I’ve always admired friends and colleagues who are multi-lingual … and the way they can engage in conversation in a language other than their own.
But I am happy to say that over the past decades of Modesty … and before … I have developed what I feel is quite a strong, and intuitive, grasp of that most enjoyable, and widely experienced, language of all … Body Language.
And there are occasions, I’m sure you will agree, when body language can be simply magical !!!
This week’s theme of ‘Magic’ … at Wicked Wednesday and ‘Body Language’ at May’s new meme of 4 Thoughts or Fiction, will have much more comprehensive thoughts on both subjects I’m sure, so click below!
My first Members Bonus video for this month, follows on directly from Part One of my “Hoxton Hook” fun with Lover No.14. And, as you will see, it was becoming very intense indeed . . . I hope you will enjoy it from a more comfortable position than I found myself in. Lol !!!
There is still more from that same playtime-fun session, so let me know from the comments box below, if you would like to see how No.14 continued!
And don’t forget that I always love receiving your suggestions for next month’s Videos and Photos . . . so if you have a particular theme, or fetish, you’d like me to search my archives for, just let me know!
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And once again, thank you so much for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full. I really do hope you will enjoy and have fun watching this month’s new clips and photos.
Bye for now !!!
P.s. – For the past few months I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so . . .
I’m so delighted to tell you all about my newest #realworldsex video at my profile pages on Make Love Not Porn.
Because, after my last meeting with Lover 83 … he had asked if we could meet again at my favourite dungeon … as he really wanted to experience one of my “spanking sessions” that he’d heard all about.
As you will probably already know from some of my previous Make Love Not Porn videos … I do enjoy some kinky-fun from time-to-time … and, of course, I always enjoy fulfilling any special requests or fantasies that my lovers may have.
So when No.83 arrived at my chambers with a lovely bottle of chilled champagne … AND some proper champagne glasses … we sat and sipped and chatted for a while … as I always like to do … to discuss what he would most like to experience from all of the fixtures and accessories at our disposal.
But as I was relaxing and enjoying the wonderful bubbly he had brought me … I noticed the rather large bulge protruding from beneath his pants.
And when I asked him to stand, and present himself before me, I began feeling more and more aroused … and more like reaching for HIM … rather than for my floggers or canes.
Especially when I instructed him to step out of his straining thong !!!
“Standing To Attention” is my 71st Real World Sex film and as always, if you watch the Introductory Video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn, you can see some “Free Peek Clips” from the video itself.
You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention”by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.
There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.
And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and
all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . .
. from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.
As I said above, “Stand To Attention”is my 71st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.
The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled “Standing To Attention” with tags such as:
So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.
It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!
“I think you’re confusing ‘Feminist’ with ‘Mistress’ … and I’ve told you before, you shouldn’t be speaking with your mouth full !!!”
“I shall expect you to research the two more carefully this evening … and prepare a thorough report for me before your next session!!!”
I am sure you will find much more sensible thoughts and opinions on ‘Feminism’ … as it is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday … by scratching the rainbow below.
“But, but, it’s massive Mistress” he stammered nervously.
“You told me you could take much bigger the last time!” I reminded him as I pushed him back onto the bench. “In fact, as I recall, you begged me. ‘Bigger, deeper Mistress’ you said. So . . . now we shall see, won’t we !!!”
Well, it is rather large actually. Larger than it looks on the Cloud 9 website page. In fact, I did struggle to attach it into my strap-on harness at first. But once clipped into place it does feel fun to wear. Much heavier than my “normal dick” and I love the swing of it as I swivel my hips, and walk across the floor.
But, first things first. The purpose of this post is to actually tell you all about the Cloud 9 Premium Starter Kit . . . and then, after that, how it felt for me. And of course for my, not-so-willing, assistant.
So, the 8 inch Dong Starter Kit is supplied in a triangular shaped, clear plastic fold-out holder. The sort of packaging made to hang in rows from those wall racks at your local toy shop. (Well possibly not your “toy-shop” down the road, but you know the sort of wall display racks I mean). The plastic is shape-moulded to perfectly contain the 8 inch dong itself, as well as the accompanying Medium Butt Plug and the two Power-Stretch Cock Rings. (Which my assistant insisted “look too small” when he first saw them. But they are super-stretchy and do work just fine! LOL !!!)
