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Modest Inspiration #F4TFriday

This week the questions being asked at Food For Thought Friday, are all to do with how the inspiration and motivation to continue one’s online postings, comes about.

For me, all the distractions of ones normal day-to-day routine, sometimes
makes it difficult to find the time to be Modesty Ablaze, but usually it’s quite
a lot of fun trying!!!

So  . . .

Where do the ideas for your content come from?

As my posts here at Modesty Ablaze tend to be more visual rather than textual, most of my ideas (if you could call them that) come from fun times on holiday, weekend strolls or excursions . . . or “adventures” with new friends.
So, for me at least, the content just seems to flow!

How do you get inspiration? Who or what inspires what you post?

As I say above, inspiration generally comes from recent events or new fun situations that I’ve encountered over the preceding weeks.

But also from many of the posts that regularly arrive in my in-box from the inspiring and motivational people in this wonderful community . . . and from favourite memes such as Sinful Sunday, Wicked Wednesday and Boobday Friday.

How do you decide what to share, and why?

The main motivation for my Modesty pages has always been just to celebrate sexual freedom of expression . . . and those, completely natural, desires and fantasies that we all feel. And to promote the joy and fun and enjoyment, that exploring those desires and fantasies can bring to ourselves and those around us.

And hopefully I will be able to keep enjoying . . . and sharing . . . those explorations and adventures, for many years to come!!!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest Pause #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Crazy Bear BedThis week’s questions at Wicked Wednesday, and Food For Thought Friday, seem to fit together perfectly as they ask: “ Do you sometimes press pause to . . . really get in touch with yourself, to really feel, see, hear,
think, taste?”

And . . . “How do you celebrate special occasions?”

Well . . . I do think it is so important, both for oneself and for one’s relationship(s), to pause occasionally . . . and to make a special effort to take time away from the routine of everyday life and surroundings.

For years and years, Hubby and I have arranged quite regular “duvet days” or “wicked weekends” away from work and family . . . to “pause” the norm . . . and spend uninterrupted time together. Time to unwind, time to relax, time to pamper . . . and time to indulge in each other’s desires and fantasies.

From especially decadent hotel breaks . . . naked strolls on the beach . . . overnight stays at a favourite dungeon . . . or even just for a Scavenger Hunt away day!!!

And to answer those specific Food-For-Thought-Friday questions:

Do you have any “rituals” with which you celebrate/mark special occasions?

A chilled bottle of wine (or two or three) is simply a must !!!

What was the last treat (surprise or otherwise) that you gave a partner or that a partner gave to you?

Lots of rope, a silk blindfold, cuffs and spreader bars . . . and lots of lube!

What lengths have you gone to to make a particular occasion “special”?

Oohh goodness, those are secrets that I couldn’t possibly divulge here!!!


But, seriously . . . I think we would all agree that regular “pauses” away from mundane normality, are so important . . . and almost always, lots and lots of fun
. . . as I’m sure you will discover by ticking the boxes below.

#F4TFriday

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Xxx – K

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