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September 21, 2020 · 3:00 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.5 – Doxy Finale” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Stand To Attention Part 5"

If you’ve been following me here at Modesty Ablaze for the last few years … you will know that it’s been something of a holiday tradition for me to  introduce my latest #realworldsex video from this very beach.

 So … “Stand To Attention Part Five – The Doxy Finale” follows on directly from my head-banging orgasmic exertions with Lover No. 83 at the end of Part Four. 

And as I lay back on the Dungeon Bed to recover from those exertions, No.83 thoughtfully pours me a relaxing glass of Champagne and I tease him that perhaps it’s now time for me to give him the spanking that he’d requested, before I’d gotten so carried away playing with his rather impressive erection. 

But then No.83 picks up the Doxy Wand that I’d planned to torment HIM with, during his spanking …

And as so often happens when I’m still aroused and still feeling horny … and I hear the wonderful buzz of that Doxy … I just have to lay back, spread my legs wide and  well, I’m sure you can imagine what happened next and YES it was very, very noisy.  You’ll just have to rent the video to see … won’t you!!!

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 5” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Standing To Attention – Part 5 – Doxy Finale” is my 75th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Standing To Attention – Part 5 – Doxy Finale” with tags such as:

#afternoon #blissful #chatty #clitastic #communicative #condomhot #drinkresponsibly #ilubeu #intense #inthedungeon #intimate #joyful #longterm #loud #married #morethemerrier #passionate #playful #polyamourous #sensual #sony #succulent #toytime #vibrato #wand-erful #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Xxx – K

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September 18, 2020 · 7:20 am

Modestly Feathered #Boobday Friday

To use … or to be used on … feathers can be wonderfully erotic and arousing. Don’t you think ???

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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September 11, 2020 · 7:15 am

Modest Holiday Wine #Boobday Friday

Everything always tastes better when one is on holiday … and I don’t just mean the wine!!!

And I’m so, so glad that we managed to savour those tastes once again. Cheers !!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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September 2, 2020 · 8:00 am

Speaking Out of Turn #KOTW #wickedwednesday

“Did you think I wouldn’t hear about your idle gossip??? … You must be sillier than I thought!”

“We Mistresses talk to each other you know … just because it isn’t all over social-media, doesn’t mean I wouldn’t learn of it!!!”

“Mistress Modesty is too-nice and too-lenient” … “Isn’t that what you’ve been saying??? … Bragging how you always leave unmarked and without set-tasks for your next session!”

“Well … we’ll have to see about that now won’t we !!! … I think we shall just stick to this one position for your whole 3 hours today !!!”

“I think you will choose your words more carefully next time … won’t you !!!”

NB: In my rush to pre-schedule this post, (prior to several weeks without WiFi),
I completely mis-read the theme requirements.
So … it turns-out that I am also guilty of “Speaking-out-of-Turn” … however, for more correct forms of Social Speaking, simply swipe at the KOTW lips and Wicked Wednesday Rainbow below.

Xxx- K

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August 12, 2020 · 7:37 am

Modest Exercise #KOTW and #wickedwednesday

“If you thought I’d lost my swing during lock-down, you’re in for a big surprise!” I told him as I began to warm to the task in hand.

“It may be my first session back” I said as I began quickening my swings, “but I have been working-out every day to make sure I kept my strength up!”

“And anyway, swiping bare asses like yours is like a sixth-sense to me!” I said
as I really began to enjoy the sounds … and sights … of the increasing
intensity of my flogging!

For more Exercising motivation and Sixth-Sense experiences simply swipe at the KOTW lips and Wicked Wednesday Rainbow below.

Xxx- K

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August 5, 2020 · 3:18 pm

Modest Deportment #wickedwednesday

“We are going to begin by improving your deportment” I told him.

“One can’t have ones Sub slouching and drooping their shoulders!”

“Now, let’s have you walking down to the end of the room and back … with poise and grace!!!” I said.

“There will be five strokes for each attempt … until I’m completely satisfied you can accompany me to purchase that lovely outfit you’ve promised me!”

