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Modestly Hands-On #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Fingering Bi-sub

I do so like to be “hands-on” . . . in absolutely everything I do !!!

And on this occasion, it was even more fun watching Luscious’s own hands and fingers twitching . . . and hearing her rising moans . . . as my probing stirred us both to a lovely session finale !!!

For more “Hands-on” experiences at this week’s
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Xxx- K

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A Modest Double #sinfulsunday

I always struggle with the photo prompts at Sinful Sunday. And I’ve been angst-ing all week . . . well not all week actually . . . but you know . . . in-between appointments . . . when I had the time to pause and think!

I mean, for goodness sake . . . what do I know about Double Exposure ???

Then, reading Molly’s instructions over again . . . “exposing twice to capture two different shots, one on top of the other” . . . it suddenly struck me !!!

Mistress Modesty Double Exposure 1

Last Saturday’s fun session with Mistress Luscious . . . when there really was lots of Double Exposure(s) . . . one on top of the other!

Mistress Modesty Double Exposure 2

Lots and lots . . . one after the other . . . in fact, you could say there was an abundance of Multi Exposures . . . with quite a High Dynamic Range !!!

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With frequent pauses of course . . . just to check that everything had . . . well you know . . . Developed successfully!!!

For more, properly technical, explanations of Double Exposure just click this week’s  Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Signing Out #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Signing Out 1

I always think that one should make a lasting impression when sessioning for the first time with a new submissive!!!

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Signing Out 2

Just to ensure his time in one’s chambers will be remembered with warmth and tingles for several days . . . or more !!!

For more Memorable Impressions at this week’s  Sinful Sunday
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Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Technical Issues #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze having boots cleaned

I have never been very good at Technical things . . . I always seem to forget numbers and codes. And combination locks in particular always give me problems . . . so I much prefer to use keys instead!

The problem is though, I tend to have so many keys, that I often forget which key unlocks which lock!

Still, it does give me time to have my shoes cleaned whilst I try to remember!!!

Find out how others handle their “Technical issues”
by unlocking this week’s Wicked Wednesday from the button below.

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Xxx- K



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A Modest Bouquet #sinfulsunday

“Bouquet !!! . . . I’m expecting more than flowers for my Tribute!” I hissed as my first stroke landed.

“No Mistress. It’s spelt differently. It’s Bokeh and it’s this week’s theme at
Sinful Sunday. It’s to do with photography and depth-of-field” he whimpered as I swished again.

“Depth!” I laughed as I began to swipe harder now. “You’ll get your depth
later on . . . but you’ll be facing in the wrong direction for taking photos!”

For more observations about Bokeh’s . . . but possibly even more blurred . . .
just tap the Sinful Sunday lips below!Sinful SundayXxx- K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the ES Bondage Rubber Cuffs from @HonourClothing

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 01I’ve been very lucky over the past few years to acquire quite a collection of restraint and bondage accessories during my fun “hobby-time” sessions. But of course, it’s always nice to have more to choose from whenever I’m packing my bag(s) for a new appointment.

So it was quite a thrill recently to be asked by my favourite fetish-fashion company honour.co.uk, if I would like to review one of their new HNRX Bondage items.

I first came across Honour in the summer of 2014, at The Great British Tattoo Exhibition, where I bought my first Latex Corselette. And I have purchased numerous items of clothing from the wonderful, and easy to use, Honour website in the four years since.

And having often been seduced by their amazing range of clothing in the past,
I was certainly intrigued to “test” a set of their HNRX Rubber Wrist and Ankle Cuffs.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 02As always, the parcel arrived perfectly and discretely packaged, in a strong brown cardboard box, which upon opening, contained two separate, black cardboard boxes (approx, 4 inches square) for the Cuffs themselves, and two smaller rectangular boxes for two “Trigger Hook” devices (more on these later).

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 03As you can see from my photos here, the boxes are all stylishly designed in Black and Purple with strong, white corrugated cardboard inner sleeves lining the Cuff boxes which also contain two metal locks and keys for each Cuff set.

Both Cuffs are made from heavy rubber latex which is actually very stiff . . . much, much stiffer than you would probably imagine. In fact my initial reaction on taking them out of the box is that they felt “too stiff and unwieldy” in comparison to my existing collection of (well used) leather bondage cuffs.

However, I am happy to say that my concern was only temporary as the natural curve of the rubber actually made them quite easy to attach to my willing assistant. They seem to hold their shape more than my leather cuffs and, I was told, felt “quite smooth and comfortable” once buckled-up . . . at least until he was clipped to the flogging-frame!

