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Modest Exercise #KOTW and #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Exercise 1

“If you thought I’d lost my swing during lock-down, you’re in for a big surprise!” I told him as I began to warm to the task in hand.

Mistress Modesty Exercise 2

“It may be my first session back” I said as I began quickening my swings, “but I have been working-out every day to make sure I kept my strength up!”

Mistress Modesty Exercise 3

“And anyway, swiping bare asses like yours is like a sixth-sense to me!” I said
as I really began to enjoy the sounds … and sights … of the increasing
intensity of my flogging!

For more Exercising motivation and Sixth-Sense experiences simply swipe at the KOTW lips and Wicked Wednesday Rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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Modest Deportment #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Sissy Training 1

“We are going to begin by improving your deportment I told him.

“One can’t have ones Sub slouching and drooping their shoulders!

“Now, let’s have you walking down to the end of the room and back … with poise and grace!!! I said.

Mistress Modesty Sissy Training 2

“There will be five strokes for each attempt … until I’m completely satisfied you can accompany me to purchase that lovely outfit you’ve promised me!

As you might imagine, it was a rather long and painful afternoon before we set off on our shopping expedition!!!

To discover what sort of exercise everyone else has been getting up to this Wicked Wednesday … gently smack on the button below!

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – August 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Newsletter August 2020

Tomorrow we will be into August … and the beginning of the end of Summer … a summer which it seems like we’ve never actually had.


So for my members pages for August, I’m thinking back to glorious … real summer’s in the past …and some of the wonderful fun I had in those nicer, simpler, times.


And my first Members Video for the month is from a lovely surprise evening several summers ago with one of my very special friends.


In fact it was such a surprise that it was filmed on my phone … so it is rather jumpy and blurry at times … but I actually think that the grainy-ness adds to the “intimacy” and special “loving” nature of our fun.


But tell me what think … because there is more of our fun if you would like to view it.


And I thought I would continue the theme of … “summers past” … for this month’s Photo Gallery, with some never-seen-before … “naked-on-the-beach” photos from my holiday-fun archives.


So … I hope you all will enjoy these photos, and the video … because seeing them again, certainly brought back happy memories for me.


And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month Update Posts during August … because I do have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!


So some of my most read posts during July were:

The first Sinful Sunday prompt for July was all about finding or creating an image of one’s favourite movie.

Now I must confess that I haven’t actually watched Quentin’s film … I much prefer to make my own … so obviously I couldn’t say it is a favourite.

But so many of my followers have mentioned it to me over the years that, I just couldn’t resist re-creating the poster for Mister Tarantino’s My Name is Modesty

>>> Read more >>>


This July I celebrated Seven Years of sharing lots of #realworldsex movies at Cindy Gallop’s wonderful Make Love Not Porn. So it was fun to have three posts during the month featuring more of my Stand To Attention videos with Lover No.83. And even if my videos there are not to your taste, I’m sure you will find lots of others that are, so I urge you to follow the links from my Make Love Not Porn posts or from the Linky Tool in my side-bar. >>> Read more >>>


I also had fun joining Violet’s “Lingerie is for Everyone” meme for the first time during July with my Modest Lingerie and my Modesty Frilled posts. And if you have a thing for sexy-lingerie, and who doesn’t ??? you should definitely visit, and even join-in for yourself.
>>> Read more >>>


Now, I know I’ve mentioned before … that one of my most popular requests is for more “boobday” postings and although I only managed one of these during the month with my Cane Boobs it was one of my most read. And I will definitely try to find the time for more “boobdays” during August!
>>> Read more >>>


And, as I started this Modcast talking about memories … the Wicked Wednesday and 4Thoughts prompts halfway through the month, had me reminiscing again … about my own
 sexual-awakening and adventures with my Modestly Gazing post looking back even long before Modesty Ablaze was born. >>> Read more>>>


So … once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.4 – The Mounting” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Part 4

If you’ve viewed Parts 1, 2 and 3 of our passionate “Standing To Attention” fore-play fun … and I hope you have … then you will know that what had originally started-out as one of my “Mistressing Sessions” … quickly became much more of a sexually-charged playtime session as I became more and more aroused.


