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BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
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New “hobbies” always open-up new experiences and often change one’s perception of certain things, and previously held likes and dislikes don’t they.
And that was certainly the case when I first embarked upon my Femdom fun adventures.
It was obvious that I would need a complete new wardrobe … and accessories. Not that I’ve ever been averse to a new wardrobe of course!!!
Previously the only leather garments in my wardrobe(s) had been “normal” coats and jackets. And, in fact for my first Mistressing outfits my initial choices were all in Latex. I loved the shiny look and feel of the garments as I browsed the racks at both of the shops my Mistressing mentors had recommended.
But although I loved my new outfits, and felt much more in-tune with my new “persona” when I was wearing them, it was actually the purchase of my first accessories that really led to my new love. Leather.
My first two items, a stranded heavy leather flogger and a lovely spanking slapper, just had that smell and feel about them that had me intoxicated in a way I hadn’t experienced with my normal leather coats and jackets.
Perhaps it was that rawness … and knowing the intention of their purpose … that made me want to inhale and savour that smell even more. And to feel the strength and yet caress of that texture against ones skin. Suddenly the clingy and difficult to get into, and out of, sticky latex was pushed to the back of my wardrobe to be replaced by lots, and lots, of new garments in my new Pleasure, my new love … and yes even my new Desire for …Leather!!!
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I am … always at my happiest … standing on this balcony!!!
Amongst the sweet scent of bougainvillea, feeling the warming summer sun upon my skin … and listening to that calming sound of gentle waves rolling in on my favourite beach below.
“I Am” … is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday. Tap the lips below for more!
Sat forlornly on our balcony on the last day of our holiday last year … waiting for the cab to turn into the driveway and take us to the airport.
Yes, I did put some clothes on for the journey home … though after two wonderful weeks it felt so uncomfortable and unnecessary.
This was the last photo taken on that holiday … I’m still hoping and praying we will have the opportunity to take many more again this year!!!
BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
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As some of you will already know, one of my most enjoyable “hobbies”, is my Mistress Modesty Sessioning fun. And I particularly enjoy administering some fun hand-spanking … or perhaps a light caning to the bottoms of my … always willing, spanking-submissives.
And quite often, I enjoy those sessions so much that I find myself becoming quite aroused and sometimes even really, really horny!!!
And that was certainly the case after my most recent spanking session when … having warmed and reddened my happy submissives bottom to his complete satisfaction … I just had to retire to my boudoir and lay back with my favourite Doxy Wand for some complete satisfaction of my own.
Now if you’ve viewed my Doxy Wand in action before … or if you have one of your own … you will know how quickly it can drive one over the edge.
And despite me trying to slow things down and tease myself along more slowly, it wasn’t very long before I completely lost control of my emotions.
You will just have to watch the full video to see exactly what I mean …
So I hope you will enjoy my Post-Session Wind Down fun. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!
You can view my introduction to “A Post-Session Wind Down” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.
There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.
“A Post-Session Wind Down”is my 85th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.
The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled “A Post-Session Wind Down” with tags such as:
So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.
It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!
Now, as I’m sure you can imagine, I have accumulated quite a collection of clit sucking vibrators over the years, so whilst I wouldn’t say I have become unenthusiastic about adding more to my toy drawer, I was prepared to be rather unimpressed by another.
And certainly when it arrived, I must confess that the very plain packaging … a plain white, outer cardboard box and thin white moulded plastic container inside, cradling the wand itself with the charging cable loosely inserted beneath … did leave me feeling a little underwhelmed.
However, as you will discover from browsing the Sohimi website, all their products are remarkably low in price. So is this low-pricing a sign of low-quality products … or is it because they have chosen to keep costs down by plain, unpretentious packaging???
Well … let me tell you !!!
The wand itself certainly felt lovely to the touch when I lifted it from it’s cradle. Made from “body-safe & skin-friendly silicone” it is smooth and soft and actually quite light and comfortable to hold given it’s 9-inch length. And the feel of it, in the palm of my hand, did make me impatient to begin my “product-testing” straight away.
But, firstly of course, I needed to follow my normal ritual of a thorough cleaning with warm soapy water and drying-off … before attaching the charging cable and leaving it to fully charge.
The USB cable actually magnetically “docks” to the charging points on the stem, or handle, of the Wand and I left it for the 2-3 hours suggested in the manual.
Now, I’ve already mentioned the plain packaging. And actually despite normally feeling that colourful, imaginative and strikingly designed packaging always implies a high-quality product inside, there have been many occasions when, for me a product, hasn’t lived-up to the promises of it’s packaging-presentation. So it definitely is always the case that what the product does, is obviously more important than how it is packaged.