The base of the pack contains a small “use and care” folded leaflet and, thankfully, a black fabric travel-pouch. I say thankfully because I did find the pack itself rather difficult. Not difficult to open or close, because it does open and snap back in position quite easily . . . but rather difficult to easily store in one’s wardrobe or cabinet. So the pouch is certainly a welcome accessory, though it would benefit from being a couple of inches deeper as, when pushing the Dong inside, along with the Butt Plug as well, it’s difficult to pull the draw-string of the pouch completely closed without showing a little of the base of the Dong itself. (Or the head, depending which way you insert the items into the pouch).
Now, I must confess that on first touch I found the Dong, and the Plug, rather sticky and yucky to pick up and hold. I love, and am most used to, silicone for most of my usual toys. So the PVC plastic of both toys, but particularly the Dong, probably because of it’s size and weight, feels rather . . . well “tacky” . . . I suppose is the best way of describing it. However a liberal coating of lube when applying a condom, which of course is always necessary with any insertable, soon overcame that first reaction. And I actually do like the feel of the veined-shaft when I rub the palms of my hand over it. So, coupled with the way the weight of it “hangs” in my harness, I have come to enjoy the feel of my 8-inch Dong.
I’m not quite so keen on the testicle-shaped moulding at the base of it though. I know it is supposed to convey the notion of realism but it neither feels, nor looks, realistic in my view. So that part of the design doesn’t do anything for me . . . though it may appeal to others of course.
The dong is not exclusively a strap-on appendage as it’s suction-cupped base is designed to also be used for solo-play, (more of that later). So this base, and the make-believe balls, make the dong 9.5 inches in length. The 8-inch in it’s name refers to the actual “insertable” length, so with a circumference of 6 inches (1.9 inches in diameter) it certainly is an impressive toy.
The accompanying Butt Plug has, as you can see from my photos, a flat-flanged shaped base to ensure it’s 1.5 inch diameter, and 5 inch insertable length, doesn’t get lost inside the wearer’s bottom. I found it quite useful as I “warmed-up” my assistant. And he certainly found it quite manageable . . . and the tapered shaft comfortable . . . and quite enjoyable as well apparently.
So . . . I hear you asking, how was the dong? . . . in practice so to speak?
Well I always get rather excited on first receiving a new toy in the post. So, notwithstanding those first feelings of “yucky-ness”, I was soon experimenting with my lube . . . and that suction-cup base. No . . . not anally . . . that’s just not my thing. Well, not normally anyway, and certainly not for something as big as the 8-inch Dong. Rather I wanted to try to sit down, gently gently, front ways on . . . if you know what I mean.
Well, the suction-cup certainly works on my bathroom floor . . . but as much as I wanted to, I found that I wasn’t able to achieve the depth I had thought I would . . . or wished I could!!! So it was a quick retreat to the bedroom and a more comfortable position of laying back and, re-affirming my confidence and control.
But, as I say, the suction-cup did affix easily and firmly to my tiled floor, so if that sounds a fun and workable position for you, then I’m sure you will have a lot of fun. Just have a lot of lube close to hand and . . . don’t lose your balance!
So, a few days later, how would my assistant fare once the Dong was carefully inserted into my strap-on . . . and with a different point of entry?
“No . . . Red Mistress. Red. It’s too wide!” he whimpered, and twisted and turned. And pleaded! Despite all my own twisting and turning . . . and coaxing and commanding . . . it was just not going to work for him. It really is just too big, and too tight a fit for him at least.
However all is not lost for keeping the 8 inch Dong attached to my harness, at least not in the long-term, because I have several more “assistants” whom I suspect may well wish to offer themselves to . . . “assist” in the future. (As I mentioned in my “Modestly Packed” post at Sinful Sunday recently).
And yes you can be sure that I will be then be adding updates to my pages here just as soon as I have those opportunities.