So-much-so that Part Three of our fun, ended with me telling my camera-man to … “fetch me a condom”
.

So Part Four begins with Lover 83 applying himself to that immediate task in hand whilst I reached for my favourite Lubricant … and no, I didn’t on this occasion mean wine!
 I’ve always loved lube, to help things slide easily into place, but as we ladies become more “mature”, it has become even more important than it used to be.


Anyway, as I climbed astride him and No.83 began quite literally rising to the task beneath me, we were both soon enjoying the ride !!!


“For a Sub just asking for a caning … you’ve not done too badly have you?”
I teased him … emphasizing that it’s not very often I become so worked-up during a session, that things turn out like they were now.

Modesty Ablaze Stand To Part 4 one

So, you’ll just have to rent this video from Make Love Not Porn, and join us in our riding and changing of positions … and bed-shaking exertions … to see for yourself, how much fun we were both having!!!

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 4” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

Standing To Attention – Part 4 – The Mounting  is my 74th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 4 – The Mounting with tags such as:

#afternoon #blissful #chatty #communicative #condomhot #frenzied #frombehind #giddyup #giggly #grinding #ilubeu #intense #inthedungeon #joyful #loud #morethemerrier #passionate #playful #polyamorous #ravenous #safersex #sensual #sony #spirited #succulent #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Gazing #4Thoughts_Fiction and #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Gazing

For as far back as I can remember, I’ve always enjoyed sex. Not just the physical act itself, but all the mystique, eroticism, taboo, danger and excitement that even the very mention of the word itself brings to mind.


My intrigue and questioning … and then joyous abandonment … as I discovered for myself, the senses of touch and emotion, and power and release, just intensified as my own experiences and relationships grew and evolved.


And so the current themes of both “Gaze” at 4 Thoughts and “Closed Doors” at Wicked Wednesday, immediately made me think back to those first adventures and just how much has changed practically … and yet in my mind’s eye, hasn’t really changed at all.


Long before Modesty Ablaze, I was enjoying the explorations and sexciting adventures that my curiosity … and my wonderful lifestyle … allowed me to indulge in.


And the discovery that I actually really enjoyed “the gaze” of watching … and being watched … fuelled the exhibitionist streak within me even more. Because in every other aspect of “normal life” I considered myself to be shy and lacking in self-confidence. And yet here in the taboo and secret shadowy world of sex and sinfulness, I was embracing the explosions of every gazing, exhibitionist, opportunity I could.


And of course Modesty Ablaze gave me the perfect platform to indulge that exhibitionism through my photos and videos. 


So … those questions at 4 Thoughts ???


1) At the most basic level, how do you feel about watching sex, or being watched whilst having sex?


2) Would being watched make any difference to what you did, or how you did it?


3) Is there a difference between intentional and accidental watching; for example, being invited to watch someone have sex versus accidentally viewing someone who was having sex outdoors?


4) If you are into sex outdoors, what part does both intentional and accidental viewing play in that? And similarly, what do you think are the ethics around having sex outdoors with regard to potential accidental viewing?


And … my answers???

1) Yes, I love both the watching and the being watched.


2) Other than the fact that just knowing that others could be watching always enhances the passion and desire, it wouldn’t make any difference to the what’s or how’s of the occasion, because that will always be determined by the person(s) involved and the exact situation and circumstance at that moment in time.


3) Actually YES … being invited, or in a situation where everyone present is aware of, and fully consents, to the presence of others watching, or potentially watching, will always be for me far more arousing and fulfilling. Because it is that consensual nature of the situation that makes it fun … and exciting.


