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Modest Hopeful Horizons #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Hopeful Horizons

Every morning I rise . . . thinking, wishing and hoping . . . for this view.
And praying for new, safe, more peaceful horizons!!!

In the meantime though . . . I shall just brush the Sinful Sunday lips below
. . . for more hopeful and fun distractions.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Intense #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Intensely orgasmic

It’s not often I’m lost for words . . . but apparently I was at this particular moment . . . and I love remembering why!!!

It’s prompt weekend at Sinful Sunday . . . and the prompt is “something beginning with the letter i” . . . and I’m sure there will be lots and lots more “intense” moments to be enjoyed by tapping the lovely lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – June 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass Newsletter June

Well, I don’t know about you, but being on Lock-down has made it hard to know exactly what day it is lately.


But it is actually the beginning of June and that means it’s time for my Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter and review of my past 4 weeks here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com.

I’d like to start by welcoming all my new subscribers, and to say “thank you”, for all of your feedback from last month … and for lots … and lots … of suggestions for this months posts.


And those suggestions have been pretty much a 50 / 50 split … with some requests for more videos with some of my lovers … OR … for clips from one of my Dungeon Sessions. 


So I thought I’d make this months first video, one that features a bit of both of those things … from a fun evening some years ago … in one of my favourite dungeons. 


Beginning with a wonderful orgasm, pausing for a short popcorn break, before continuing with some rather unusual rope-work … and another convulsing climax … you’ll just have to watch, it to see exactly what I mean by “unusual” and “convulsing”.

And I thought I’d continue the dungeon theme for this month’s Photo Gallery … but from a much more recent session … and a completely different scenario and completely different co-participant. (Oh, and one of my most popular, and regularly requested, outfits!!!
)

So … I hope you all will enjoy these photos … and the video … and do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see in July !!!


So some of my most popular posts during May were:

I had two new #realworldsex videos at my Make Love Not Porn profile during May. The first was69 Modest Oral Moments to celebrate my 69th video on Make Love Not Porn … 69 being my favourite number of course !!! And then, at the end of the month, I published my 70th video thereToe-Nails Submission and Appreciationwhich re-called more sexy holiday fun from last summer. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Holidays

I was also reminded of “Summer” when the prompt for Food For Thought in the middle of the month, was all about “Holidays” … so I added a 69-picture, Photo Gallery of some of my own favourite holiday moments on myModest Holidaysposting.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze huge Strap-On Dildo

For my first Sinful Sunday of the month … Modestly Packed… I featured a, rather large, strap-on dildo I’d been sent for review by a new American sex-toy company called “Cloud 9” … whom I recommend you check-out as they actually have a Sale on selected items at the moment. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Plugged

And speaking of “toys” … I’d discovered something on one of my afternoon strolls, which looked … at first glance … rather like a large butt-plug. See for yourself atModestly Pluggedand let me know what you think? >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Shutters 1982

If you’ve been following my blog pages here for a while, you will know about my Polaroids Past pages … where I occasionally re-pose and re-create some of my Polaroid photos from more than 30 years ago. So my last post of the month was Modestly Shuttered where I re-posed a photo from way back in 1982. >>> Read more>>>


So, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full. And do let me know your thoughts on this month’s Exclusive new clips and photos . . . from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by messaging directly to my email address if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again … May #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Morning Fun - Pt3

There were lots of requests for more of our “Morning Fun” playtime as featured in my previous Pour Me A Glass Members page posts earlier in the month.


So for my second May update, this is “Part Three” of our morning lie-in that Monday in early April.

Unfortunately we haven’t had any similar late-starts to the day since then, as the novelty aspect of working from home, seems to have lapsed somewhat!


But I hope you will enjoy this bonus video . . . and still be enjoying my Metallic Choker Necklace Photo-Gallery as well.

I still haven’t decided on a theme for my June Videos and Photos though . . . so do let me know your suggestions, and requests, soon because the end of the month is now only a week away!

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy all of this month’s new clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Modestly Bare #sinfulsunday

Modestly Bare at the Cliffs

I don’t think I’ve ever had so many emails immediately following one of my posts, as I have over the past two days since my “Holidays” post for Food For Thought . . . all asking about the “wheres and whens”. And asking for more!

And, of course, I always like to say “yes” whenever I’m asked for “more”!

So this photo is from summer 2015, during a long walk around the foot of the cliffs near our apartment on the island.

There are sure to be much more recent photos from the other participants at this week’s Sinful Sunday posts, to be viewed by clicking on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.s. – I already have a post for the Cliff category at my Scavenger Hunt pages, but as that was at the top of a cliff, and this was at the bottom, I shall add this photo to my Exposé Vŭ pages.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modest Cane Shoes #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Cane Shoes

I’m so, so looking forward to being able to lace these up again!!!

But in the meantime I’m sure I will get some relief at this week’s Sinful Sunday posts, from tapping on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More … May #PMAGW

Morning Fun Part 2 with Subby1

My first mid-month update for May is especially for J, who asked to know what happened next with Subby1 during our “Morning Fun” playtime in April.


