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A Modest Turret #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Turret Scavenger Hunt

“Mmmm … well I don’t know really … isn’t a Turret part of a Castle or a Fort?” I asked Hubby as we strolled along the path. “And I already have both of those in my Naughty Scavenger Hunt collection”.

“Yes, you’re probably right” he replied. “I suppose it’s not really a stand-alone sort of erection. They’re always attached to something”.

“Oohh … take it anyway” I told him. “You know how much I love an erection attached to something!!!”

I wouldn’t be surprised if there are several more erections and attachments on display at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Let’s kiss the lips below to see shall we!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

P.S. – Perhaps I will check-in with Bee at her Naughty Scavenger Hunt page to see if Turret might be a separate category. But in the meantime I shall add it to my Exposé Vŭ memories below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modest Red Lace #BoobDay Friday

Modest Red Lace Boobday Friday

I’ve been so looking forward to finally wearing some of the new items that have arrived from my Wishlist over the past, almost a whole year now!

I received this lovely Red Bodystocking some months ago, and I’m sure it will soon be featured in more posts over the coming months … but in the meantime I do think it is rather appropriate for Boobday Friday don’t you agree?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Eat Before Beer Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Eat Before Beer Time"

It’s been so lovely recently to have received lots of messages telling me how much you’ve all been enjoying my Videos from my holiday last summer.

We were so lucky to have such a relaxing, lovely time, and perfect weather on my favourite beach. And usually after an early morning swim and then a few hours of lying back enjoying the amazing, warming rays from that lovely Grecian sun, I’d begin to get a little peckish.

Of course, we’d always take drinks and watermelon and snacks to the beach with us … but quite often … as well as feeling peckish, I’d usually start feeling horny as well. There’s just something about being naked in that sun, sea and sand that always gets me going.

So once things begin to get a little TOO hot and sticky … and juicy … I insist that we adjourn back to the cool of the apartment for a few hours, and for my first fun “Me-Time” orgasm of the day.  And that is just what happened in this video !!!

Modesty Ablaze "Eat Before Beer Time" Photo 1

But we were both so worked up the moment we walked in the door, that in the passion of the moment, Hubby’s camera got knocked slightly askew.

So when I first viewed this video afterwards, the awkward positioning and rather unflattering angles, left me feeling that it wouldn’t be interesting or usable.

But then awkward camera positions and unflattering angles are not what #realworldsex at Make Love Not Porn is about is it? The important thing is the love and passion of the moment … and there is certainly lots of that in this video … as I hope you will see for yourself.

You can view my introduction to “Eat Before Beer Time” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Eat Before Beer Time  is my 86th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Eat Before Beer Time with tags such as:

#bisexual #blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modest Panties #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty's Used Panties

I mentioned during the week how much I love my Leather … but, of course, I also love my Lace!!!

And I’ve been very lucky over the years that even if I do get bored with a pair such as these … I never, ever, have to throw them away!!!

For lots more Sinful thoughts this weekend simply kiss the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest 2 Flutes #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Two Flutes Boobday Friday

Would you like to join me for a sip … or two … at Boobday Friday!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modest Leather #wickedwednesday and #4Thoughts_Fiction and #KOTW

Mistress Modesty loves Leather

New “hobbies” always open-up new experiences and often change one’s perception of certain things, and previously held likes and dislikes don’t they.

And that was certainly the case when I first embarked upon my Femdom fun adventures.

It was obvious that I would need a complete new wardrobe … and accessories. Not that I’ve ever been averse to a new wardrobe of course!!!

Previously the only leather garments in my wardrobe(s) had been “normal” coats and jackets. And, in fact for my first Mistressing outfits my initial choices were all in Latex. I loved the shiny look and feel of the garments as I browsed the racks at both of the shops my Mistressing mentors had recommended.

But although I loved my new outfits, and felt much more in-tune with my new “persona” when I was wearing them, it was actually the purchase of my first accessories that really led to my new love. Leather.

My first two items, a stranded heavy leather flogger and a lovely spanking slapper, just had that smell and feel about them that had me intoxicated in a way I hadn’t experienced with my normal leather coats and jackets.

Perhaps it was that rawness … and knowing the intention of their purpose … that made me want to inhale and savour that smell even more. And to feel the strength and yet caress of that texture against ones skin. Suddenly the clingy and difficult to get into, and out of, sticky latex was pushed to the back of my wardrobe to be replaced by lots, and lots, of new garments in my new Pleasure, my new love … and yes even my new Desire for … Leather !!!

For more thoughts on Pleasure, Desire … and Leather … just visit the current editions of Wicked Wednesday, 4 Thoughts and Kink of The Week … by tapping the buttons below!

