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The Modesty Ablaze Valentine’s Day Bulletin No.1

Valentine’s Day . . . you all know it’s coming soon don’t you . . . don’t you? . . . Well, just in case you might forget, I’ll be reminding you over the next week or so. Starting gently, from today and then slowly building to a crescendo . . . and you know just how much I REALLY LOVE slowly building to a crescendo!!!

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So, to help start things off, the lovely people at The Fantasy Box, who I reviewed >here< before Christmas, have just launched a series of Special Edition Boxes just in time for Valentine’s day!

You can see them all on their site at www.thefantasybox.com

ModestyAblazeFantasyBoxMisdirectThere are four different Special Edition Fantasy Boxes to choose from . . . I’d like to try them all of course, but I’m especially intrigued by the sound of the ‘Valentine’s Day Mis-Direction – it’s Payback time’ box . . . after all, I do often enjoy some naughty and fun payback time!!!

But whichever option you choose . . . and why not choose ALL FOUR, one for every other night of the whole Valentine’s week (with an evening’s rest and recuperation in between!) . . . oohh where was I before I got all excited? Oh yes, they tell me you must be quick because you need to order this weekend (by the 31st) to be sure of getting your box(es) in time.

And they’ve even given us a special code to use to get 10% off

Order now to ensure it arrives in time, and get 10% of with the code 
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Oh, and look, one of the other boxes is for a Valentine’s Day Red Party! Perhaps if you are good, and do as I ask, I might just invite you all to a Red Party of my very own soon.

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So . . . clickity quick . . . don’t miss this wonderful opportunity to gift your loved one a special, sexprising, Valentine’s Treat. You’re bound to make a big impression!!!

You may get a little hint of what you will find when you open your choice of Fantasy Box, from my Video Review of the Fantasy Box concept at the beginning of December by clicking the screen below.

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Now off you go . . . get clicking on that 10% OFF Voucher Code . . . and keep yourself up-to-date with all the new “Fantasy Boxes” on their website www.thefantasybox.com . . . and although I don’t do FB (well I do, but not this sort of FB) . . . I believe they also have an FB page at: https://www.facebook.com/uk.thefantasybox/

Bye for now . . . I expect you all to be reporting back though!!!
Xxx – K

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My fav toy? Oohh @DoxyMassager #wickedwednesday

When I read that this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday was “Ode to your favourite sex toy” well I just couldn’t resist. I mean you couldn’t possibly expect me to could you???

Because those “Oooh I’m feeling so desperately horny . . . right now!!!”
moments have never been quite the same since discovering my Doxy Wand. And it is always, always close at hand . . . after all, sometimes you just need to don’t you???

So, when I do . . . there’s just no comparison, no questions, no hesitations . . .
I know just what to reach for!!!

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And, in fact, just thinking about it has got me all excited again and reminded me to re-read my original review of the Doxy. It was actually one of my very first Sex Toy Reviews, and reading it again . . . and ESPECIALLY viewing the Video again . . . has left me thinking that I should have said lots of things better, or clearer, and that perhaps I should re-do it all over again!

BUT . . . then I reach for that power button and I quickly get all distracted!!!

And I’m sure you will find lots of other distracting Odes and Toy Stories at
Wicked Wednesday by turning on the Power Button below!!!

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Xxx – K

 Oh, and P.s. – Just to make things even more distracting for me, there is now a New Chapter in the @Doxy story . . . The Skittle!!!

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “MaxTwist Nipple Suckers” @Uberkinky

If you like nipple play . . . either giving, or receiving . . . then my goodness, do I have a new twist to suggest for you!

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In fact, a pair of twists! The Maxtwist Nipple Suckers from Uberkinky! Because, although I’ve played with numerous nipple-clamps, pinchers and suckers over the years, I’ve never experienced anything quite like these before.