However, I do like to be able to easily read the instructions and specifications supplied with my new devices (of any kind, whether it be hair-dryers, hoovers … or “toys”). So, I do have to say, that I was disappointed with the small specifications leaflet supplied with the wand. For a lady of my “maturity” and slowly, and depressingly, fading eyesight, I don’t really want to have to be reaching for my reading glasses in order to determine the operational sequence of the buttons and vibrations! But moan over … and now fully charged …
As it’s name implies the Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager is both a clit sucker and vibrating massager in one. The bulbous head, which actually bends in any direction on it’s flexible neck, supplies the vibrations whilst a hole on the base of the stem handle supplies the sucking.
Discarding my reading glasses I soon, intuitively, discovered just how easy it is to operate either function of the Wand. Both buttons are easy to find, and to press into action by holding down for a second to turn-on and then applying a further short press to cycle through the available vibrations and pulses. Each button has six or seven levels of power or pulse, though of course the pattern path is upwards only, so if you find your next push has taken you onto a setting you don’t enjoy as the previous one you just had, then you must hold the button down to turn off, then turn on again to progress back to your preferred choice. But this is no different from most of the vibes in my collection, so once I know which setting is for me I can quickly find it again.
Now for me, I almost always prefer a steady, constant vibration rather than a pulsing or sucking sensation. But we are all different of course, so although the clit sucker on the base of the handle doesn’t do anything for me, even at it’s strongest power setting, it may well be heavenly for others. (I do find though that the handle is perfectly shaped and sized for some gentle in-and-out teasing probings during my play).
So it is the head, and the top-button, of the Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager that I find most enjoyable about my new Sohimi toy. The head because it is just perfectly shaped to move and rub around and over myself … and the button because I know just how many pushes I need to make to take me to my spot … to lift off, to rub teasingly away and upwards, and then slide it back down again !!!
As I mentioned, the head can bend in any angle on the neck of the wand, but it is definitely not floppy or wobbly. Rather it is strong … and firm … and very powerful. Very powerful indeed! And although it is not exactly silent, it is actually quite quiet given the power and strength of its lovely buzzing.
So … do I like the Sohimi Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager ?
No … I LOVE it !!! … Perfectly sized, perfectly shaped, perfectly powerful, perfectly lovely … and perfectly priced. (Oh, and by-the-way, should you be tempted to order the wand for yourself, and I highly recommend you do, simply use the code “MODE” for 10% OFF !!!)
The Sohimi Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10 Pros: Smooth, light and easy to hold and operate. Very powerful and very, very reasonably priced. Cons: For me the type-size of the supplied, specifications leaflet is far too small for easy reading. Material: Body-safe Silicone. Measurements: Overall length = 9 inches. Bulbous head = 2 inches, circumference = 6 inches. Handle length = 6 inches, circumference at it’s thickest point = 5 inches. Charging: Re-chargeable. USB cable supplied. Power Level: Impressively powerful given it’s size. Noise Level: Reasonably quiet given it’s power. Waterproof: Yes. Cleaning: As normal, wash before and after use with warm soapy water. Use with water-based lube. Supplier Product Link:Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager Supplier Website:Sohimi Additional links:Clittoral Vibrators Twitter:@Sohimi_Official
I’m always interested to hear “second opinions” from one of my Submissives … and yes, he enjoyed it too !!!
TheSohimi Sucking Clitoris Stimulator and Wand Massager was sent to me, free-of-charge, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider: I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
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Shall I ? … or shan’t I ? … wear a bra into the office today???
Well, the answer to that question always depends on what else I have chosen to wear … as I would never wish to cause any discomfort or embarrassment for other colleagues, or co-commuters, that I may encounter during the day!!!
BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!
And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may >tweak me here<
You know what it’s like when working in front of a hot oven … one needs some protection to avoid burning one’s … finger-tips!!!
BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!
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One of the most important, and certainly empowering, things that I have learnt from my Mistressing sessioning is to do with courage.
No … not about my courage … but instead about the courage of many of the people who have contacted, and subsequently, visited me over the past seven years.
Many people wrongly assume that the sort of person who wishes to visit a Female Dominatrix, is in some way abnormal or inferior to the rest of us … and by “rest of us” I mean what is always portrayed in general society as “normal people”.
But in my experience the majority of my visitors … and in the context of this post I don’t want to refer to them as “submissives” … are absolutely normal people, from absolutely normal, everyday backgrounds and walks-of-life.
And through the conversations, discussions, and of course the interactions that always occur around and throughout our meetings, it usually quite quickly becomes clear how much courage these people have needed to accept and acknowledge their desires and their wish to be a little bit “different”. Courage to be able to take that first step to discover themselves in a way that they really feel they can’t share with their immediate loved ones and family … or that would not be “acceptable” among their vocational colleagues, or organisations … because of the stigma and constraints that general society places on us all.
So during our meetings they can be, at least just for the two or three hours of our time together, who they really want to be. To release themselves from the “norms of the everyday” whilst recognising the need that we must all return to and uphold those norms so that others can decide their own paths, their own way, and in their own time. Naturally and equally as it should always be … for all of us.
That takes courage … and understanding … and acceptance.
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