Tag Archives: Hotwives

Modesty and #realworldsex @makelovenotporn

After my Wicked Wednesday post last week, I received several emails asking just why I think the message and ethos of #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . is so important.

So I thought it would be useful to replay my video from March of last year . . . gosh, where has the year gone???  You can >click< on the screen below to hear my thoughts on MLNP and why I love it so much.

Modesty Ablaze on MLNP

I always tell anyone who asks me that, from a women’s point of view, I find MLNP so empowering because it is so real and portrays sex as I feel it should be portrayed. Completely consensual, fun and loving and yet still arousing and erotic. And yes, I really do think that #realworldsex can still be exciting and “naughty” and stimulating . . . in fact much, much more so than what you see on those “other” on-line sites.

I like watching sex that is erotic . . . BUT . . . I want it to be real and respectful and fun. Something that I can relate to on my own, personal, level. And, as I say in the video, that is why since discovering MakeLoveNotPorn.tv , I haven’t watched any of those other sites at all!!! Because I want my adventures to be fun, and respectful and . . . real, not forced, not staged or choreographed . . . just wonderfully indulgent, fun and enjoyable as the best sex should always be!!!

And I hope you might be able to enjoy and experience some of that fun by discovering the huge and growing variety of MLNP-porn stars and their videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . I urge you to investigate!!!

**It is FREE to register at MakeLoveNotPorn and FREE to view >**Free Peeks< of all the videos available for rental at this wonderful #realworldsex-positive website. I hope you will register your support for the message . . . and FUN . . . of this truly wonderful concept.


I currently have FOURTEEN #realworldsex videos at MLNP, (and hope to have several new ones cumming shortly):

1) Modesty Ablaze Toytime – Playing with several of my toys, (mainly solo with just a brief cameo appearance from Hubby!!!)

>** Toytime Free Peek Pictures<


2) Modesty Unmasked – Introducing our wonderful friend, Lover.14, along with his whips and canes . . . and yes, I am not wearing my mask!!!

>** Unmasked Free Peek Pictures<                   


3) Modesty Bound & Unbound – Over 40 minutes of an amazing multi-orgasmic session . . . again with Lover.14 who this time brought along his ropes to have me Bound and then slowly, and delightfully, Unbound . . . whilst he and Hubby played with me!!!

>** Bound & Unbound Free Peek Pictures<         


4) Modesty Winding Up & Then Winding Down – The first video where Hubby really comes out from behind the camera and Lover.14 takes over the filming . . . well just for awhile, as he then gives me a wonderful “relaxing” full massage!!!

>** Winding Up & Winding Down Free Peek Pictures<


5) Modesty Hubby Gets a Beating – Hubby really does “come out” in this video (in more ways than one! – LOL). I loved helping giving him a tender beating . . . but don’t worry, he certainly gets his reward !!!

>** Hubby Gets a Beating Free Peek Pictures<


6) More Fun with Rope – Another session with Lover 14 and his ropes and cane . . . and another multi-orgasmic scene climaxing with some passionate kissing of the kind I really, really love!!!

>** More Fun With Rope Free Peek Pictures<     


7) The Main Squeeze – Featuring one of my newest lovers, Lover No.36. And I think you’ll understand why I’ve called this session “The Main Squeeze“ when you view it. You can see a snap-shot of Lover 36 at one of my Sinful Sunday posts from August of last year . . . but only the video can completely reveal the real fun of an amazing evening!!!!

>** The Main Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<      


8) With She Lover – This is a really very, very special video for me. I’ve tried to explain just how special in my “Special Edition“ post . . . but suffice to say it shows a wonderful moment sharing some “girly fun” with my friend, and lover She Lover. I hope you will be able to see how easy it is for me to just completely let myself go in her company!!!

>** She Lover Free Peek Pictures<                  


9) Mistress Modesty – Normally I’m the one being spanked, but in this video I am the one in complete control . . . and I really enjoyed it. AND, my “mystery submissive” enjoyed it too. I loved being Mistress Modesty, using my strap-on, and I loved using my cane and whip. But, despite all the caning and flogging, there is a happy (if rather messy) ending!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     


10) Modesty & The St. Andrews Cross – I was recently given the opportunity to enjoy an evening at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite with Lover No.14 and Hubby.
This 20 minute video is just part of our wonderful evening, and following morning, of naughty fun. I will, perhaps, post more if you let me know you’ve enjoyed my “Modesty and The St. Andrews Cross” !!!!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     


11) Modesty & The Secondary Squeeze – After just a few minutes to recover after “The Main Squeeze” (No. 7 above), Lover No.36 was ready to start again!
And, of course, I find his attentions so irresistible that . . . well, what’s a girl to do???

