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Modesty Ablaze “Seven Years of #realworldsex” @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Seven Years at Make Love Not Porn

It’s July 2020 and that means I’ve now been sharing my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn, for over SEVEN years !!!

Now, of course, I’ve been enjoying Real World Sex fun for a lot longer than seven years, a lot, lot longer … THIRTY-seven years actually. But I’d like to think that my Make Love Not Porn videos collection, in a certain way mirrors the changes and progressions, and different experiences, of those thirty-seven years of open, loving fun.

Starting out … Modestly and nervously … with my first video in 2013, “Modesty’s Toytime”
, and then slowly becoming more open and expressive and confident about sharing more of my different adventures … and different “friends” … and different “interests” … as the years have passed.

I’ve been very lucky that the lifestyle I share with Hubby has given us both the opportunity to meet, and make friends with, some truly lovely people over our thirty-seven years of fun experiences. And very lucky too, that some of the friends I’ve made through our swinging adventures … and more recently, from my Mistressing sessions … have loved joining us in our Make Love Not Porn videos as well.

I’m sure you’ll agree that one should never feel ashamed or embarrassed about one’s sexuality and desires, and we should all be able to fully express and celebrate those things that bring us joy and excitement.

But it takes a really special kind of person to be able to share those views so openly on film. And that’s why I say that I’ve been very lucky to have met so many 
lovely, like-minded people.

And that’s what makes being part of Make Love Not Porn such a fabulous and empowering feeling. Being amongst so many like-minded people celebrating their love … and their pride … and their chosen life-style experiences, in all the wonderful and different ways that makes life loving and truly fulfilling.

So thank you MLNP for the past seven years. I’m hoping that I’ll still be sharing, and still be uploading yet more #realworldsex videos for another seven years to come.

So … spread the love, spread the joy and spread the pride! Enjoy !!!

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Plus #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.3 – Face-Timing” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Attention Part 3

As I mentioned when I told you all about my last Real World Sex video at Make Love Not Porn … Stand To Attention Part 2 … there was lots more to come from my wonderful, intense, session with Lover Number 83 in my favourite London Chambers.


So I’m delighted to say that Part Three … of our “Standing To Attention” fun … has now gone live on my Make Love Not Porn Profile.
 And if you’ve viewed Part Two … and I hope you have … you will know that I had just laid back on the dungeon bed and instructed No.83 to use that lovely tongue of his to worship … and devour me !!!


And those wet, and very passionate, kisses of his soon had me … well both of us actually … wriggling and tingling with desire.

Lover 83 devouring Mistress Modesty's wet pussy

Now sometimes when I’m sessioning with one of my submissives … I may allow them some “face-sitting” body-worship moments. But on those occasions I am almost always fully clothed, and fully in control.


But here I was … so excited and aroused and carried away in the moment … that completely naked, I rolled No.83 over onto his back and sat astride him, riding myself up-and-down on his face in a completely different form of body-worship.

And leaning forward and steadying myself on No.83’s out-stretched legs … it was clear to see that he was, obviously, enjoying the fun just as much as I was.


Our succulent riding continued … with a changing and swapping of positions … until I just had to ask our camera-man to stop for a moment … and fetch me a condom.

“Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-timing” is my 73rd Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 3” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-Timing  is my 73rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 3 – Face-Timing with tags such as:

#afternoon / #bisexual / #blissful / #clitastic / #communicative / #flirty / #frenzied / #giggly / #grinding / #happy / #intense / #inthedungeon / #intimate / #joyful / #kinky / #littleo / #loving / #married / #passionate / #playful / #polyamorous / #ravenous / #roleplay / #seductive / #sensual / #sony / #yes!yes!yes! / #yummy!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.2 – The Entrée” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Introduces Stand To Attention Part 2

Following my Stand To Attention – Part 1 Real World Sex video with Lover 83 at my Make Love Not Porn pages recently, I received lots of questions asking what happened next?

Well … I’m thrilled to say that “Part 2” … of my teasing, flicking, slapping … and gentle kicking fun … has just been released at my Make Love Not Porn profile.


And, as I’m sure you can imagine if you have viewed “Part One”, his very obvious excitement continued to get me very aroused … and very excited too !!!


So much so, that I just had to lie back on the dungeon bed, remove my leather basque and command him to worship my very, very wet and tingling … lady bits.

And he certainly didn’t need a second invitation when I told him that I wanted that worshipping to come from his mouth and tongue, all over my … well, you know just where 
I mean don’t you ???


“Eat me … devour me!” I teased, as I lay back and spread myself wide for him.

