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Technical Issues #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze having boots cleaned

I have never been very good at Technical things . . . I always seem to forget numbers and codes. And combination locks in particular always give me problems . . . so I much prefer to use keys instead!

The problem is though, I tend to have so many keys, that I often forget which key unlocks which lock!

Still, it does give me time to have my shoes cleaned whilst I try to remember!!!

Find out how others handle their “Technical issues”
by unlocking this week’s Wicked Wednesday from the button below.

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Xxx- K



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Modest Rubber Top #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Honour Rubber Top

As I mentioned in my Modesty Visits Honour post earlier in the week,
I had quite a number of lovely items purchased for me. This lovely Rubber Top was one of them . . . a perfect addition to my Boobday Friday collection
don’t you  think?

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze visits . . . @HonourClothing in Waterloo

Honour Clothing shop in Waterloo

I’ve had a lot of fun over the past few weekends wearing-in the set of Rubber Wrist and Ankle Cuffs, from Honour.co.uk, that I reviewed here several weeks ago. By “wearing-in” I don’t mean that I’ve been wearing them myself of course . . . rather I’ve used them on several of my subs during some fun sessions at my favourite chambers . . . and they’ve proved very useful indeed!

Now I’ve always loved the fabulous range of clothing and accessories available from Honour, particularly their amazingly priced latex range and their wonderful selection of body-stockings. And over the past four years or so I’ve purchased, or had purchased for me, lots of clothing items, and even my wonderful thigh-high red boots which I am so often asked about . . . from the fabulous Honour website.

So when I was invited to visit their Central London shop in Waterloo recently,
I just couldn’t resist !!!

Located in a lovely little street called Lower Marsh, it is literally just around the corner from Waterloo station, so really easy to get to by tube, rail or bus. Instantly recognisable from the distinctive Honour logo above the display window, one has to ring the bell to enter, but don’t be put-off, that just adds to the intimacy and personal-nature of the shop. We were immediately greeted by a lovely smiling young lady who opened the door for us and welcomed us in.

Honour Clothing Waterloo Shoes

The shop was Honour’s founding store, opened 30 years ago, and inside is like an Aladdin’s cave of wall-to-wall garments, neatly displayed on impressive hanger-racks on each side of the long galley-shaped ground-floor. The actual sight of so many wonderful and colourful items was almost overwhelming at first, but actually everything is so neatly arranged in size and style . . . and the two lovely young ladies Amy and Anita so charming and helpful . . . that I quickly felt completely at ease, and able to indulge myself in browsing from rack to rack.

The ground-floor largely features Honour’s Women’s Wear with a wonderful array of PVC and Leather, Latex and Wetlook, Basques & Corsets, Dresses, Tops, Skirts, Bras, Catsuits, Leggings & Trousers, Jackets, Stockings & Suspenders, Body-Stockings, Knickers and Lingerie.

I was in my element . . . and soon had several hangers-worth of items that I simply had to try on.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Waterloo changing rooms

The changing rooms have been cleverly and stylishly designed to make the best of the available space with ample mirrors and lighting . . . and Amy and Anita were both wonderfully patient in taking turns with helping me with the zips and buttons,
in-between serving and helping other customers at the same time, and advising on the most suitable size to best fit my bumps and curves.

Putting my preferred selections to one side . . . so that I could come back to them and be sure that I had made the right choices . . . I then led Hubby upstairs which houses the Men’s Wear and Bondage items and “toys”.

Honour Clothing Bondage items

Now as you can probably imagine, I already have quite an extensive collection of restraints and impact implements, but a fabulous thorny-stemmed Riding Crop (see below) quickly caught my eye, and a few short gulps from Hubby as I tapped it gently against the palm of his hand.

Just like the ground floor every space is, stylishly, packed with an amazing array of clothing and some very interesting dildos, vibrators and accessories.

I enjoyed browsing . . . and teasing Hubby with some rather large insertables . . . but decided to stick with my new crop, and instructed him to follow me back downstairs.

As I mentioned earlier, Honour do have a fabulous website which is perfectly laid-out, easy to use and categorizes their complete and comprehensive range of wonderful items. And there is a helpful touch-screen tablet on a stand near the downstairs counter, which makes it easy to search for specific items one may be interested in, or have seen on the website earlier.