The Cloud 9 – 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10 Pros: The Dong itself is impressively Big (lol!!!) and fun to hold and tease with. The cock rings are easily stretchable and when applied to Assistant No.1 are pleasant to look at and certainly have the desired affect! Cons: I find PVC is always sticky and “tacky” to the touch. Material: PVC. 100% phthalate free Dong Measurements: 9.5 inches long (8 inches insertable), 1.9 inches diameter, 6 inches circumference. 1.1lb weight. Colour: White. Butt Plug Measurements: 5.5 inches long, 1.57 inches diameter, 4.9 inches circumference. .34lb weight. Colour: Black. Batteries: None required. Waterproof: Yes. Lubricant recommendation: Water based pvc friendly. After-care: I would always clean before and after use with warm water and mild soap, and dried with a soft, lint-free cloth. Supplied with: Black fabric, drawstring, travel pouch. Supplier Product Link:The Cloud 9 – 8inch Premium Starter Kit
The Cloud 9 – 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit was sent to me, free-of-charge, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider: I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.
and something that I must admit . . . I’ve come to quite enjoy!!!
But, it should go without saying that this current situation is completelydifferent. So I sincerely hope you won’t think I’m trying to belittle, or make fun of things. Because I’m certainly not.
And I really do hope that you, and all of your nearest and dearest, are well and healthy . . . and are able to stay that way.
This week’s themes at Food For Thought and Wicked Wednesday are both about the current Lockdown we all find ourselves in. For more thoughts tap the F4T and Wicked Wednesday buttons below.
“But, but, it’s massive Mistress” he stammered nervously.
“You told me you could take much bigger the last time!” I reminded him as I pushed him back onto the bench. “In fact, as I recall, you begged me. ‘Bigger, deeper Mistress’ you said. So . . . now we shall see, won’t we !!!”
The Cloud 9 – 8inch Premium Starter Kit – had, co-incidentally, happened to arrive in my postbox just a week or so after that last time. So . . .
Well, it is rather large actually. Larger than it looks on the Cloud 9 website page. In fact, I did struggle to attach it into my strap-on harness at first. But once clipped into place it does feel fun to wear. Much heavier than my “normal dick” and I love the swing of it as I swivel my hips, and walk across the floor.
But, first things first. The purpose of this post is to actually tell you all about the Cloud 9 Premium Starter Kit . . . and then, after that, how it felt for me. And of course for my, not-so-willing, assistant.
So, the 8 inch Dong Starter Kit is supplied in a triangular shaped, clear plastic fold-out holder. The sort of packaging made to hang in rows from those wall racks at your local toy shop. (Well possibly not your “toy-shop” down the road, but you know the sort of wall display racks I mean). The plastic is shape-moulded to perfectly contain the 8 inch dong itself, as well as the accompanying Medium Butt Plug and the two Power-Stretch Cock Rings. (Which my assistant insisted “look too small” when he first saw them. But they are super-stretchy and do work just fine! LOL !!!)
The base of the pack contains a small “use and care” folded leaflet and, thankfully, a black fabric travel-pouch. I say thankfully because I did find the pack itself rather difficult. Not difficult to open or close, because it does open and snap back in position quite easily . . . but rather difficult to easily store in one’s wardrobe or cabinet. So the pouch is certainly a welcome accessory, though it would benefit from being a couple of inches deeper as, when pushing the Dong inside, along with the Butt Plug as well, it’s difficult to pull the draw-string of the pouch completely closed without showing a little of the base of the Dong itself. (Or the head, depending which way you insert the items into the pouch).
Now, I must confess that on first touch I found the Dong, and the Plug, rather sticky and yucky to pick up and hold. I love, and am most used to, silicone for most of my usual toys. So the PVC plastic of both toys, but particularly the Dong, probably because of it’s size and weight, feels rather . . . well “tacky” . . . I suppose is the best way of describing it. However a liberal coating of lube when applying a condom, which of course is always necessary with any insertable, soon overcame that first reaction. And I actually do like the feel of the veined-shaft when I rub the palms of my hand over it. So, coupled with the way the weight of it “hangs” in my harness, I have come to enjoy the feel of my 8-inch Dong.
