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Modestly Fanning #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze new Fan

Some people like to collect Stamps, or Butterflies, or China Tea-pots …  but
I like to collect … Fans.

Because, as well as keeping one cool, I think they look pretty, flirtatious, mysterious and …

Sexy … I hope that you will think so too???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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A Modest Pinky #wickedwednesday

“Now normally when I begin a session with a new submissive, and I wrap my Chastity Ribbon around such a tiny little pinky as yours, I expect it to stay on.”

“They usually get longer and thicker” I told him, “and leave marks as the straining gets tighter and tighter”.

“But you … I can’t even get to tie the bow before it unravels!” I said with angry frustration. “If it gets any smaller it will practically disappear won’t it!”

“Now get up and go and stand in the corner whilst I ponder whether there’s even any point in continuing!!!”

For much more impressive Pink-ness I’m sure, this Wicked Wednesday, tap the rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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Modestly Excited … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Topless Purple and SissyBoy

“No you may not !!! … I know you’re excited, but we have at least another hour yet, and I have a lot more in mind for you!”

“Perhaps if you’re a good girl … and if I feel that you really deserve it … then
we shall see”.

There is bound to be much more excitable fun at this week’s Sinful Sunday to be discovered from tapping the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Bougainvillea #Boobday Friday

A Modest Bougainvillea Boobday

Today’s Boobday Friday is especially for Sally who asked about “the lovely flowers” in my Modest Workout post earlier in the week.

And I think they are rather lovely … don’t you agree???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – Oct. 2020 #PMAGW

Making Love On The Telephone Part 4 Cover

Several of you have messaged over the past week or so mentioning that you were hoping that my main video for the month would have been a continuation of my lovely “Making Love On The Telephone” evening fun with my lover … instead of theHoliday Watersports video which I’d posted in response to a special request.

I also received messages saying how much that video was enjoyed by lots of you as well … and, as I always like to post fun clips of different requests if I can, that made me happy too.

But … good things come to those who wait … so I’m thrilled to now add “Part 4” of that wonderfully passionate fucking as my first mid-month update for October. And I’m so glad that so many of you have requested “more” as it was such a personal and loving evening … and yes there is still more to cum if you would like me to add more for later in the month. So do let me know !!!

I’m also delighted to welcome more new Pour Me A Glass Members who have joined over the past two weeks … so I will keep the links to my previous Members videos active on the page for longer than is normally possible, so that you may enjoy some back-browsing!


Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Back Cover

As I mentioned in my Septembers newsletter, lots of you have been asking for more audio readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries E-books, so I’m happy to say that whilst sitting on my holiday balcony one afternoon enjoying some afternoon shade … and of course a chilled glass of wine … I recorded a short reading from one of the Chapters from Modesty Unmasked. Do let me know if you enjoy listening to it and I will add more in future updates.


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Modest Workout – Part One” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces A Modest Workout

If you’ve watched some of my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn before, you will probably already know that I do love most forms of sexy fun and adventure. And they do say, don’t they, that having an intense sexy orgasm can be just like running a mini-marathon.

Well this lover in particular always gives me such a powerful, engulfing, exhausting time, that it’s rather like the most demanding physical workout one could possibly imagine.

And that is why I’ve called this, my latest film at Make Love Not Porn, “A Modest Workout”.


Perhaps I should have called it “A Modestly Exhausting Workout” . . . because after a lovely playful sucking and fingering start, you will see just what I mean as our fun quickly builds to an exhausting climax.

Modesty Ablaze with a massive mouthful of lovely cock.

But I wasn’t too exhausted … because after a short winding down, a refreshing glass of wine and a bit of a relaxing chat … we started all over again. But that will be for Part Two of our fun, exhausting, evening.

Now, as always, you can view my introduction to “A Modest Workout Part One” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

A Modest Workout Part One  is my 77th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Modest Workout Part One with tags such as:

#blissful #blowjob #clitastic #gushing #happy #hotelroom #ilubeu #intense #intimate #latenight #loud #messy #passionate #playful #polyamorous #ravenous #safersex #samsung #sony #spirited #succulent #wetime #yes!yes!yes! #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Red Tassles #Boobday Friday

Do you like these? … I do and I occasionally wear them when I go out clubbing.

Well, not just these, I normally wear my stockings and suspenders as well.

But they often don’t stay on very long … and you can probably imagine why,
can’t you???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modest Lipstick Lips #KOTW #wickedwednesday

Modest Lipstick Lips 1

I do think it’s just so important … to take good care of one’s lips!

After all, it’s probably one of the things that people will remember most
after a first meeting, don’t you think?

Modest Lipstick Lips 2

So I like to keep them smooth and moist … and yes occasionally add a touch of my favourite red lipstick to make them even more kissable … and memorable!!!

For more about Lips and Lipstick at this week’s Kink of the Week, just kiss the luscious red lips below.

