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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – January 2021 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Modcast January 2021

Hello and Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast for January … my first Members Newsletter for 2021.


And, of course, I’d like to begin by wishing you all a Happy New Year and best wishes for the months ahead. I know we’ll all be hoping for some good news after such a difficult 2020.

So let’s hope for health and happiness for everyone, and some fun times in which we can all let our hair down and begin to enjoy ourselves, socially, once again.

Now for my last Members Mid-Month Update in December, 
I asked you all for the sort of Video and Photo Content you would most like me to upload for January. 
And lots of you requested more from my FemDom Mistressing Sessions !!!


Well the months and months of lock-down we were under in London, meant that unfortunately I had very few opportunities for fun Dungeon Sessioning.


But, as you may have gathered if you have been one of Pour Me A Glass Members for some time, I do have quite an archive of Films and Pictures from lots of my fun times over the past ten years or more. Some of which has actually never been published anywhere else before.


And for my first Members video of the year I’m delighted to upload Part Two of my “Sissy Whores Strap-On Ass Fucking” after so many of you asked to see how that particular session had ended. 
And carrying on with my FemDom Mistressing theme, my Members Photo Gallery for January is also from my Dungeon Archives, with a compilation of different photos from different sessions … and from several different chambers across the capital.


So … looking back at my most popular posts over the past month …


Modestly sunburnt boobies

I was able to continue with my weekly Boobday Friday posts … choosing several from my Summer holidays, with various stages of sun-burn across my boobies. Often quite embarrassing for me to look at, but I did get lots of messages offering to rub some after-sun lotion on them !!! >>> Read more >>>


Modest Work Out Pt2

I always receive lots of lovely feedback, and lots of questions too, whenever I upload a new video to my Make Love Not Porn pages. And Modest Workout Part 2was no exception. And yes there is more to come from that amazing evening … possibly in the “cumming” weeks. >>> Read more >>>


Mistress Modesty smoothing subs spanked ass

Now one of my favourite Memes is the wonderful Marie Rebelle’s Wicked Wednesday, which I always look forward to checking out every Wednesday, even if I don’t manage to contribute every week. But one of the prompts early in the month was “After Care” which is always an important part of my Mistressing sessions that I was talking about earlier. So I was delighted to be able to add myAfter Glowposting to that week’s interesting collection. >>> Read more >>>


Modestly Waiting for the Water Taxi

And another Meme I always enjoy visiting is Sinful Sunday … and it was a lot of fun remembering some of my fun times from our wonderful summer holiday.
Including queuing for the Water-Taxi after one of our long walks around the cliffs and beaches near our apartments. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Cover

And, finally, one of the questions I am most often asked is when will I be publishing the next edition of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries?
 Well, I’m hoping that “Part 8 – Modesty Unleashed” will be published early in the year. And to celebrate that fact, all my previous SEVEN diaries, PLUS my “Modesty Unboxed” compilation edition, is now on sale from my Gumroads page for just $2 each. There is more information about that from my post just before Christmas, or from my NEW Diaries social feed @ModestyDiary on Twitter >>> Read more>>>


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modestly Stretched #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Stretches out at Sinful Sunday

Morning exercise can be difficult to motivate oneself for … especially if the evening before has been especially taxing!
But I do think it’s important to at least try to make the effort!

And there will lots more, effortless, stretching I’m sure, at this weekend’s Silhouette prompt at Sinful Sunday. Just push downwards on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Last – December #PMAGW

Silly Naked Lilo Fun Cover

No not my LAST-ever Pour Me A Glass Members update silly. I mean just my last update for 2020 !!!


At this time of the year I think we all do a bit of looking back at fun and eventful times we’ve had during the year don’t we? Well, I certainly do anyway.

And for me the absolute highlight of 2020 was being able to actually still get away for two magical weeks on my favourite island. So I thought I’d share some of the silly … naked … fun I had on my Lilo.

Once again this video falls into the more “candid” category of my Members postings, but I hope you will still be able to enjoy … and giggle along with me.

But as always, I know that you will let me know your thoughts anyway on whether or not you may prefer more of my #femdom, #me-time, or #swinging style of videos for my next updates.


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

And to the several new members who have joined over the past few weeks I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Sinfully Red Xmas #sinfulsunday

A Sinfully Red Mistress Modesty Xmas 1

Yes … I did insist Hubby remove his rather hasty graffiti after my Boobday posting on Christmas Day. It was rather enjoyable actually … for both of us!!!

