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A Modest Uniform #wickedwednesday

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Faced with the reality that a wonderful holiday has come to an end, one just has to pull on the uniform and get straight back into the swing of things!

For more Uniformity this Wicked Wednesday . . .
just click on the button below.

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Shocking #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze ShockingI wouldn’t want everyone to think that my sessions are just about Domination!

Because actually, I feel that they often involve therapy in some form . . . and my gentlemen always appear to be stimulated!!!

I’m sure there will be more therapeutic stimulus to experience, by buzzing the Sinful Sunday button below!Sinful SundayXxx- K

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Modest Ladies Day #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Red Riding CropIt’s been so busy recently, but I always make time during this week in June,
for some special Ladies Day indulgence.

With my favourite Red Riding Crop of course!!!

And for much more indulgence this Sinful Sunday, just swish
on the lips below!Sinful SundayXxx- K

 

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Modest Exercise #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze trampleI do so look forward to my weekends . . . especially after a long and busy week
in the office.
Weekends give me time to relax . . . catch-up with my exercise . . . and
try out some new steps.

Find out how other people enjoy their weekends by, gently, stepping on
the Sinful Sunday button below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modestly Sounding #sinfulsunday

“Yes, I suppose it is a swizzle-stick for cock-tails!” I giggled as I tied the last knot.

“Shall we see if you like the sound it makes . . . as much as I do ???”

There are “bound” to be lots more stirring images at this week’s Sinful Sunday to be discovered by pushing down on the button below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Spikes #Boobday Friday

I do like to change my accessories quite frequently . . . though these spiky bracelets are actually from some years ago . . .

But it’s always fun to slide them on from time to time. And especially so for this
Boobday Friday . . . because:

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

P.s. My Spiky Bracelets photo above was taken by the lovely John Tisbury !!!

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Modestly Grateful #sinfulsunday

I do love making an impact . . . and I know my subs enjoy it too.

So we were both extremely grateful for my newest implement . . . “The Stinger”
. . . which arrived recently from Gratefulpain.

And I know I will be making many more impacts with The Stinger over the coming weeks . . . but in the meantime, I’m sure there will be lots more
impactful statements at this week’s Sinful Sunday, especially as
this weekend is Eroticon weekend!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Intersected #sinfulsunday

Now, let me make myself perfectly clear . . . I do love rules.
I love breaking them . . . and . . . I love making them!

But I was initially a little flustered at reading that this week’s prompt at Molly’s Sinful Sunday, was to submit a photo that must follow the “Rule of Thirds”. That the photo composition must be able to be divided into nine equal parts formed by two intersecting horizontal and vertical lines.

And then I remembered how much I love dividing items into intersections . . . especially when they are three-thirds of a whole, if you know what I mean.

But, assuming I am not disqualified for squeezing-the-rules, you may find more technically-correct “Rule of Thirds” images by slowly, and carefully, reaching down and squeezing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Stocking #sinfulsunday

Most of my stockings are black . . . but it’s nice to slide into something
of a different colour, before stepping out for the evening!!!

To see who else is stepping out this Sinful Sunday, just tap on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Formula #wickedwednesday

Probably the question that I have been asked most often over the past two years, and one that I have not added to my  “Questions You Have Asked Me” pages . . . is what “satisfaction” do I get from my Mistressing adventures.

Most people seem to assume that it is just a simple “enjoyment” from administering pain. It is an easy assumption to make, given most people’s view of Domination and Submission, but actually for me nothing could be further from the truth.

Whilst I had always had a fascination for the “fashionista” imagery associated with Fem Dominatrices, I had also long been curious myself about the emotions and desires of both sides of the relationship for those involved. Surely it couldn’t all just be about the giving, and receiving, of pain . . . I knew there had to be more to it than that.

But for many years, it remained just fascination and curiosity . . . until, during a visit to Sh! my favourite women’s shop in London’s Hoxton, I read about an event they were hosting by Madam Caramel, one of London’s most well known dominatrix.

Fortified with lots of glasses of wine, and accompanied by my lovely friend SheLover, I was immediately captivated and entranced by Caramel’s larger than life personality, her wonderful candour . . . and most of all her engaging sense of “fun” as she explained her experiences and views on her role as a Fem Domme.

My curiosity and interest was instantly aroused. I just had to learn more, and soon discovered that the equally legendary, Miss Kim Rub, held Mistress Workshops nearby. I enrolled for one of her Saturday afternoon sessions . . . and a whole new world of understanding, and adventure, suddenly opened-up before me.

Like everything in life, the power of the dominant/submissive relationship, is different for everyone . . . but for me it is much more about the connection, the chemistry of the psychological aspect of the interaction, rather than just the physical.

And most importantly, it has to be fun . . . on both sides . . . for it to work and be enjoyable for me. Every situation has to be completely consensual . . . and have that fun-factor . . . because being able to fulfil another person’s strongest desires and fantasies, and share in their enjoyment of that fulfilment, is what gives me that sense of “satisfaction”.

And even three years on, I am still continually amazed and intrigued at the different requests I receive . . . and the relationships I continue to build with a growing list of eager submissives.

Because of course, domination and submission is not all about impact, and whether I am requested to “stamp-me-vitals”, or am asked for a “firm hand-spanking”, or a “judicial caning”, or perhaps just sit back and receive a 15 minute “foot massage” or “toe-sucking foot worship” . . . there must always be that interaction, that special chemistry.

For more Chemical Reactions . . . gently smack the rainbow button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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