As you might imagine, it was a rather long and painful afternoon before we set off on our shopping expedition!!!

To discover what sort of exercise everyone else has been getting up to this Wicked Wednesday … gently smack on the button below!

Xxx- K

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July 27, 2020 · 11:07 am

Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.4 – The Mounting” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Stand To Part 4

If you’ve viewed Parts 1, 2 and 3 of our passionate “Standing To Attention” fore-play fun … and I hope you have … then you will know that what had originally started-out as one of my “Mistressing Sessions” … quickly became much more of a sexually-charged playtime session as I became more and more aroused. 

So-much-so that “Part Three” of our fun, ended with me telling my camera-man to … “fetch me a condom” .

So Part Four begins with Lover 83 applying himself to that immediate task in hand whilst I reached for my favourite Lubricant … and no, I didn’t on this occasion mean wine!  I’ve always loved lube, to help things slide easily into place, but as we ladies become more “mature”, it has become even more important than it used to be. 

Anyway, as I climbed astride him and No.83 began quite literally rising to the task beneath me, we were both soon enjoying the ride !!! 

“For a Sub just asking for a caning … you’ve not done too badly have you?”
I teased him … emphasizing that it’s not very often I become so worked-up during a session, that things turn out like they were now.

So, you’ll just have to rent this video from Make Love Not Porn, and join us in our riding and changing of positions … and bed-shaking exertions … to see for yourself, how much fun we were both having!!!

You can view my introduction to “Standing To Attention – Part 4” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

“Standing To Attention – Part 4 – The Mounting” is my 74th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Standing To Attention – Part 4 – The Mounting” with tags such as:

#afternoon #blissful #chatty #communicative #condomhot #frenzied #frombehind #giddyup #giggly #grinding #ilubeu #intense #inthedungeon #joyful #loud #morethemerrier #passionate #playful #polyamorous #ravenous #safersex #sensual #sony #spirited #succulent #yes!yes!yes!!

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Xxx – K

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July 22, 2020 · 7:27 am

Modestly Gazing #4Thoughts_Fiction and #wickedwednesday

For as far back as I can remember, I’ve always enjoyed sex. Not just the physical act itself, but all the mystique, eroticism, taboo, danger and excitement that even the very mention of the word itself brings to mind.

 My intrigue and questioning … and then joyous abandonment … as I discovered for myself, the senses of touch and emotion, and power and release, just intensified as my own experiences and relationships grew and evolved. 

And so the current themes of both “Gaze” at 4 Thoughts and “Closed Doors” at Wicked Wednesday, immediately made me think back to those first adventures and just how much has changed practically … and yet in my mind’s eye, hasn’t really changed at all. 

Long before Modesty Ablaze, I was enjoying the explorations and sexciting adventures that my curiosity … and my wonderful lifestyle … allowed me to indulge in. 

And the discovery that I actually really enjoyed “the gaze” of watching … and being watched … fuelled the exhibitionist streak within me even more. Because in every other aspect of “normal life” I considered myself to be shy and lacking in self-confidence. And yet here in the taboo and secret shadowy world of sex and sinfulness, I was embracing the explosions of every gazing, exhibitionist, opportunity I could. 

And of course Modesty Ablaze gave me the perfect platform to indulge that exhibitionism through my photos and videos.  

So … those questions at 4 Thoughts ???

 1) At the most basic level, how do you feel about watching sex, or being watched whilst having sex? 
2) Would being watched make any difference to what you did, or how you did it? 
3) Is there a difference between intentional and accidental watching; for example, being invited to watch someone have sex versus accidentally viewing someone who was having sex outdoors? 
4) If you are into sex outdoors, what part does both intentional and accidental viewing play in that? And similarly, what do you think are the ethics around having sex outdoors with regard to potential accidental viewing? 

And … my answers???

 1) Yes, I love both the watching and the being watched. 

2) Other than the fact that just knowing that others could be watching always enhances the passion and desire, it wouldn’t make any difference to the what’s or how’s of the occasion, because that will always be determined by the person(s) involved and the exact situation and circumstance at that moment in time. 

