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December 14, 2024 · 5:18 pm

Modest Xmases Past #sinfulsunday

Sending you all my Modest Christmas Kisses and Best Wishes for a Healthy, Happy, Peaceful … and Sinfully Fun … Festive Season!!!

And … on that theme … I thought it would be sinfully-fun to put together a short compilation slideshow of some of my #polaroidpast Christmas Photos from 1985 up until just a few days ago frolicking amongst some Christmas Baubles … as per my #boobday Friday posting recently!

For more possible festive fun this weekend at Sinful Sunday, slowly tap the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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December 7, 2024 · 6:07 pm

Modest Expectations #sinfulsunday

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My “Colour Filters” #sinfulsunday prompt last week, brought back some fun memories from a fun session at my favourite London Dungeon a couple of years ago.

Memorable because my Sissy Submissive that day, had requested receiving one of my strap-on dildos … something he’d not previously experienced before.

And re-playing the video from that session, reminded me just how much he really enjoyed it … much more so than he’d expected to!!!

For more possibly, unexpected fun, at this week’s Sinful Sunday, slowly push on the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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December 2, 2024 · 9:27 am

Pour Me A Glass Members – December 2024 #PMAGW Update

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My main first-view PMAG Members Video for December is “Caning Two Subs” … in response to several requests for more of my Mistress Modesty Caning content.

Now although I am NEVER particularly extreme in the application of my, several, canes … and certainly could never carry-out a heavy “judicial” caning … I do admit to actually enjoying building the intensity as I become more “warmed-up” myself. Particularly if my submissive subject is clearly enjoying his beating. And what could be more fun than one lovely, quickly reddening bottom in front of me? … Why TWO of course!!!

And you will quickly see my … and their … obvious enjoyment as I begin with my warming Slapper, and then Riding Crop … before bringing out my favourite, Brazilian Cane!!!

And … my second first-view video for December is … “The Main Squeeze – Part 2”, and those among you who may have been following me for some time, will probably be familiar with that title before. Because, it is actually from one of my most popular … but very long … videos at my MakeLoveNotPorn profile. But this “directors cut” version is one of several shorter edits from that particular evening, which feature some more candid moments that were not actually included in that MLNP video.

If you are one of my Telegram Channel followers, you will have already seen “Part 1” of the “directors cut” and this video follows on directly from where that one left off!!!

Or, perhaps you would prefer something from my Nude-in-Public, Me-Time Playtime, Body Worship … or Cigar Smoking Fetish adventures. Because, as I’ve mentioned here before, I have years and years worth of videos in my archives … AND … I always enjoy fulfilling members special requests whenever I can. So … the choice is yours … just ask !!!

Plus: My new Telegram Channel: – As I mentioned above, I also have a separate PMAG Telegram Members channel, where I am able to post even more personalised, and more frequent and “individualised” clips. So if you have the Telegram app on your phone or laptop, just let me know within the “Ask Me A Question” panel on the form at the foot of the Members page, and I will email more details of also joining me there … or message me from the form on my “Contact” page if you prefer!!!

And this month’s Photo Gallery is especially for Sally who messaged me during the month to tell me how much she had missed my postings during my “semi-retirement”… and especially my Mistressing FemDom photos. So this gallery is from one of my London Dungeon Archives photo shoots.

And, as always, do let me know if there are any particular themes, or photo opportunity settings you would like to ask me about for future gallery updates because … as you all know … my PMAG Members page does allow me to share much more “candid” videos and photos than I can post on my other pages here!!!

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full. And I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

Xxx – K

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November 30, 2024 · 6:15 pm

Modestly “Red” #sinfulsunday

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In this month’s “Colour Filters” introduction, Molly mentioned that it was first used way back in 2015.

So … I searched back through my archives … and sure enough there lurked my green-filtered photo of a rather fun item I’d been sent for one of my “Toy Reviews” which I was doing quite regularly at that time.

Goodness knows why I chose green as my colour choice back then … it’s never been a colour I’ve particularly liked.

But … RED … now that’s a colour far more to my liking!!!

To visit more fun colours at this week’s Sinful Sunday click on the lovely sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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November 22, 2021 · 10:34 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Taking Mistresses Strap On Part 2

A few weeks ago I uploaded one of my Femdom Role-Play videos to my profile at Make Love Not Porn … after I’d received several emails asking if I had any “pegging” content to share there.

Well of course I do have lots of “Strap-On” videos from my “Mistressing Sessions” … so I thought it would be fun to add one of them, “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” which featured “SubbyBoy” who, as well as being one of my favourite Submissive play-partners, also loves receiving a good old fashioned pegging.