4) I must admit that sex-in-the-outdoors is not one of my major kinks … I much prefer the comfort and potential for a relaxing recovery and re-charging, before carrying-on where one has just left off. That’s not to say that I haven’t indulged, because there has been several, spur-of-the-moment occasions … but they were never my most enjoyable. So whilst I acknowledge the thrill and intensity of one of those heat-of-the-moment situations, I would never purposefully try to expose passers-by to our fun. Because … in my view it is completely unethical to cause upset or offence to people who may not share the same views, or interests … and that is something I believe should be true in everything we do, not just in the context of sex.


Some people prefer to keep their sexual preferences and desires private, and behind closed doors, and I think we should always respect those views completely and without question.


For more thoughts on ‘Gaze’ at 4 Thoughts … and ‘Closed Doors’ at Wicked Wednesday … simply click on the buttons below!

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Xxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze “Seven Years of #realworldsex” @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Seven Years at Make Love Not Porn

It’s July 2020 and that means I’ve now been sharing my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn, for over SEVEN years !!!

Now, of course, I’ve been enjoying Real World Sex fun for a lot longer than seven years, a lot, lot longer … THIRTY-seven years actually. But I’d like to think that my Make Love Not Porn videos collection, in a certain way mirrors the changes and progressions, and different experiences, of those thirty-seven years of open, loving fun.

Starting out … Modestly and nervously … with my first video in 2013, “Modesty’s Toytime”
, and then slowly becoming more open and expressive and confident about sharing more of my different adventures … and different “friends” … and different “interests” … as the years have passed.

I’ve been very lucky that the lifestyle I share with Hubby has given us both the opportunity to meet, and make friends with, some truly lovely people over our thirty-seven years of fun experiences. And very lucky too, that some of the friends I’ve made through our swinging adventures … and more recently, from my Mistressing sessions … have loved joining us in our Make Love Not Porn videos as well.

I’m sure you’ll agree that one should never feel ashamed or embarrassed about one’s sexuality and desires, and we should all be able to fully express and celebrate those things that bring us joy and excitement.

But it takes a really special kind of person to be able to share those views so openly on film. And that’s why I say that I’ve been very lucky to have met so many 
lovely, like-minded people.

And that’s what makes being part of Make Love Not Porn such a fabulous and empowering feeling. Being amongst so many like-minded people celebrating their love … and their pride … and their chosen life-style experiences, in all the wonderful and different ways that makes life loving and truly fulfilling.

So thank you MLNP for the past seven years. I’m hoping that I’ll still be sharing, and still be uploading yet more #realworldsex videos for another seven years to come.

So … spread the love, spread the joy and spread the pride! Enjoy !!!

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Plus #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Cane Boobs #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Cane Boobs Boobday Friday

I receive lots of requests and posts suggestions of course … but one of the most frequent is for “more Boobday Friday posts please”.

So … as I’ve just begun flexing my cane again … this is
especially for those requesters. Enjoy !!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

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Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.3 – Face-Timing” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Attention Part 3

As I mentioned when I told you all about my last Real World Sex video at Make Love Not Porn … Stand To Attention Part 2 … there was lots more to come from my wonderful, intense, session with Lover Number 83 in my favourite London Chambers.


So I’m delighted to say that Part Three … of our “Standing To Attention” fun … has now gone live on my Make Love Not Porn Profile.
 And if you’ve viewed Part Two … and I hope you have … you will know that I had just laid back on the dungeon bed and instructed No.83 to use that lovely tongue of his to worship … and devour me !!!


And those wet, and very passionate, kisses of his soon had me … well both of us actually … wriggling and tingling with desire.

Lover 83 devouring Mistress Modesty's wet pussy

Now sometimes when I’m sessioning with one of my submissives … I may allow them some “face-sitting” body-worship moments. But on those occasions I am almost always fully clothed, and fully in control.


But here I was … so excited and aroused and carried away in the moment … that completely naked, I rolled No.83 over onto his back and sat astride him, riding myself up-and-down on his face in a completely different form of body-worship.

And leaning forward and steadying myself on No.83’s out-stretched legs … it was clear to see that he was, obviously, enjoying the fun just as much as I was.


