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Pour Me Again … April #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Hair Care Issue

Having to stay indoors for the past month or so (apart from the occasional afternoon-exercise stroll), has meant not being able to have my regular hair appointments.


And when one is used to one’s normal style, it can be frustrating when things become a little “untidy” so-to-speak.


But I know some of you may actually like “hair” over “bare” . . . 
so for my second bonus Pour Me A Glass Members video for this month, I thought I would let you choose which look you most prefer.


You can message me to let me know, or leave a comment if you prefer, and I will then decide how much of a rush I will be in to book a salon appointment when that becomes possible

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy all of this month’s new clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Glass of Red #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Glass of Red Wine

“I don’t normally drink red … but it rather suits my mood at the moment!”

“And . . . I don’t often get the opportunity to just sit, and take the weight off.
So I’m just going to make the most of it!!!”

“How long before you can stand-up? … When I’m ready for a re-fill of course!”

“And, in the meantime, I shall browse through this weekend’s
Sinful Sunday posts, by sipping on the lips below.”

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More … April #PMAGW

Modesty Morning Fun Part 1

One of the few upsides of having to work-from-home, is having a little more time in the mornings before having to “leave” for work.


But of course, I like to put that extra free time to productive, and motivational, good use . . . 


So my first bonus Pour Me A Glass Members video for this month, is a good example of that. After-all, one must keep in practice, and stimulate both mind and body . . . don’t you feel?

So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy all of this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Twist #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Twist 1

“Fads may come and fads may go . . . for some!”

Mistress Modesty Twisted 2

“But I have always felt that Twisting is such fun!”

Mistress Modesty Twisted 3

And I’m so looking forward to when we can all . . . “twist again . . .
just like we did last year!”

Visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday for more fun reminiscences,
by gently twisting the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Grapes to Wine #sinfulsunday

If music be the food of love . . . then surely wine must be the drink?

Well it is for me, and sometimes I get carried away, and just can’t get enough.
Enough wine silly . . . I know what you’re thinking!!!


And whilst this attempt at making my own didn’t quite go to plan, I did
make sure it didn’t go to waste!!!

The theme for this weekend’s Sinful Sunday is “Food and Drink” and you can lap-up much more by sipping the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – April 2020 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members April 2020

Hello Everyone – It’s a difficult and horrid time for all of us at the moment isn’t it. For everyone, all around the world, with this terrible virus and uncertainty and the heartbreak of losing family and loved ones.


I did think that I perhaps I shouldn’t be posting my Pour Me A Glass Newsletter at all for this month during such difficult times.


But then I looked back at all the lovely emails I’ve received over the past few weeks and they reminded me how important it is to love and focus on things that we would normally enjoy and share with one another whenever it’s possible.


So . . . I’ve decided to carry on and post Part Four of my lovely fun evening with Lover No.19 as my first members video of the month, and as you will see, it is even noisier than Parts 1 – 3 !!!


There is still more from this wonderful evening,  so . . . as I asked you last month . . . do let me know if you would like to view yet more. Or would you perhaps prefer a change of subject for next month?


Now . . . half way through the month I also asked you all to vote for one of two different options for the subject matter for what should have been a third mid-month video.
 With everything going on in the last two weeks I never got to post that video. But I thought I would use the subject which received the most votes as the theme for this months Photo Gallery.
 It’s a fetish that I don’t mention at all here on Modesty Ablaze . . . it’s not that I’m ashamed of it, but I know it can be quite a divisive subject. But we all have a vice or two don’t we? . . . well I probably have lots and lots . . . but I hope you won’t think lesser of me for admitting it. (Although
 obviously lots of you must like the idea of it at least – because you voted for it!) 
So anyway, they’ve never seen the light of day here on my blog before . . . so I hope you will enjoy them . . . and do let me know your own suggestions for next months Photo Gallery !!!


So my most popular posts during the month were:

A Modest Ice Lolly

A Modest Ice-Lolly – my first Sinful Sunday of the month when I was longing for some warm sunshine . . . and I remembered the lovely Ice-lollies and succulent Watermelons from my summer holidays.
>>> Read more >>>


Modest Curves

Whilst for my Modest Curves at Wicked Wednesday, I remembered some warmth of a totally different kind . . . though still sharing some lovely succulent moments !!! >>> Read more >>>


A Modest Self Vibing Massage

I introduced A Self Vibing Massage my newest #realworldsex film at Make Love Not Porn halfway through the month. It was also from last summer when I asked Hubby to have his video camera close to hand every day and evening of our holiday. I’m so glad I did – and I hope you will be as well !!!
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze & The Retreat

May More’s theme of “Fiction” at her Book Matters meme last week . . . gave me the opportunity to recommend three of my favourite Erotic Fiction authors . . . in my Modesty Recommends post. My holiday reading just wouldn’t be complete without the latest books from Kay Jaybee, K.D. Grace and Tabitha Rayne and I really do recommend you follow the links from the post for some of the most imaginative . . . and arousing . . . erotica you are ever likely to read.
>>> Read more >>>


8-inch Dong

For my final post of the month, I was excited to tell you all about the Cloud 9 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit that I received for review several weeks ago. With all my favourite sessioning chambers currently closed due to the virus lock-down, I have been unable to properly road-test the 8-inch Dong as “fully” as I would like to, so do keep checking back to my review for future updates and new thoughts!!!. >>> Read more>>>


So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again … March #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze giving passionate kisses

I always ask if you have any “special requests” for my Pour Me A Glass Of Wine Members posts and I’ve received several messages recently asking for more of my “passionate kisses” posts.