And now, with all the hustle-and-bustle of the big day over and done with, Boxing Day is a day for just relaxing and lounging in one’s comfies, isn’t it?

Sinfully Red Mistress Modesty 2

But … of course … one has to be ready for even just the slightest indiscretion!!!

I am sure there will lots more Sinful indiscretions to view this weekend
by slapping gently on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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The Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife … all to download at just $2 each for Xmas from Gumroads

I’m delighted to say that “Modesty Ablaze Unleashed” … Part 8 of my “Personal Diaries of a London Hotwife” series … will be published early in the New Year.

It follows on from “Modesty Ablaze Unmasked”, (see below), featuring extracts from my diaries of what Hubby refers to as my “nymphatic period”, with lots of new adventures and directions that were both surprising and wonderfully fulfilling fun … for all !!!

So to celebrate … and as a special treat for Christmas week … all of the previous editions of my diaries are available from my Gumroads Ebook profile as downloadable PDF files for just $2 US (or £1.48 sterling). The PDFs are fully printable, and readable on Kindle and Ebook-readers.

Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Part 7 Cover

I will be posting some Free-2-read excerpts of “Modesty Ablaze Unleashed” here closer to the release date in the New Year … but in the meantime you can listen to audio-readings of part of “A Quickie with Dee” from “Modesty Unmasked” from the links below.

Enjoy … and let me know if you’d like me to post more audio excerpts … from any edition of my diaries … in the future.

The excerpts below were originally recorded for my Pour Me A Glass Members pages … but are now also available to listen to at my Soundcloud profile or my “Modesty Speaks” pages >here<.



Xxx – K

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A Modest Taxi-rank #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze waiting for the Water Taxi 1

“Perhaps it’s not running this year” I said to Hubby, as we waited …
patiently at the bottom of the steps.
“Well the timetable was definitely still on the wall as we came down” he replied.

Modesty Ablaze waiting for the Water Taxi 2

“Well you’d better be right” I said. “The sun is beginning to go down and I don’t fancy walking all the way back around the rocks in the dark!!!”

He was right of course, as several other people eventually joined us in the queue, and we thankfully heard the sound of the Water Taxi coming round into the bay.

For lots more sights and sounds this Sinful Sunday,
just dial the lips below.

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

I don’t think Taxi-rank, or Water Taxi, is actually a category at #naughtyscavengerhunt … or even if these would qualify if there was … so perhaps I shall have to wait until I can hail a London Cab instead. Though I do prefer to travel by Tube or Bus whenever I can.

Xxx – K

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“A Quickie with Dee” Audio excerpt from “Modesty Unmasked”

Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Book alternative Cover

Originally recorded for my Pour Me A Glass Members page, for one of my longest standing members Sally, who requested that I read an excerpt from one particular chapter, “A Quickie Evening with D” from my “Modesty Unmasked” – Part 7 of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries” ebooks.

This audio was recorded whilst sat on the balcony of my holiday apartment, enjoying a glass of wine (or two), so you will have to excuse the occasional sipping-pauses.


Now, I don’t like hearing the sound of my own voice, but as Sally asked so nicely this is especially for her …

___________________________

“D called me as I was on my way into work on Friday morning. His daughter was going away that afternoon to stay overnight with friends, so he wanted me to “pop-round for drinks?” I told him that we were also going to be without children for most of the evening and that J had already said how nice it would be to have the house to ourselves for a few hours again, so I had to say “no, but they’ll all be back off to uni in a fortnight”.

He sounded disappointed and said he didn’t think he could wait that long . . . I paused, expecting him to suggest booking a room for next week instead, but he didn’t . . .


I texted J when I got into work, “turned-down another offer for tonight so you’d better pamper me. Nice wine, how about a nice meal out somewhere?”.

I heard nothing more during the day and with everything going on in the office had completely forgotten about it. Then late in the afternoon J called on my direct line. He’d just picked-up my text (never hears his mobile!) and wanted to know who my offer was from and, then, why I hadn’t said yes. Re-iterating my text, and reminding him he’d told me this morning that it would be nice to have some time to ourselves again, I told him “I’d much rather spend it with you!” He said he thought it would be more fun if I went round to D’s . . . and then, (to make it worse), said he may be working a bit late anyway! I swore at him “are you joking?” He replied “you know how I like you having sessions with one of your men”.