But for me, as you might imagine, I much prefer being “hands-on” in everything I do . . . so nothing beats being able to browse in a real shop, to touch and feel . . . and of course to try things on. And it was nice to see other couples, browsing and purchasing whilst we were there, who obviously felt the same way.

And of course, the helpful and knowledgeable attention and advice from Amy and Anita made my shopping feel even more special . . . so I really do recommend you visit and experience some Honour for yourself.

Amy and Modesty at Honour clothing Waterloo

The shop at Lower Marsh (SE1 7AB) is open Monday to Friday from 10.30 a.m. to 7 p.m. and on Saturdays from 10.30 a.m. to 5 p.m. (closed on Sundays). There is also a store in Watford (WD18 7EN), with directions to both on their website.

Modesty Ablaze at Honour Clothing

The Modesty Disclaimer: I was given a voucher for my honest and un-biased review here. But I loved my time in the shop so much that I spent much more . . . or should I say, I made Hubby spend much more . . . because after-all a lady deserves spoiling occasionally doesn’t she !!!

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A Modest Bouquet #sinfulsunday

“Bouquet !!! . . . I’m expecting more than flowers for my Tribute!” I hissed as my first stroke landed.

“No Mistress. It’s spelt differently. It’s Bokeh and it’s this week’s theme at
Sinful Sunday. It’s to do with photography and depth-of-field” he whimpered as I swished again.

“Depth!” I laughed as I began to swipe harder now. “You’ll get your depth
later on . . . but you’ll be facing in the wrong direction for taking photos!”

For more observations about Bokeh’s . . . but possibly even more blurred . . .
just tap the Sinful Sunday lips below!Sinful SundayXxx- K

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A Modest Journey #wickedwednesday

Whilst I would never consider myself as a writer, I have . . . for years and years
. . . kept personal diaries.

Diaries that were originally meant as just fun recollections for Hubby and I to browse back through from time to time, but are in fact what formed the basis of my original posts here at Modesty Ablaze.

And the questions and flattering comments that I began receiving from those first posts, led me to publish short excerpts as Ebooks on Amazon and Gumroad.

And, to my amazement, I continue to be asked for more and more.

So much so, that I am currently compiling Part Eight of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries for publication in the New Year.

Following on from Modesty Ablaze Unmasked, this new edition charts my initial interest, and then enjoyment of, the fetish and dominatrix lifestyle which I’m sure many of us are curious about.

So this week’s theme of “Writing” at Wicked Wednesday seems the perfect place to share a short extract from “The Journey Beyond” . . .

The music in the main chamber as we entered was blaringly loud . . . too loud for easy conversation, but I knew from our previous visits to TG that most of the crowd came not to converse, not even to dance, more to just parade. Strutting their stuff, as Hubby called it. “Let’s find the bar” I shouted in his ear, “you can buy me a drink”.

The warehouse was huge, three floors of several large rooms on each, and then a number of smaller rooms and annexes all inter-connected with corridors and treacherous narrow steps . . . at least treacherous to me in my heels as we wandered and explored!

The downstairs bar had been far too crowded, and just as noisy as the main room, but we’d been told on entry of an upstairs bar and quieter space. But finding it was proving rather difficult, especially as there were so many “distractions” along the way!

As always with TG, the array of equipment and play-areas was amazing . . . and overwhelming! Stocks, and crosses, suspension frames and spanking benches at every turn. Hubby was clearly enjoying the sights and sounds as we wandered. But I was anxious for that first calming and relaxing glass of wine, just to settle my nerves and self-consciousness that I always feel in the first hour or so.

Eventually we’d managed to find our way to the top floor . . . and a much less crowded and noisy bar area. I’d been conscious of my age as we’d wandered around downstairs, worried that my best clubbing days have long-since passed, and that I was out of place amongst all the younger and more-outlandish outfits than my own. But in this bar there seemed a more balanced, or low-key, crowd and I began to relax a little more . . . especially once Hubby passed me that first glass.