ModestyMaxTwist3The Maxtwist Nipple Suckers arrived, discreetly packaged as always in a plain bubble-wrapped postage envelope. The suckers are supplied by an American company called “Size Matters” so I suppose I shouldn’t have been surprised on opening the envelope to find a larger box than I’d expected (3 and a half inches wide, 2 inches deep and 6 inches high). But as I hadn’t even looked at the product pictures on Uberkinky’s website when I’d accepted them for review . . . it has been such a busy, busy month! . . . I still wasn’t expecting, on opening the box and sliding out the two suckers themselves, just how “sizeable” they would be. Each sucker is 4 inches long, and over 1 inch in diameter and both the cylinder/chamber itself, the turning screw on top and all the internal parts, are made of quite thick and strong plastic.

ModestyMaxTwist2As I took them out of the ziplock plastic bag I must admit my initial reaction was that they looked, and felt, rather clunky and “industrial” and unlady-like.

But as I washed them . . . I always do a “before” and “after” wash of all my toys . . . it was quite apparent that the design and construction of them was bound to make for a strong suction sensation.

Now, as I mentioned, I often use nipple teasers and clamps because I enjoy having my own nipples played with and sucked-on (although not necessarily with toys all the time, if you know what I mean). But I also enjoy using them on my subs . . . all of whom seem to have “different” levels of sensation and enjoyment. So, even though I was home alone . . . as soon as they were dry . . . !!!

ModestyMaxTwist5. . . I immediately forgot about the clunky-ness and industrial look . . . because the suction was just amazing. And so easy to use!

No fiddly tweaking and sliding about trying to get the right position and angles, just simply placing the base of the suction cup over my nipple and a few twists of the large “knob” (you know how I LOVE large knobs!!!) and I could immediately feel, and see, my nipple being pulled up into the chamber. I have quite small areolae (I only say because we, probably, haven’t met so how could you know???) and they are quite sensitive, so it only needs a few twists before they are already being sucked right in. And the suction is so strong that it was quite easy to let go and then apply the second sucker to my other nipple.

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I twisted each knob just a few twists at a time, sitting at my dressing table and jiggling my boobs in the mirror for a few seconds in-between each twist. As I said, I am quite sensitive there, so I soon had to stop the twisting . . . but I loved carrying on with the jiggling for a few minutes longer until I just had to stop and
. . . well, you know!!!

So, anyway, I just couldn’t wait for my No.1 submissive to arrive home from work . . . so I could carry out the next stage of my “review process”.

Now No.1 has even more sensitive nipples than I . . . and an even flatter chest . . . so I was excited, whoops I mean curious, to see how he would react, or even if the suction would be as strong on his tighter skin.

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Well I am delighted to report that I had absolutely no problems with suction on application! But, he is such a sissy when it comes to his nipples that I could only twist for a couple of revolutions before he wanted them off. However . . . I know several No’s whom have a much higher nipple threshold (if you’re reading this gentlemen you know who you are!!!)

Although No.1 wasn’t quite as keen a research-assistant as I’d hoped, he was desperately excited to see them attached to me again. In fact he was so excited that he wanted to try one on my clit first. And, although the suction wasn’t quite so easy . . . it was a very “wet” surface after all . . . he eventually managed to draw me in and even further up the chamber than I’d managed with my nipples. And the sensation was initially very, very arousing . . . (and, it was apparent, for him as well!) . . . but I then began to feel a bit “numbed” so instructed him to “unscrew now please”. And that is one thing that is actually really useful and impressive about the robustness of the design, because unlike other clips and pinchers I’ve used which can catch on things, or stick and become fiddly and sometimes quite painful to remove, the really thick and wide threads of the Maxtwister screws make it quick and easy to change the pressure of the suction, or release your entrapment quickly and painlessly. So, in this case, the “unsexy” industrial-look is completely overshadowed by the ease of use . . . AND the delightful sensations!

Well, I say delightful sensations, but I know that nipple play is not for everyone (so Submissive No.1 keeps reminding me each time I reach for the Maxtwister Box) . . . but if you enjoy your nipples being sucked and are curious about even more intensity and “suction” I suggest you look no further than the Maxtwist Nipple Suckers from Uberkinky.

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No . . . you must NOT try this at home!!!

Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Pros: Strong and robust design and manufacture, simple and easy to use.
Cons: Looks a little-bit industrial/medical . . . but then???
Material: Thick, strong ABS Plastic.
Measurements: Overall Length 4 inches; Diameter 1.3 inches; Inner (the sucking chamber) diameter 1.17 inches; Adjustment Knob (easy-grip) diameter 1.5 inches.
Noise: Appreciative giggles from the operative, ascending gasps from the recipient!!!
Colour: White adjustment knob; White inner screw with nice blue top; Black rubber seals; Clear Transparent suction cylinder.
Contains: Supplied as a pair.
Does not include: Latex, Phthalates.
Batteries: Not required.
Waterproof: I haven’t tried it in the shower yet, but will let you know!
After-care: Wash with hot soapy water after use.
Supplier Product Link: Size Matters Max Twist Nipple Suckers
Additional Links: Nipple Suckers

The Maxtwist Nipple Suckers were sent to me, free-of-charge, by UberKinky  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Bondage Gear, Restraints, Electro Sex and Fetish Gear at UberKinky

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-up: HedoVibes#121 & “The Fantasy Box” @thefantasybox

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Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

CONTESTS

DILDOS

VIBRATORS

ANAL TOYS

RINGS & STROKERS

STORAGE & FURNITURE

LINGERIE & SHOES

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View all of my Sex Toy Video Product Reviews . . . including my video review of The Fantasy Box . . . >here<!

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze has been thinking inside “The Fantasy Box”

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Early in November I had the pleasure of visiting Sexpo UK at London’s Olympia Exhibition Centre. Sexpo was a three day “sexual-health and lifestyle” event featuring lots of adult-brand retailers exhibiting their latest products, some of whom I was familiar with and some not. And whilst I was browsing the aisles I was approached by two attractive young men.

Now, as you can imagine, I always enjoy being approached by attractive young men . . . especially when they actually have something interesting to show me . . . and my interest was further aroused when they began explaining the concept of their Fantasy Box Subscription Service.

ModestyAblazeFantasy1They explained that Fantasy Box had proved very successful in America since it was started there in 2012 . . . and that they were part of the organisation that was launching the service here in the UK.

Now you’ll probably already be familiar with all sorts of Subscription Box services . . . and in normal circumstances I would be quite sceptical of a Subscription Service offering sexual items and fantasies. After all, sex is quite a personal thing . . . for most of us at least . . . isn’t it?

But when Alistair and his young colleague showed me their “starter” Classic Fantasy Box and began to explain just how it all worked, I began to get quite interested and also quite intrigued by the stylish design of the box itself. And their explanation that The Fantasy Box was a luxury service designed to help couples explore new dimensions of their relationship, in a safe, fun and creative way, immediately struck a chord with me.

If you’ve visited me here regularly you will know that I’ve often mentioned that not enough of my friends and colleagues communicate properly or openly enough with their partners. For so many reasons, they find it difficult to express all of their sexual thoughts and desires and are afraid to be really honest and open up about those things . . . even with their closest and dearest of loved-ones.

Well, as Alistair explained, The Fantasy Box helps one to put all of those fears and worries aside, by offering a vast range of themed ideas and instructions for both partners in a creative and light-hearted manner. Approaching the subject almost as a fun party game . . . and making what, for some people, is an “uncomfortable thing” to begin talking about . . . into a situation that is much less difficult.

ModestyAblazeFantasy2So there are no worries about “How do I bring the subject up?” ; “What ideas can I suggest?” ; “What should I wear?”  or “What should I say” . . . because all of those things are planned and presented for you by the simple and well-written prompt cards in the box along with a lovely selection of the items needed to play out the suggested scenarios.

I always like to start at the very beginning of course, so my box (the one I’m holding and very briefly previewing in the little video-teaser above) was The Classic Box. The first, starter-box if you will, that you might suggest to . . . or perhaps buy as a surprise gift . . . for your special loved one.

