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Uberkinky Stainless Steel Chastity Device reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

As I’m sure you’ll know if you are a regular visitor here, I do love seeing one of my submissives wearing cock and ball rings, or “accessories” of some sort “down there”. But although I’ve often thought about it I’ve never had the opportunity to lock one of my slaves up in a chastity device before.

So you can imagine how thrilled I was when Uberkinky (where it’s not just a fetish – it’s a way of life) offered me the chance to try one out.

But of course . . . just like the Ro-Zen Cock and Ball Ring and Vibrating Butt Plug that I reviewed here last month . . . I haven’t got the necessary “equipment” to actually try it out myselfBut, luckily, I had several willing assistants desperate for the chance to help me actually physically test the device . . . and more on that in a moment!!!

Now, for the purpose of this review . . . AND in my video review (see below) as well . . . I just can’t keep referring to The Chastity Device as a “device”. Sorry Uberkinky, it’s probably just me, but “device” makes me think of some sort of automated, mechanical road-sweeper or TV satellite dish! So to me it’s a “cage” . . . a lovely cage, but a cage all the same.

Lovely glossy presentation box

So . . . the chastity cage arrived in a lovely strong, glossy white box . . . after removing it from it’s discreet plain brown corrugated cardboard delivery package, of course.

The box has an almost magnetic flap that snaps nicely closed so it can quickly and easily be stowed away in your toy drawer . . . the box that is, not the Chastity Cage itself, as I’m sure you’ll be wanting that to be out of the box . . . and in use more often than not. I know I was !!!

Now . . . I’ve seen a number of different designs of chastity cages being worn when I’ve been at various Fetish events and Club nights . . . or hanging up on the racks at several dungeons I’ve held sessions at. But what immediately caught my eye when I first saw this one on the Uberkinky website . . . was it’s open design. It just gives a real impression that the wearer will be truly locked behind bars! With his cock completely caged in it’s own little prison cell . . . and I rather liked that idea!!!

The Chastity Cage is made of body-safe stainless steel and comes with a choice of three different cock rings . . . to suit different sizes of ones cock and balls obviously!

Supplied with 3 different cock rings.

The rings have a protruding shaft, which extends horizontally from the top, with a hole at the end for securing the lock once the cage is position. The larger of the three rings has a restricting diameter of 5 centimetres . . . the middle one is 4 and a half centimetres . . . and the smallest one is 4 centimetres. So there is plenty of choice for the best fit and comfort for the wearer . . . not that we would want him to be so comfortable as to completely forget what he was wearing, now would we girls???

Anyway, the sub pushes his cock , and then pulls his balls one-by-one through the ring so that he is gripped tightly enough around the base of his cock and under his scrotum to hold everything in place.

The stainless steel is perfectly smooth and seamless and . . . I was assured by my testing-assistant . . . doesn’t cause any chafing or rubbing. Even after being worn for several days.

The Spiral Cage itself has an accommodating space . . .  or “cock room” as I call it . . . . of 9 centimetres inside and despite being really strong and robust, it actually feels quite light in ones hand.

The inner diameter is 3 and a half centimetres wide. So even your “largest” submissive should be able to easily slide his cock into the cage, which then slots onto the cock ring’s protruding shaft, positioned directly above his cock obviously. The shaft is 2 and a half centimetres long and gives just enough space for the wearers balls to hang through below. There are also two thin pins which slot snugly into corresponding holes to help secure the cage onto the cock ring.

And then . . . of course . . . there is the lock! It’s a small brass lock, just like the sort you would use as suitcase or luggage lock when you’re going off on holiday. Mine was supplied with three keys. The lock clips easily through the hole on the cock ring shaft . . . and his manhood is then completely caged!!!

Strong and yet surprisingly light.

