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March 5, 2020 · 9:00 am

Making Modest Dates #F4T

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I’ve never really got on with organising dates in any of those computer spreadsheet programs, or even on the calendar in my phone.

I realise that in this day and age it will be considered as terribly old-fashioned, but I much prefer to enter all my sessioning appointments, and important dates, in hand-written form into my diary. It’s what I always did before computers and mobile phones . . . and it’s what I shall very probably continue to do, for the foreseeable future.

So, rather than having to awkwardly scroll through my phone screen or turn-on a computer, I just reach into my handbag and turn to the appropriate page and entries in my diary. It’s quicker and easier to note my appointments and session bookings . . . and means I won’t forget.

But woe betide if you do . . . or if you are late. I can’t abide late-comers.
It makes me cross and impatient . . . and . . . over-excitable !!!

There will be lots more thoughts on “Dates” and “Dating” at this week’s
Food For Thought. Just thumb-through the button below.

Food For Thought Friday

Xxx- K

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February 29, 2020 · 6:00 pm

Modest Dribbles #sinfulsunday

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“Will you just stand still . . . and stop your dribbling” !!!

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“I’m trying to get a photo for tomorrow’s theme at Sinful Sunday“

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“I know it’s about spilling the whole image out of the picture . . . but if you don’t stop right now you’ll reach the floor!!!”

I realise this isn’t the type of spilling-out-of-the-frame that Molly had in mind for this week’s Sinful Sunday . . . but I know there will be lots and lots of
far more creative “Frames” to be discovered, by clicking the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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February 28, 2020 · 2:00 pm

Modestly Tassled #Boobday Friday

I normally prefer to use my own Canes and Floggers whenever I’m sessioning.

However I discovered this lovely new Tassled Flogger at my favourite Chambers last weekend.

You probably want to know if I actually used it, don’t you? Well, do keep checking back and perhaps you will see. But first of all I just had to feel for myself how it felt . . . skin-to-skin . . . if you know what I mean!!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

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Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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February 19, 2020 · 8:26 am

A Modest Netting #wickedwednesday

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Once you are, Modestly, entrapped . . . you must beg loudly for release!!!

Visit this week’s Wicked Wednesday by snapping the button below,
to discover more Netting tales, and imagery.

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NB: The photo above was taken by the marvellous John Tisbury !!!

Xxx- K

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February 8, 2020 · 5:55 pm

Set your Modesty . . . Ablaze !!!

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix

Be who you really . . . really . . . want to be.
Be who you really . . . really . . . are !!!

For more Sinful Sunday sinners,
smack the lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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February 6, 2020 · 8:15 am

Modestly Cupped #KOTW

Modesty Ablaze Cupped

I know I’ve mentioned here many times before that there is only one gentleman whom I will switch for . . . Lover No. 14. And even then . . . only if I’m in the mood . . . and usually only for some of his lovely rope-work fun.

But for one of our meetings he brought along some plastic “suction cuppers” in his toy bag. And I must admit that we had such fun with them that I’ve added them to my own sessioning implements, as they do leave such lovely marks!

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But . . . as I said . . . I only switch for one gentleman. So if you request them during a session be warned . . . they could end-up anywhere !!!

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And whilst being lots of fun to “apply” – they are even more fun to pull-off !!!

For lots more “Cupping” and “Plucking” just suck on the KOTW lips below.

Kink of the Week

Xxx- K

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January 26, 2020 · 12:46 pm

A Modestly Grey #sinfulsunday

A grey, grey day in London, but just stepping-out to add some
colour to my afternoon.

As always though, one must be prepared in case the afternoon
should turn-out a little wet!!!

Find out how all the other lovely sinners have been approaching this
Sinful Sunday by smacking those lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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January 23, 2020 · 9:00 am

Pour Me Another … January #PMAGW

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As I mentioned in my Wicked Wednesday posting yesterday, time seems to race by quicker and quicker with every passing week.

But I’ve been able to pause for a moment, to quickly add another exclusive new video clip to my Pour Me A Glass Members page. So new in fact . . . it is from a fun few hours just last Sunday with Lover 83 . . . that it is completely unedited. Just raw as it happened, cut-out of a much longer sequence of fun play, which I’m sure will be part of a new film I will submit to my Make Love Not Porn profile in a month or so.

And if you have viewed any of my “Dragon’s Tail” films with Lover 83 at MLNP, you will know how much I feel completely at ease during my time with him, and how much fucking-fun we have.

So enjoy . . . and do let me know if you’d like me to add more excerpts from last Sunday for future updates.

Once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me keep my glass full, and I really do hope you will enjoy this month’s new clips and photos.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – And, especially for those of you who keep saying how much you enjoy me reading my newsletters out aloud, just click below:.

Xxx – K

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January 21, 2020 · 7:52 pm

Trying to Manage My Modest Appointments #wickedwednesday

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I used to assume that efficiently managing one’s life, would become easier with the passing of time. That I would become more organised and focussed in planning and arranging my day-to-day routines.

But actually the opposite has been true as, certainly over the past few years, every week seems to race by quicker than the last.

That’s not to say that I’m not enjoying that racing . . . in fact I’m having more fun now in my 50’s than I did in my 25’s . . . especially as my domme play-hobby is testing my time-management skills more and more. (And lots and lots of other “skills” as well!!!)

But, consequently, my postings here at Wicked Wednesday have suffered over the past year or so as I haven’t managed anywhere near as many contributions as I used to.

So . . . as I sit down for a moment to relax between sessions . . . with a freshly poured glass of course . . . I couldn’t possibly miss this week as it marks the 400th edition of Marie’s wonderfully fun meme.

You can read many more thoughts on Time Management from tapping on the Wicked Wednesday button below.

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Xxx- K

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January 18, 2020 · 6:46 pm

Modestly Taking Stock #sinfulsunday

After my Throned post at Sinful Sunday last weekend, I received several emails asking just what my punishment for latecomers would be???

Well, it would start with a good caning in my stocks . . . of course!!!

And there’s bound to be lots more punishments, or otherwise, dealt at this week’s Sinful Sunday. Just gently spank those lips below !!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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