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Xxx- K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – May 2021 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Modcast Feet May 2021

Welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast Newsletter for May 2021 … with a round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Members Video and Photo Gallery.


It was lovely to receive so many messages after publishing both of April’s Members Videos telling me how much you all enjoyed them. 

So … naturally … this month’s first Members Video carries on directly from where Part Two of my “Mistresses Submission” left-off in April. And, as I mentioned then, watching it all over again does bring back such lovely memories!!!

And as life is now … slowly … beginning to return to some normality, I’m hoping to be able to start having similar fun again soon. It can’t come soon enough!!!

April’s Members Photo Gallery from one of my “double-domme-sessions” with another Mistress … was also very popular with you all. So although I don’t have any new photos with that particular lady … I do, of course, have lots and lots of session photos in my archives. So this months Gallery features more fun from my Dungeons!!!

But, as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them … all sensible requests considered.


So … looking back at my most popular posts over the past month here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com …


Modest Droplets

I managed once again to post a Boobday Friday post each week during the month . … beginning with my Modest Breakfast Bun. But my own favourite was Modest Droplets … my second Boobday of the month !!
>>> Read more >>>


Mistress Modesty Wind Down

I was also happy to add another #realworldsex video to my Make Love Not Porn collection in April. A Post-Session Wind Down is actually my 85th video at my favourite movie channel … and illustrated how I often get quite aroused during my Mistressing sessions. You’ll just have to watch the video to see what I mean!!! >>> Read more >>>


Sohimi Wand Massager

I don’t post as many “Product Reviews” as I used to. Because I must confess that I seem to have collected so many vibrators and dildos … and plugs … over the years … that I don’t get as excited by new arrivals as I did before. But the amazing price offers from a new-to-me supplier called Sohimi, inspired me to try their Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager. And as you can tell from my review I was certainly glad that I did. It has become my favourite “portable” wand of the moment.
>>> Read more >>>


Mistress Modesty Courage

I was also glad to join in with the Wicked Wednesday theme of Courage during the month as it gave me the opportunity to rant a little … just a little … about the way that “submission” is normally portrayed in the mainstream.
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Mistress Modesty Strapping-in

But thankfully my final Sinful Sunday post of the month … Modestly Strapping In allowed me to bring some light-hearted fun back to my Modest postings.
And fun is how EVERYTHING should always be … don’t you think !!! >>> Read more>>>


So thank you again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For almost two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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At my happiest #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Balcony 2020 2695

I am … always at my happiest … standing on this balcony!!!

Amongst the sweet scent of bougainvillea, feeling the warming summer sun upon my skin … and listening to that calming sound of gentle waves rolling in on my favourite beach below.

“I Am” … is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday. Tap the lips below for more!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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The Last Photo #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze last photo Boobday Friday

Sat forlornly on our balcony on the last day of our holiday last year … waiting for the cab to turn into the driveway and take us to the airport.

Yes, I did put some clothes on for the journey home … though after two wonderful weeks it felt so uncomfortable and unnecessary.

This was the last photo taken on that holiday … I’m still hoping and praying we will have the opportunity to take many more again this year!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Post-Session Wind Down” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Post-Session Wind Down" video at MakeLoveNotPorn

As some of you will already know, one of my most enjoyable “hobbies”, is my Mistress Modesty Sessioning fun. And I particularly enjoy administering some fun hand-spanking … or perhaps a light caning to the bottoms of my … always willing, spanking-submissives.

And quite often, I enjoy those sessions so much that I find myself becoming quite aroused and sometimes even really, really horny!!!

And that was certainly the case after my most recent spanking session when … having warmed and reddened my happy submissives bottom to his complete satisfaction … I just had to retire to my boudoir and lay back with my favourite Doxy Wand for some complete satisfaction of my own.

Now if you’ve viewed my Doxy Wand in action before … or if you have one of your own … you will know how quickly it can drive one over the edge.

And despite me trying to slow things down and tease myself along more slowly, it wasn’t very long before I completely lost control of my emotions.

You will just have to watch the full video to see exactly what I mean …

Modesty Ablaze and her Doxy Wand in "A Post-Session Wind Down" RealWorldSex video

So I hope you will enjoy my Post-Session Wind Down fun. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

You can view my introduction to “A Post-Session Wind Down” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Post-Session Wind Down  is my 85th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Post-Session Wind Down with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #clitastic #hotelroom #intense #joyful #kinky #loud #married #metime #playful #quickie #samsung #sensual #spirited #toytime #wand-erfull

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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