>** The Secondary Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<    


12) Completely Hooked – The Dungeon Part Two – Featuring a return to The Hoxton Dungeon with Lover No.14 for more multi-orgasmic fun. But this time experiencing completely new, and different, sensations of rope and anal-play . . . and even gentle hook-suspension!!!

>** Completely Hooked Free Peek Pictures< 


13) Sunburnt – The Movie – From a simply amazing holiday Hubby and I had in the summer on a beautiful Greek Island. We both got quite sunburnt, as you will see, but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times even with the balcony doors open to the pool below!!!

>** Sunburnt Free Peek Pictures< 


14) A Touch Of Glass – Possibly my most “personal” movie at MLNP yet. Just me alone with my Diamond Dream Glass Dildo, lost in my own private cocoon for 15 minutes of rippling, swirling, multiple orgasms!!! (And yes, there are some glimpses of my Diogol Plug as well!)

>** A Touch of Glass Free Peek Pictures


As I said, I hope to have several completely new videos published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv shortly . . . but in the meantime I really do urge you to investigate not just my own, but all of the growing number of MLNP-porn stars all of whom are sharing their own #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv .

Xxx – K

2 Comments

Filed under #realworldsex at MLNP.tv, Make Love Not Porn, sexual empowerment for women, womens Erotica

Nominations are open for the Top Sex Bloggers of 2014

Modesty Ablaze CuffedDoes October make you feel blue, bored, blasé . . . with the fun of your summer holiday already a fading, distant memory . . . and are thoughts of the pressure and chaos of Christmas already crossing your mind? 

Well here’s an ideal opportunity for some exciting and titillating distraction and enjoyment . . . not one, but two, Top Sex Bloggers of 2014 Nomination Websites for you to peruse and investigate!!!

Every year both Kinkly and Between My Sheets offer their readers the opportunity to nominate their favourite on-line reading, most sexciting, most sexformative, most-visited bookmarks in their browser.

Not only is it a great way of passing on a little thanks to some of the people that have entertained and informed you throughout the year . . . or who, perhaps unknowingly, may have given you strength and self-believe in sharing thoughts and experiences similar to your own . . . but I also find it is a wonderful way of discovering yet more interesting and fun erotic people and their blogs!

Blogs and experiences that you may otherwise have never come across . . . blogs and experiences that strike a chord, reinforce feelings and desires that you share . . . blogs and posts that make you laugh out loud in agreement (or sometimes wonder!)

So, I really do recommend that you follow both of the above links . . . because I am sure you will find fun times within.

And fun times, for me, is what life should be all about . . . so go on, click and enjoy.

Oh, and yes, I will feel flattered, and honoured should you wish to mention, or include, www.modestyablaze.com during your travels >here< at Kinkly or >here< Between Rori’s Sheets . . . but most of all, I hope you find fun times!!!

Xxx –  K

Oh, and p.s. – Huge thanks, as always, to the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar) for the picture of me above!

Leave a Comment

Filed under Erotica On-line, Hotwives, Sexual liberation, Swinging, Top 100 Sex Bloggers List

Modesty Flying the Flag . . . Two for One #sinfulsunday & #scavengerhunt 11

Modesty Ablaze Flying The FlagI’m currently abroad . . . guess where??? . . . But proudly Flying the Flag for Sinful Sunday and absolutely delighted to . . .

Modesty Ablaze and Curvaceous Dee. . . meet up with the wonderful, deliciously exciting Curvaceous Dee for a naughty . . . and wickedly fun . . . Two-For-One flagpole #scavengerhunt flash.
I hope it brings as much of a smile to your face viewing it, as it did for Hubby and I to be actually meeting and sharing Dee’s company.

Oh, and p.s., there are LOTS more Two-For-One flashes if you’d like to see more! Just let me (and Dee) know!!!

Sinful Sunday is all about the image . . . and those special, wonderfully fun and memorable occasions!!!

