t know really … isn’t a Turret part of a Castle or a Fort?” I asked Hubby as we strolled along the path. “And I already have both of those in my Naughty Scavenger Hunt collection”.

“Yes, you’re probably right” he replied. “I suppose it’s not really a stand-alone sort of erection. They’re always attached to something”.

“Oohh … take it anyway” I told him. “You know how much I love an erection attached to something!!!”

I wouldn’t be surprised if there are several more erections and attachments on display at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Let’s kiss the lips below to see shall we!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

P.S. – Perhaps I will check-in with Bee at her Naughty Scavenger Hunt page to see if Turret might be a separate category. But in the meantime I shall add it to my Exposé Vŭ memories below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modest Red Lace #BoobDay Friday

Modest Red Lace Boobday Friday

I’ve been so looking forward to finally wearing some of the new items that have arrived from my Wishlist over the past, almost a whole year now!

I received this lovely Red Bodystocking some months ago, and I’m sure it will soon be featured in more posts over the coming months … but in the meantime I do think it is rather appropriate for Boobday Friday don’t you agree?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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