Now, as I said, I had several willing volunteers who wanted to be my “body-tester” for the Spiral Chastity Cage . . . but for my first occasion of being a “key-holder” I wanted to be able to monitor my new cage at close-quarters. So I commanded my “not quite so willing” Hubby to be my assistant for . . . “well let’s just try it for a day shall we ? . . Just to see how you get on with it!” I told him!!! Being a “chastity virgin” he showed some concern initially, reminding me that I often lose my keys in my bottomless handbag, or put them down somewhere and forget exactly where . . . but with a little not-so-gentle persuasion . . . he agreed to be locked-up for the day. (You can see the evidence, if you are sure you really want to, on one of my Mistress Modesty pages >here<).

Now, although I’ve always been curious about being a “key-holder” . . . I never expected to enjoy it quite as much as I did! It was actually quite empowering and I loved looking at it . . . making him spend all of our time indoors that day, completely naked.

And I was enjoying it so much that I decided to add a little customisation to the cage by attaching a little bell that I just happened to have to hand. (Obviously Uberkinky doesn’t supply a bell with the device but perhaps they should consider it as an optional extra!) I just loved hearing him moving around and the tinkling getting louder as he brought me my glasses of wine . . . or knelt down to massage my feet!

TwoHandsBut I’m sure you want to know how long it kept him chaste . . . and how it felt for him???

Well . . . he found it quite comfortable to wear. And, whilst always being conscious of the tightness around his balls, he said he actually enjoyed the feeling of moving about and having it knocking against him as he walked or sat down or stood up. He did have difficulty at first whenever he had to have a pee . . . spraying everywhere apparently . . . but with some careful practice he soon mastered that art.

I’ve now extended that first-day “trial” to several days in a row . . . although I have let him take off the bell each morning as he goes off to work. And I can report that my “assistant” has had no problems with showering and cleaning . . . or even sleeping . . . apart from just the obvious discomfort of his “morning glory” . . . so from that point of view it certainly works.

And from my own point of view it works as well . . . because I love feeling empowered and even more in control of my submissive . . . literally holding the key to his chastity . . . and his “erectile” freedom.

So much so that I think I’ll soon be ordering two or three more of my submissives to purchase  one of their own to send me.

And . . . if any of you other boys reading this are looking for a “key-holder” . . . I would be more than willing to offer my services . . . with BELLS on of course!!!

Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Pros: Light weight Stainless Steel and lovely “cage” design so all his lovely bits are clearly visible.
Cons: I haven’t found any yet.
Material: Body-Safe Stainless Steel.
Does Not Include: Latex or Phthalates.
Size: Length of Cage 90mm. Inner Diameter 32mm.
Cock rings (3 different sizes) – 40mm, 45mm, 50mm.
Available Colours: Silver Stainless Steel
Power: Does not require batteries.
Lubrication: Does not require lubricants.
Waterproof: Yes
After-care: Once . . . eventually . . . removed, it should be washed with hot soapy water and dried before storage (or in the ever-so-short periods you allow it to be removed).
Storage: Strong, glossy white cardboard box supplied.
Supplier Product link: Spiral Stainless Steel Male Chastity Device
Uberkinky: Chastity Devices
Additional Information: Beginner’s Guide to Male Chastity

You can also find Uberkinky on Twitter @UberKinky.

Modesty reviews The Uberkinky Stainless Steel Chastity Device

You can watch my Video Review of the Uberkinky Spiral Stainless Steel Male Chastity Device by clicking the title screen above!

The Spiral Stainless Steel Chastity Device was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.


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Teasing #sinfulsunday

I’d never wish to be described as a cock teaser . . . but when holding my flogger!

Modesty Ablaze Teasing at Sinful Sunday

I do quite enjoy administering this sort of “cock-teasing” . . . and I know that on this occasion, my newest-submissive certainly enjoyed it as well.

You can find lots more teasing of the senses, at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday from stroking (or flogging) the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Birthday Hearts #wickedwednesday

“You weren’t listening were you??? . . . I SAID . . . I wanted HEARTS for my Birthday . . . not Hugs!!!”