Neither the photos here, nor my video teaser, will do the construction . . . or the packaging of the contents . . . full justice. Because the Box itself is made from a wonderfully strong and rigid (oohh I love that word so much that I’m going to say it again) rigid, and matt-laminated cardboard. It opens via a hinged fold-over cover which is secured initially with a magnetic catch . . . and the cover folds back to reveal this boxes specific welcome and prompt-cards, sitting atop a thinner black-card sleeve which initially hides the inner contents from view. The box is just wonderful and really it is the most beautifully packaged of products I think I’ve ever encountered. Stylish, classy and so well designed . . . and completely in-tune with the whole Fantasy Box concept. I love it !!!

The first “Welcome Card”, printed like an invitation on glossy card, explains that this first box is designed around “communication” and “anticipation” and suggests you begin your evening with perhaps a relaxed romantic dinner . . . and several glasses of Sauvignon for me please! . . . where you can share your first prompts and questions and answers from the folded “Hers” and “His” leaflets included with the Welcome card.

The leaflets each have a numbered list of 20 different question points to ask each other, and short multi-choice selections for the answer that you think best fits your current mood . . . or perhaps your secret desire! Questions such as “I am turned-on by”; or “The best way to build up anticipation is to”; or “My favourite way to get in the mood would be to”; or, “I love it when you kiss & caress my . . .” Each of the questions have four or five suggested answer prompts, but of course you can reply with a completely different answer of your own. I know I certainly would . . . after all, being different is half the fun isn’t it!!

Now written here on this page, you may think these leaflets sound a little impersonal or tacky. BUT, I think you’ll actually find that once you start . . . even if only jokingly at first . . . you’ll soon begin to enjoy it more and more as you play along. AND very probably, become a little bolder and dare I say a little more honest, with every answer. And once you have giggled and gasped your way to the end of each others questions and answers, it will be time to progress to the next little cards that were included with your Welcome Card.

For my starter Box the prompt cards were “The Leader” and “The Follower” . . . with some quite specific suggested instructions for The Leader on what to command The Follower to do.

Now, of course, in my case I ALWAYS have to be The Leader and Hubby, naturally, The Follower. But for yourselves, either one of you could be The Leader . . . and perhaps this might be the PERFECT opportunity for you to reverse what you might think are your normal roles in your relationship!!!

Whoever of you plays which-ever part, you will now be instructed to remove the inner black sleeve-lid of the box to reveal it’s contents and the specific items your cards will be suggesting you use.

My box included a Mask, a wonderfully scented Ambience & Massage Candle, a quite large bottle of Organic Lubricant, a small but tingly-nice curved and ribbed Personal Vibrator (complete with batteries) AND a lovely Black Thong and matching Negligee . . . which actually fitted perfectly (thank you Alistair for such wonderful judgement)!

Now, just as with the “Hers” and “His” questions and answers, you don’t have to follow the Leaders prompt-points to the letter . . . but I’m sure they will “prompt-you” to make up your own twists-and-turns as you go along . . . because I just know a lot of you will be shaking your heads and muttering to yourself, “I don’t like being told what to do”. Well yes, I know, I don’t like that either (I rather prefer to be the one doing the telling!!!) But actually I’ve found that the sheer quality of the Fantasy Box presentation, and of the contents inside, has made me feel that I would certainly like to investigate more.

And I would whole-heartedly recommend you browse the website >here< for lots and lots of information on their Themed Boxes and options.

They have Sensual Themes . . . Costume Themes . . . Shower Themes . . . and definitely for me . . . Master & Slave and Dominatrix  Themes . . . and lots, lots more!!!

Each theme, or box, has different contents or options, with fully selectable sizing for clothing items . . . and often different tiers of the box contents. (More toys for example which obviously means, more possibilities and more fun!)

You can subscribe for monthly boxes, or quarterly boxes . . . or, if you prefer, for just one box of your choice for that special occasion. And you can change the frequency of your subscription, or pause, or cancel your deliveries at any time that you wish.

Or, if you’re just feeling a little adventurous . . . perhaps after re-playing the themes of one of your previous boxes and you’d like to add a little extra dimension by just ordering a new set of lingerie . . . or perhaps a new vibrator . . . instead of a complete box, then you can do that too.

The boxes are sent to you discreetly packaged in plain wrapping so they won’t have “SEXUAL FANTASY TOYS for that weird couple in No. 9” stamped all over the box in large red letters. Your postman will just think it’s your monthly delivery of choice biscuits or cheeses and crackers.

