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A Modest Turret #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Turret Scavenger Hunt

“Mmmm … well I don’t know really … isn’t a Turret part of a Castle or a Fort?” I asked Hubby as we strolled along the path. “And I already have both of those in my Naughty Scavenger Hunt collection”.

“Yes, you’re probably right” he replied. “I suppose it’s not really a stand-alone sort of erection. They’re always attached to something”.

“Oohh … take it anyway” I told him. “You know how much I love an erection attached to something!!!”

I wouldn’t be surprised if there are several more erections and attachments on display at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Let’s kiss the lips below to see shall we!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

P.S. – Perhaps I will check-in with Bee at her Naughty Scavenger Hunt page to see if Turret might be a separate category. But in the meantime I shall add it to my Exposé Vŭ memories below.

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Xxx – K

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Modest Red Lace #BoobDay Friday

Modest Red Lace Boobday Friday

I’ve been so looking forward to finally wearing some of the new items that have arrived from my Wishlist over the past, almost a whole year now!

I received this lovely Red Bodystocking some months ago, and I’m sure it will soon be featured in more posts over the coming months … but in the meantime I do think it is rather appropriate for Boobday Friday don’t you agree?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Eat Before Beer Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Eat Before Beer Time"

It’s been so lovely recently to have received lots of messages telling me how much you’ve all been enjoying my Videos from my holiday last summer.

We were so lucky to have such a relaxing, lovely time, and perfect weather on my favourite beach. And usually after an early morning swim and then a few hours of lying back enjoying the amazing, warming rays from that lovely Grecian sun, I’d begin to get a little peckish.

Of course, we’d always take drinks and watermelon and snacks to the beach with us … but quite often … as well as feeling peckish, I’d usually start feeling horny as well. There’s just something about being naked in that sun, sea and sand that always gets me going.

So once things begin to get a little TOO hot and sticky … and juicy … I insist that we adjourn back to the cool of the apartment for a few hours, and for my first fun “Me-Time” orgasm of the day.  And that is just what happened in this video !!!

Modesty Ablaze "Eat Before Beer Time" Photo 1

But we were both so worked up the moment we walked in the door, that in the passion of the moment, Hubby’s camera got knocked slightly askew.

So when I first viewed this video afterwards, the awkward positioning and rather unflattering angles, left me feeling that it wouldn’t be interesting or usable.

But then awkward camera positions and unflattering angles are not what #realworldsex at Make Love Not Porn is about is it? The important thing is the love and passion of the moment … and there is certainly lots of that in this video … as I hope you will see for yourself.

You can view my introduction to “Eat Before Beer Time” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Eat Before Beer Time  is my 86th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Eat Before Beer Time with tags such as:

#bisexual #blissful #clitastic #facetime #handson #holiday #intense #intimate #joyful #lickjob #loud #loving #married #onthebeach #passionate #ravenous #sensual #soclose #sony #spirited #succulent #vacationtime #wetime #yummy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modest Panties #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty's Used Panties

I mentioned during the week how much I love my Leather … but, of course, I also love my Lace!!!

And I’ve been very lucky over the years that even if I do get bored with a pair such as these … I never, ever, have to throw them away!!!

For lots more Sinful thoughts this weekend simply kiss the Sinful Sunday lips below!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest 2 Flutes #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Two Flutes Boobday Friday

Would you like to join me for a sip … or two … at Boobday Friday!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modest Leather #wickedwednesday and #4Thoughts_Fiction and #KOTW

Mistress Modesty loves Leather

New “hobbies” always open-up new experiences and often change one’s perception of certain things, and previously held likes and dislikes don’t they.

And that was certainly the case when I first embarked upon my Femdom fun adventures.

It was obvious that I would need a complete new wardrobe … and accessories. Not that I’ve ever been averse to a new wardrobe of course!!!

Previously the only leather garments in my wardrobe(s) had been “normal” coats and jackets. And, in fact for my first Mistressing outfits my initial choices were all in Latex. I loved the shiny look and feel of the garments as I browsed the racks at both of the shops my Mistressing mentors had recommended.