3) Actually YES … being invited, or in a situation where everyone present is aware of, and fully consents, to the presence of others watching, or potentially watching, will always be for me far more arousing and fulfilling. Because it is that consensual nature of the situation that makes it fun … and exciting. 

4) I must admit that sex-in-the-outdoors is not one of my major kinks … I much prefer the comfort and potential for a relaxing recovery and re-charging, before carrying-on where one has just left off. That’s not to say that I haven’t indulged, because there has been several, spur-of-the-moment occasions … but they were never my most enjoyable. So whilst I acknowledge the thrill and intensity of one of those heat-of-the-moment situations, I would never purposefully try to expose passers-by to our fun. Because … in my view it is completely unethical to cause upset or offence to people who may not share the same views, or interests … and that is something I believe should be true in everything we do, not just in the context of sex. 

Some people prefer to keep their sexual preferences and desires private, and behind closed doors, and I think we should always respect those views completely and without question. 

For more thoughts on ‘Gaze’ at 4 Thoughts … and ‘Closed Doors’ at Wicked Wednesday … simply click on the buttons below!

Xxx- K

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July 21, 2020 · 11:00 am

Modesty Ablaze “Seven Years of #realworldsex” @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Seven Years at Make Love Not Porn

It’s July 2020 and that means I’ve now been sharing my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn, for over SEVEN years !!!

Now, of course, I’ve been enjoying Real World Sex fun for a lot longer than seven years, a lot, lot longer … THIRTY-seven years actually. But I’d like to think that my Make Love Not Porn videos collection, in a certain way mirrors the changes and progressions, and different experiences, of those thirty-seven years of open, loving fun.

Starting out … Modestly and nervously … with my first video in 2013, “Modesty’s Toytime” , and then slowly becoming more open and expressive and confident about sharing more of my different adventures … and different “friends” … and different “interests” … as the years have passed.

I’ve been very lucky that the lifestyle I share with Hubby has given us both the opportunity to meet, and make friends with, some truly lovely people over our thirty-seven years of fun experiences. And very lucky too, that some of the friends I’ve made through our swinging adventures … and more recently, from my Mistressing sessions … have loved joining us in our Make Love Not Porn videos as well.

I’m sure you’ll agree that one should never feel ashamed or embarrassed about one’s sexuality and desires, and we should all be able to fully express and celebrate those things that bring us joy and excitement.

But it takes a really special kind of person to be able to share those views so openly on film. And that’s why I say that I’ve been very lucky to have met so many  lovely, like-minded people.

And that’s what makes being part of Make Love Not Porn such a fabulous and empowering feeling. Being amongst so many like-minded people celebrating their love … and their pride … and their chosen life-style experiences, in all the wonderful and different ways that makes life loving and truly fulfilling.

So thank you MLNP for the past seven years. I’m hoping that I’ll still be sharing, and still be uploading yet more #realworldsex videos for another seven years to come.

So … spread the love, spread the joy and spread the pride! Enjoy !!!

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Seventy-Plus #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Xxx – K

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July 17, 2020 · 3:00 pm

Modest Cane Boobs #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Cane Boobs Boobday Friday

I receive lots of requests and posts suggestions of course … but one of the most frequent is for “more Boobday Friday posts please”.

So … as I’ve just begun flexing my cane again … this is
especially for those requesters. Enjoy !!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us. With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Hyacinth has presently suspended her own Boobdays at present but do keep checking by clicking on her lovely cleavage below!

Or . . . as I am always being asked to keep-up with my own Boobday postings just >tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.5 – Doxy Finale” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modestly Feathered #Boobday Friday

Modest Holiday Wine #Boobday Friday

Speaking Out of Turn #KOTW #wickedwednesday

Modest Exercise #KOTW and #wickedwednesday

Modest Deportment #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze “Stand To Attention – Pt.4 – The Mounting” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modestly Gazing #4Thoughts_Fiction and #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze “Seven Years of #realworldsex” @makelovenotporn

Modest Cane Boobs #Boobday Friday

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