The manufacture of the cuffs is sturdy and impressive with the inner bands themselves being almost 3mm thick and 50mm wide. These bands are secured to a thinner (25mm wide) outer tongue-strap by four rows of chrome double studs. This outer strap has a chrome D and O ring at it’s middle, with a heavy duty chrome buckle at one end, and six slots to fit over the buckle tongue when secured.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Cuffs 04The Wrist Cuffs are 27cm in length (to fit wrists from 12 to 22cm circumference), whilst the Ankle Cuffs are 32cm in length (to fit ankles from 20 to 29cm circumference). And, having had the pleasure of using them twice now since their arrival in my mailbox, I must say that despite my initial concern about their rigidity, I am very impressed.

Especially when used in conjunction with Honour’s ES Double Trigger Hooks. These are separate accessories to the Cuffs, but I highly recommend that you purchase . . . not just because they clip so easily into the O-rings of the HNRX Cuffs, but because they clip so easily into absolutely anything with buckles, chains, hooks or loops.

Modesty Ablaze Honour Bondage Trigger HooksThese heavy duty, double-ended Hooks are 10cm in length and are made from Die Cast Zinc, with a Chrome-like finish, with an easy-to-use trigger-release mechanism at each end. They are light to handle and just perfect for quickly attaching . . . and quickly releasing whenever you are ready. So a safe and user-friendly accessory for the user and the used . . . if you know what I mean, and I really do recommend these as must-have items for all of your every-day restraint requirements!

So . . . as I said earlier . . . I have been shopping at honour.co.uk for lots of my play-time latex and lingerie for several years, but these exciting Rubber Cuffs have certainly piqued my interest and I am sure to be tapping on that Bondage tab more and more in the future.

As always, there are some more technical descriptions of the HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist & Ankle Cuffs below:

HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist & Ankle Cuffs:
Modesty Rating:
9 out of 10
Pros: Impressively strong and stylish manufacture, both to hold . . . and to use.
Cons: The tongue of the buckle was a little “stiff” to engage initially . . . but practice made perfect!
Material: Latex rubber, with chrome-finish steel studs, buckles and O-rings.
Measurements: The inner bands of both cuffs are almost 3mm thick and 50mm wide, whilst the outer strap is 25mm wide.
The overall length of the Wrist Cuffs is 27cm (to fit wrists from 12 to 22cm circumference).
The overall length of the Ankles Cuffs is 32cm (to fit ankles from 20 to 29cm circumference).
Colour: Black.
Cleaning: Honour recommends a thorough wipe with a damp cloth after use. Using a latex shine serum, or spray, should also be used occasionally to prolong the durability and life of the rubber.
Supplied with: Each set of cuffs is supplied with two small metal padlocks and keys.
Country of Manufacture: Pakistan
Supplier Product Link: HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist Cuffs
Supplier Website: honour.co.uk
Twitter:
@HonourClothing
The Modesty Video Review:
If you ask nicely, you may just see a clip of the cuffs in action here in the very near future.

The HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Cuffs and the HNRX ES Double Trigger Hooks were sent to me, free-of-charge by honour.co.uk,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modestly Transformed #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 1“What’s that you’re saying? You don’t like it when I tap you there?” I laughed.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 02“No Mistress” he gasped aloud again.
“But you said you were mine. All mine you said!” I reminded him.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 03“Yes Mistress . . . Yes Mistress, it all belongs to you” he agreed.

Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 04“You said you were transfixed by me . . . didn’t you say that???” I squeezed (gently of course!)

Modesty Ablaze Transfixed 05“Yes Mistress . . . transfixed Mistress . . . transformed since meeting you.”
he nodded attentively.
“Good . . . that’s just what I like to hear!” I told him. “And next week, I may just try to remember to bring your keys with me!”

But you don’t have to wait until next week, because there are sure to be lots of other Transformations available, right now by squeezing (gently remember!) the Sinful Sunday lips below!Sinful Sunday

Xxx- K

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Modest Bottoms #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze caningWhat can be more fun than spanking a bare bottom on a Saturday afternoon?

Why . . . spanking TWO bare bottoms of course!!!

I’m sure there will be more Sinful Sunday fun to be discovered by . . .
gently please . . . spanking the lips below!Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modestly Tender #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Rump 1“The secret of a good rump is in the tenderising” I told him, during the last session of a busy afternoon yesterday.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Rump 2“No . . . I said RUMP . . . not ROMP !!!” I emphasised.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Rump 3“There . . . you’re not so cheeky now are you?”

For more Sinful Sunday tips this weekend, simply smack the lips below!Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Mistresses Macro #sinfulsunday

“Oh god . . . what are you doing to me ???” he gasped from beneath his hood.

Mistress Modesty Ablaze macro fun“I call this my Mistress Modesty Ablaze Macro!” I wickedly replied.

“Because . . . a Macro is a single, user-defined command, that executes a series of repetitive responses” I continued.

“And I know just how much you LOVE . . . repetition !!!”

As “Macro” is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday, I am sure you will find lots more enjoyable close-ups by rubbing over the lips below!Sinful SundayXxx – K

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