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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – December 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Modcast December 2020

Hello and Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast for December.


I’ve been reading out my Monthly Newsletter as an Audio Cast, for almost 18 months now …. so I want to start by saying a huge “thank you” to all of you for supporting me here on my Members pages for so long. I really do appreciate all of your support and especially reading your lovely comments and emails during the month. I’m often surprised by all the little details, or observations you pick-up on from my monthly videos, and even some of the gallery photos.


I really to enjoy reading them, and of course it inspires me to find similar fun and sexy things from my “not so modest” archives.


One of my mid-month videos in November was from my last Mistressing Session, just before I went off for my summer holidays in August. 
And I received so many comments and emails asking for more from that session featuring my Sissy Submissives rather impressive dangly bits, that I thought for this month’s feature video I would share just what happened next, as I strapped-on my equally impressive dildo.


Some of you may find the nature of my aggressive language, and forceful actions in this video, rather disappointing and off-putting. But it was all just part of the humiliation and submissive role-play that this gentleman had specifically requested … and it was all just part of the fun and enjoyment we both had during his session.

But do let me know if you’d rather see something completely different for the next Members video … OR perhaps … that you’d like to see how the session carried on !!!

For my Members Photo Gallery this month I thought I would combine some of my “Nude In A Public place” exhibitionist type photos with my own fantasy of the sort of dungeon scenario I would really love to session in. I think you’ll see what I mean … and the sort of dungeon-space I’d love to have access to … when you see the photos.


Now I always enjoy looking back at what were my most popular posts over the past month, and I’m sometimes quite surprised at what ones were read the most.


Modestly Garnished at Boobday Friday

But my Boobday Friday posts are always among the most popular … and still the ones I keep being asked for more of.
 So I’m happy to say I managed to post one for every Friday of November … and will certainly try to do the same for this month. 
You can view all my recent Boobday postings from the link on my “Gallery List” … with all the little bullet-points … in the right-hand sidebar on my blog! >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze introduces "Holiday Playtime Part 2"

My Make Love Not Porn posts are always popular too … and I posted another of my funHoliday Playtime videos mid-way through the month.
 There are … of course … lots more videos from my summer holidays to share and I hope to have several of those posted over the coming weeks. >>> Read more >>>


A Modest Causeway Revisited

As you’ll probably expect … I also have lots of photos from my summer holidays to share. Some of them feature locations I’ve visited on a previous vacation. But I always have fun on myExposé VŭScavenger Hunt re-visits … and my Sinful Sunday A Modest Causeway was one of them. >>> Read more >>>


Mistress Modesty The London Dominatrix

And speaking of Sinful Sunday … it was the 500th edition of Molly’s wonderful photo-sharing meme during the month … and I just couldn’t resist joining-in with my Five Hundred Strokes posting.
>>> Read more >>>


A Modest Trust at Wicked Wednesday

And … along with Sinful Sunday … Marie Rebelle’s “Wicked Wednesday” is the other longest-running meme I always enjoy visiting … and … often join-in with. So I did have some fun memories with myA Modest Trustposting there halfway through the month! >>> Read more>>>


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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In a Modest Light #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Backlit with Fan

Be sure to visit this week’s Sinful Sunday for much more enlightening photos and images, by clicking on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again – Nov. 2020 #PMAGW

Nipple Weights for Subby Boy Cover

My second mid-month PMAGW update for November, is especially for Freda who emailed shortly after my Pour Me More posting earlier in the month to remind me that I hadn’t posted any of my Femdom fun for sometime!

So, “Nipple Weights & Dick Slaps for Subby Boy” is especially for her, but I hope you will all enjoy it too. I know I … and Subby Boy of course … certainly enjoyed our pinching and pulling, and slapping, fun.

So let me know your thoughts, or if you have any special requests of your own, from the comments box below or by emailing me directly if you prefer. I haven’t yet decided on the content for my next Pour Me A Glass Members update … and I have lots, and lots, in my archives … so you just never know!


And thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Causeway Revisited #sinfulsunday

Modest Causeway 2020 1

“Well at least it’s not quite as scorching hot as the last time you made me walk all the way across!” I said to Hubby as we neared the halfway point.

Modest Causeway 2020 2

“And it’s not so busy with other walkers either.” he replied.

Modest Causeway 2020 3

“Well that’s probably because it’s so bloody windy!” I said.

Modest Causeway 2020 4

“But do hurry up please … I can hear some other people coming now and you stand-out like a sore-thumb with that camera!” I hissed.

Modest Causeway 2020 5

“I know they may have cameras too … but they’re just taking photos of the view … and they never seem to take such a long, LONG time like you do !!!”

For many more Sinful views this Sunday, just snap
the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – As we had already visited this particular Causeway, at my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages before, I thought I would add this particular
Sunday-stroll to my Exposé Vŭ memories.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modesty Just Landed #sinfulsunday

Modesty Just Landed Sinful Sunday 1

I was so happy … after all the disappointments and cancellations … to finally arrive at our summer holiday apartment, that I simply had to …

Modesty Ablaze Just Landed Sinful 2

… just throw off all my clothes and savour that first wonderful moment on our lovely balcony.

Even before the unpacking … even before that first glass of wine … so you can tell just how desperate I was !!!

To unpack this week’s Sinful Sunday just kiss the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – Nov. 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Shower Cleaning Slave Cover

I started my Pour Me A Glass Members Page here several years ago, as a special space for my most regular and long-standing followers. A space where I could share exclusive first-view videos and photos of recent fun times … or content that was perhaps “too candid”, or not “appropriate”, for my other spaces on the web.

And I mentioned in my early PMAG postings, that I would welcome suggestions for the type of content and photos that members would most like to see.

Well … I was very quickly overwhelmed with requests for all sorts of “custom-content” … a lot of which has been lots of fun for me to fulfill in my PMAGOW Members postings since.

Some of your requests have, of course, not really been my-sort-of-thing … but I am always thrilled with how respectful and understanding you have all been to my responses and replies.

So … this month’s first update definitely falls into the “too candid” category … but is one of the most-often requested themes, particularly since my Holiday Relief Compilation video at the beginning of October. It seems that so many of you like the sound of running water lol!!!

But do let me know your thoughts on this particular video, and if you would like to see more, from the comments box below … and you just never know!


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Five Hundred Strokes #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty The London Dominatrix

I discovered Sinful Sunday shortly after setting my alter-ego ablaze, for the first time on-line, early in 2012. But, of course, I was far too shy to join-in back then … until my first Sinful posting in February 2013. But I quickly became addicted and haven’t missed very many Sundays since.

Because it’s been such a lovely stepping-stone for me to discover and explore so many wonderfully exciting and powerful images … and so many wonderful and inspirational people.

So huge kisses and congratulations Molly … to have reached 500 weeks of Sinful Sunday and to have touched and inspired so many people over all those years … is an amazing achievement.

And it is something for which Molly should be rightfully proud … and we should all be gratefully thankful.

So let’s celebrate, and pray (and play) for 500 Hundred MORE,
by kissing the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – November 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze PMAG November 2020

Hello everyone, welcome to my Pour Me A Glass Newsletter for November.

It’s probably quite obvious from the title of my Newsletters here, and from the content of lots of my postings here at Modesty Ablaze, that I’m rather partial to a glass of wine … or three .. or four!!!

But I do try to manage my wine-intake responsibly … and to counter it’s impact … by exercising as regularly as I can. And, no I don’t mean just the sort of exercising that you may think from my usual videos here.

I mean regular walking and running … and resistance training with my weights and bands … which I even take away on holiday with me.

So, for my first Members Video for November … and as a complete change from my usual “Themes” here … I thought I would share some of my morning “Squats and Stretches” routine from my Holiday Balcony.

I should warn you though that, even early in the morning, it was uncomfortably hot and sticky … so I had to do all my exercising completely naked. I’m sure you won’t mind though will you?

