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Five Hundred Strokes #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty The London Dominatrix

I discovered Sinful Sunday shortly after setting my alter-ego ablaze, for the first time on-line, early in 2012. But, of course, I was far too shy to join-in back then … until my first Sinful posting in February 2013. But I quickly became addicted and haven’t missed very many Sundays since.

Because it’s been such a lovely stepping-stone for me to discover and explore so many wonderfully exciting and powerful images … and so many wonderful and inspirational people.

So huge kisses and congratulations Molly … to have reached 500 weeks of Sinful Sunday and to have touched and inspired so many people over all those years … is an amazing achievement.

And it is something for which Molly should be rightfully proud … and we should all be gratefully thankful.

So let’s celebrate, and pray (and play) for 500 Hundred MORE,
by kissing the lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Masked #Boobday Friday

Modestly Masked Boobday Friday

Today’s Boobday Friday is especially for the lovely Elliott who sent me several wonderfully coloured face-masks during the week.

I do love my masks of course, but I wanted to model my new favourite for him … and as I know he enjoy’s my Boob-days … I thought this would be the perfect way to say “Thank You” !!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modest Turn-ons #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Elliott 1

This week’s prompt at the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday asks “What things turn you on and excite you?” And for me the answer to that is easy!

What turns me on the most is knowing that I’m turning someone else on!!!

Modesty Ablaze Elliott 2

So it’s always fun to receive confirmation photos of that “turning-on” effect … such as these lovely photos from one of my favourite bloggers LifeOfElliott.

Modesty Ablaze Elliott 3

And as I’ve always enjoyed waking-up to a “morning glory” … I regularly click-over to him at @of_elliott for some warming tingles to start my day.

Discover lots more “Turn-ons” … and perhaps some “Turn-offs” by clicking on the Wicked Wednesday rainbow below.

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – November 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze PMAG November 2020

Hello everyone, welcome to my Pour Me A Glass Newsletter for November.

It’s probably quite obvious from the title of my Newsletters here, and from the content of lots of my postings here at Modesty Ablaze, that I’m rather partial to a glass of wine … or three .. or four!!!

But I do try to manage my wine-intake responsibly … and to counter it’s impact … by exercising as regularly as I can. And, no I don’t mean just the sort of exercising that you may think from my usual videos here.

I mean regular walking and running … and resistance training with my weights and bands … which I even take away on holiday with me.

So, for my first Members Video for November … and as a complete change from my usual “Themes” here … I thought I would share some of my morning “Squats and Stretches” routine from my Holiday Balcony.

I should warn you though that, even early in the morning, it was uncomfortably hot and sticky … so I had to do all my exercising completely naked. I’m sure you won’t mind though will you?

Last month’s Photo Gallery of some new photos taken during one of my Mistressing weekends away, was very popular with lots of you asking for more. So this month’s Gallery has more photos from that session. I really enjoyed myself in such lovely surroundings … so I hope you will enjoy these new photos, which haven’t been shared anywhere else just yet.

And do let me know your own suggestions for things you would like to see for my mid-month update posts in the coming weeks … because I have lots of photos, and lots of videos, saved in my archives !!!archives !!!



So … some of my most read posts during October were:

Modesty Ablaze introduces A Modest Workout

Now, I submitted two more videos to my favourite on-line streaming site during October. By favourite, I mean of course, Cindy Gallop’s fabulous Make Love Not Porn. The first wasA Modest Workoutfeaturing some exhausting … and passionate … fun with one of my “fittest” Lovers from last year. And then just last week I uploaded the first of my Play-Time videos from this summer, Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Me-Time, and you can probably tell from the rather long title, just what that video features!
>>> Read more >>>


Twice Barred with SheLover

I’m always receiving requests for more “Boobday Friday” posts, so I was delighted to be able to post FOUR “Boobdays” during October. Red Tassles, Bougainvillea, Modestly Fanning and finally, Twice Barred which had some two-for-one fun with my lovely friend SheLover.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze applying lipstick

One of my most viewed posts during the month wasn’t of my boobs though … it was actually of my lips, when I explained about my Lipstick Techniques for a Wicked Wednesday posting early in the month.
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty reading from Modesty Unmasked Ebook

Now as I’ve mentioned before, I don’t actually like hearing the sound of my own voice. But I continue reading my newsletters here each month because so many of you keep asking me to do so. And I’ve also had lots of requests to add some audio-readings from my Ebooks. So my A Friday Quickie with Deeposting, features a few minutes of me reading from a chapter of my “Modesty Unmasked” diary of a few years ago. There is more from that recording … so if you ask me nicely, I may upload it some time during November.!
>>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze sitting on the Pier topless

I’m sure you all know how much I enjoy my Exposé Vŭ Scavenger Hunt photo-outings … and I had such a lot of fun … and thrills … posing for my Sinful Sunday Modest Re-Appearance photos on the Pier, that I am really happy that it was one of my “most-viewed” posts of the month !!! >>> Read more>>>


So … thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to top up my wine glass from time to time.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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Twice Barred #Boobday Friday

Modesty and SheLover Boobday Barred

I’m always being asked for more Boobday posts … and always love being able to oblige with new photos whenever I can.