ModestyHeartOne

“Now you will have to have hearts . . . hurty hearts!!! . . . And just you stand still, don’t think for one minute that you can step away!!!”

ModestyHeartTwo

“There’ll be more smacks . . . lots more smacks . . . if you don’t stand still.
AND . . . I might just throw away that key!!!”

This weeks theme at Marie’s Wicked Wednesday is “Happy Birthday” . . . which seemed quite appropriate really as my blog here has just passed it’s third birthday. I never imagined that something I started out doing as just a “giggle and a dare” early in 2012 would last and carry on for this long.

But . . . more importantly . . . this Wednesday is our hostess Marie’s actual birthday . . . so I hope you will join me, and lots of others, in wishing her a wonderfully Wicked Wednesday Birthday  by covering the button below with big Happy Birthday Kisses!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Rub @ #sinfulsunday

ModestyClubRubFeb15The early hours of this Sunday morning and feeling very Sinful . . . after a fab night out at Club Rub . . . and definitely in need of having my nipples rubbed!!!

And I am sure you will discover lots of other Sinful thoughts, and needs and deeds, at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday from rubbing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#78 & The RO-Zen Double Cock Ring & Vibrating Butt Plug

missrubyPhoto courtesy of Miss Ruby Reviews

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

CONTESTS

DILDOS

VIBRATORS

ANAL TOYS

RINGS & STROKERS

BONDAGE, IMPACT, & FETISH GEAR

LUBES & CONDOMS

EROTIC BOOKS

MISCELLANEOUS

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The Uberkinky Rocks-Off RO-Zen reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

I really was excited to receive the Rocks Off RO-Zen Vibrating Butt Plug for my latest toy-product review for Uberkinky.

ModestyRocksOff2I do love seeing one of my lovers wearing a tight cock and ball ring and so the idea of combining that with an anal butt plug attachment. . . and a vibrating one at that . . . had me tingling with excitement and intrigue as soon as I saw it.

But, of course, not being physically equipped to wear this product myself, I instructed one of my regular submissives that he would be testing “a new toy” at our up-coming session over the weekend. He was curious and excited, begging with expectation “What is it? What is it?”

“You’ll have to wait and see, but I think it will be just perfect for you!” I replied.

The RO-Zen arrived neatly packaged in a firm cardboard box with a white slide-off open-ended outer cardboard sleeve. The main box itself has a clear see-through acetate viewing window displaying the RO-Zen beneath, whilst the reverse of the box has a descriptive illustration of the plug, and battery details, and a list of the toys main features. There is also a 66 page, full-colour brochure inside the box . . . small in size but packed with information on the huge range of bullets, plugs, vibrators and accessories in the Rocks-Off range.

ModestyRocksOff1Apart from it’s internal vibrating bullet, the RO-Zen is completely made of a silky, body-safe silicone that feels lovely to touch and squeeze. The rings which slide over the man’s cock and balls are quite pliable and stretchable and so would easily fit everyone I’m sure. The Cock ring-hole is approximately 1.25 inches in diameter whilst the Ball ring-hole is slightly wider at 1.5 inches in diameter.

The connecting strap between the ball-ring and the plug itself is just under 1 inch wide, 7mm thick and about 2.5 inches in length between the ball hole and the plug. There are eight little nodules which stick-up off the surface of the strap by a millimetre or two. They are designed to apply pressure and scrape against his perineum as the plug in his bottom pulls and holds it secure from the base of his cock. (More on this in a moment).

The plug itself stands proud at 2.5 inches tall (or “insertable” length I suppose it should be described as), with a girth or circumference of 4 inches. If that sounds rather “large” the diameter is approximately 1.5 inches at its widest part, tapering down to it’s rounded end. So you certainly wouldn’t describe it as a small plug . . . but I knew my “volunteer” was used to accommodating something of this size so was sure it wouldn’t be a problem.

