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Modestly Multilingual #wickedwednesday

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I’ve always admired friends and colleagues who are multi-lingual … and the way they can engage in conversation in a language other than their own.


But I am happy to say that over the past decades of Modesty … and before
I have developed what I feel is quite a strong, and intuitive, grasp of that most enjoyable, and widely experienced, language of all … Body Language.


And there are occasions, I’m sure you will agree, when body language can
be simply magical !!!

This week’s theme of ‘Magic’ … at Wicked Wednesday and ‘Body Language’ at May’s new meme of 4 Thoughts or Fiction, will have much more comprehensive thoughts on both subjects I’m sure, so click below!

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Xxx- K

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Modest Holidays #F4T #wickedwednesday

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Oh, how I’m longing for, hoping for, praying for … a holiday this summer.
So, so much !!!


I look forward to it every year of course … but this year even more than ever.


Family holidays were always nice of course … and over 18 years with our two children, we enjoyed some lovely vacations in lovely resorts and locations. Always somewhere different, always different activities …

But then, when our young ones had flown the nest, we had the opportunity … actually the necessity, to book an early summer break … out of school-term time … and at short (one week’s) notice.

No plans, no thoughts, no expectations, we just said to each other “let’s just do something, go somewhere where we can just chill, no responsibilities, no phones, no emails, just to relax … just for ourselves”.


So we walked into our local Travel Agents and said exactly that … “and we’d like to leave next Saturday”.

I’ll never forget it … the young lady looked up and said “well we specialise more in long-haul, adventure holidays, safaris … that sort of thing!”

Hubby said, “ok, we’d just thought we’d ask, we’ll try the other place around the corner!” (This was when there were still three Travel Agents in our high street).


“Well … wait a moment, take a seat.” she said. “Have you ever been to ……
(an island in Greece)?” she asked.


“Not that particular island” Hubby replied. “But we’d love too, we’ll take it thanks, won’t we K?”, he looked across at me and we both burst out laughing … both thinking back to our very first holiday together thirty-eight years ago.

Some things are just meant to be aren’t they!!! Because it was simply magical.

Not just the fact that our question took us back to Greece. Not just because it took us to that particular island. Not just because it took us to that particular, out-of-the-way, isolated, spot on that particular island. Not just because of the beautiful places we discovered, the wonderful tiny tavernas, the lovely welcoming local people we met.

Just because … well … because you can’t really explain magic can you?


And … as boring as it may sound … we’ve returned to that exact same spot,
every summer, ever since.


So that is why … as I said … I’m hoping, praying that I can add more special moments to my holiday memories above!!!

This week’s theme at Food For Thought is “Holidays”, which of course got me remembering … and then … Wicked Wednesday‘s “Statistics” had me counting all the months and years!!!

For more thoughts just tap the F4T and Wicked Wednesday buttons below.

Food For Thought Friday
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Xxx- K

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Modestly Locked #F4T #wickedwednesday

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I’m quite used to lockdowns of course. . . .

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In fact, over the past few years . . .

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. . . it’s become quite a popular request . . .

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and something that I must admit . . . I’ve come to quite enjoy!!!

But, it should go without saying that this current situation is
completely different. So I sincerely hope you won’t think I’m trying to belittle,
or make fun of things.
 Because I’m certainly not.

And I really do hope that you, and all of your nearest and dearest, are well and healthy . . . and are able to stay that way.


This week’s themes at Food For Thought and Wicked Wednesday are both about the current Lockdown we all find ourselves in. For more thoughts tap the F4T and Wicked Wednesday buttons below.

Food For Thought Friday
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Xxx- K

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Modest Sporting Moments #F4T

We all enjoy sports of one kind or another don’t we? Even if, like me, one is never likely to become a champion. It is still fun to imagine from time-to-time. You know what I mean . . . to grasp bat and ball(s), to swish and swing a club or racquet, to stride across the green, to grace one’s local football stadium . . .

  • Modesty Ablaze at the Football Stadium

As this week’s theme at Food For Thought is all about “Sports”, I thought it would be fun to share some of my sporty-memories from the past few years.
For lots more Sporting Moments tap the F4T button below.

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Xxx- K

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Making Modest Dates #F4T

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I’ve never really got on with organising dates in any of those computer spreadsheet programs, or even on the calendar in my phone.

I realise that in this day and age it will be considered as terribly old-fashioned, but I much prefer to enter all my sessioning appointments, and important dates, in hand-written form into my diary. It’s what I always did before computers and mobile phones . . . and it’s what I shall very probably continue to do, for the foreseeable future.

So, rather than having to awkwardly scroll through my phone screen or turn-on a computer, I just reach into my handbag and turn to the appropriate page and entries in my diary. It’s quicker and easier to note my appointments and session bookings . . . and means I won’t forget.

But woe betide if you do . . . or if you are late. I can’t abide late-comers.
It makes me cross and impatient . . . and . . . over-excitable !!!

There will be lots more thoughts on “Dates” and “Dating” at this week’s
Food For Thought. Just thumb-through the button below.

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Xxx- K

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