So, after my initial doubts, I have to admit that I’ve become quite excited by both the quality and the concept behind The Fantasy Box and . . . especially as they would definitely make an ideal surprise Festive Fun Gift for ones special partner . . . I have absolutely no hesitation in recommending everyone to explore The Fantasy Box  immediately! You never know, it could bring a whole new meaning to your Boxing Day!!!

Now . . . I’m off to re-play that “FOLLOW MY LEADER” prompt card again !!!

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Different and fun. Inspiration and motivational and, did I say FUN !!!
Cons: You may need a brand-new, larger, wardrobe to store all your boxes.
Material: The boxes themselves are constructed of wonderfully rigid and strong cardboard.
Measurements: Approximately 9 inches square and 4 inches in height.
Contents: Each box is different . . . fun . . . interesting!!!
UK website: The Fantasy Box UK
Twitter feed: @thefantasybox

You can watch my Video-Teaser Review of The Fantasy Box >here<.

The Classic Fantasy Box was given to me as a gift by The Fantasy Box, in return for an honest review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-up: HedoVibes#118 & The Doxy Skittle @DoxyMassager

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Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

CONTESTS

DILDOS

VIBRATORS

ANAL TOYS

RINGS & STROKERS

LUBES & CONDOMS

MISCELLANEOUS

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Skittle” personal vibrator @DoxyMassager

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Ok I’ll admit it . . . I’m a clit sort of girl, and you probably won’t be surprised when I say that I can get aroused by all sorts of situations and scenarios . . . not to mention all sorts of naughty thoughts and fantasies. But normally it’s having my clit stimulated in someway (oh alright, in anyway!!!) that brings me to the most fulfilling, earth-shaking and shuddering, exhausting, orgasm.

And nothing does that to my clit more powerfully, more completely . . . and more quickly . . . than my Doxy Wand. In fact, very often, it can be “too quickly” . . . and part of the Wand’s delight for me, if I’m using it on my own, is the challenge of teasing and pacing myself in it’s use. Prolonging the sensations, resisting the vibrations, denying it’s power and refusing it’s ultimate, total-control of my senses!

See . . . already, just talking about the Wand has got me pulsing, tingling and vibrating off on a tangent . . . BECAUSE this review is not about the Doxy Wand . . . it is about it’s new sibling the Doxy Skittle!!!

So, let me calm down . . . and start again . . .

Ok, I’ll admit it . . . I’m a clit sort of girl. Sooo . . . I was delighted and enthralled to receive The Doxy Skittle in my post box recently. Delighted because it was from Doxy (oohh shhh! don’t get me started again!!!) and enthralled because I’d not seen, heard, or read anything about it at all, until I opened the parcel!

SkittleUnwrappedAnd there, enticingly packaged in a white glossy box . . . and staring out at me from behind a clear, see-through acetate window, was a surprisingly and intriguingly shaped black object with a curling lead attached to what was obviously it’s push-button controller.

As I slid it’s holding tray from out of the box I could tell straight away that this was completely different from my wand . . . and that the raised and bulbous extension at the top was obviously designed for . . . well, for more than one “entrance point”.

SkittleGripSo, not only a dual-purpose vibrator, but a dual-gender one as well! Because . . . if you haven’t already guessed from looking at the photos here (go on, admit it, you’ve looked already haven’t you?) . . . the Doxy Skittle is a vibrator that can be used either externally or internally and for either clit and vagina OR . . . for one’s bottom and prostate.

As I unwound the Skittle and it’s controller and cord from the box, I was already vibrating and tingling with excitement and intrigue before I’d even plugged it in!!!

Thankfully, like the Doxy Wand, the Skittle is mains powered, so I didn’t have to wait around for it to charge for hours and hours before I could try it. And you know me, I’m petulant and impatient and I just hate waiting . . . so I was delighted to be able to just plug it in and turn it on . . . straight-away!

