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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – November 2021 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass Newsletter November 2021

Hello everyone and welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast and Newsletter for November 2021 … my monthly round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.

Now,  before I tell you about my new Members content for this month, I just wanted to mention that you can now also find me on Medium dot com.

For those of you who are not familiar with Medium, it is a huge website … primarily for authors and writers … that I was told about by Marie Rebelle and May More.

Now I am not a writer … my Ebooks are just auto-biographical excerpts from my personal diaries over the years. But Marie and May both write wonderfully exciting and entertaining erotic stories … and both post regularly there and I soon found I was returning to browse their Medium pages more and more.

So much so that I thought I would post a few pages there from my diaries occasionally as well. I highly recommend you visit and sign-up for Medium because I am sure you will enjoy browsing the vast library of erotica there.

So … my first Members video of the month is Part Two of my feature video from last month, “Ass Lover POV”.

It follows on directly from where I paused Part One and features my favourite Ridged Titanium Dildo … exploring all sorts of “private” fun places.

I’ve made a late change for my new Photo Gallery this month, because when I recorded my Modcast yesterday, I’d planned to feature some more exclusive first-view photos from my summer holidays. But … last night I received a lovely email from new member Craig who asked if there were any “still life” photos from my “Hotel Me-Time” video he’d seen on one of my Clips sites. So, as a special treat for his flattery and lovely words, I’ve included some in this month’s first Photo Gallery. (My summer holiday photos will be added later).

So I hope you will all enjoy these first updates for the month … and do send me some requests of your own as well … because … as I always say … the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send in your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them. 


Modesty Ablaze Uplifted

Now … as I mentioned in my “Modestly Uplifted” post last Friday, my Boobday Fridays continue to be amongst my most popular and I was able to post another five during the month including …
“Modestly Rocked”, “Modestly Unzipped”, “Modestly Texting” and “Modestly Sheer”. “Uplifted” was my 233rd Boobday and I hope to be able to keep posting for as long as you all ask me to. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze No Regrets

One of the Wicked Wednesday themes during the month wasNo Regretswhich allowed me to look back on the past three decades of fun which I have been lucky enough to enjoy … and hope that it has brought lots of enjoyment to lots of other people as well.
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Modest Lighthouse Revisited

MyLighthouse Revisited Sinful Sunday post early in the month also gave me the chance to look back on a lovely venue I enjoy visiting each year during my summer holidays … and fingers-crossed I will be able to visit again next summer too.

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Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap-On

And I was so thrilled that myTaking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On was so well received at my Make Love Not Porn profile during the month. I have over 90 videos at Make Love Not Porn now, but not very many of my “Mistressing themed” ones and I wasn’t sure if this video would be popular there. But … I have already received lots of messages asking for more … So … there will be a Part Two to follow soon.
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So thank you all once again, for continuing to support me here at my Pour Me A Glass pages … I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Ice Cream? #sinfulsunday

Modest Ice Cream 1

“Yes I know it’s nearly November … but surely they can’t be closed … it’s been quite mild today, and I just fancy one!”

Modest Ice Cream 2

“I mean it’s always nice to end ones afternoon stroll with a cooling, creamy, lick”.

Modest Ice Cream 3

“And look … they do doubles … you know I always enjoy doubles!”

Modest Ice Cream 4

“And I think they’re missing a trick because look, the car park’s still quite full”.

To see how others have been spending their afternoons this weekend at Sinful Sunday just lick the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Even though I’ve missed out on my afternoon licking, I’m hoping I may still be able to add “Ice Cream Van” to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages.

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap On"

You may recall that last year I published a series of Stand To Attention videos … on my Make Love Not Porn profile … that I’d filmed with Lover 83 at my favourite London Dungeon.

Well those videos certainly generated quite a lot of interest in my “Mistressing hobby” … as I’ve been regularly receiving emails and messages on my social sites ever since, asking for more similar-themed videos from those chambers.

So … as my Femdom Sessions are always based around Role Play and Sensual Teasing Fun … and, as many of the most recent emails I’ve received have been asking if I do any “Pegging or Strap-On” sessions … I thought it would be fun to addTaking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On to my collection here.

It features my favourite Strap-On Submissive, whom as well as being a lovely play-partner who simply loves receiving, also has a very impressive appendage of his own … which I absolutely love playing with!

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Part 1

Now you may find some of my language rather unbecoming of a “mature lady” such as myself … but as I said, this session is just as much about Role Play and Fun Teasing as it is about my Strap-On-ing … so my language and humiliation-teasing is exactly how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On  is my 91st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Five

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – October 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Mistress Modesty Cheeky Peek Cocktails 2021

As I’ve mentioned on my Members pages before, I enjoy sharing lots of my “candid” #exhibitionist moments. Photos and videos with no filters, no re-touching, no pretences, no “breathy, over-acted voices”, no “creative editing”. Just the REAL ME having fun and being just who I am … with all the lumps and bumps of the “mature” lady I am.

And my first mid-month Members update for October, is one such short video from my holiday in the summer.

New member Stewart requested “more flashing, exhibitionist” videos, whilst another new member JPS asked if I had any “vaping clips”.

So I think Cheeky Peek Cocktails will fit the bill on both counts. (By the way, the blurring at several points is completely intentional so as to mask the identity of innocent passers-by).