So it’s doubly delightful when I can add another with the lovely SheLover.

We always have lots of loving fun together … which on this occasion, could so easily have led to us actually ending up behind-bars!!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Me-Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Holiday Thrusting Dildo"

Now … as I’ve mentioned on my Make Love Not Porn pages here before … whenever I pack my holiday bags, I always include a selection of my favourite “Me-Time” toys.

That’s because I always feel much more relaxed and horny being on holiday, away from the usual every-day routines and distractions of home.

And on this occasion … as well as my “favourite” toys … I packed this new, very interesting, thrusting and vibrating dildo that had been sent to me a month or so before … but which I’d been unable to find the time to play with!!!

Modesty Ablaze Thrusting Dildo 1

So what better occasion than during a relaxing afternoon in our apartment, after a hot morning out on the beach … where, as you will probably be able to tell, I had caught a little too-much sun … to test out my new toy.

As you can see it has a large suction cup on the base … and there was a small stool available that was just the right height for me to use.

Modesty Ablaze straddles the Thrusting Pulsing Dildo

So, after straddling myself above my new friend, I passed the remote controller to Hubby, and began the fun of trying out those thrusting and pulsing vibrations.

Did it work for me? Well, you’ll just have to view my “Holiday Thrusting And Pulsing Dildo Playtime” to find out won’t you?

You can view my introduction to the video by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Playtime”  is my 78th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Holiday Thrusting Pulsing Dildo Playtime” with tags such as:

#afternoon #clitastic #giggly #happy #holiday #ilubeu #joyful #loud #married #metime #dildo #toytime #vacationtime #whoops

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Again – Oct. 2020 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Telephone Lover Part Five

So many of you have been begging me for more of my Telephone Lover fun since my Making Love On The Telephone – Pt Four update earlier in the month … 
So yes, yes, yes … I’m delighted to add Part 5 The Climax of that truly wonderful evening.

Watching it again myself, brought back so many thrilling memories … especially to have Hubby connecting in such a lovely way, and of course the lovely necklace I received at the end.


And although this is the “climax” of this particular moment, there is much more to share … so perhaps, if you continue to ask me nicely, more moments could be added for future members posts.

I will also keep the links to my previous Members videos active on the page for longer than is normally possible, so that several of you who have recently joined as new Pour Me A Glass Members, may enjoy some back-browsing!


Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Back Cover

As I mentioned in my Septembers newsletter, lots of you have been asking for more audio readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries E-books, so I’m happy to say that whilst sitting on my holiday balcony one afternoon enjoying some afternoon shade … and of course a chilled glass of wine … I recorded a short reading from one of the Chapters from Modesty Unmasked. Do let me know if you enjoy listening to it and I will add more in future updates.


So … thank you so much again for spoiling me here and helping to top me up with a lovely glass of wine from time to time. And I hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery.

Do let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future. You can do that from the comments box at the foot of this post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over a year now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Vault-aire … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Vaultaire

I do feel at home in a good Vault … though sadly this one was devoid of wine-racks … but there is just something refreshing about the aire isn’t there?

That feeling of freedom and release … expressing one’s inner rebel … I wonder if you might note the connection !!!

For more enlightenment and fresh-aire, take a sip from this week’s
Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Friday Quickie with Dee … from “Modesty Unmasked” – Part Seven of The Modesty Ablaze Diaires

Modesty Ablaze Unmasked Ebook

The audio clip below, was recorded whilst sat on the balcony of my holiday apartment, enjoying a glass of wine (or two) … so you will have to excuse the occasional sipping-pauses … and was originally just meant for my Pour Me A Glass Members page.

One of my longest-standing members there had requested one particular chapter, “A Quickie Evening with D” from myModesty Unmasked – Part 7 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” ebook.  But I thought I would now add it here … for general release so-to-speak … as I have received lots of emails recently asking for more “Modcasts”.

So click on the arrow below to listen … and do let me know if you would like to hear more in the future!!!


Xxx – K

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Modestly Fanning #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze new Fan

Some people like to collect Stamps, or Butterflies, or China Tea-pots …  but
I like to collect … Fans.

Because, as well as keeping one cool, I think they look pretty, flirtatious, mysterious and …

Sexy … I hope that you will think so too???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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