But although I loved my new outfits, and felt much more in-tune with my new “persona” when I was wearing them, it was actually the purchase of my first accessories that really led to my new love. Leather.

My first two items, a stranded heavy leather flogger and a lovely spanking slapper, just had that smell and feel about them that had me intoxicated in a way I hadn’t experienced with my normal leather coats and jackets.

Perhaps it was that rawness … and knowing the intention of their purpose … that made me want to inhale and savour that smell even more. And to feel the strength and yet caress of that texture against ones skin. Suddenly the clingy and difficult to get into, and out of, sticky latex was pushed to the back of my wardrobe to be replaced by lots, and lots, of new garments in my new Pleasure, my new love … and yes even my new Desire for … Leather !!!

For more thoughts on Pleasure, Desire … and Leather … just visit the current editions of Wicked Wednesday, 4 Thoughts and Kink of The Week … by tapping the buttons below!

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Xxx- K

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At my happiest #sinfulsunday

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I am … always at my happiest … standing on this balcony!!!

Amongst the sweet scent of bougainvillea, feeling the warming summer sun upon my skin … and listening to that calming sound of gentle waves rolling in on my favourite beach below.

“I Am” … is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday. Tap the lips below for more!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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The Last Photo #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze last photo Boobday Friday

Sat forlornly on our balcony on the last day of our holiday last year … waiting for the cab to turn into the driveway and take us to the airport.

Yes, I did put some clothes on for the journey home … though after two wonderful weeks it felt so uncomfortable and unnecessary.

This was the last photo taken on that holiday … I’m still hoping and praying we will have the opportunity to take many more again this year!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Post-Session Wind Down” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Post-Session Wind Down" video at MakeLoveNotPorn

As some of you will already know, one of my most enjoyable “hobbies”, is my Mistress Modesty Sessioning fun. And I particularly enjoy administering some fun hand-spanking … or perhaps a light caning to the bottoms of my … always willing, spanking-submissives.

And quite often, I enjoy those sessions so much that I find myself becoming quite aroused and sometimes even really, really horny!!!

And that was certainly the case after my most recent spanking session when … having warmed and reddened my happy submissives bottom to his complete satisfaction … I just had to retire to my boudoir and lay back with my favourite Doxy Wand for some complete satisfaction of my own.

Now if you’ve viewed my Doxy Wand in action before … or if you have one of your own … you will know how quickly it can drive one over the edge.

And despite me trying to slow things down and tease myself along more slowly, it wasn’t very long before I completely lost control of my emotions.

You will just have to watch the full video to see exactly what I mean …

Modesty Ablaze and her Doxy Wand in "A Post-Session Wind Down" RealWorldSex video

So I hope you will enjoy my Post-Session Wind Down fun. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

You can view my introduction to “A Post-Session Wind Down” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

A Post-Session Wind Down  is my 85th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
A Post-Session Wind Down with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #clitastic #hotelroom #intense #joyful #kinky #loud #married #metime #playful #quickie #samsung #sensual #spirited #toytime #wand-erfull

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager @Sohimi_Official

Sohimi Wand 1

After my Stainless Steel Rings review last month, Sohimi very kindly asked me for my thoughts on their Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager.

Now, as I’m sure you can imagine, I have accumulated quite a collection of clit sucking vibrators over the years, so whilst I wouldn’t say I have become unenthusiastic about adding more to my toy drawer, I was prepared to be rather unimpressed by another.

And certainly when it arrived, I must confess that the very plain packaging … a plain white, outer cardboard box and thin white moulded plastic container inside, cradling the wand itself with the charging cable loosely inserted beneath … did leave me feeling a little underwhelmed.

Sohimi Wand 2

However, as you will discover from browsing the Sohimi website, all their products are remarkably low in price. So is this low-pricing a sign of low-quality products … or is it because they have chosen to keep costs down by plain, unpretentious packaging???

Well … let me tell you !!!

The wand itself certainly felt lovely to the touch when I lifted it from it’s cradle. Made from “body-safe & skin-friendly silicone” it is smooth and soft and actually quite light and comfortable to hold given it’s 9-inch length. And the feel of it, in the palm of my hand, did make me impatient to begin my “product-testing” straight away.