And yes, there is much more to come from what turned out to be an amazing domination and submission session … for the BOTH of us.

But one has to keep things in their proper order and sequence, just as they happen. So, I’m commanding you all to watch, enjoy and savour this whole video, before I upload Part Three shortly.

Modesty tapping Lover 83's erect cock

“Standing To Attention – Part 2 – The Entrée” is my 72nd Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 2” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, Standing To Attention – Part 2 – The Entrée  is my 72nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Standing To Attention – Part 2 – The Entrée with tags such as:

# afternoon / #chatty / #clitastic / #communicative / #dressy / #flirty / #footsy / #giggly / #happy / #impactful / #intense / #inthedungeon / #intimate / #kinky / #lickjob / #passionate / #playful / #rainyday / #roleplay / #sony / #spirited / #yummy!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Attention

I’m so delighted to tell you all about my newest #realworldsex video at my profile pages on Make Love Not Porn.


Because, after my last meeting with Lover 83 … he had asked if we could meet again at my favourite dungeon … as he really wanted to experience one of my “spanking sessions” that he’d heard all about.


As you will probably already know from some of my previous Make Love Not Porn videos … I do enjoy some kinky-fun from time-to-time … and, of course, I always enjoy fulfilling any special requests or fantasies that my lovers may have.


So when No.83 arrived at my chambers with a lovely bottle of chilled champagne … AND some proper champagne glasses … we sat and sipped and chatted for a while … as I always like to do … to discuss what he would most like to experience from all of the fixtures and accessories at our disposal.

But as I was relaxing and enjoying the wonderful bubbly he had brought me … I noticed the rather large bulge protruding from beneath his pants.

And when I asked him to stand, and present himself before me, I began feeling more and more aroused … and more like reaching for HIM … rather than for my floggers or canes.

Especially when I instructed him to step out of his straining thong !!!

Modesty Ablaze flicking Lover 83's balls.

“Standing To Attention” is my 71st Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “Stand To Attention”  is my 71st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Standing To Attention” with tags such as:

inthedungeon / #afternoon / #chatty / #communicative / #dressy / #drinkresponsibly / #flirty / #footsy / #happy / #joyful / #kinky / #playful / #roleplay / #sensual / #spirited!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Toe-Nails Submission” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Introduces "Toe-nails Submission" real world sex video

I’m really longing for summer at the moment . . . as I’m sure we all are !!!

So it’s been lots of fun remembering back to our summer holidays last year and re-living some of our daytime, and our evening-time, fun and exciting moments.


And my newest #realworldsex video at Make Love Not Porn is from one morning when we’d awoken to a rainstorm, which meant an unusual “morning-in” at our apartment, instead of breakfast down on the beach as we would normally do.


So . . . after enjoying Subby’s morning coffee . . . I decided to make the best of the unexpected time indoors, and paint my nails.


But, when Subby moaned that he’d wished I’d painted my toe nails in the same “sexy” red as my finger nails, I decided to punish his disrespect by painting his nails as well!!!

AND that I’d make him go out to the beach . . . and the taverna later . . . with his blue nails for all to clearly see.

Modesty Ablaze Blue Toe-Nails

AND . . . beginning to warm to my fun . . . I then decided to wrap his cock and balls together with some sticky tape!!!

But, as often happens, I then began to get a little carried-away with my wrapping and ended-up turning the tape into a pair of panties instead . . . crotch-less panties, so that I could punish him further with some hard slaps on his . . . well you know where I mean I’m sure!!!

Then, as also often happens when I’m beginning to enjoy my naughty fun, one thing led to another with, 
in this instance, me laying back on the bed and telling him . . . that I was to be his breakfast!!!

“Toe-nails Submission & Appreciation Fun” is my 70th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Toe-nails Submission & Appreciation Fun” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “Toe-Nails Submission & Appreciation Fun”  is my 70th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Toe-nails Submission & Appreciation Fun” with tags such as:

#blissful / #chatty / #dressy / #frenzied / #giggly / #happy / #impactful / #inthekitchen / #intimate / #joyful / #kinky / #loving / #married / #playful / #rainyday / #relaxing / #roleplay / #selfie / #sony / #spanking / #succulent / #summertime / #vacationtime / #wakeywakey / #yummy !

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “69 Modest Oral Moments” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Modest Oral Moments"

My newest video at my Make Love Not Porn profile is rather special . . . because it’s my 69th . . . which is of course, my favourite number!!!