And first impressions? Well it is quieter than the Wand, much quieter, but still holding it in my hand . . . and I must say the shape does allow one to easily grip and hold it . . . it was obvious that it’s vibrations are still quite powerful. The whole unit actually vibrates and you immediately think, as you push the controller buttons, “how the hell do they get it to rumble and throb so powerfully???”

SkittleHandfulThe extendable-bit . . . (I’m tempted to call it the “finger” but that doesn’t seem the right term for me, so I’ll just call it the “extendage”) wobbles and sort of shifts and twists. I immediately gave it my “nose-test” . . . after all, in my excitement and haste to unpack it and switch it on, I was still fully dressed.

My nose told me that as I push the +plus button (look at the pictures, I’ll get to the technical explanations later once I’ve calmed down again!) the “extendage” wobbles less but vibrates more powerfully, whilst as I (delightfully) squeezed the -minus button, the vibrations decreased but the wobbles became more pronounced.

I impatiently placed the Skittle on my bedside table whilst I quickly disrobed, pausing to note that it could have almost passed for a lovely bedside lamp . . . except of course that it doesn’t glow. That, and the fact that it was still vibrating and slowly moving across the table of it’s own accord!!!

The power cord is quite long (more on that later), so it was really easy for me to collapse back onto the bed and wriggle myself into my favourite “Doxy Do” position . . . and . . .

. . . now, as I’ve already said, I’m a clit-girl and despite my natural inquisitiveness about that extendage, my first instinct was to aim the Skittle at my truly, truly sensitive bit. And yes, it was nice. Quite nice in fact . . . though as I plussed and minussed away on the controller . . . I could sense it wasn’t quite as easy to position or control as my Wand.

I have learnt from later experience though, that the fact that the controller module is about 3 feet of cable away from the Skittle itself is actually a great advantage when playing with a partner, but I did find myself fumbling a bit when trying it out for that first time on my own. But that of course, is just because it was different from the buttons not being attached to the handle of the unit as they are on my Wand.

But anyway . . . that extendage, and the indented shape where it meets the top of the handle . . . soon had me realising that it has several different possibilities as I moved it around and around my lips . . . and then into my vagina.

SkittleTip2ToeIt was at this point that I decided to lift it away again and experiment with the “pulsing setting”. Just like the Wand, if you turn-off the power and then hold down that button for a few seconds, the Skittle will start-up again in a pulsing mode. So that wobbling and shifting and twisting will vary in motion and power and, I suppose, in intensity. And then start it’s pulsing-cycle again. Actually for me, although it is of course very clever, I found this setting to be more distracting and less enjoyable. But, returning it to the standard vibrations, I was soon swooning again as I twisted and pushed that wobbly, knobbly bit between my lips and held the curved nub of the unit against me. If you look closely at the pictures you will see the curved bit I’m talking about, and I could certainly feel it’s vibrations as I rubbed it against me whilst slowly pushing and probing with the extendage.

So . . . and remember that I was trying this on my own initially . . . leaving it on it’s vibrating setting, I then decided to experiment with that dual-purpose, secondary “entrance point”.

Now I have to be in a certain mood for anal play . . . and usually it is much, much easier when it just seems to happen spontaneously and naturally . . . and usually only when I’m in company. It’s not something I normally do when I’m alone. So possibly for that reason, and possibly because I couldn’t seem to find the right position, or way to hold onto the Skittle, and reach for and operate the buttons, I quickly lost my concentration . . . and my desire . . . resigning myself to revisit that situation when I would be accompanied by a companion. And, of course, very often when one is trying too hard to do something, the motivation or inspiration is all wrong anyway . . .

. . . but a few hours later (see I told you I was impatient!) . . . and on several occasions since, Hubby and I have experimented further and with a little more success. But whether because the extendage shape, or length, isn’t exactly right for either of us, or because the size of the handle makes the positioning difficult to achieve, the Skittle as an anal massager, hasn’t quite worked consistently for us. (Though it was great fun, and certainly a very interesting sight, making him sit down onto it as I held it beneath him . . . and NO, there are no pictures . . . well not here in this review at least!)

So . . . how does it compare with the Wand Massager you will, naturally ask, especially as it is a Doxy product after all?

