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Eroticon Meet and Greet 2013

Ohhh . . . I’m getting so nervous!!! It’s just two weeks away and I’m so in awe of actually listening to many of the people I’ve been reading and following on-line for the past 12 months.

Name: Katie Ellison

Twitter id: @ablazingmodesty

Must attend Eroticon 2013 session: “Myth Busting: the submissive woman” by Molly Moore.

Bloggers you’d like to be trapped in the lift with: Well, obviously Molly Moore, the legendary Zoe Margolis and Mina Lamieux .

Erotic writer you’d like to write dramatize your life story: Oh, it just has to be Lucy Felthouse as she seems to have such amazing on-line energy and enthusiasm.

Expected biggest fangirl / fanboy moment: This will be my first experience of an event like this, so really just listening to, and meeting, like-minded people.

What keeps you awake at nights? Updating my diary, and thinking of past encounters, often gets me so excited I can’t possibly sleep . . . until my husband soothes me with his attentions (LOL !!!).

Mmm . . . just can’t wait . . . despite my butterflies !!! Hope to see you there !!!

See who else is coming to Eroticon 2013 in the Meet & Greet link up

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So delighted to be featured on Elodie’s Wicked Wednesday!!!

Modesty Ablaze at Wicked Wednesday

I am so delighted . . . and honoured . . . to be featured on the wonderful Elodie Parkes Wicked Wednesday spot today!!!

Please do visit to read an excerpt from my latest Diary “The Journey” . . . and if you leave a comment on Elodie’s post, and then email me separately, I will send you a 99c Smashwords Discount Voucher valid until the 16th of February.

And whilst you are on Elodie’s page please do take a moment to check-out her own “Millie Reinvented” book available from Amazon . . . I can highly recommend this wonderfully sexciting story !!!

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Download my FREE Modesty App

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Now you can keep up-to-date with all my latest news and diary posts directly from your mobile by downloading my FREE Modesty Ablaze App. It’s available for all the latest mobile devices . . . Apple I-Phones and I-Pads, Android, Windows, Blackberry mobiles and more . . .

Imagine . . . you’ll just have to stroke me on your phone and I’ll instantly open-up and tell you all my latest secrets!!!

Just click me here “Modesty Ablaze FREE Download”  for the link and download instructions.

And as a special treat, for the next two weeks, Parts 2 and 3 of my “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” will be available for only 99c from my Smashwords Authors page here.

Signing-up for a Smashwords Account is completely FREE . . . and once you add either of my books to your shopping cart you’ll simply need to add the following Code for the price to automatically reduce to just 99c.

For “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries Pt 2 – Arrivals & Departures” enter the code YT69U .

For “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries Pt 3 – The Balcony” enter the code UP55E .

And, as a SPECIAL THANK YOU, purchasing any of my books whether from my Smashwords Author page, OR my Amazon Authors page, allows you to request your own Private Password for my “Balcony Members” only page where you can view some much-more-”private” photos . . . and a short video.

I hope you’ll have fun with my App . . . and, of course . . . reading more of my personal diary entries !!!

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FREE Excerpt to Celebrate “The Modesty Diaries – The Journey”

TheJourney300pixThe THIRD of my “The Modesty Diaries – Pt 1 The Journey” has just been published at Amazon and Smashwords . . . and to celebrate, I hope you will enjoy the following excerpt from one of my previous books “The Balcony” (also available at my Amazon and Smashwords authors pages).

“The Journey” details just how I came to embark on the wonderful open relationship I share with my husband of over 30 years. Among the 70 pages are accounts of evenings (and daytime liaisons) with three of my earliest lovers.

These accounts are autobiographical . . . not fictional and, as with the excerpt from “The Balcony” below, they are all narrated in the first-person as edited excerpts from what were initially “private” diaries shared only with my Husband . . . even the cover pictures are my own . . . so everything is 100% me. (More details at My Ebooks page).