It wasn’t just a bar area though . . . at one end of the room was a cubicle-type recess with a large bed covered in black sheeting and several couples engaged in a mini orgy of writhing and swooning bodies. I was beginning to feel more relaxed minute by minute. But theirs seemed to be a closed grouping, with neither the room nor the invitation for more participation . . . other than being part of the small crowd of onlookers gathered around.

Feeling enlivened and energised from my, by now, empty glass . . . and the activity on the bed in front of us . . . I pulled Hubby away, ordered him to “top me up” and told him we should continue our explorations of the floors below.

After some further, entertaining wanderings, we ended-up back in the largest room on the middle floor. A large space housing a large cage in the middle, with various benches, stools and tables around the outer walls. As we stood looking at the rope netting hanging from one side of the cage, a thin shape emerged from the shadows and bowed in front of me. “May I offer myself for a flogging Mistress” he said, pointing to my flogger I had draped over my shoulder as we’d been walking around. Hubby told me later that this young man had followed us down from the bar upstairs, though I hadn’t noticed him then.

Feeling much more at ease now, and actually more than-a-little excited and aroused by our surroundings, I nodded that he should position himself against the netting. I teased the black and red leather strands of my flogger gently across his shoulders, letting them twist and dangle down his back . . . and then brushing them in gentle swishes back and forth across the back of his legs.

Then, warming to my task, and feeling tingles rising within, I reached forward and yanked his black shorts over his cheeks, letting them fall to his ankles . . .

As I mentioned above, I hope to have “The Journey Beyond” completed and published at my Amazon and Gumroad pages early in 2019.

Details of the previous six parts of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries”, along with several audio-excerpts, are featured on my Ebook page >here<.

I’m sure there will be much more “Writing”, of different styles and subjects,
to be explored at this week’s Wicked Wednesday.

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Xxx- K

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A Modest Count #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Caning“Now look! I don’t give up my Saturday afternoons to have my time wasted!

So . . . if you’ve lost count . . . we’ll just have to go back and start
from one again, won’t we?”

For more Sinful fun this weekend, slap the lips below!Sinful SundayXxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the ES Bondage Rubber Cuffs from @HonourClothing

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 01I’ve been very lucky over the past few years to acquire quite a collection of restraint and bondage accessories during my fun “hobby-time” sessions. But of course, it’s always nice to have more to choose from whenever I’m packing my bag(s) for a new appointment.

So it was quite a thrill recently to be asked by my favourite fetish-fashion company honour.co.uk, if I would like to review one of their new HNRX Bondage items.

I first came across Honour in the summer of 2014, at The Great British Tattoo Exhibition, where I bought my first Latex Corselette. And I have purchased numerous items of clothing from the wonderful, and easy to use, Honour website in the four years since.

And having often been seduced by their amazing range of clothing in the past,
I was certainly intrigued to “test” a set of their HNRX Rubber Wrist and Ankle Cuffs.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 02As always, the parcel arrived perfectly and discretely packaged, in a strong brown cardboard box, which upon opening, contained two separate, black cardboard boxes (approx, 4 inches square) for the Cuffs themselves, and two smaller rectangular boxes for two “Trigger Hook” devices (more on these later).

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 03As you can see from my photos here, the boxes are all stylishly designed in Black and Purple with strong, white corrugated cardboard inner sleeves lining the Cuff boxes which also contain two metal locks and keys for each Cuff set.

Both Cuffs are made from heavy rubber latex which is actually very stiff . . . much, much stiffer than you would probably imagine. In fact my initial reaction on taking them out of the box is that they felt “too stiff and unwieldy” in comparison to my existing collection of (well used) leather bondage cuffs.

However, I am happy to say that my concern was only temporary as the natural curve of the rubber actually made them quite easy to attach to my willing assistant. They seem to hold their shape more than my leather cuffs and, I was told, felt “quite smooth and comfortable” once buckled-up . . . at least until he was clipped to the flogging-frame!