Well, nothing can compare with the Wand of course . . . for sheer power, immediacy and ease-of-use, I suppose any other Doxy product will be forever in the Wand’s shadow. But the Skittle is fun and different . . . and certainly much quieter (so you could probably use comfortably with friends and family sleeping blissfully down the hall, instead of knocking on your bedroom door asking why you are putting-up shelving or assembling a wardobe in the middle of the night!)

And actually, you know what I think the main difference for me between the Wand and the Skittle is??? Well, I find the Skittle is much more fun to use during couple-play . . . fun and different, and leading to more adventurous play and situations. Whereas the Wand is more of a “this is all about me, give it here, it’s mine!!!” solo sort of experience. Well that’s how I’ve found it to be anyway.

So for those of you who find anal and prostate-play hugely satisfying and enjoyable, or for introducing some naughty fun into your playtime with your favourite lover, then I’m sure The Skittle would be a welcome addition to your Toy Drawer!!!

Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10
Pros: Different and fun for some “alternative” dual-penetration play.
Cons: Fiddly to control at first, especially during “solo” use.
Material: Medical grade PVC / silicone free of latex or phthalates.
Vibration Modes: I get so carried-away I can never count how many different speeds there are . . . suffice to say it is amazingly, unbelievably the most powerful I’ve ever vibrated against!!!
Pulsing Modes: Turned on by turning-off, then turning-on by holding power button down for two seconds. You release and the pulsing starts, rising in intensity with every pulse. Don’t worry, you can control it / slow the pulsing down by using the minus button on the controller.
Lubrication: Use with water-based lubricants only as oil-based lubes may damage the silicon parts of the unit.
Measurements: Height 7 inches from tip of the “extendage” to the base of the unit itself; the extendage is a 2 inch erection and just over 1 inch in diameter; the Unit section is 2 inches in diameter and about 5 inches in height from that “nub” to the base (where the cord is attached).
Button Controller: 4 and a half inches long and approx. 1 inch in diameter.  Contains three buttons, 1 for on/off, 1 for +plus and 1 for -minus. Positioned about 3 feet down the cord attaching it to the main unit.
Noise: Quite quiet for such amazingingly powerful vibrations.
Powered by: Mains operated only with almost 12 feet of cord from plug to unit.
Waterproof: Absolutely not. Please do not attempt to use in the bath or shower!!!
Available Colours: Black.
Additionally supplied with: Small, multi-lingual, black & white, user manual.
After-care: Always clean thoroughly after use (whichever entrance you’ve been using) with mild soap and a damp cloth.
Product Link: Doxy Skittle at Belle De Soir
Twitter feed: @DoxyMassager

You can watch my Video Review of the Doxy Skittle >. . .< well actually I’ve been too “busy” to do one yet . . . but if you ask nicely???

The Doxy Skittle Massager was sent to me as a gift by Doxy, and they did not ask me for a review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-up: HedoVibes#110 & The Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle @UberKinky

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Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

CONTESTS

DILDOS

VIBRATORS

ANAL TOYS

RINGS & STROKERS

BONDAGE, IMPACT, & FETISH GEAR

LUBES & CONDOMS

MISCELLANEOUS

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle” @Uberkinky

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One can never have too many Paddles . . . so I am always looking for new shapes and sizes . . . and new additions to my collection!

And I am delighted to say that the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle which arrived recently from my favourite Fetish Shop Uberkinky has quickly become my current favourite!!!

Now it looks just like a ping-pong or table-tennis bat doesn’t it . . . but let me tell you it is so, so much more stylish-looking and, of course, far more useful!!!

ModestyAblazePaddleTwoIt is made of black-leather with four lovely silver studs connecting the circular paddle itself to the handle. Don’t worry, the studs are closed on both sides so it is perfectly safe to use without fear of scratching or scraping with bare, unprotected bits of metal! (Yes, yes, I KNOW some of you actually like that don’t you!!!)