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The Modesty Diaries Pt 3 The Balcony

” . . . at least everything is new and easy to operate in his kitchen. I set-up the oven and then laid out the table . . . it actually wasn’t very long before he arrived, looking surprised . . . and pleased as we embraced. His hands quickly slid under the hem of the robe at the back and he cupped my bottom cheeks as we kissed again. He asked if he had time for a shower and I followed him into the bathroom and helped him undress between more kissing and fondling. I stood and watched as he showered and talked about his meeting and the reason it had over-ran.

He always seems completely unconcerned about being naked and we walked along the corridor back to the kitchen with him still drying himself and talking on. He did actually wrap the towel around his waist before accepting the glass I handed him, and then walked out onto the balcony as I checked the progress of the meal.

“Won’t be long, about 15 minutes” I told him, feeling quite happy with myself that I was organising things so well. I joined him at the railings, looking down at the river. Even as high up as we were, there was very little breeze, it was still warm and, of course, being early evening, still completely light.

We chatted on, pausing as he stepped back to the kitchen to top-up our glasses whilst I continued to admire the view.
“I love it looking down on everything from here. You are so lucky” I told him as he returned. He handed me my glass and cuddled in behind me, kissing my neck and ear.

“I know I’m very, very lucky” he said as he continued to kiss, and then nibble at my ear.

As he slid his arms around me further, I realised he didn’t have his glass . . . and . . . didn’t have his towel either!

“You can’t stand out here without anything on!” I laughed. I could feel his erection pressing against my hip through the robe . . . and then as he adjusted his position and lifted the robe slightly, I felt it bare against my skin.

I shook and twisted “Vince, you’re naked. Someone will see!!!” His erection was rubbing over my bottom cheeks and then stopped, resting erect between my cheeks as he pressed me gently against the railing and I stopped my squirming.

“No one can see, they’d have to have telescopes from across the river” he answered.

To the left of us, his sun-seat with a canvas back and canopy, did obscure the rest of the building, and the design of the apartments to the right of us meant there was only a wall. But as I looked over I could clearly see the balcony below and to the left of us. They were both empty, but if we could see down someone would be able to see up if they did come out.
He’d opened my robe at the front now though, and as he continued kissing my neck, and telling me that nobody else was home, his hands were squeezing at my breasts. I turned my head back to accept his request to “kiss”, and knew I was moaning as his tongue slipped over mine and the palm of his hands were scraping over my nipples. They were already hard and tingling, but as he pinched at them gently and then slid one hand down over my tummy, I felt them getting harder and my skin stretching and tingling.

“Vince !!!,” I was trying to protest and twist my hips again . . . but as I twisted he adjusted too, pulling back from me slightly and then pushing forward and I felt his cock sliding between my legs and rubbing against the lips of my pussy. I’d completely lost my resistance now, the fingers of one of his hands was rubbing over my clit whilst I clamped my own hand over the fingers of his other hand which was sliding across my chest and squeezing from one breast to the other. I lifted up on my toes and pushed my hips back and felt him guiding his cock into my, now soaking wet, pussy.

My robe was now completely open at the front and I could feel the handrail of the balcony against my chest with my boobs resting over it as he pushed and rocked me from behind. I had to let go of his hand and grip the handrail with my free hand whilst I struggled to hold onto my glass with the other. He stopped his rocking and reached over to take the glass from me and leant down to put it on the floor next to us. He pushed forward against me again and his cock slid straight back into my pussy without me having to adjust myself at all.

I was just completely gone now. Groaning and pushing back against him and gripping the handrail with both hands. I was loving the feeling, the excitement, knowing my nipples were pressing against nothing but fresh-air, but wanting to push and feel it more. He was still rubbing the fingers of one hand over and over my lips and button and gripping me around my tummy with his other arm. I was completely carried away with what we were doing, opening my eyes for a moment to look out in front of us and down at the river below. I could “feel” the open-air against my skin, but I wanted to see it too. I closed my eyes again, squeezing them tightly tight, wanting so much to come like this, in this position, in this place. I could feel him grunting faster too. He lifted his arm up from tummy to my nipple.