Now when I submitted my first “modest” video to MLNP in 2013, I thought it would be a one-off, just a bit of self-indulgent fun. But I was pleasantly surprised to soon start receiving emails to my blog page asking for more. And when I told my “special” friends about Make Love Not Porn, I was thrilled when some of them said they would love to join me there as well.


So . . . I have been regularly adding more lovely and fun #realworldsex moments videos ever since.

But I still never imagined I’d have 68 films on my profile there. And, having reached that magical number, I thought I would celebrate with a 69-themed compilation-collection of some of my most wonderful, and engulfing, oral moments over the years.

Modesty Ablaze 69 Oral Moments 1

It’s been hugely fun and sexciting re-watching … and re-living … those fun moments and I hope you will have as much fun watching them too. 
You never know, I might get to add 69 more! But anyway, I certainly hope to keep on having as much fun as I had here !!!

“Modest Oral Moments” is my 69th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

Modesty Ablaze 69 Oral Moments 2

You can view my introduction to “Modest Oral Moments” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

As I said above, “Modest Oral Moments”  is my 69th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Modest Oral Moments” with tags such as:

#bisexual / #celebratory / #chatty / #dressy / #drinkresponsibly / #epic / #facetime / #frontdoor / #giddyup / #giggly / #goingdutch / #handy / #joyful / #lickjob / #messy / #morethemerrier / #selfie / #yes!yes!yes!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Self Vibing Massage” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces her newest video at Make Love Not Porn

As I mentioned in my two earlier videos from our Summer Holidays last year, I’d instructed Hubby to have his video camera fully charged and ready, for every day . . . and every evening . . . for the whole two weeks of our amazing vacation.


And, I’m so glad that I did . . . because this newest of my videos at Make Love Not Porn, started out as just one of the normal massages that I insist Hubby give me every evening after a day out in the sun. 
Just to make sure I have a complete coating of “after sun lotion” all over . . . and a soothing toning of all my . . . lumps and bumps.


But don’t worry “A Self-Vibing Massage” doesn’t document Hubby’s complete work-over . . . although I was tempted to show you that as it is always wonderfully relaxing.


Instead, the video starts from the point that Hubby’s squeezing hands and fingers began to wander from my cheeks to . . . well you can probably guess where he wanted to reach can’t you?

But I was feeling quite naughty . . . so I decided to tease him by telling him to pass me my vibing toys . . . and making him watch as I pleasured myself with just the sort of massage I suddenly really, really needed.

A Self Vibing Massage One

I did have to pause at one point though . . . because looking over Hubby’s shoulder, I realised we still had the balcony doors wide open. And you know me, I didn’t want to annoy any of our neighbours with unexpected gasps and groans
. . . so I had to instruct Hubby to close the doors and curtains so that I could continue with my play-time fun!!!

“A Self-Vibing Massage” is my 68th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “A Self-Vibing Massage” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “A Self-Vibing Massage”  is my 68th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“A Self-Vibing Massage” with tags such as:

YES!YES!YES! / Satisfyer / ILubeU / handy / yummy / kinky / chatty / hotelroom / vacationtime / D/s / metime / toytime / handson

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Modesty Ablaze Self Vibing Massage 2
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Xxx – K

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Pour Me A Glass Members newsletter – March 2020 #PMAGW

Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter March 2020

Goodness me, it’s March already . . . so it’s time for a brand-new Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter . . . and a look back at some my “social” fun . . . and blog postings here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com . . . over the past four weeks.

Having received so many lovely comments about the January and February exclusive videos of “Wet & Noisy with Lover 19 – Parts One and Two”,
I have just uploaded Part Three !!!

I mean . . . after all your lovely requests . . . I could hardly not include it as my main film for March, now could I ? And yes, there is much more video from this amazing evening, so if you are not getting too bored with all my loud moans and gasps . . . then do let me know if you would like to see Part Four !!!

Now Sally messaged during the month, about how much she enjoys seeing some of the outfits I wear for my Mistressing sessions. So I thought that for my Members Photo Gallery this month, I would add some photos from a fun session last weekend, at my favourite London Chambers.

So I hope you will enjoy both this month’s exclusive main video . . . and the photo-gallery . . . and do keep checking back at my pages here for updates of more exclusive content during the month.

And don’t forget, do let me know your own suggestions for next months Video(s) and Photo Gallery . . . and I will do my best to oblige !!!!!!