I’m not quite so keen on the testicle-shaped moulding at the base of it though. I know it is supposed to convey the notion of realism but it neither feels, nor looks, realistic in my view. So that part of the design doesn’t do anything for me . . . though it may appeal to others of course.
The dong is not exclusively a strap-on appendage as it’s suction-cupped base is designed to also be used for solo-play, (more of that later). So this base, and the make-believe balls, make the dong 9.5 inches in length. The 8-inch in it’s name refers to the actual “insertable” length, so with a circumference of 6 inches (1.9 inches in diameter) it certainly is an impressive toy.
The accompanying Butt Plug has, as you can see from my photos, a flat-flanged shaped base to ensure it’s 1.5 inch diameter, and 5 inch insertable length, doesn’t get lost inside the wearer’s bottom. I found it quite useful as I “warmed-up” my assistant. And he certainly found it quite manageable . . . and the tapered shaft comfortable . . . and quite enjoyable as well apparently.
So . . . I hear you asking, how was the dong? . . . in practice so to speak?
Well I always get rather excited on first receiving a new toy in the post. So, notwithstanding those first feelings of “yucky-ness”, I was soon experimenting with my lube . . . and that suction-cup base. No . . . not anally . . . that’s just not my thing. Well, not normally anyway, and certainly not for something as big as the 8-inch Dong. Rather I wanted to try to sit down, gently gently, front ways on . . . if you know what I mean.
Well, the suction-cup certainly works on my bathroom floor . . . but as much as I wanted to, I found that I wasn’t able to achieve the depth I had thought I would . . . or wished I could!!! So it was a quick retreat to the bedroom and a more comfortable position of laying back and, re-affirming my confidence and control.
But, as I say, the suction-cup did affix easily and firmly to my tiled floor, so if that sounds a fun and workable position for you, then I’m sure you will have a lot of fun. Just have a lot of lube close to hand and . . . don’t lose your balance!
So, a few days later, how would my assistant fare once the Dong was carefully inserted into my strap-on . . . and with a different point of entry?
“No . . . Red Mistress. Red. It’s too wide!” he whimpered, and twisted and turned. And pleaded! Despite all my own twisting and turning . . . and coaxing and commanding . . . it was just not going to work for him. It really is just too big, and too tight a fit for him at least.
However all is not lost for keeping the 8 inch Dong attached to my harness, at least not in the long-term, because I have several more “assistants” whom I suspect may well wish to offer themselves to . . . “assist” in the future.
And yes you can be sure that I will be then be adding updates to my pages here just as soon as I have those opportunities.
The Cloud 9 – 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10 Pros: The Dong itself is impressively Big (lol!!!) and fun to hold and tease with. The cock rings are easily stretchable and when applied to Assistant No.1 are pleasant to look at and certainly have the desired affect! Cons: I find PVC is always sticky and “tacky” to the touch. Material: PVC. 100% phthalate free Dong Measurements: 9.5 inches long (8 inches insertable), 1.9 inches diameter, 6 inches circumference. 1.1lb weight. Colour: White. Butt Plug Measurements: 5.5 inches long, 1.57 inches diameter, 4.9 inches circumference. .34lb weight. Colour: Black. Batteries: None required. Waterproof: Yes. Lubricant recommendation: Water based pvc friendly. After-care: I would always clean before and after use with warm water and mild soap, and dried with a soft, lint-free cloth. Supplied with: Black fabric, drawstring, travel pouch.
NB: Important Notification – Just as I have published my review, Cloud 9 have informed me that due to the Covid-19 related closure of all non-essential businesses by the Governor in their home state, Cloud 9 have temporarily suspended product and ordering links on their website. Things will return to normal once the current situation is over.
I will update this review, and the necessary product-links, immediately that happens. So do please keep checking back !!!
The Cloud 9 – 8-inch Dong Premium Starter Kit was sent to me, free-of-charge, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider: I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.
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