“Oh, squeeze my tits” I gasped at him. He lifted his other hand away from my pussy, but I pushed it back down again. His thrusts were now becoming pumps, hard and grunting in time with each push forwards.

“Not inside” I gasped at him. I heard him grunting louder for several more hard, pushing strokes and then felt him pull suddenly out and thrust his cock forward against me again. I was still gripping the handrail and could feel him rubbing himself feverishly over me, sliding his erection up and down between my bum cheeks.  He had curled both his arms round over my tummy pulling himself against me. I heard him coming, his gasps sounding almost like sobs as he dropped his head onto my shoulder. I felt the wetness splashing up over my back and then over my cheeks as I swivelled my bottom from side to side.

For a moment I thought I’d lost my own momentum, but as he pulled me back into him, his hand slid down between my legs again, the pressure of his wrist rubbing over me like an electric shock. I groaned with the rush of it all . . . grasping the handrail again with both hands, my head hanging over the edge and my legs spread wide apart. He was still holding me around the tummy with both hands now, resting his forehead on my back between my shoulder blades . . . but his fingers were twirling around my clit and over my lips. I groaned again . . .

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FREE EXTRAS !!!

AND as a SPECIAL THANK YOU for every new purchase (of any of my three diaries), from either of the above sites, you can ask me for a Private Password for my “Balcony Members” only page where you can view some much-more-”private” photos . . . and possibly some personal videos as well.

I hope you will enjoy!!!

With best wishes – Modesty

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Modesty Ablaze is one year old this week!!!

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One year on!! A “thank you” picture taken last night January 7th 2013.

It’s so, so hard to believe . . . but I am one-year-old this week.  Yes I actually posted my first on-line entry “Dipping our toes, and falling in” here in January of last year.

That first post was made after a teasing dare from my husband after months and months of talking about actually posting extracts from my “personal diary” onto the internet. I’d been keeping a record of my extra-marital flings for Hubby for over a decade. And as our “open relationship” just continued to blossom and evolve over the years . . . from initially just the occasional three-some with one of my lovers, and then our first nervous visits to a local Swinging Club . . . our life-style was becoming more and more adventurous, and more and more exciting.

So after one extra-specially exciting session . . . and lots of glasses of wine . . . “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” was born!!!

After that first post I was astounded to start receiving email messages from readers within the first days. And with subsequent posts (such as “Our Couples Adventure“), my email box was soon flooded with messages and compliments. And it has just been so flattering, and humbling, to have continued to receive more and more messages as the months have passed by.

I still find it incredible, and difficult to fully comprehend, that in just 12 months I have had over 24,000 visits to my Diary here, and that so many people have downloaded my Ebook Diary Excerpts.  And I could never, ever, have imagined that so many people would want to personally email me and ask me for advice and opinions on their own relationships and personal lives. I do try to answer every sensible question as quickly as I can (some of the more frequent questions are answered here at my “Questions you’ve asked me” page) but do forgive me if I can’t reply as quickly as you would wish . . . keeping up with everything here (as well as my “socialising” . . . LOL !!!) does take a lot of time. BUT, yes it is worth it, when I receive such lovely and complimentary responses . . . and I keep seeing how many people visit, and return, to my diary.

So, thank you so, SO MUCH to everybody who has visited me here . . . I hope the included picture, taken just last night, will go some way towards thanking you all.

More soon . . . I promise!!!
With best wishes – Modesty

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New Photos Christmas treat for my “Modesty Balcony” members !!!

The Modesty Diaries - Pt 3 The BalconyI’ve just added several new photos to my “Private Balcony Members only” page.

They’re not actually “Christmassy” (LOL !!!) . . . but I thought I’d upload them as a very-naughty special Christmas treat for my Balcony Members.