Last month’s Photo Gallery of some new photos taken during one of my Mistressing weekends away, was very popular with lots of you asking for more. So this month’s Gallery has more photos from that session. I really enjoyed myself in such lovely surroundings … so I hope you will enjoy these new photos, which haven’t been shared anywhere else just yet.

And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month update posts in the coming weeks … because I have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!archives !!!



So … some of my most read posts during October were:

Modesty Ablaze introduces A Modest Workout

Now, I submitted two more videos to my favourite on-line streaming site during October. By favourite, I mean of course, Cindy Gallop’s fabulous Make Love Not Porn. The first wasA Modest Workoutfeaturing some exhausting … and passionate … fun with one of my “fittest” Lovers from last year. And then just last week I uploaded the first of my Play-Time videos from this summer, Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Me-Time, and you can probably tell from the rather long title, just what that video features!
>>> Read more >>>


Twice Barred with SheLover

I’m always receiving requests for more “Boobday Friday” posts, so I was delighted to be able to post FOUR “Boobdays” during October. Red Tassles, Bougainvillea, Modestly Fanning and finally, Twice Barred which had some two-for-one fun with my lovely friend SheLover.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze applying lipstick

One of my most viewed posts during the month wasn’t of my boobs though … it was actually of my lips, when I explained about my Lipstick Techniques for a Wicked Wednesday posting early in the month.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty reading from Modesty Unmasked Ebook

Now as I’ve mentioned before, I don’t actually like hearing the sound of my own voice. But I continue reading my newsletters here each month because so many of you keep asking me to do so. And I’ve also had lots of requests to add some audio-readings from my Ebooks. So my A Friday Quickie with Deeposting, features a few minutes of me reading from a chapter of my “Modesty Unmasked” diary of a few years ago. There is more from that recording … so if you ask me nicely, I may upload it some time during November.!
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze sitting on the Pier topless

I’m sure you all know how much I enjoy my Exposé Vŭ Scavenger Hunt photo-outings … and I had such a lot of fun … and thrills … posing for my Sinful Sunday Modest Re-Appearance photos on the Pier, that I am really happy that it was one of my “most-viewed” posts of the month !!! >>> Read more>>>


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Cooling Draught #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Draught1

“I hope you’re listening out for when the waiter returns” Hubby said as I poured another glass of still water and shifted in my chair, searching for even the slightest of cooling draughts from the street.

Modesty Ablaze Draught 2

“I’m relying on you for that” I replied. “After all, you’re the one whose sitting closest to the kitchen.”
“And anyway, I shall just charm him and tell him his omelette was just as lovely as the one I had here last year!” I giggled.

“And … I shall ask him if he still does that lovely Fruity Delight for afters … you know how much I love my afters!!!

To see what other fruity delights are being served this Sinful Sunday,
just lick the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – As I already have Breakfast Dining, as a location for my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages, I thought I would add this particular
meal to my Exposé Vŭ memories.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again – Oct. 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Telephone Lover Part Five

So many of you have been begging me for more of my Telephone Lover fun since my Making Love On The Telephone – Pt Four update earlier in the month … 
So yes, yes, yes … I’m delighted to add Part 5 The Climax of that truly wonderful evening.

Watching it again myself, brought back so many thrilling memories … especially to have Hubby connecting in such a lovely way, and of course the lovely necklace I received at the end.


And although this is the “climax” of this particular moment, there is much more to share … so perhaps, if you continue to ask me nicely, more moments could be added for future members posts.

I will also keep the links to my previous Members videos active on the page for longer than is normally possible, so that several of you who have recently joined as new Pour Me A Glass Members, may enjoy some back-browsing!


Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Back Cover

As I mentioned in my Septembers newsletter, lots of you have been asking for more audio readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries E-books, so I’m happy to say that whilst sitting on my holiday balcony one afternoon enjoying some afternoon shade … and of course a chilled glass of wine … I recorded a short reading from one of the Chapters from Modesty Unmasked. Do let me know if you enjoy listening to it and I will add more in future updates.


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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