Well I think that my first bonus video for this month, will fulfill those requests perfectly because it features some very special, very loving, kisses indeed . . . with a very climatic ending. I hope you will enjoy as much as we did.

So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Ice-Lolly #sinfulsunday

One of the many fun things I’ve learnt from the past eight years of setting my Modesty Ablaze here, is the wonderfully diverse range of sinfully
fun activities and experiences, that so many of us enjoy.


And over the course of those eight years . . . as I’m sure you can imagine . . .
I’ve had lots and lots of “requests” to share my own photos and videos of all sorts of kinky fun and quirky desires.


Such as . . . sucking on ice-lollies for example !!!

For lots more sinfully kinky fun . . . and quirky desires . . . just tap
the Sinful Sunday lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – March 2020 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter March 2020

Goodness me, it’s March already . . . so it’s time for a brand-new Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter . . . and a look back at some my “social” fun . . . and blog postings here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com . . . over the past four weeks.

Having received so many lovely comments about the January and February exclusive videos of “Wet & Noisy with Lover 19 – Parts One and Two”,
I have just uploaded Part Three !!!

I mean . . . after all your lovely requests . . . I could hardly not include it as my main film for March, now could I ? And yes, there is much more video from this amazing evening, so if you are not getting too bored with all my loud moans and gasps . . . then do let me know if you would like to see Part Four !!!

Now Sally messaged during the month, about how much she enjoys seeing some of the outfits I wear for my Mistressing sessions. So I thought that for my Members Photo Gallery this month, I would add some photos from a fun session last weekend, at my favourite London Chambers.

So I hope you will enjoy both this month’s exclusive main video . . . and the photo-gallery . . . and do keep checking back at my pages here for updates of more exclusive content during the month.

And don’t forget, do let me know your own suggestions for next months Video(s) and Photo Gallery . . . and I will do my best to oblige !!!!!!


Modesty Ablaze Sinfully Spent

Now, I know I’ve been saying it in every issue lately but the past four weeks seem to have been my busiest, socially speaking . . . for a long, long time.
So, once again, it’s been difficult finding the time to keep my blog-postings here up-to-date as much as I would like. Particularly for my Sinful Sundays . . . and you could probably tell from my Modestly Spent post on the last Sunday of the month just how much I enjoyed being able to sit down for a few moments rest .
>>> Read more >>>


The Food For Thought theme of Love Letters, earlier in the month, gave me a chance to reminisce and think back to years and years ago, how Hubby used to refer to the scribbled notes in my personal diaries, as being like letters of “love and lust” as we first embarked on our newly discovered choice of lifestyle-fun.
And it was those, excitedly scribbled-out entries, that eventually turned into my Modesty Ablaze Diaries. >>> Read more >>>


Couples

Which leads nicely into the Couples That Play Together Stay Together posting that I hosted early in the month. Sex therapist and sex blogger Angela Watson listed a number of simple, and sensible, ways in the post about keeping relationships exciting and active. Something which, of course, I believe we should all try to do as often as possible !!! >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Hyacinths

I’m always being asked to keep-up with my Boobday postings (I’m not sure why you all like them so much!), but I’m happy to say that I did manage two this month. The first of which appropriately featured some Hyacinths, whilst my last post of the month was taken with a new Flogger I recently discovered at my favourite chambers. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Caught On A Swing Two

You all know just how much I enjoy having my #RealWorldSex videos on Cindy Gallops MakeLoveNotPorn website. And my newest video there, Caught On A Swing which I uploaded just last week, is a perfect example of how things sometimes don’t go quite to plan in the RealWorld. Especially during some RealWorldSex fun. But, even if it didn’t end quite as I’d hoped it would . . . it was still lots and lots of fun . . . which I hope you will still enjoy. >>> Read more>>>


So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More … February #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze A Banana A Day

As I mentioned in my earlier February-update two weeks ago, this month is a short . . . and extremely busy one. Mostly fun-busy lol!!!

But I’ve had so many lovely messages . . . and special requests, for more Pour Me A Glass Members Updates . . . that I just had to make the time to add another new clip today!

So, “A Holiday Banana-A-Day” is especially for Knightsky who requested more of my “fruity holiday fun”  . . . which I hope you will enjoy as much as I did!!!

And, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy all of this month’s new clips
and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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