If you are not yet a member, BOTH my Diary E-Books are still on-sale for just 99c each at my SMASHWORDS authors page (see the Discount Coupon Voucher links below).

Purchase even just one of the books and email me your details to qualify for FREE Password Access to my “Private Balcony Members only” page. It’s easy, AND Free, to create a Smashwords account, and you can download the books in any Ebook format (Kindle, Nook, Kobo, Adobe PDF etc. etc.)

And yes, the photos ARE all of me (with a number of different lovers) . . . and there is also a short video clip as well.

Oh, and to answer another question that I am often asked, yes the cover picture on both books is also me. I know it’s not exactly a professionally designed book cover, but I hope you will agree that it makes my books more “personal” in a way. You can even request a personalised, digital “Autograph” (click after purchase) from me to be added to your Ebook if you prefer to purchase it from my Amazon authors page.

I hope you will all enjoy a wonderfully fun, happy, peaceful . . . and sexciting . . . Christmas and a healthy and eventful New Year.

Thank you so much for continuing to visit me here . . . and for all of your comments and emails.

NOW until January 7th BOTH my books
JUST 99c each from my SMASHWORDS page!!!
Simply enter the Coupon Codes below at checkout. ENJOY!!!

“The Balcony” with Coupon Code WU88U

“Arrivals & Departures” with  Coupon Code AC48V

My Ebooks are autobiographical excerpts from my Diary not previously published on-line. And both come with Pictures!!!
(See FREE EXTRAS at My Ebooks page!)

Email your Private Password request to me at: modestyablaze@gmail.com

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New picture gallery . . .

MirrorwiseFINALdec12It’s been such a busy, (very-naughty-busy), month !!! Lots of fun evening meetings . . . and lots to catch-up on to add to my diary . . . but I just haven’t had the time (LOL!!!).

For everybody who has asked, I promise I will try to update here on at least some of our fun in the next couple of weeks or so (or . . . perhaps . . . during the Christmas break!).

But in the meantime, as a thank-you-treat for all your patience, I thought I would attach this pic from last Saturday. (Taken as I was getting ready to meet Lover No. 20).

And, especially for my “Balcony Members”, I have just uploaded a second picture-gallery with some recent photos and updated the video clip there.

So, as I said, I promise I will try to add a new diary post as soon as I can.

With best wishes – Modesty

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Such an honour to be included in the Top 100 Sex Blogger 2012 List . . .

Sex Blogger 2012One of the joys I have experienced since I first began publishing my diary here less than a year ago, is to regularly receive emails from people telling me how much they have enjoyed reading of my experiences . . . and often how it has helped them in their own personal lives. Helped them to more easily express their feelings, thoughts and desires with their own partners. Or perhaps to have helped them more easily accept their own sexuality, and needs and preferences, which are all too often stifled by the moral and cultural mores of our upbringing.

It has always been flattering, and humbling, and inspirational to receive those messages . . . but I awoke one morning last week to feel even more flattered to discover my on-line diary here had been included in the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012 at Rori’s Between My Sheets.

To be included in a list of some of the most exciting, entertaining, insightful, interesting and inspirational writers on the Internet is such an honour . . . such a huge honour . . . that I am still feeling somewhat overwhelmed.

Many of the writers on this list are already people I regularly visit and read, but I wish I could give Rori a personal, special hug for opening-up my world to many new and equally exciting and interesting on-line Bloggers. I have been scrolling through the list one-by-one over the past few days . . . and urge you all to do the same by discovering joys and delights . . . and giggles and gasps . . . from Rori’s complete list below.