Kink of the Week

And, as you can imagine, I always make sure to have my lipstick close to hand wherever my travels may take me. Which just happens to be this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday.

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – October 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass October 2020

Hello, everyone and welcome to my October Newsletter … already !!! The past few weeks in particular just seemed to have flown by.

For me that’s probably because after such a wonderful holiday away on my favourite idyllic island, I’ve been quickly brought back down to earth having to return to all the normal routines of home.

I know I was incredibly lucky to have been able to get away for a summer break when so many others have not been so fortunate. But I hope that some of the holiday photos and videos which I will be sharing here at my Pour Me A Glass Members Pages in the coming months, will at least put a smile on faces and bring a few moments of joy.

I would also like to welcome all of the new Pour Me A Glass Members who joined during August and September … I really do appreciate your support … and hope you will enjoy my pages here.

As I said, I will have some brand new “first-view” videos and photos posted here soon, but my first video for October is actually from two summers ago … and I am posting it to fulfill a “special request” from Jay who recently asked me about “showers”. Now he wasn’t meaning the sort of “Shower” which I added for you here two weeks ago. No, he was meaning “showers” of a completely different sort … I’m sure you know what-sort he means!

Anyway, I did email Jay some links and an explanation of why his exact request might not be appropriate here. But as he replied back so nicely … and because I always like to do my very best to fulfill my members special requests … I thought my “Holiday Relief Compilation” might give some relieving enjoyment for him as well. And, of course, for all of you who may similarly enjoy the sound of running water !!!


This month’s Photo Gallery is also to fulfill a special request … this time for DK who asked to see “more of your Mistress outfits”. These are new photos, unseen anywhere else just yet … so let me know if you would like me to add more from the same session.

And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month Update Posts in the coming weeks … because I do have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!



So … some of my most read posts during September were:

I’ve been so happy to get back to posting some regular “Boobday Friday” posts again.

I am still regularly asked for new postings of my … well … my boobies obviously. And it’s always flattering to have so many of you asking to keep seeing them … so … I managed three postings during the month.A Holiday Wine, Modestly Feathered and … just last Friday … Modest Seatbelts.
AND … you’ll be happy to know … that I’ve returned from my holidays with lots more to post in the coming weeks. >>> Read more >>>


And speaking of my holidays, it has become a tradition over the past eight summers for me to have a photo taken on my favourite Grecian Stairs. But with so many cancellations and restrictions I thought that I wasn’t going to get there at all this year. Thankfully though we did make it, and I think my delight is evident from the smile on my face … at my Sinful Sunday post shortly after I arrived back home.. >>> Read more >>>


Another of my holiday traditions has been to always film an introductory video … on my favourite beach … about my latest Real World Sex film to be published at my Make Love Not Porn pages.

It was really … really … hot as I sat describing my new film Stand To Attention Part 5 – The Doxy Finale. But at least I was able to quickly jump up as soon as I’d finished my explanations … and walk down to the water for a cooling dip. >>> Read more >>>


It was fun to remember some of my previous Make Love Not Porn videos, in myModest Mornings post near the end of the month … for the current Kink of The Week theme about “morning sex”. Now I like sex at any time of the day … but morning playtime fun is a often a bit different isn’t it ? I think so anyway!
>>> Read more >>>


And being different was quite obvious in my Modestly Keyedpost at Sinful Sunday two weeks ago as I re-created one of my “Polaroids Past” photographs from 1986.

>>> Read more>>>


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Banana A Day Holiday Me-Time Fun” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Banana A Day Intro

I know that I was really really fortunate to have been able to get away once again, to my favourite Grecian holiday island this summer, and film lots and lots of fun photos and videos.


But as Hubby was sorting through those new videos on our return, he reminded me that we still had one “playtime” video from LAST summer that we hadn’t actually uploaded to my pages at Make Love Not Porn.


Well … I’m sure you will agree … that we couldn’t start uploading videos from THIS Summer’s holiday, when we hadn’t finished the sequence of LAST summer’s fun, now could we???.


Now, whenever I go away on holiday I always pack my favourite vibrators and lots of lube. And last summer I insisted that Hubby make sure he had his video camera charged at all times so that we could have a video diary of all of our fun.
 And, of course, part of that fun is having at least one play-time session a day!


On this particular day it was unusually windy and rainy outside, so I lay back on our bed with a selection of my toys.
 But, as you will see, I was feeling so horny so quickly, that I ended up using just the one. And as I’ve called this video “A Banana A Day” I think you can probably tell the shape and colour of the one that I chose.


Modesty Ablaze A Banana A Day

Now, as always, you can view my introduction to “A Banana A Day” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<..

A Banana A Day  is my 76th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Banana A Day with tags such as:

#holiday #blissful #chatty #communicative #frenzied #giggly #ilubeu #intense #joyful #loud #passionate #playful #ravenous #sensual #sony #spirited #succulent #yes!yes!yes!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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