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A Question of Balance … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 1

As I mentioned in my Boobday Friday post during the week, I became almost obsessed on our summer holidays this year, with building new Rock Sculptures on the beach each day.

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 2

It was all a question of balance of course … placing one stone at a time …

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 3

Knowing one’s limits and when to stop … before moving onto the next ...

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 4

I found it very calming and therapeutic actually. And the fact that they all seem to have a “phallic” appearance is … obviously … purely coincidental.

More more calming therapeutic coincidences this Sinful Sunday just tap the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – October 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Mistress Modesty Cheeky Peek Cocktails 2021

As I’ve mentioned on my Members pages before, I enjoy sharing lots of my “candid” #exhibitionist moments. Photos and videos with no filters, no re-touching, no pretences, no “breathy, over-acted voices”, no “creative editing”. Just the REAL ME having fun and being just who I am … with all the lumps and bumps of the “mature” lady I am.

And my first mid-month Members update for October, is one such short video from my holiday in the summer.

New member Stewart requested “more flashing, exhibitionist” videos, whilst another new member JPS asked if I had any “vaping clips”.

So I think Cheeky Peek Cocktails will fit the bill on both counts. (By the way, the blurring at several points is completely intentional so as to mask the identity of innocent passers-by).

But if neither of those kinks is to your taste, then perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered**.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from October by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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Modest Black Net … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Black Net Stockings

As I mentioned in my October Newsletter, September was a record month for new Subscribers to my Pour Me A Glass Members pages.

And it was also a record month for session appointments as I sought to fulfill postponed sessions from the past year.

So I thought I would include a screen-snap, from my most recent appointment, to also fulfill a request from new subscriber Phil who has a thing for Black Net Stockings.

There’s sure to be more sinful appointments to be had this weekend, by stroking the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Maid-to-Motivate … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Caning Sissy Maid

“I told you didn’t I? … I said that I expect all of my nooks and crannies to be thoroughly cleaned … outside and in!!!”.

“It’s no excuse to say you kept getting distracted and couldn’t concentrate!”

There’s sure to be more sinful distractions to be had this weekend, by stroking the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – October 2021 #PMAGW

Hello my lovelies and welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast and Newsletter for October 2021 … my monthly round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.

Now I’m thrilled to say that September was a record month for new Subscribers to my Members page here … so this month’s first feature video AND this month’s photo gallery … are to fulfill “special request suggestions” from two of those new Members.

So … my first video of the month is for Nigel who has messaged me some very flattering comments about my bottom, and how he would like to see “more close-ups” of it. So I’m hoping that “Ass Lover – Part One”, which is a custom video I filmed some months ago for a gentleman who also has a thing for my bottom, will be to Nigel’s liking … and all of you bottom lovers too of course.

And my Photo Gallery is especially for Charli who is very intrigued about my Mistress Modesty Strap-On sessions with my Dungeon Submissives. She has been asking all sorts of questions about sizes … and angles … and positions. So I’m sure that these photos will provide some visuals to the answers I’ve given in our email exchanges over the past two weeks.

So I hope you will all enjoy these first updates for the month … and do send me some requests of your own as well … because, as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send in your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them. 


Now … speaking of my Dungeon Sessions, September was a very busy month with more session applications than I could possibly fulfill … obviously lots of slaves desperate to make up for all the lost opportunities during the pandemic.


Boobday Flax

But I still managed to post another four Boobday Friday posts during the month with Modestly Cooled, A Modest Flax, A Modest Iced Coffee and Modest Boobday Bagels. All of them taken during my summer holiday in August.


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Modestly Wrecked Sinful Sunday

And my holiday snaps also featured in two of my Sinful Sunday posts … Waterwheel Revisited was from a return visit to a lovely bar and restaurant location on the island which we try to return to each year. And Modestly Wrecked was a brand new location which we’d never managed before as it is sited right on a busy road into the main town. But we were lucky to manage a few short minutes between passing traffic, to capture a “Wreckers Yard” category for my Scavenger Hunt pages.
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Modest Vibrations

My Modest Vibrations posting for my first Sinful Sunday of the month, was back in my favourite Dungeon again for a Double Domme session for a very lucky gentleman seated in the medical chair where … as you can probably imagine, there was lots of humming and vibrating going on.

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Mistress Modesty

One of the weekly themes for Wicked Wednesday during September, was “Shameless Promotion” … so I couldn’t resist joining-in for my very indulgent Modestly Shameless post where I provided links to all of my “London Hotwife Diaries” as well as my “Used Clothing Store”, my Etsy Poster Print pages …. and of course my Clips profile at Clips4Sale and AVN Stars.
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So I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Lighthouse Revisited #sinfulsunday

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 1

When I first visited this spot back in the summer of 2016 I was questioning Hubby’s assertions that this really was a Lighthouse!

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 2

It seemed more like a scenic lookout to me … with coachloads of visitors posing for photos between the pillars.

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 3

But despite it always being quite windy, it quickly became a favourite place that I love to return to each year!

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 4

And enjoy that cooling breeze blowing in from the water …

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 5

and to pause for a few moments and relax and take in the view before …

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 6

having to step aside and let the next visitors take pictures of their own!

This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is “something beginning with L”.
Click on the lips below to explore!

Sinful Sunday

I added my first visit in 2016 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but simply have to add this year’s to my other favourites at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Waterwheel Revisited #sinfulsunday

Modest Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - One

I first created my Exposé Vŭ pages back in 2017 because, as I mentioned then standing on my Special Stairs, there are just so many places on my favourite holiday island that I enjoy re-visiting again and again.

Modest Water Wheel 2021 - Two

Maybe for a morning coffee, an afternoon wine … or evening cocktail.

Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - Three

And this lovely, peaceful Waterwheel is one of those places. So it was simply wonderful to be able to return once again this summer!

For more fun images at this week’s Sinful Sunday kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – There are lots more of my Re-visited Adventures at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again – September 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Subby1s Holiday Tasks Cover

Whilst on our 3 week Summer 2021 Vacation I expected to have my every whim fulfilled and obeyed by Subby1. From pouring me ice cold beers on the beach, adjusting my sun umbrella and re-applying my sun tan lotion.

Then constantly topping up my wine glass when we got back to the apartment, giving me an after-sun full body massage and taking me out every evening for cocktails and a special meal.

And, of course, I instructed him to make sure he had his camera charged and ready at all times to keep a video diary of every fun moment … day and night … that I desired.

Which is good news for all you Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members, because that means I have lots and lots of candid … very candid in some cases … fun, silly and sexy videos to share.

Such as today’s new Members update Subby1’s Holiday Tasks which I hope you will all enjoy.

Or perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered**.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms,

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from September by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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A Modestly Ticking C(l)ock … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty's Ticking Clock

“Now just stand still … I always set my alarm to remind me how long you booked for … and when your time is due to end”.

“And, I find it also helps remind you … that your clock is ticking … starting now!”

For more pleasant alarms at this week’s Sinful Sunday just stroke the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – September 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Lavender Lover Part 4 Cover

Super Fan Sally has been following me here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com for as long as I can remember, and was certainly one of the very first Subscribers when I launched my Pour Me A Glass Members page over three years ago now.

And she has been messaging me quite a lot (LOL !!!) over the past few months about how much she has been enjoying my “Lavender Lover” videos. I think she has a thing for him … as I certainly do as well.

So my first Members Update for September is especially for Sally, and carries on with more from my wonderful evening with Lavender Lover, and his amazing tongue and fingers.

There is still more video content from our fun time together that night, so do let me know if you would like me to share more. Or perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Nude-in-Public or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from September by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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