See who else is being delightfully Sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

Scavenger-Hunt-Gold

Xxx – K

Leave a Comment

Filed under Scavenger Hunt, Sinful Sunday

Modesty’s Queening Box

Modesty's Queening Stool

Sinful Sunday is all about the image . . . and those special, wonderfully fun and memorable occasions!!!

This is one such memorable occasion . . . from this Friday evening actually . . . when I spent a fabulous evening with two of my subjects enjoying the delights of the Queening Box at the Hoxton Dungeon Suite.

Things got very hot . . . and very wet . . . as I’m sure you can imagine.

See who else is being delightfully Sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

14 Comments

Filed under Sinful Sunday

Modesty’s Valentines kiss – 3 for 1!

It really has been a busy year already . . . and the coming week is just as busy . . . so I thought I’d wish you all an early Happy and Sexy Valentines Day for this cumming Friday.

This slideshow requires JavaScript.

And . . . as a special Valentines bonus . . .  if you buy just one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries during the next two weeks, I will email you any two other books of your choice completely FREE.

Details of all my current E-Diaries are available on my E-books page and they can be downloaded from my Amazon, Smashwords and Gumroad profiles. (You can hear me reading a short extract from two of my books at my Modesty Speaks page).

So, three kisses for one!!!

And I hope you have . . . and give . . . lots and lots more sexy and fun kisses over the next few days.

Xxx – K

P.s. Thank you to the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar) and, of course, the lovely Hubby . . . for their pictures above.

Leave a Comment

Filed under 3 somes, erotic ebooks, erotic stories online, Erotica On-line, Hotwives, sexual empowerment for women, Swinging, womens Erotica

Wishing you all a Happy, Fun . . . and Sexy, New Year . . .

2013 really was a marvellous year for me . . . and I hope for you as well . . .

I’d like to thank you all for visiting me here, now over 69,000 visits!!! . . . (you know 69 is my FAVOURITE number) . . . and I’d like to wish you all a Happy, Fun and Sexy, 2014.

. . . here’s hoping we can all start the New Year with a Bang!!!

ModestySittingDrummerNov1513

I’m looking forward to even more fun in 2014 . . .

Best wishes – Xxx –  Katie

Leave a Comment

Filed under Erotica On-line, Female Dominatrix, Fetish Fashion, Hotwives, Multiple Orgasms, sexual empowerment for women, Sexual liberation, Swinging, womens Erotica

Modesty at the pool . . . table!!! Scavenger Hunt 4

OutsidePoolTable

For everyone who has asked so nicely . . . this is another picture from our summer holiday on a lovely Greek island.

I’ve never played pool before, but couldn’t resist trying my hand one morning when, before taking one of our morning strolls, we (once again) found the pool area deserted.

BUT . . . the pool table was completely visible from the main road . . . and, taking my eye off the balls, I was aware of several early-morning delivery vans slowing as they passed the apartment complex! And minutes later, the pool-attendant arrived with a larger than normal smile!!!

I’m absolutely sure you’ll have lots of smiles of your own by discovering just who else has posted their own fun-flashes at the wonderful Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt.

Why not join in the fun yourself ? (Simply click the Scavenger Hunt logo for the rules below!)  – Xxx – Katie

sha_silver_small

Leave a Comment

Filed under Scavenger Hunt

So happy to be included in Madam Curators 16 knee-trembling videos at Make Love Not Porn.tv

This weeks edition of the MLNP.tv Happy Hump Day blog features another video-blog from Make Love Not Porn’s lovely Madam Curator Sarah introducing 16 #realworldsex video offerings that make her go “weak at the knees” . . . and I’m so happy to have one of my own video’s included.

madam-curatorAnd having already rented a number of the other 15 video’s ourselves, I know exactly what she means . . . BZ and Gloria, Lilly Cade, RedFox, Violet + Rye, April Showers and Cato . . . and lots of new videos that I am looking forward to investigating!!!.

As I’ve said a number of times before, I just love the whole MakeLoveNotPorn approach to #realworldsex. Simply put, Real people enjoying . . . and sharing . . . their own Real moments of passion, fun and excitement . . .

And . . . it’s free to join the MLNP community and free to view all of the MLNP-stars profiles and “Free Peek” clips and introductions (you can see one of mine by clicking on the image below!!!).

ModestyMLNPfeature

So I really do recommend you visit and enjoy, and share, the love and excitement yourselves !!!