As I said at the time, it’s always fun to have a little stimulation . . . and motivation . . . before having to settle down into the more routine requirements of a normal working day. (Though Subby1 may not have felt quite so motivated afterwards as I did!!!)

So I hope you will enjoy this new video as much as I enjoyed it at the time!


And, as an additional bonus for you all, I thought I’d add a new Photo-Gallery to the Members Page as well . . . showing off a rather lovely Metallic Choker Necklace that a nice gentleman gifted me from my Brighten Up My Day Wishlist. He has already seen these photos of course, but the necklace is so lovely that I thought I would share it here with you all.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy all of this month’s new clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Modestly Plugged #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 1

“Look at this” I said to Hubby, during our afternoon stroll yesterday.
“It’s like a giant Butt Plug isn’t it”.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 2

“It’s quite warm from the sun” I said as I sat astride it. Warm and quite
smooth actually.”


Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 3

“Ooh . . . one could get quite worked-up riding it” I teased him.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 4


“I know we can’t stay all day!” I said as he started to get nervous about other walkers approaching along the path.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 5

“It would be rather fun to have something like this in our back garden though,
don’t you think?” I teased him further.

Modesty Ablaze Butt Plug 6

“Yes, yes, I’m coming” I said as he insisted he was going to walk on without me. “Or, at least . . . I’d like to be!!!”

Anyway, I’m sure there will lots of other fun distractions at this week’s
Sinful Sunday, to be enjoyed by pulling at the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.s. I would really like to add our discovery to my Scavenger Hunt collection
. . . but I can’t think of an appropriate category???
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!

There are lots of my previous Scavenger Hunt discoveries at my
Listings page . . . where there are now well over 120 different locations.
Most of which are on my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Hunt pages

Xxx – K

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Modestly Packed #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix Strap-on

“It’s been photo-shopped!” SlaveJR replied almost instantly to my text and picture attachment.

“It hasn’t actually” I texted back “and you did ask ‘How can I best serve you when this is all over Mistress’ didn’t you?”


“Yes, but you must have had it super-imposed! It can’t really be that big can it?” he responded.


“It’s completely un-edited” I texted back, “and … it’s a pre-requisite if you’re serious about booking the first session once play-time is resumed.”

“Let me know” I quickly texted again, “because there’s lots of others lining-up
if you’re not able!!!”

Whilst I’m awaiting his reply … and for my favourite Chambers to re-open …
I will be keeping myself busy by browsing this week’s Sinful Sunday posts,
by tapping on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – May 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass Members May 2020

I hope you’ve all been coping and managing ok with having to stay indoors for the most part of every day . . . though judging by the emails and suggestions I’ve been receiving these past few weeks, I know that a lot of you have been spending quite a bit of time watching my Members videos here at my Pour Me A Glass Members page.


It’s always nice receiving those emails . . . and very flattering to read your comments . . . so even though I’ve not been able to get out and enjoy some of my normal “hobbies” this month . . . I have enjoyed knowing that so many of you have been enjoying my videos here, but also at my Fans pages and Clips-site as well.  So thank you so much for that. 


Now, for this months first video . . . well . . . I’ve had so many of you ask to see the “climax” of my wildly passionate fun with Lover 19 . . . that I just had to post Part 5 of that totally engulfing and exhausting evening !!!


But following my Hair Issues video just last Monday, I’ve also had requests for more of these “personal, candid” type of clips . . . 
so I will try to add some of those for my mid-month updates in the coming weeks.


This months Photo Gallery is especially for Steven . . . one of my very first Pour Me A Glass Members . . . and who also follows me at my Make Love Not Porn profile. His lovely comments about my videos there, inspired me to put together some photo moments from some of those meetings.

Oh, and by the way Steven, I’ll be publishing a special post here on my blog next week, about my next Make Love Not Porn video . . . so do look out 
for that.


But, in the meantime, I hope you all will enjoy these photos . . . and do let me know your own suggestions for next months Photo Gallery !!!


So some of my most popular posts during the month were:

Modesty Ablaze Grapes To Wine

I started the month with another fun memory of our holiday last summer with “Modest Grapes to Wine” a short video clip at Sinful Sunday, combining two of my favourite things … holidays and wine!!! >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Blue Gloves

Now I know I’ve mentioned before that I am regularly asked for more Boobday Friday posts … so I was happy to oblige near the end of the month with my “Modest Gloves” posting !!

>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Locked in

I’m sure the thing we will most remember about 2020 is the Global Lockdown which is still going on due to the Covid-19 Pandemic. And “Lockdown” was the theme at both Wicked Wednesday and Food For Thought during the month. So in my post for that week, I remembered back to quite a few “lockdown” scenarios that I’ve been involved in over the past few years!!! >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Cleaning Up

And in my Kink Of The Week post of “Cleaning-up” … I emphasised how important it is to clean-up after one-self … following lock-down release.


>>> Read more >>>


The Modesty Ablaze Diaries Unboxed

My final post of the month, was “My Cougar Moment” at Wicked Wednesday for which Marie asked for … and I quote: “posts about those older women with younger lovers, the women informally called cougars” … which had me remembering one of my own “cougar moments” and including an extract from my Modesty Ablaze Diaries Ebook of the same name. >>> Read more>>>


So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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