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But, firstly of course, I needed to follow my normal ritual of a thorough cleaning with warm soapy water and drying-off … before attaching the charging cable and leaving it to fully charge.

The USB cable actually magnetically “docks” to the charging points on the stem, or handle, of the Wand and I left it for the 2-3 hours suggested in the manual.

Now, I’ve already mentioned the plain packaging. And actually despite normally feeling that colourful, imaginative and strikingly designed packaging always implies a high-quality product inside, there have been many occasions when, for me a product, hasn’t lived-up to the promises of it’s packaging-presentation. So it definitely is always the case that what the product does, is obviously more important than how it is packaged.

However, I do like to be able to easily read the instructions and specifications supplied with my new devices (of any kind, whether it be hair-dryers, hoovers … or “toys”). So, I do have to say, that I was disappointed with the small specifications leaflet supplied with the wand. For a lady of my “maturity” and slowly, and depressingly, fading eyesight, I don’t really want to have to be reaching for my reading glasses in order to determine the operational sequence of the buttons and vibrations! But moan over … and now fully charged …

Sohimi Wand 4

As it’s name implies the Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager is both a clit sucker and vibrating massager in one. The bulbous head, which actually bends in any direction on it’s flexible neck, supplies the vibrations whilst a hole on the base of the stem handle supplies the sucking.

Sohimi Wand 5

Discarding my reading glasses I soon, intuitively, discovered just how easy it is to operate either function of the Wand. Both buttons are easy to find, and to press into action by holding down for a second to turn-on and then applying a further short press to cycle through the available vibrations and pulses. Each button has six or seven levels of power or pulse, though of course the pattern path is upwards only, so if you find your next push has taken you onto a setting you don’t enjoy as the previous one you just had, then you must hold the button down to turn off, then turn on again to progress back to your preferred choice. But this is no different from most of the vibes in my collection, so once I know which setting is for me I can quickly find it again.

Now for me, I almost always prefer a steady, constant vibration rather than a pulsing or sucking sensation. But we are all different of course, so although the clit sucker on the base of the handle doesn’t do anything for me, even at it’s strongest power setting, it may well be heavenly for others. (I do find though that the handle is perfectly shaped and sized for some gentle in-and-out teasing probings during my play).

So it is the head, and the top-button, of the Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager that I find most enjoyable about my new Sohimi toy. The head because it is just perfectly shaped to move and rub around and over myself … and the button because I know just how many pushes I need to make to take me to my spot … to lift off, to rub teasingly away and upwards, and then slide it back down again !!!

As I mentioned, the head can bend in any angle on the neck of the wand, but it is definitely not floppy or wobbly. Rather it is strong … and firm … and very powerful. Very powerful indeed! And although it is not exactly silent, it is actually quite quiet given the power and strength of its lovely buzzing.

So … do I like the Sohimi Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager ?

No … I LOVE it !!! … Perfectly sized, perfectly shaped, perfectly powerful, perfectly lovely … and perfectly priced. (Oh, and by-the-way, should you be tempted to order the wand for yourself, and I highly recommend you do, simply use the code “MODE” for 10% OFF !!!)

The Sohimi Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager
Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Smooth, light and easy to hold and operate. Very powerful and very, very reasonably priced.
Cons: For me the type-size of the supplied, specifications leaflet is far too small for easy reading.
Material: Body-safe Silicone.
Measurements: Overall length = 9 inches. Bulbous head = 2 inches, circumference = 6 inches. Handle length = 6 inches, circumference at it’s thickest point = 5 inches.
Charging: Re-chargeable. USB cable supplied.
Power Level: Impressively powerful given it’s size.
Noise Level: Reasonably quiet given it’s power.
Waterproof: Yes.
Cleaning: As normal, wash before and after use with warm soapy water. Use with water-based lube.
Supplier Product Link: Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager
Supplier Website: Sohimi
Additional links: Clittoral Vibrators
Twitter: @Sohimi_Official

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I’m always interested to hear “second opinions” from one of my Submissives … and yes, he enjoyed it too !!!

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The Sohimi Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx- K

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