Xxx – K

 

Leave a Comment

Filed under #realworldsex at MLNP.tv, Make Love Not Porn

Madame Caramel . . . the London Mistress of BDSM

MadameOneI’ve always had an inquisitive interest in the Fetish side of sex . . . especially in loving some of the fabulous fashion apparel and shoes and accessories . . . but also, of course, in that “other” side of things!

So when I heard that Dominatrix Madame Caramel was presenting an Erotic Class on BDSM and female domination at my favourite toyshop Sh! last week, I knew I just had to be there.

And, in the company of a special friend, it was the most fun and enjoyably entertaining class I’ve ever attended.

Madame Caramel’s presentation was so engaging and motivating that I felt immediately intrigued to learn more about Mistress herself, and the services she provides . . . and to share it all with you here.

Madame’s clients cover the whole spectrum of ages, professions and backgrounds . . . AND, as she explained to the delight of all of us, a whole spectrum of requests!!!

As we all giggled and gasped at her delivery and expressive descriptions, we were left in no doubt that Madame enjoyed her work, and her position as one of the most experienced, and respected of Mistresses in her field. She eloquently described that her BDSM services included all forms of domination, bondage, punishment, humiliation, bi-sexual play and rubber and fetish equipment . . . BUT that those services did not include “personal services” – domination is NOT prostitution.

MadameCaramelI was also excited to learn that as well as travelling the world visiting her slaves and submissives, Madame also has her own fully-equipped London Dungeon Apartment for hire for couples (details at: Hoxton Dungeon Suite) and runs her own London FemDom Club (details at: Club Black Whip).

AND ladies you’ll be even more delighted to learn that Mistress also offers coaching in the Art of Female Domination (details at Mistress Coaching) . . . something that I may just investigate further, especially her description of having her slaves do all her domestic cleaning and housework, LOL!!!

I had so much fun at Madame Caramel’s Erotic Class that I really do urge you all to discover more about both Mistress herself . . . and her exciting world of Female Domination.

You can watch and listen to Madame Caramel . . . in her own words . . . at her You Tube Channel.

And learn more about her services at: madamecaramel.com

Oh, and don’t forget Club Black Whip !!! I’m certainly interested . . . so much so that I may even drag Hubby along, (collar and leash and all!) to the very next Club Black Whip night in East London. LOL !!!

Xxx – K

 

Leave a Comment

Filed under BDSM fun, Female Dominatrix, Fetish Fashion, Sexual liberation, womens Erotica

A special Modesty 69 at Erotica 2013

Erotica69OfferThe UK’s largest and longest running adult show, Erotica, begins on Friday (October 25th) at Tobacco Dock in London.

AND this year there will be a special Erotic Authors room for Smut By The Dock with lots of the naughtiest, sexiest . . . and yes, smuttiest . . . books for you to buy.

AND many of the authors will be visiting themselves to give impromptu readings . . . including the lovely Victoria Blisse, Lucy Felthouse, Kristina Lloyd, Ashe Barker, KD Grace, Kay Jaybee, Cara Sutra, LK Wilkerson, Toni Sands, Aoife Brennan and Zak Jane Keir.

Just imagine . . . hearing those words that you’ve tingled and twisted to, read by the very person that wrote them.

Needless to say, I WILL be visiting to listen . . . and tingle!!!

There will also be an erotic author Q&A session at 5.30 p.m. each day, run by Victoria and Lucy with various other authors in attendance.

AND whilst you are browsing I hope you will pick-up one of my Leaflets or Business Cards for a Specific-Erotica-only Voucher Code which will allow you to purchase any of my Ebooks from Gumroad or Smashwords for just 69p. After the Show closes on Sunday evening I will also draw five of the Voucher Codes for FREE downloads of all three of my Diaries available on Amazon.

You can find more details on some of the featured books and authors at: Smutters and from the Smut By The Dock organisers Victoria and Lucy.

AND of course there are lots and lots of other exciting Adult events, stage shows and exhibitors (including the fabulous John Tisbury Erotic Photography) throughout the three days of the show. So you never know, you may just bump into me there . . . Or perhaps even at one of the after show parties Erotica Swingers Party  or Erotica Winter Ball.

You can find more information about Erotica 2013 and buy your tickets >here<.

I really do hope to see you there !!!

Xxx – K

Leave a Comment

Filed under 3 somes, erotic ebooks, erotic stories online, Erotica On-line, Hotwives, sexual empowerment for women, Sexual liberation, womens Erotica