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A Modest Iced Coffee #BoobDay 227

Modesty Ablaze Iced Coffee Boobday

Is it ever too early for wine? Well yes, sometimes … even for me!

So in the hot morning sun on the beach, I make do with a coffee to start the day … iced of course!

And perfect for a Boobday Friday post don’t you think?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Shameless #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix

This week’s prompt at Wicked Wednesday is “Shameless Promotion” … so, of course, I just couldn’t resist … because, as I’ve mentioned before, Marie’s wonderful meme was one of the prime motivators in me beginning my online journey here as Modesty Ablaze.

And finding a place that gave me weekly editions of a wide range of erotic stories was inspirational in my deciding to share excerpts from the “home” diaries that I’d compiled over the years.

The surprising response I received from those first “words only” blog-posts, motivated me further to “cut-and-paste” selected entries from my diaries into the first “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” with “Part 1 – The Journey” Ebook which I published at Amazon.

I was quite astonished to quickly begin receiving lots of messages asking for more. So, in the years since, I have uploaded a further five diary compilations to my Amazon Kindle collection, and … as downloadable PDFs … to my Gumroad page, where I have also added several more shorter “chapter” excerpts.

And, as the sharing of more of my different, and expanding, “hobbies” on my blog pages here grew and grew … I started to receive an increasing amount of requests for much more “personal” items than just excerpts from my diaries.

Hence … my own Used Clothing range, and mini-blog, at: mistresseslace.com Used Toys, Perfume and Accessories at my Mistress Modesty’s Fun Store Poster prints and PDFs at my Etsy page … and lots (over 270 now) of fun videos at Clips4Sale … or fulfilling exclusive video or photo requests and personalised messages at my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members page.

Or of course at my AVN Fans page where for a very “modest” subscription you can enjoy FREE-2-View access of my daily Video and Photo updates.

But wherever or however you may find me, I hope you will enjoy my indulgences … and always leave with a smile and feeling happier than when you first arrived.

Discover more Shameless Promotion at this week’s Wicked Wednesday by tapping the button below!

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me More – September 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Lavender Lover Part 4 Cover

Super Fan Sally has been following me here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com for as long as I can remember, and was certainly one of the very first Subscribers when I launched my Pour Me A Glass Members page over three years ago now.

And she has been messaging me quite a lot (LOL !!!) over the past few months about how much she has been enjoying my “Lavender Lover” videos. I think she has a thing for him … as I certainly do as well.

So my first Members Update for September is especially for Sally, and carries on with more from my wonderful evening with Lavender Lover, and his amazing tongue and fingers.

There is still more video content from our fun time together that night, so do let me know if you would like me to share more. Or perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Nude-in-Public or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from September by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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Modestly Wrecked #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 1

We’ve been driving past this Wreckers Yard on our holidays for years now. But Hubby would never stop because it’s on such a busy road, and there were always lots of mechaniccy gentlemen …

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 2

opening and closing things … and probing and pulling things apart … as mechaniccy gentlemen always seem to enjoy doing!

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 3

But on one of the day’s this year, it just happened to be a public holiday … and there didn’t appear to be any mechaniccy gentlemen about.

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 4

So … I convinced Hubby to turn around and drive back … so that we could take a closer look.

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 5

After all … I think there’s often something quite interesting, and worth closer investigation, when things are …

Modesty Ablaze Wreckers Yard 6

… stripped back to the bare-essentials. Wouldn’t you agree???

And I’m sure there will be more bare-essentials on display at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Let’s tap the lips below to investigate shall we!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

P.S. – I shall have to ask Bee at the Naughty Scavenger Hunt page if Wrecker’s Yard might qualify as category. But, if not I will add it to my Exposé Vŭ memories below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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A Modest Flax #BoobDay 226

Modesty Ablaze Flax Boobday Friday

Sometimes … after a heavy storm overnight … one will occasionally encounter flax flotsam on our morning swim!

But they are actually quite fun to play with in the water … and make for a nice Boobday Friday decoration!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Cooled #BoobDay 225

Modesty Ablaze Iced at Boobday Friday

It really was so hot on our holiday … even out of the sun … that I needed frequent extra pampering and cooling!

But these Ice Packs have proved to be a useful Boobday Friday accessory don’t you think?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – September 2021 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members Bath September 2021

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for September 2021 … with a round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.


As you may have gathered from some of my most recent posts … I was incredibly lucky to have been able to get away to my favourite Grecian Island once again this summer.

And, because of the last minute rush to organise and pack … the few clothes and essentials that I needed … I wasn’t able to record a Modcast for August.