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1. Molly from Molly’s Daily Kiss @mollysdailykiss
2. EA from Easily Aroused @EasilyAroused
3. Hyacinth Jones from A Dissolute Life Means…
4. Cheeky Minx from Love Hate Sex Cake @LoveHateSexCake
5. Amy from Anal Amy @AnalAmy
6. My Trousers Rolled from My Trousers Rolled @rolledtrousers
7. Sexual Life of a Wife from Sexual Life of a Wife
8. Dark Gracie from Gracie’s Playground @darkgracie
9. diirrty from d i i r r t y
10. nilla from Vanillamom’s Blog @swirlednilla
11. Suggestive Tongue from Suggestive Tongue @Suggestive
12. Sunny Megatron from Sunny Megatron @SunnyMegatron
13. Aisha from Being Aisha
14. Dev from Delving to Deviance
15. Amie Wee from Crevice Canyon @crevicecanyon
16. Remittance Girl from Remittance Girl @remittancegirl
17. Lady Dragonfly from Lady Dragonfly @miladydragonfly
18. paltego from Femdom Resource
19. Bella Blush from Clean, Moral, Polite
20. Girl on the Net from Girl on the Net @girlonthenet
21. Clarisse Thorn from Clarisse Thorn @clarissethorn
22. Kyle Mew from Kyle Mew @kylemmew
23. Violet+Rye from Uncommon Appetites @UCAppetites
24. Mina and Sylvanus from At Longing’s End @mydesire and @sylvanus
25. Athol Kay from Married Man Sex Life
26. Heather and Nikki from Vagina Antics @Heather_Cole1 and @Nikki_Blue1
27. Ferns from Domme Chronicles @Ferns__
28. Conina from Exploring Surrender
29. Kaya from Under His Hand
30. Joan Price from Better Than I Ever Expected @joanprice
31. Dumb Domme from Dumb Domme @DumbDomme
32. Sadie from That’s What Sadie Said
33. Nikki from Nikki True @Thenikkitrue
34. Lucas Brooks from Top To Bottom @Top2Bottom
35. HH and Lo from My Sex Life with Lola
36. Harper Elliot from (It Girl. Rag Doll) @HarperEliot
37. Charlie Glickman from Charlie Glickman @charlieglickman
38. Lady Cheeky from Smut for Smarties @Lady_Cheeky
39. TemptingSweets999 from Tempting Sweets: Story Heat
40. Monocle, Redbud, and Ximena from The Erotic Writer @_Monocle_ and @_Ximena_Writes_
41. Happy BDSM from Happy BDSM
42. Charlie Nox from Charlie Nox @charlienox
43. Theo Black from Theo Black
44. Chrystal Bougon from Better Sex from Bliss @blissconnection
45. Rockin from Light Switch @RockinwithaCock
46. Dr. Marty Klein from Sexual Intelligence @drmartyklein
47. Miranda an Aaron from The Swinger’s Attic
48. Karen from Kissing Blue Karen @kissinbluekaren
49. Axe from Unspeakable Axe @unspeakableaxe
50. Peroxide from Submissive in Seattle @Peroxide__
51. Rachel Rabbit White from Rachel Rabbit White @rabbitwhite
52. Jill McDevitt from A Day in the Life of a Sexologist
53. LS&M from Love, Sex & Marriage
54. Hubman from Hubman’s Hangout @hubman38
55. Coyote’s Kitten from Kitten’s Paw Prints in Slavery @coyoteskitten
56. Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross from Dodson and Ross @dodsonandross
57. Daisy Danger from The True Life Sex Adventures of Daisy Danger @daisydanger
58. Oatmeal Girl from Submission & Metaphor @oatmeal_girl
59. Fatal from You Linger Like a Haunting Refrain
60. Ruby Ryer from Pegging Paradise @Ruby_Ryder
61. Kyle Jones from Butchtastic
62. Anakin and padme from Journey to the Darkside @AnakinDarth and @padmeamidala
63. Lady Pandorah from Lady Panorah’s Sanctuary @ladypandorah
64. Marie Rebelle from Rebel’s Notes @rebelsnotes
65 Thumper from Denying Thumber @thumperMN
66. Jade from Pieces of Jade @piecesofjade
67. Jason Stotts from Erosophia @jstotts
68. BD Swain from Leaning How To Tell You @redswain
69. Bre from Owned, Collared, Loved
70. Dangerous Lilly from This Could Be Dangerous @dangerouslilly
71. Modesty Ablaze from Modesty Ablaze @ablazingmodesty
72. Suzanne from All Mine
73. Kitty from My Secret Life
74. Domina Victoria Rage from Domina Victoria Rage @VictoriaRage
75. Sin from Finding My Submission
76. Maggie Mayhem from Miss Maggie Mahem @msmaggiemayhem
77. Artemisia Absinthium from Absinth Cocktail @ArtiAbsinthium
78. N. Likes from My Dissolute Life @nlikes
79. TheOthers1 from Undue Creativity
80. Roxy from Uncommon Curiosity @sroxy
81. Mollena from The Perverted Negress @Mollena
82. Jerome from Let’s Talk About Sex
83. Liza from Always Each Other @lizawrites
84. Figleaf from Real Adult Sex @talkingfigleaf
85. Red Vinyl Kitty from The Sub Mission @The_Sub_Mission
86. Omega and Mouse from The Power Exchange @talesofmouse
87. Innocent Loverboy from Innocent Loverboy @innocentlb
88. Shelby Cross from Shelby Cross, Writer
89. Blacksilk from Being Blacksilk @BlacksilkBlog
90. Kaleigh Trace from Fucking Facts @TheFuckingFacts
91. Romantic Dominant from A Faded Romantic’s Notebook
92. BiLikesSciFi from A Tale of Bi and Bi @bi_and_bi
93. Curvaceous Dee from Curvaceous Dee @curvaceousdee
94. Evoe Thorne from My Whole Sex Life @WholeSexLife
95. Ponyboy from Marriage in the Bedroom @Ponyboy0000
96. Jack and Jill from Frisky in the 916 @jackandjillcpl and @jillandjackcpl
97. The Gentle Nibbles Writing Team from Gentle Nibbles @gentlenibbles
98. Kitty from The Submissive Wife
99. Kat from She Makes the Rules