Modesty Ablaze Sinfully Spent

Now, I know I’ve been saying it in every issue lately but the past four weeks seem to have been my busiest, socially speaking . . . for a long, long time.
So, once again, it’s been difficult finding the time to keep my blog-postings here up-to-date as much as I would like. Particularly for my Sinful Sundays . . . and you could probably tell from my Modestly Spent post on the last Sunday of the month just how much I enjoyed being able to sit down for a few moments rest .
>>> Read more >>>


The Food For Thought theme of Love Letters, earlier in the month, gave me a chance to reminisce and think back to years and years ago, how Hubby used to refer to the scribbled notes in my personal diaries, as being like letters of “love and lust” as we first embarked on our newly discovered choice of lifestyle-fun.
And it was those, excitedly scribbled-out entries, that eventually turned into my Modesty Ablaze Diaries. >>> Read more >>>


Couples

Which leads nicely into the Couples That Play Together Stay Together posting that I hosted early in the month. Sex therapist and sex blogger Angela Watson listed a number of simple, and sensible, ways in the post about keeping relationships exciting and active. Something which, of course, I believe we should all try to do as often as possible !!! >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Hyacinths

I’m always being asked to keep-up with my Boobday postings (I’m not sure why you all like them so much!), but I’m happy to say that I did manage two this month. The first of which appropriately featured some Hyacinths, whilst my last post of the month was taken with a new Flogger I recently discovered at my favourite chambers. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze Caught On A Swing Two

You all know just how much I enjoy having my #RealWorldSex videos on Cindy Gallops MakeLoveNotPorn website. And my newest video there, Caught On A Swing which I uploaded just last week, is a perfect example of how things sometimes don’t go quite to plan in the RealWorld. Especially during some RealWorldSex fun. But, even if it didn’t end quite as I’d hoped it would . . . it was still lots and lots of fun . . . which I hope you will still enjoy. >>> Read more>>>


So, once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Caught On A Swing” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces her Real World Sex Video "Caught on a Swing"

Now you probably know that the Hashtag for my favourite video-sharing website . . . MakeLoveNotPorn dot TV . . . is “#realworldsex” . . . with the emphasis on “Real World”.

That’s because the videos show Real People having their Real Fun . . . in Real Situations.

But, as I’m sure we all know, in the Real World things can often not quite go the way one would hope.

And that was, rather disappointingly, the case in my newest video at Make Love Not Porn . . . Caught On A Swing.

You see Lover 83 and I had been indulging in some role-play-fun in my favourite chambers, on their new Swing.

It’s fun to indulge in a little role-play from time to time . . . and I’d decided our theme would involve him kneeling before me and aurally exciting me by describing the view he saw in front of him . . . and what he’d like to do from the position he was in.

Modesty Ablaze on the Dungeon Swing

I had fun teasing him as his story progressed, and I really did begin to get quite aroused . . . as I encouraged him to turn his aural skills into . . . well, an even more enjoyable oral experience.

But that’s when my twisting and swinging motions, began to cause us a slight, positional problem, shall we say

You’ll just have to watch our fun . . . as it unfolds, to see exactly what I mean.

“Caught On A Swing” is my 67th Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch this Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.

You can view my introduction to “Caught On A Swing” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

As I said above, “Caught On A Swing”  is my 67th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Caught On A Swing” with tags such as:

ROLEPLAY / ILUBEU / YUMMY / RAVENOUS / COMMUNICATIVE / NIPSY / HANDY / INTHEDUNGEON / CLITASTIC / DRESSY / KINKY

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my sixty seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Oh, and P.S. – Just because I said our fun didn’t end in quite the way I’d hoped . . . it was still lots, and lots, of fun !!!

Modesty Ablaze fingering herself in her #realworldsex Video "Caught On A Swing"
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Xxx – K

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Happy – #realworldsex – Sixty Cindy @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze and Cindy Gallop

One’s life should, of course, always be in one’s own hands.
But along the way there are events . . . people . . . who inspire, embolden, empower . . . reaffirm . . . our journey.

Cindy Gallop @makelovenotporn is one of those people.

And yes Cindy – #sayyourage – “The older we get, the better life gets” !!!
Happy 60th birthday – I shall be raising a glass, and I’m sure you will be too !!!


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Cindy’s inspirational presentation at the TED conference in 2009, had me hanging-on, AND agreeing with, every word. I know just how much difference embracing my sexuality, and sharing every desire, every feeling and every fantasy with my husband has changed, and enhanced, our lives together. And I also know how (even before I’d discovered Cindy’s words and ideas) that I’d often wished that others could share and enjoy the same sort of feelings of fun, and fulfilment, as Hubby and I.


I urge you to view Cindy’s presentation(s) above and visit her MakeLoveNotPorn community from the logo below!!!

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Xxx – K

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