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Modest Tease & Denial … #sinfulsunday

Modest Tease and Denial Sinful Sunday

“So let’s just see shall we. It could be double-the-pleasure couldn’t it!!!”

For lot’s more Teasing Pleasure this Sinful Sunday just squeeze and pinch the lovely lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Causeway Revisited 2021 #sinfulsunday

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It’s always windy on the Causeway of course … but this year Hubby complained it was so windy he could hardly hold the camera still!

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At least that was his excuse for taking so long between each click.

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But despite it always being windy, I simply love strolling out to the Monument each year!

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And just enjoying the cooling wind blowing in from the water … and admiring the lovely view!

Fingers crossed we will be able to return once again next year!

To enjoy more lovely views being shared at this week’s Sinful Sunday just kiss on the lips below!

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I added my first visit in 2016 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but simply have to add this year’s to my other favourites at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

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Xxx – K

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Modest Motion … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Motion Blur

“You know how you said our sessions seem to just race by in a blur? Well, today I thought we’d spend the whole hour just in this position … and just with this particular paddle”.

“Then perhaps you might remember every stroke and every word … don’t you think! Shall we try?”

This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is all about Motion Blur … for more clarity just swipe the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Ice Cream? #sinfulsunday

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“Yes I know it’s nearly November … but surely they can’t be closed … it’s been quite mild today, and I just fancy one!”

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“I mean it’s always nice to end ones afternoon stroll with a cooling, creamy, lick”.

Modest Ice Cream 3

“And look … they do doubles … you know I always enjoy doubles!”

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“And I think they’re missing a trick because look, the car park’s still quite full”.

To see how others have been spending their afternoons this weekend at Sinful Sunday just lick the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Even though I’ve missed out on my afternoon licking, I’m hoping I may still be able to add “Ice Cream Van” to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages.

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap On"

You may recall that last year I published a series of Stand To Attention videos … on my Make Love Not Porn profile … that I’d filmed with Lover 83 at my favourite London Dungeon.

Well those videos certainly generated quite a lot of interest in my “Mistressing hobby” … as I’ve been regularly receiving emails and messages on my social sites ever since, asking for more similar-themed videos from those chambers.

So … as my Femdom Sessions are always based around Role Play and Sensual Teasing Fun … and, as many of the most recent emails I’ve received have been asking if I do any “Pegging or Strap-On” sessions … I thought it would be fun to addTaking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On to my collection here.

It features my favourite Strap-On Submissive, whom as well as being a lovely play-partner who simply loves receiving, also has a very impressive appendage of his own … which I absolutely love playing with!

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Part 1

Now you may find some of my language rather unbecoming of a “mature lady” such as myself … but as I said, this session is just as much about Role Play and Fun Teasing as it is about my Strap-On-ing … so my language and humiliation-teasing is exactly how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On  is my 91st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Five

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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No Modest Regrets #wickedwednesday

Modest No Regrets Wicked Wednesday

We all have regrets don’t we. Things we wish we’d done and didn’t … or things we did and wish we hadn’t … or at least had done differently.

But what I have learnt during my Modest hobbies over the past three decades is not to regret ones adventures, but rather, to learn from them and let the experience(s) shape future situations and choices.

And to try to see the positives in every experience, and with every individual we meet along the way.


This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Regrets” … just click the button below for more thoughts and reflections!

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Xxx- K

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Lighthouse Revisited #sinfulsunday

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When I first visited this spot back in the summer of 2016 I was questioning Hubby’s assertions that this really was a Lighthouse!

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It seemed more like a scenic lookout to me … with coachloads of visitors posing for photos between the pillars.

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But despite it always being quite windy, it quickly became a favourite place that I love to return to each year!

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And enjoy that cooling breeze blowing in from the water …

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and to pause for a few moments and relax and take in the view before …

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having to step aside and let the next visitors take pictures of their own!

This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is “something beginning with L”.
Click on the lips below to explore!

Sinful Sunday

I added my first visit in 2016 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but simply have to add this year’s to my other favourites at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Waterwheel Revisited #sinfulsunday

Modest Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - One

I first created my Exposé Vŭ pages back in 2017 because, as I mentioned then standing on my Special Stairs, there are just so many places on my favourite holiday island that I enjoy re-visiting again and again.

Modest Water Wheel 2021 - Two

Maybe for a morning coffee, an afternoon wine … or evening cocktail.

Water Wheel Revisited 2021 - Three

And this lovely, peaceful Waterwheel is one of those places. So it was simply wonderful to be able to return once again this summer!

For more fun images at this week’s Sinful Sunday kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – There are lots more of my Re-visited Adventures at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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Modesty at the Movies #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze introduces MakeLoveNotPorn

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.

In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.

So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.

But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!


First posted in December 2013 It’s Been A Marvellous Year

Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.


So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!

For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!

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Xxx- K

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A Modest Iced Coffee #BoobDay 227

Modesty Ablaze Iced Coffee Boobday

Is it ever too early for wine? Well yes, sometimes … even for me!

So in the hot morning sun on the beach, I make do with a coffee to start the day … iced of course!

And perfect for a Boobday Friday post don’t you think?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
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Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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