The manufacture of the cuffs is sturdy and impressive with the inner bands themselves being almost 3mm thick and 50mm wide. These bands are secured to a thinner (25mm wide) outer tongue-strap by four rows of chrome double studs. This outer strap has a chrome D and O ring at it’s middle, with a heavy duty chrome buckle at one end, and six slots to fit over the buckle tongue when secured.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 04The Wrist Cuffs are 27cm in length (to fit wrists from 12 to 22cm circumference), whilst the Ankle Cuffs are 32cm in length (to fit ankles from 20 to 29cm circumference). And, having had the pleasure of using them twice now since their arrival in my mailbox, I must say that despite my initial concern about their rigidity, I am very impressed.

Especially when used in conjunction with Honour’s ES Double Trigger Hooks. These are separate accessories to the Cuffs, but I highly recommend that you purchase . . . not just because they clip so easily into the O-rings of the HNRX Cuffs, but because they clip so easily into absolutely anything with buckles, chains, hooks or loops.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Trigger HooksThese heavy duty, double-ended Hooks are 10cm in length and are made from Die Cast Zinc, with a Chrome-like finish, with an easy-to-use trigger-release mechanism at each end. They are light to handle and just perfect for quickly attaching . . . and quickly releasing whenever you are ready. So a safe and user-friendly accessory for the user and the used . . . if you know what I mean, and I really do recommend these as must-have items for all of your every-day restraint requirements!

So . . . as I said earlier . . . I have been shopping at honour.co.uk for lots of my play-time latex and lingerie for several years, but these exciting Rubber Cuffs have certainly piqued my interest and I am sure to be tapping on that Bondage tab more and more in the future.

As always, there are some more technical descriptions of the HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist & Ankle Cuffs below:

HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist & Ankle Cuffs:
Modesty Rating:
9 out of 10
Pros: Impressively strong and stylish manufacture, both to hold . . . and to use.
Cons: The tongue of the buckle was a little “stiff” to engage initially . . . but practice made perfect!
Material: Latex rubber, with chrome-finish steel studs, buckles and O-rings.
Measurements: The inner bands of both cuffs are almost 3mm thick and 50mm wide, whilst the outer strap is 25mm wide.
The overall length of the Wrist Cuffs is 27cm (to fit wrists from 12 to 22cm circumference).
The overall length of the Ankles Cuffs is 32cm (to fit ankles from 20 to 29cm circumference).
Colour: Black.
Cleaning: Honour recommends a thorough wipe with a damp cloth after use. Using a latex shine serum, or spray, should also be used occasionally to prolong the durability and life of the rubber.
Supplied with: Each set of cuffs is supplied with two small metal padlocks and keys.
Country of Manufacture: Pakistan
Supplier Product Link: HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist Cuffs
Supplier Website: honour.co.uk
Twitter:
@HonourClothing
The Modesty Video Review:
If you ask nicely, you may just see a clip of the cuffs in action here in the very near future.

The HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Cuffs and the HNRX ES Double Trigger Hooks were sent to me, free-of-charge by honour.co.uk,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modestly Transformed #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 1“What’s that you’re saying? You don’t like it when I tap you there?” I laughed.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 02“No Mistress” he gasped aloud again.
“But you said you were mine. All mine you said!” I reminded him.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 03“Yes Mistress . . . Yes Mistress, it all belongs to you” he agreed.

Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 04“You said you were transfixed by me . . . didn’t you say that???” I squeezed (gently of course!)

Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 05“Yes Mistress . . . transfixed Mistress . . . transformed since meeting you.”
he nodded attentively.
“Good . . . that’s just what I like to hear!” I told him. “And next week, I may just try to remember to bring your keys with me!”

But you don’t have to wait until next week, because there are sure to be lots of other Transformations available, right now by squeezing (gently remember!) the Sinful Sunday lips below!Sinful Sunday

Xxx- K

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A Modest Tawse #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze TawseSome subs bruise . . . some quickly welt . . . some just glow!

And I do so enjoy my efforts being rewarded with a lovely glow!!!

There is bound to be more glowing photos at this week’s Sinful Sunday
Just smack the lips below!Sinful SundayXxx – K

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I am whom-so-ever . . . #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze awaitsI am . . . and ALWAYS will be . . . whom-so-ever I wish to be !!!

For more people being just who they wish to be this Sinful Sunday
kiss the lips below!Sinful SundayNB: My photo above was taken by the lovely John Tisbury.

Xxx – K

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