ModestyRocksOff4The actual vibrating bullet slides tightly into the base of the plug. It is just over 3 inches in length and has seven different vibrating settings which are controlled by a single push button on the cap of the bullet. The vibration-speed or pulsing settings are advanced by one push of the button to change to the next setting. But the change is only forward in direction, so if you want to go back to a previous setting you have to cycle forwards until you find that “favourite” setting again. The vibrations are turned off completely by holding down the button for a few seconds.

The Alkaline battery is included with the RO-Zen (always good as there is nothing worse than having to search for one at the last minute). The gold coloured cap protrudes by about 2cm from the base of the plug and I did enjoy squeezing the plug tightly in the palm of my hand and pushing the button, one push at-a-time, to change the speed and pulsing patterns which I could quite easily feel vibrating in my hand, even through the thick silicone skin. I was already smiling at the thought of instructing my submissive upon his arrival to “close your eyes and hold out your hands”.

And so, the RO-Zen looks lovely, feels lovely and is such a lovely idea . . . but how would it perform in practice . . . and would it test the endurance of my anal play-mate? The weekend couldn’t arrive fast enough!

When he opened his eyes his response wasn’t quite the reaction I had been expecting. “There’s not much of a neck is there?” As he ran his fingers around the point at which the bottom of the plug joins the perineum strap. And now that he had mentioned it, I realised that my own plugs (I have two different ones) do have a more distinct stem between the base and where the plugs begin to widen.

“Apparently it is designed to give you a larger, harder more prolonged erection”
I assured him, quoting the Rocks-Off blurb from the back of the box.

“Well then” he replied, “let’s give it a whirl”. And he eagerly proceeded with the task in hand . . . so to speak.

With the application of a little water-based lubricant (being silicone it should always be water-based lube) the cock ring . . . and then the ball ring, slid quite easily over his bits and he quickly declared that they felt quite comfortable. But inserting the plug, even with a more generous application of lubrication, wasn’t quite so straightforward. It appeared to go in without too much straining on his part . . . but he couldn’t get it to stay in place. Even with a more exaggerated clenching of his muscles, the slightest movement afterwards seemed to make it pop out again.

I suggested removing himself from the two rings and to try inserting the plug first so that there was no pulling pressure on the perineum strap. Again he was able to insert it but didn’t feel able to control his “grip” comfortably . . . and as soon as he attempted to slide the rings back over his balls and then cock, the plug would pop out again.

We did manage to combine our efforts and achieve some degree of success by pushing him down into a sitting position . . . although in this position of course there was no access to the push-button for turning on the vibrating bullet . . . and as soon as he lifted himself back into a standing position the plug would, frustratingly, pop out again.

By bending him over a stool I was able to apply enough pressure to hold the plug in position and begin pushing the button to engage the vibrations. His shifting motions . . . to achieve the right spot . . . and groans of pleasure, indicated that he was certainly finding this position, and the action from the plug, quite arousing.

But now that his erection had returned, trying to slide the cock and ball rings back over his firmness resulted in the plug plopping out again.

We continued our attempts with various positions and adjustments . . . but eventually had to admit defeat.

His, carefully considered, verdict was that this Butt Plug is just a little too thick, too quickly and then doesn’t allow enough of a change of shape for his sphincter to relax and close and “grip”.

So whilst he found the idea of it as exciting as I did, his body shape and that of the RO-Zen just wasn’t compatible.

But that doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work for someone else!!!

So . . . in the interest of complete impartiality, equality and, of course, scientific research . . . I decided to try the RO-Zen for myself. (I mean the Butt Plug part of it silly!!!)

And did it work for me? Well, you can find out about that from my video review of the RO-Zen 7 function Double Cock Ring and Vibrating Butt Plug >here<.