And I’m delighted to say that I soon received a number of emails asking to see more of that session … and how “far” … that particular Strap-On actually went.

So … I’ve just uploaded “Part Two” of our fun which will show just how far, and how intense, our play-time actually was!

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt2 One

Now as I mentioned in my introduction to “Part One”, I suppose you could say that some of my language in the video is rather aggressive and forceful. But my teasing humiliation is just how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions, because it adds to the intensity of his emotions and enjoyment.

And I think you will be able to see just how much he’s enjoying himself, when you watch the video.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two”  is my 92nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt.2 Two

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety Two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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October 19, 2021 · 5:43 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap On"

You may recall that last year I published a series of “Stand To Attention” videos … on my Make Love Not Porn profile … that I’d filmed with Lover 83 at my favourite London Dungeon.

Well those videos certainly generated quite a lot of interest in my “Mistressing hobby” … as I’ve been regularly receiving emails and messages on my social sites ever since, asking for more similar-themed videos from those chambers.

So … as my Femdom Sessions are always based around Role Play and Sensual Teasing Fun … and, as many of the most recent emails I’ve received have been asking if I do any “Pegging or Strap-On” sessions … I thought it would be fun to add “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” to my collection here.

It features my favourite Strap-On Submissive, whom as well as being a lovely play-partner who simply loves receiving, also has a very impressive appendage of his own … which I absolutely love playing with!

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Part 1

Now you may find some of my language rather unbecoming of a “mature lady” such as myself … but as I said, this session is just as much about Role Play and Fun Teasing as it is about my Strap-On-ing … so my language and humiliation-teasing is exactly how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On”  is my 91st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Five

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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October 13, 2021 · 10:30 am

No Modest Regrets #wickedwednesday

Modest No Regrets Wicked Wednesday

We all have regrets don’t we. Things we wish we’d done and didn’t … or things we did and wish we hadn’t … or at least had done differently.

But what I have learnt during my Modest hobbies over the past three decades is not to regret ones adventures, but rather, to learn from them and let the experience(s) shape future situations and choices.

And to try to see the positives in every experience, and with every individual we meet along the way.

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Regrets” … just click the button below for more thoughts and reflections!

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Xxx- K

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September 22, 2021 · 2:28 pm

Modesty at the Movies #wickedwednesday

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This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.

In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.

So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.

But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!

First posted in December 2013 – It’s Been A Marvellous Year

Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.

Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.

That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.

And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.

Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.

And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.

BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.

So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!

For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!

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Xxx- K

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September 17, 2021 · 10:52 am

A Modest Iced Coffee #BoobDay 227

Modesty Ablaze Iced Coffee Boobday

Is it ever too early for wine? Well yes, sometimes … even for me!

So in the hot morning sun on the beach, I make do with a coffee to start the day … iced of course!

And perfect for a Boobday Friday post don’t you think?

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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September 15, 2021 · 8:54 am

Modestly Shameless #wickedwednesday

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This week’s prompt at Wicked Wednesday is “Shameless Promotion” … so, of course, I just couldn’t resist … because, as I’ve mentioned before, Marie’s wonderful meme was one of the prime motivators in me beginning my online journey here as Modesty Ablaze.

And finding a place that gave me weekly editions of a wide range of erotic stories was inspirational in my deciding to share excerpts from the “home” diaries that I’d compiled over the years.

The surprising response I received from those first “words only” blog-posts, motivated me further to “cut-and-paste” selected entries from my diaries into the first “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” with “Part 1 – The Journey” Ebook which I published at Amazon.

I was quite astonished to quickly begin receiving lots of messages asking for more. So, in the years since, I have uploaded a further five diary compilations to my Amazon Kindle collection, and … as downloadable PDFs … to my Gumroad page, where I have also added several more shorter “chapter” excerpts.

And, as the sharing of more of my different, and expanding, “hobbies” on my blog pages here grew and grew … I started to receive an increasing amount of requests for much more “personal” items than just excerpts from my diaries.

Hence … my own Used Clothing range, and mini-blog, at: mistresseslace.com … Used Toys, Perfume and Accessories at my Mistress Modesty’s Fun Store … Poster prints and PDFs at my Etsy page … and lots (over 270 now) of fun videos at Clips4Sale … or fulfilling exclusive video or photo requests and personalised messages at my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members page.

Or of course at my AVN Fans page where for a very “modest” subscription you can enjoy FREE-2-View access of my daily Video and Photo updates.

But wherever or however you may find me, I hope you will enjoy my indulgences … and always leave with a smile and feeling happier than when you first arrived.

Discover more Shameless Promotion at this week’s Wicked Wednesday by tapping the button below!

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Xxx- K

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