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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – September 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter September 202

Yes my Pour Me A Glass Newsletter is rather late this month.


But if you are one of my Pour Me A Glass Members you will know from an email you should have received in mid-August, that I was going to be away on my favourite island vacation until the second week of September.

And … in fact … I actually recorded the accompanying Audio (see below) for this post whilst sat on my holiday balcony enjoying a lovely glass of rosé, (of course), on the last day of what was a truly magical break away from the hustle and bustle of London.


But the good news is that although this September posting is late, I do have lots and lots of photo and video fun to share over the coming weeks and months.
 And I hope you will enjoy viewing them as much as I enjoyed filming them.


But my first exclusive members video for the month is Part Two of my “Making Love on the Telephone” clip … which I simply had to post after receiving so many lovely emails asking for “more”.


Now, when I was recording the audio for this post on my balcony, I said that I hadn’t yet decided on the photos for September’s picture Gallery. I did say that I might include some first-view photos from our holiday … or instead use some different photos from my archives.

In the end I decided to go for the latter option as Hubby pointed out that August’s picture gallery had featured some naked-on-the-beach photos from last year’s holiday, so he suggested it would be better to have some content of a different nature. And, besides which, he hadn’t had the time to sort through the hundreds of new photos from this years trip (but don’t worry, I am insisting he just gets on with that and files them all promptly !!!)


As I have been away, and without wifi, for the best part of the month, I am not including a review of my most popular posts during August (as I simply haven’t had the time since my return to check). However you will be able to scroll through the “Recent Posts” list from the side-bar to the right and catch-up on any that you may have missed.


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Grecian Stairs No.8 … #sinfulsunday

A few months ago it seemed that, for the first time in eight years, I woudn’t be climbing my favourite Grecian stairs this summer.

And even when Hubby suddenly exclaimed “they’re open … I’ve booked … pack your flip-flops … we’re going!” I was a little unsure.

But I’m so glad we went. They were so, so happy to welcome us back and … as you can probably tell … I was so, so happy to be back.

And it was simply the loveliest, most wonderful, best time ever !!!

For lots of other wonderful and fun times just “tap” the lips below at this week’s Sinful Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – It’s become a tradition for me to climb these stairs to my favourite restaurant here for the past eight years, and I hope to be able to keep adding each visit to my Exposé Vŭ pages for many years to come.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Proudly Non-Monochromatic … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Monochromatic

Sometimes a picture is worth a thousand words !!!

Make of it what-you-will … but lest there be any mis-understanding of my intention … one’s right to one’s sexuality, love and lifestyle should be
the holiest commandment of all.

Believers or non … respect, rejoice and celebrate this Sunday below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Groyned … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 1

“No that’s groin … it’s a different spelling completely!” Hubby said rather impatiently. “These are Groynes. They’re here to stop the waves washing
the beach away.”
“I know the sort of groin you’re thinking of !!!” he said as I walked down
a little further towards the water.

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 2

“Well there’s no sand here to wash away anyway” I complained. “I don’t like stoney beaches.”
“And it’s too windy as well” I went on. “Just imagine being up there on the Pier. One would probably be blown over the side”.

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 3

“I know it’s not like our normal summer beach” he said. “But you said you fancied some seaside fun so you will just have to make-do won’t you.
Come on I’ll give you a leg-up to climb over it.”

Modesty Ablaze Groynes 4

“I’d much rather be climbing over my sort of groin!” I told him.
“I’m sure it would be much more comfortable to sit down upon!”

For more climbing and groining at this week’s Sinful Sunday,
just “tap” the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

As uncomfortable as my groyning was, I can at least add “Groynes” as a location to my Scavenger Hunt collection.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Lighthouse … #sinfulsunday

A Modest Lighthouse 1

“It’s not very big is it” Hubby said as we reached the end of the path on the hill.

A Modest Lighthouse 2

“Well size isn’t everything!” I replied. “I thought you of all people
would know that!”

“It can be seen for 4 nautical miles” he continued, “and it is still
a working light.” he read from his guidebook.

A Modest Lighthouse 3

“Oooh … you know me, I do love anything nautical” I told him.

“Apparently” he continued, “there used to be a second light further
down the hill and when both lights were aligned the fishermen would
know the tide was high enough to bring their boats up on to the beach.”
“Let’s go round the back and see if there’s any further information inside”.

A Modest Lighthouse 4

“No it’s locked” I told him. “And anyway it’s all very well for you to want to continue exploring, but it’s rather windy and chilly up here for me.
Let’s go back down the hill for that glass of Savvy you promised me!”

I’m sure there will be lots more enlightening fun at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Just switch on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

I did, of course, claim my glass of wine (or two or three) back down in the town … and am also happy to claim “Lighthouse” for my Scavenger Hunt collection as well. Cheers !!!

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again August 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pussy Laid Bare Video Cover

Yes I am posting my second bonus Pour Me A Glass Members video a little earlier than normal this month.

But after myPour Me More posting last week, I received so many emails and DMs asking for an update on the waxing appointment that I’d talked about in that video, that I felt it was only fair that I should show you how it now looks just as soon as I could.