But in the meantime:

Modesty Rating: 5 out of 10
Pros: I love to feel and caress that silky Silicone. And the vibrating bullet gives a nice variety of speeds and pulsings.
Cons: The Butt Plug itself would not stay in place for my “testing” volunteer/assistant.
Material: Body-Safe Silicone.
Does Not Include: Latex or Phthalates.
Size: Length 10cm (4 inches); Circumference 10cm (4 inches); Overall Diameter 3.18cm (1.25 inches); Insertable Length 6.35cm (2.5 inches).
Available Colours: Onyx Black
Power: One single N LR1 (Alkaline) Battery which is included with the product.
Controls: Push button in the base of the Bullet to control seven vibrating speeds and patterns.
Lubrication: Water-based.
Waterproof: Yes
After-care: Wash with hot soapy water. Or boil to sterilise, (removing the bullet section first silly!!!)
Storage: Mine was supplied in a nice plastic holding base within a two-section cardboard box and outer sliding cardboard sleeve.
Supplier Product link: Rocks off RO-Zen at Uberkinky
Buy Link: Cockrings with buttplugs

You can also find Uberkinky on Twitter @UberKinky.

Xxx – K

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You can watch my Video Review of the Ro-Zen Double Cock Ring & Vibrating Butt Plug by clicking the title screen above!

The Rocks-Off RO-ZEN was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

 

 

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Modesty’s “Sunburnt – The Movie” #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

It’s turned very cold here in London at the moment, but watching my newest #realworldsex video just released at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, has been making me “hot and bothered” all over again . . . remembering, and
re-living, an amazing summer holiday on a beautiful Greek Island last August.

Sunburnt The MovieWe had a wonderful balcony room overlooking the pool and beach below . . . and it was very, very hot . . . in more ways than one!

Especially as such a relaxing, unwinding holiday seemed to make both Hubby and I feel even more amorous than usual!!!

We both got quite sunburnt . . . as you will see . . . but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times. And as each day seemed to get even hotter than the last, we just had to retire to our room each afternoon for cooling shade, cooling drinks and lots and lots of fun . . . some of which you might think a little “unusual” . . . but I hope you will still be able to enjoy along with us in Sunburnt – The Movie.

I just loved it . . . as I’m sure you will be able to tell!!!

Modesty Ablaze Holiday Photos

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Sunburnt”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Sunburnt – The Movie” is my thirteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from the Modesty Ablaze page >here<.
It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 13 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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The Uberkinky Strict Leather Locking Collar reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

If you are a regular visitor to my pages here you will know that over the past year I have been exploring my “Fetish” tendencies more and more.

I’ve always LOVED the fashion aspect of course and I’ve always adored the look and feel of latex and leather. So as my interest in my Fetish clothing . . . and toys . . . has developed, I have begun adding more items to my “special cupboard and drawer”.

During several switching-sessions . . . initially with Lover No.14 and then at some of our local dungeons . . . I’d collected a small collar or two. But imagine my delight to receive the Strict Leather Premium Locking Collar from Uberkinky for a product review.

I had seen pictures of this collar on the Uberkinky web-site, but it’s not until you actually unwrap and slide the collar from it’s plastic bag, and feel it in your hand, that you realise just how substantial and strong this collar really is.

It is constructed of three (yes three) thick layers of strong leather. Two for the body of the neck-piece itself and the outer one for the strap. Each layer is 4mm thick, with strong sewn edges. The two inner neck-piece layers, which are 58mm wide . . . or deep if you imagine the way it is when strapped around one’s neck . . . are sewn firmly together. The inner one being slightly padded so as not to chafe against the neck. Then the narrower (27mm) outer strap, for the buckle attachment and slots, is secured to the two neck-piece layers by eight steel rivets in such away that the steel fixes only to the outer neck-piece layer. In other words, the rivets are visible only from the outside of the collar and cannot be seen, or more importantly felt, on the side of the collar which touches the skin of the wearers neck. (You may be able to see what I mean by clicking on the picture gallery below for a more close-up view).