100. YOU!

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And if your own Blog is not featured here, Rori would like you to leave a comment on Between My Sheets with your name/URL to tell us all about your own sexy blog!

With best wishes – Modesty

 

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17,000 reasons to thank you!!!

Modesty Ablaze Wardrobe BottomI have always loved receiving all of your email messages and comments to my diary here . . . right from my very first post at the beginning of the year.

Many of the messages have made me feel very special and privileged to have such responsive and flattering readers, and I never ever imagined that so many people would want to ask me for advice and opinions on their own relationships and personal lives.

It has been flattering, humbling and inspirational . . . and quite simply amazing . . . to this week have reached over 17,000 visits to my diary.

Thank you so, SO MUCH to everybody who has visited me here . . . and to answer all of your most recent requests for new updates . . . yes, I promise that there will be a new post shortly about one of my most recent “meetings”.

And, as a special thank you to everyone who has visited me here, I hope the included picture, taken just last night as I was preparing for a new “night out”, will go some way towards thanking you all for your patience.

More soon . . . I promise!!!
With best wishes – Modesty

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Buy ONE get 2nd FREE at Smashwords

The Modesty Diaries

The Balcony

As a special treat, and just for the next week, new purchases of either “The Balcony” or “Arrivals and Departures” from my Smashwords account will get the second book FREE.

Simply email me (address found at the foot of my E-Books page) to tell me which book you’ve purchased and I’ll reply (within 24 hours . . . I need some socialising-time LOL!!!) with details of your Free Coupon code.

Purchase of EITHER book qualifies for the OTHER book FREE . . . up until, and including Sunday, October 21st.

The Modesty Ablaze Diaries - Pt 2 Arrivals & Departures

Arrivals & Departures

You can link to both books from my Smashwords Authors page here.

I look forward to sharing with you!!!

With best wishes – Modesty

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