But anyway . . . as I was saying . . . those silver studs attach the paddle to the strong, re-inforced handle. It is easy to grip, and easy to hold and even during quite forceful, and pro-longed spanking, I find it extremely comfortable to use. The handle is 7 inches long and one-and-a-half inches deep to hold in the palm of one’s hand and, as I say, very comfortable to use . . . certainly more comfortable than my Leather Slapper Paddle  (which I still, never-the-less, LOVE by-the-way!!!).

ModestyAblazePaddleEdgeBut it is the paddle itself which is the part of the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle that I really, really love. It is made from a stiff, very slightly textured leather. And although I’m describing it as being “stiff” (about 5mm in thickness), it does have a wonderful “give and springyness” on impact that both I, and the subs I have so far used the Paddle on, really enjoy. And with it’s lovely shape and diameter of five-and-a-half inches, the paddle leaves a gorgeously consistent rosey-red blush.

And it is that lovely shape that makes it so wonderful to use. The light weight of the paddle and it’s perfect size, just gives one so much control, both in the intensity of the impact and, more delightfully, in one’s aim. Because, unlike some of my other larger or heavier paddles, I have been able to use this Fetish Fantasy Paddle with quite a wide variety of spanking positions, techniques . . . and places of impact.

Such as??? Well, apart from the obvious . . . those lovely bum cheeks that look so spankable when bending my sub over my knee . . . I’ve found this paddle delightfully useful when grabbing a subs balls and twisting them round to present themselves as an inviting, pouting, package for some nice ball-spanking.

Or . . . pulling and stretching his cock to present his bobbling head for some fun swiping with short, sharp, swats until he can take no more.

Or . . . strapping him down onto his stomach across my bench, completely ignoring his bottom and instead smacking the soles of his feet with fast-fast-slow smacks . . . from one foot to the other, and then back again.

Or . . .  making him kneel, blindfolded of course, at my feet . . . instructing him to hold the palm of one hand flat out in front of his body and the other reaching backwards behind him, whilst I walk slowly around him alternating my smacks from one palm to the other . . .  with increasingly regular, and evermore intense, whacks across his bum cheeks.

ModestyAblazePaddleHeldNow, normally, I would use my paddles as a prelude . . . a warming-up toy . . . just to begin a spanking session, with my more “intense” canes or whips to follow. But, actually I’ve found that I’ve been able to use my Fetish Fantasy Paddle with such variety that, on a number of occasions recently, it’s been perfect to use throughout a whole impact session without the need for any other implements at all.

It may not be sufficient for subs who enjoy more extreme forms of punishment, but for me a successful session is one where both participants feel the fun and satisfaction . . . and in that respect the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle has been just perfect for me!

Oh, and to make it even more perfect for me, I just have to mention the string looped through the end of the handle which makes it so easy to tidily hang-away in my wardrobe after use . . . though I somehow think it won’t be hanging there for more than a few days at a time!!!

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Comfortable and easy to hold and use. Lightweight, flexible but firm . . . makes a lovely slapping noise on impact.
Cons: I honestly can’t think of any cons whatsoever!!!
Material: Leather.
Length: From tip-to-tip (bottom of handle to top of the paddle) 13 inches.
Width (Diameter of the paddle): 5.5 inches and 5mm thick.
Handle: 7 inches long, 1.5 inches wide and 8mm thick (grip).
Vibration: A reverberating slapping on contact.
Lubrication: Not required.
Noise: Wonderful slapping sound on impact.
Available Colours: black.
Waterproof: Not for use in the bath or shower.
After-care: Wipe thoroughly with cleaning cloth after use.
Supplier Product Link: Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle
Additional Useful Link: BDSM Paddles
Twitter feed: @UberKinky

ModestyAblazeCarpetBeaterCoverI haven’t had the time . . . or a willing volunteer just yet (hint, hint!!!) . . . to produce a Video Review of the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle, but you can watch several Video Reviews of some of my previous fun Spanking and Bondage Uberkinky items by clicking the title screen above!

The Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-up: HedoVibes#107 & The Carpet Beater @UberKinky

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Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

CONTESTS

DILDOS

VIBRATORS

RINGS & STROKERS

BONDAGE, IMPACT, & FETISH GEAR

LINGERIE & SHOES

MISCELLANEOUS

hedo150

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Xxx – K

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