And, as often happens when I’m filming what is supposed to be a short “update” video, I got so carried away feeling my newly “Laid Bare” status that I just had to reach for my favourite wand. Just to relieve my tension you understand!

Well, I’m sure you’ll see what I mean when you push the Play button above!!!

So … if you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And once again thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full. I really do hope you will enjoy and have fun watching each of this month’s clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – I’ve been reading my monthly newsletter out aloud for over a year now and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so if you are still not tired of my voice, just click on the play arrow below.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Necessarium … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Latrine1

“It means ‘behind the dormitory’ … and it was the Latrine for the Monks to use”
I explained in my best tour-guide voice.

Modesty Ablaze Latrine2

“Of course it had drains! The gutter would have run down the middle here
… one would just have to crouch with feet either side!”

Modesty Ablaze Latrine3

“Yes, I’m sure they would have had to open their robes like this!” I said.
“They couldn’t have just ‘lifted them a bit’ … they’d get them all wet down the front and around the ankles, silly!!!”

There’s bound to be lots of other fun explorations at this week’s Sinful Sunday, just “tap” the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

As I already have Public Toilets” as a location at my Scavenger Hunt collection I thought I would add this, rather older discovery, to
my Exposé Vŭ pages instead.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More August 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Hair Issues Cover

During the past few months of lock-down, I’ve been posting a video-diary of my “Hair Dressing Issues” at my Fans and Pour Me A Glass Members pages. And as my lady-garden grew and grew, I asked for votes from you all on whether I should remain “Hair” … or “Bare” ???

Well, the majority of the messages I received was that “Bare” was the most popular preference, and I have to say that was my preference as well.

So this short video, filmed on the last day of July on the morning of my first waxing appointment since March, will be the last of my “Hair” postings.

But … if you ask me nicely … my next update will feature my newly “Laid Bare” status. And how I got rather carried away with my return to nude-and-smooth!!!

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And thank you once again for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full. I really do hope you will enjoy and have fun watching each of this month’s clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – I’ve been reading my monthly newsletter out aloud for over a year now and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so if you are still not tired of my voice, just click on the play arrow below.

Xxx – K

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Oh I Do Love To Be … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Beach Hut 1

Oh I do love to be beside the seaside … I do love to be beside the Sea !!!

Modesty Beach Hut 2

Even when it’s not my usual Seaside at this time of the year . . .

Modesty Ablaze Beach Hut 3

I decided I still just had to be … Beside The Sea !!!

To see what other Gleeful fun has been going-on this weekend, just tap the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

I did hear the gentleman above me on the promenade, commenting on the colourful “Beach Huts” below as he and his friend walked by, so I’m certainly happy to be able to add them to my Scavenger Hunt collection.

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – August 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Newsletter August 2020

Tomorrow we will be into August … and the beginning of the end of Summer … a summer which it seems like we’ve never actually had.


So for my members pages for August, I’m thinking back to glorious … real summer’s in the past …and some of the wonderful fun I had in those nicer, simpler, times.


And my first Members Video for the month is from a lovely surprise evening several summers ago with one of my very special friends.


In fact it was such a surprise that it was filmed on my phone … so it is rather jumpy and blurry at times … but I actually think that the grainy-ness adds to the “intimacy” and special “loving” nature of our fun.


But tell me what think … because there is more of our fun if you would like to view it.


And I thought I would continue the theme of … “summers past” … for this month’s Photo Gallery, with some never-seen-before … “naked-on-the-beach” photos from my holiday-fun archives.


So … I hope you all will enjoy these photos, and the video … because seeing them again, certainly brought back happy memories for me.


And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month Update Posts during August … because I do have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!


So some of my most read posts during July were:

The first Sinful Sunday prompt for July was all about finding or creating an image of one’s favourite movie.

Now I must confess that I haven’t actually watched Quentin’s film … I much prefer to make my own … so obviously I couldn’t say it is a favourite.

But so many of my followers have mentioned it to me over the years that, I just couldn’t resist re-creating the poster for Mister Tarantino’s My Name is Modesty

>>> Read more >>>


This July I celebrated Seven Years of sharing lots of #realworldsex movies at Cindy Gallop’s wonderful Make Love Not Porn. So it was fun to have three posts during the month featuring more of my Stand To Attention videos with Lover No.83. And even if my videos there are not to your taste, I’m sure you will find lots of others that are, so I urge you to follow the links from my Make Love Not Porn posts or from the Linky Tool in my side-bar. >>> Read more >>>


I also had fun joining Violet’s “Lingerie is for Everyone” meme for the first time during July with my Modest Lingerie and my Modesty Frilled posts. And if you have a thing for sexy-lingerie, and who doesn’t ??? you should definitely visit, and even join-in for yourself.
>>> Read more >>>


Now, I know I’ve mentioned before … that one of my most popular requests is for more “boobday” postings and although I only managed one of these during the month with my Cane Boobs it was one of my most read. And I will definitely try to find the time for more “boobdays” during August!
>>> Read more >>>


And, as I started this Modcast talking about memories … the Wicked Wednesday and 4Thoughts prompts halfway through the month, had me reminiscing again … about my own
 sexual-awakening and adventures with my Modestly Gazing post looking back even long before Modesty Ablaze was born. >>> Read more>>>


So … once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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