Our succulent riding continued … with a changing and swapping of positions … until I just had to ask our camera-man to stop for a moment … and fetch me a condom.

“Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-timing” is my 73rd Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 3” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-Timing  is my 73rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-Timing with tags such as:

#afternoon / #bisexual / #blissful / #clitastic / #communicative / #flirty / #frenzied / #giggly / #grinding / #happy / #intense / #inthedungeon / #intimate / #joyful / #kinky / #littleo / #loving / #married / #passionate / #playful / #polyamorous / #ravenous / #roleplay / #seductive / #sensual / #sony / #yes!yes!yes! / #yummy!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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My Name is Modesty #sinfulsunday

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My name is Modesty … Mistress Modesty … Licensed to Thrill !!!
I will infiltrate your mind and … penetrate … your very soul.

This weekend’s Sinful Sunday prompt is to re-brand one’s favourite movie! Now I must confess that I haven’t actually watched Quentin’s film … I much prefer to make my own … so obviously I couldn’t say it is a favourite.

But so many of my followers have mentioned it to me over the years that,
I just couldn’t resist!

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Discover much more movie news and reviews this Sinful Sunday by pushing gently on the lips below.

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Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – July 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass July

I’m late, I’m late … I know I’m running very late … for my July Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter and review of the past few weeks at my blog pages here at Modesty Ablaze.

And one of the reasons I’m running behind with things, is that as the lock-down restrictions are being eased here in the UK, I’ve been receiving an avalanche of email enquiries and questions … especially over the past 2 weeks!!!

I am quite excited myself that some “fun” things appear to be opening-up again … and hopefully that “fun” will lead to new content on my pages here soon.

But in the meantime my first Members Video for July is especially for Jay who requested a “Strap-On” video from one of my Femdom adventures.

Now I must apologise in advance for some of the language I use in this video … quite unbecoming of a lady I know … but this gentleman’s specific kink, apart from my Strap-On of course, is to be shouted at and verbally abused. Well you know me, as long as it’s fun and completely consensual, I always try to oblige!!!

This month’s photo-gallery is also to fulfill a special request. It is for Vi who said she would really like to see a slide-show of some of my Holiday Me-time fun with one of my favourite toys … so I hope you will all enjoy this selection as well.

And do let me know your own suggestions, for photos and videos, you would like to see during August !!!


So some of my most enjoyed posts during June were:

“Modestly Intense” … my first Sinful Sunday post for the month, where I was remembering a very “Intense, Speechless Moment” from several years ago. >>> Read more >>>


And I was also remembering back to previous lovely times, for my second Sinful Sunday post of the month “Modest Hopeful Horizons” … And I was so flattered when the lovely Tabitha Rayne made it one of her top 5 pics of the week. Tabitha is one of my favourite erotic authors who I always enjoy reading on my holidays away. I really do recommend you check out her wonderful library of books on Amazon.
>>> Read more >>>


My “Modestly Multilingual” post early in the month was prompted by two fun themes of “Magic” and “Body Language” at Wicked Wednesday and Food 4 Thought respectively … and again brought back some lovely, magical memories.
>>> Read more >>>


I had two more Real World Sex videos published at my Make Love Not Porn profile during the month. Stand To Attention and Part Two – The Entrée were from a lovely afternoon shortly before lock-down. And if you enjoy these two videos, there is more still to come !!! >>> Read more >>>


I ended the month with my Modest Floggers contribution to the Kink of the Week theme of floggers … which I thoroughly recommend you visit if you would like to know more about the subject of Impact Play in Kink. >>> Read more>>>


So … once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here and helping me to top me up with a lovely glass of wine occasionally. Well, more than occasionally actually, but if you’re also raising a glass or two occasionally, do remember to drink responsibly won’t you! I wouldn’t want to be encouraging anyone to be behaving irresponsibly … in ANYTHING !!!

Anyway … I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery, and do let me know your thoughts, and suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.
I have lots and lots in my archives … and you never know … your suggestions may just appear on my Members Page soon !!!

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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