But if neither of those kinks is to your taste, then perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered**.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from October by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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No Modest Regrets #wickedwednesday

Modest No Regrets Wicked Wednesday

We all have regrets don’t we. Things we wish we’d done and didn’t … or things we did and wish we hadn’t … or at least had done differently.

But what I have learnt during my Modest hobbies over the past three decades is not to regret ones adventures, but rather, to learn from them and let the experience(s) shape future situations and choices.

And to try to see the positives in every experience, and with every individual we meet along the way.


This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Regrets” … just click the button below for more thoughts and reflections!

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – October 2021 #PMAGW

Hello my lovelies and welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast and Newsletter for October 2021 … my monthly round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.

Now I’m thrilled to say that September was a record month for new Subscribers to my Members page here … so this month’s first feature video AND this month’s photo gallery … are to fulfill “special request suggestions” from two of those new Members.

So … my first video of the month is for Nigel who has messaged me some very flattering comments about my bottom, and how he would like to see “more close-ups” of it. So I’m hoping that “Ass Lover – Part One”, which is a custom video I filmed some months ago for a gentleman who also has a thing for my bottom, will be to Nigel’s liking … and all of you bottom lovers too of course.

And my Photo Gallery is especially for Charli who is very intrigued about my Mistress Modesty Strap-On sessions with my Dungeon Submissives. She has been asking all sorts of questions about sizes … and angles … and positions. So I’m sure that these photos will provide some visuals to the answers I’ve given in our email exchanges over the past two weeks.

So I hope you will all enjoy these first updates for the month … and do send me some requests of your own as well … because, as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send in your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them. 


Now … speaking of my Dungeon Sessions, September was a very busy month with more session applications than I could possibly fulfill … obviously lots of slaves desperate to make up for all the lost opportunities during the pandemic.


Boobday Flax

But I still managed to post another four Boobday Friday posts during the month with Modestly Cooled, A Modest Flax, A Modest Iced Coffee and Modest Boobday Bagels. All of them taken during my summer holiday in August.


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Modestly Wrecked Sinful Sunday

And my holiday snaps also featured in two of my Sinful Sunday posts … Waterwheel Revisited was from a return visit to a lovely bar and restaurant location on the island which we try to return to each year. And Modestly Wrecked was a brand new location which we’d never managed before as it is sited right on a busy road into the main town. But we were lucky to manage a few short minutes between passing traffic, to capture a “Wreckers Yard” category for my Scavenger Hunt pages.
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Modest Vibrations

My Modest Vibrations posting for my first Sinful Sunday of the month, was back in my favourite Dungeon again for a Double Domme session for a very lucky gentleman seated in the medical chair where … as you can probably imagine, there was lots of humming and vibrating going on.

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Mistress Modesty

One of the weekly themes for Wicked Wednesday during September, was “Shameless Promotion” … so I couldn’t resist joining-in for my very indulgent Modestly Shameless post where I provided links to all of my “London Hotwife Diaries” as well as my “Used Clothing Store”, my Etsy Poster Print pages …. and of course my Clips profile at Clips4Sale and AVN Stars.
>>> Read more >>>


So I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Lighthouse Revisited #sinfulsunday

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 1

When I first visited this spot back in the summer of 2016 I was questioning Hubby’s assertions that this really was a Lighthouse!

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 2

It seemed more like a scenic lookout to me … with coachloads of visitors posing for photos between the pillars.

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 3

But despite it always being quite windy, it quickly became a favourite place that I love to return to each year!

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 4

And enjoy that cooling breeze blowing in from the water …

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 5

and to pause for a few moments and relax and take in the view before …

2021 Lighthouse Revisited 6

having to step aside and let the next visitors take pictures of their own!

This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is “something beginning with L”.
Click on the lips below to explore!

Sinful Sunday

I added my first visit in 2016 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but simply have to add this year’s to my other favourites at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Waterwheel Revisited #sinfulsunday

Modest Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - One

I first created my Exposé Vŭ pages back in 2017 because, as I mentioned then standing on my Special Stairs, there are just so many places on my favourite holiday island that I enjoy re-visiting again and again.

Modest Water Wheel 2021 - Two

Maybe for a morning coffee, an afternoon wine … or evening cocktail.

Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - Three

And this lovely, peaceful Waterwheel is one of those places. So it was simply wonderful to be able to return once again this summer!

For more fun images at this week’s Sinful Sunday kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – There are lots more of my Re-visited Adventures at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modesty at the Movies #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze introduces MakeLoveNotPorn

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.

In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.

So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.

But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!


First posted in December 2013 It’s Been A Marvellous Year

Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.


So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!

For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me Again – September 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Subby1s Holiday Tasks Cover

Whilst on our 3 week Summer 2021 Vacation I expected to have my every whim fulfilled and obeyed by Subby1. From pouring me ice cold beers on the beach, adjusting my sun umbrella and re-applying my sun tan lotion.

Then constantly topping up my wine glass when we got back to the apartment, giving me an after-sun full body massage and taking me out every evening for cocktails and a special meal.

And, of course, I instructed him to make sure he had his camera charged and ready at all times to keep a video diary of every fun moment … day and night … that I desired.

Which is good news for all you Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members, because that means I have lots and lots of candid … very candid in some cases … fun, silly and sexy videos to share.

Such as today’s new Members update Subby1’s Holiday Tasks which I hope you will all enjoy.

Or perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered**.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms,

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from September by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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