I wasn’t feigning my annoyance, I WAS annoyed! . . . and he could tell, so started changing his tone. “All right, I’ll get away as quickly as I can. I’ll call you”.


I texted D “is your offer of tonight still open?”. His reply came straight back. “Of course”.

I was feeling really naughty now. If J thought it was ‘more fun’ for me to ‘have a session’ then I would jolly-well have one . . . because I could!


At five o’clock I texted J “You can work late. I’m having a ‘session’ at D’s, still expecting a nice bottle of wine though!” This time his text came back quite quickly . . . wishing me a good time and that he’d get the wine. He didn’t use that exact wording, but the thought of someone at Orange intercepting his texts just made me tingle more.


D met me at his station, and asked if I’d like to eat “first”. I laughed at his nervousness when I repeated back to him, “first???”

We stopped at his local Ask. As he went off to the washroom I thought about quickly texting J to say I was getting my meal out after-all, but D returned to the table before I’d had the time to decide whether that was being just too naughty.

We enjoyed a nice pasta and caught-up on each others Christmas stories and family get-togethers.


Once we arrived at his house I asked if he’d mind if I showered “first”? We both laughed as he raised his eyebrows and repeated “first?” back to me.

I was glad of being able to quickly undress from my office clothes (and rather unflattering underwear) as he first went off to find a clean towel for me, and then “pour the wine”.

I had, through the frosted glass of the shower door, seen him moving around in the bathroom, and was half expecting him to open the door and step-in to join me or something. But as I finished it became apparent that he wasn’t in the room. I opened the door and picked-up the neatly folded towel from where he’d left it on the mat. As I dried myself I called out “where are you?” thinking that perhaps he was waiting in the bedroom, but I heard him answer back from downstairs.

I wrapped the towel around me and walked back downstairs. He was just coming out of the kitchen with a glass of wine. “I thought you might have joined me” I teased as I took the wine and accepted his first kiss. I could tell by his rather sheepish look that he suddenly realised the missed opportunity as he replied “I showered before I came out”.


But as we stood in the hallway embracing, I could tell he was getting his confidence back. I could feel it through his trousers rubbing up against my leg!

As we kissed more he ran his hands up under the towel and over the cheeks of my bottom, the towel fell open and dropped to the floor. I had both arms around his neck, holding the glass in one hand and rubbing at the back of his shirt with the other.

He pulled one of his hands away from my bottom and round to my tummy and down between my legs …


If you would like to continue reading this for yourself, there is more information on “Modesty Unmasked” … and all of my “Modesty Ablaze – Diaries of a London Hotwife” … at my E-books page >here<.

Or you can listen to my reading this excerpt from my holiday balcony from the screen below …

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again – December #PMAGW

Another Modesty Ablaze Holiday Shower 1

My first mid-month Pour Me A Glass Members update for December is especially for all of you who have been asking for more of my “shower” videos.


I was actually quite surprised to receive so many requests for more after my Shower Cleaning video from last month. But as I’ve mentioned here on my Members Pages previously, I always try to fulfill as many personal requests as I can (assuming they are respectful and something that I enjoy as well).

Once again this video falls into the more “candid” category of my Members postings, but I think you will be able to tell how much I enjoy myself … I love the sound of running-water too !!!


But do let me know if you would instead prefer more of my #femdom, #me-time, #swinging or #NudeInPublic style of videos for my next updates … I’m sure I will be able to oblige as I have years and years worth of videos and photos in my Modest Archives !!!


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over 18 months now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modest Scents #sinfulsunday

Modest Scents 1 at Sinful Sunday

It’s not just the sun, sea and sand that I so enjoy about my favourite island.

Modest Scents 2 at Sinful Sunday

It’s the beautiful scents, sights and colours wherever one may go … even away from the beach … that make this my favourite summer sanctuary!!!

To discover more favourite sights and colours this Sinful Sunday,
just smell the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Jiggling #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Insertion 1

“Yes … as you’re asking … I have got longer. Much, much longer!!!”

Mistress Modesty Insertion 2

“But I haven’t fully inserted this one yet. I’ve only just begun … so let’s see how you feel about it once I really start jiggling shall we !!!”

For lots more fun beginnings … and endings … this Sinful Sunday, just push on the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Ps: I know that if you are one of my Pour Me A Glass Members you will have already seen this image from my latest Members Video upload. But as this week’s theme-prompt at Sinful Sunday was “something beginning with J”, I just couldn’t resist using it again here as well.

Xxx – K

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