But … the good news for you all, is that I was able to record lots of fun videos and photos … which I will be sharing on my blog pages … AND Members pages … in the coming weeks and months.

However, lots of you messaged whilst I was away … to say that you really, really, wanted to see more of my wonderful evening with “Lavender Lover” which I’d featured as my main Members Video in July.

So … as the juicy-ness and smacking … had continued on from where I’d left you all in suspense … I’m happy to post “Part Three” from that amazing evening as my first video for September. And I think you will be able to tell just how much I was enjoying receiving all of his wonderful attention!!!

For this month’s Members Photo Gallery though … I thought I would give you a first glimpse of some summer beach and balcony photos from my holiday. And I certainly hope you will enjoy viewing them as much as I enjoyed posing for them …

… because as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them. 


Now … although I was away for the first three weeks of the month … I had got Hubby to pre-schedule some August posts … just so you wouldn’t think I’d disappeared completely! So … looking back at those posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com …


Wilderness at Wicked Wednesday

My first post for August was remembering
some fun exercises in my local
woodland for my Wilderness
posting at Wicked Wednesday.


>>> Read more >>>


My first Sinful Sunday post of the month celebrated howHappy I was to be able to enjoy some fun sessions again in my favourite Dungeon during July.
And there will be some future videos to share from those sessions in the near future.

>>> Read more >>>


Silence at Wicked Wednesday

But I was able to post a photo
from one of those sessions for the
Silencetheme at Wicked Wednesday
in the second week of August.

Shhh now !!!

>>> Read more >>>


Mistress Modesty Sinfully Riding

The photos for mySinful Ridingpost for that weekends Sinful Sunday … were some fun memories from my archives though, which I hadn’t used before.
And … as I’m sure you can imagine … I do have thousands of photos and videos in my archives … which it’s often fun to return to whenever the mood takes me. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Boob

But my overwhelming mood at the moment, is one of lots of joyful memories from my holiday … which I hinted at on my return for myNo Words To Describepost at Sinful Sunday. And I’m hoping to be able to share lots more of those memories on my blog here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com in the months to come. >>> Read more>>>


But … in the meantime … thank you once again for spoiling me here and helping to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Re-fit #BoobDay 224

Boobday Refit 3172

Sometimes one just has to work through ones wardrobe … and re-try outfits on to see if they still fit … before sending Hubby off with them to the charity shop!

But not before a Boobday Friday photo or two … or three … or more!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Short Audio Reading from my “London Hotwife Diaries” #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze "Not Looking Forward to Being Back" cover

As I’ve mentioned before, I don’t like hearing the sound of my own voice. But I do receive lots of requests for more audio-readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze London Hotwife Diaries.

So, as being away on holiday allowed for more relaxed opportunities … and more “free” time on the beach or balcony … I managed to record several short extracts from my Diaries on this summer’s vacation.

And as “Not Looking Forward To Being Back” has a sort-of holiday theme, I thought it would be quite appropriate to share at this week’s Wicked Wednesday theme of “Diary”. It is from Further Adventures Part 6 of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries.

Just to clarify for those of you who may not be familiar with the “pen names” and “initials” I’ve allocated to all of my lovers featured in my diaries, “J” is actually “Hubby”. And “V” was a lovely young gentleman whom was on secondment here from the Paris office for a wonderful 18 months in 2008 (yes that long ago!!!).

This is just a short reading … for a much longer, and more professionally read extract from another of my Diaries, I recommend listening to the wonderful Zak Jane Keir reading earlier this year. But if you would like to hear more from this summer’s break, just let me know and I will pluck up the courage (and close my ears) and upload more.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to “Not Looking Forward to Being Back” by clicking the “Play” arrow from the screen below . . .


For lots more Diary extracts and stories, visit the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday meme by tapping on the rainbow button below!

Wicked Wednesday Rainbow Button

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again – August 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members update August 2021

I had been intending to upload an August Newsletter Post direct from my holiday apartment. But we were having such fun … and the time just flew by … that I didn’t manage to achieve that goal.

BUT, But, but … we did manage to make lots and lots of fun (and silly) videos and photographs over the course of our almost three weeks of sun, sand and naughty fun. So many in fact that Hubby tells me it is probably going to take him months and months to sort through them all. I shall, of course, be frequently reminding him of his duties and obligations!!!

In the meantime though, this short clip is from our first day on the beach and I’ve told him just to “get it out there exactly as it is”.

There are many more Exclusive Members Videos to follow over the coming months … but do let me know if you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging/Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and several new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – My Audio-Modcast will return again in the first few days of September . . . but if you wish, you can listen to my July “Modcast” again from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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