This outer strap is 61 cm in length, 11cm longer than the two inner straps, with an impressive chrome-silver steel buckle (almost 4cm square) at one end and eight securing slots cut into the leather at the other end. These rectangular shaped slots, each about 10mm long and 4mm deep, and equally spaced 1cm apart, accept the prong of the buckle itself, allowing for a reasonably tight fit I would imagine no matter how thick or thin the neck of the wearer. The prong has a circular end rather than the pointed end you would associate with a “normal” belt-buckle. This makes it easy to attach a thin padlock to lock the collar in place . . . if you so wish . . . see below!

Modesty Ablaze Uberkinky Collar1In addition there are three quite large steel D-Rings attached to this fixing strap. They each stand 25mm proud of the strap, the middle one being exactly half-way between the buckle and the end of the strap, with the other two fixed 75mm on either side. They can easily be folded back flat against the strap or used to attach additional restraints such as rope or a leash to the collar (see the picture gallery below!).

As well as the initial weight of the collar in my hand I was certainly impressed by the obvious strength of manufacture of the collar. And, I would imagine, it’s durability . . . even with long and regular use. LOL!!!

Although I can enjoy both a submissive or a dominant role . . . depending on my mood AND my company . . . just opening and feeling and examining this collar in my hands immediately brought out my domme side and I couldn’t wait to buckle it around the neck of my No.1 Slave. The stiffness of the new leather does make it a little difficult to adjust at first. Finding the correct wrap-around position and the right slot for the most comfortable fit took a little practice. But the look of the collar . . . and that lovely intoxicating leather smell . . . made the slight fiddling, and pinching, more than worthwhile.

No.1 Slave pronounced it being difficult to “look down” as the width reached directly below his chin. “Good, that’s exactly how I like it!” I replied to his complaint. “Now where did I put that padlock!”

In the interest of objectivity of course . . . and experiencing those nice little mood-swings later in the evening . . . I tried it on myself for the first time. And I did see what he meant about not being able to move one’s head up or down with any ease. But actually it is reasonably comfortable to wear . . . you certainly feel you are being “collared” . . . but after all that is just as it should be.

No.1 has now worn it for several hours at a time at two recent events without complaint, well not about the collar at least! LOL!!! And I have loved leading him around . . . with leash attached . . . so much so that I made him buy two matching wrist-cuffs we came across whilst browsing at a recent Fetish Fair. And the cuffs have those D-rings as well, ideal for fixing with a short rope to the corresponding D-rings on my Uberkinky Collar!!! Ooohhh I’m getting all over-excited just thinking about it again now . . .

So . . . if you are looking for a strong, secure, collar with which to restrain your submissive, improve their posture and acknowledge their place in your presence, I would highly recommend you visit Uberkinky from the >Buy Link< below. And I’m confident you’ll spend quite some time browsing their extensive range of other extremely interesting items as well! LOL!!!

You can also find them on Twitter @UberKinky.

Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10
Pros: Strong and very well made. Lovely to look at both off . . . and . . . on!!!
Cons: Quite stiff and the buckle stem is fiddly the first few times to put on. Definitely a 2-person activity to achieve the best fit initially. But if you do wish to put it on alone, with practice and the aid of a mirror, it becomes easier the more often you try.
Material: Leather with steel buckle, D-rings, and rivets.
Size: 61cm (24 inches) long x 5.75cm (2.25 inches) wide
Weighs: 0.240 kg . . . so substantial to hold in your hand, but actually not uncomfortable at all to wear.
Ease of Use: See cons above!
Available Colours: Black
Additional Play Options: The buckle-tongue makes it easy to attach a lock (not supplied), and those D-rings are ideal for securing ropes or a slave-leash (not supplied either, but I’m sure you’ll have your own!)
Waterproof: You wouldn’t want to wear it at the local Lido . . . would you???
After-care: I’d recommend you wipe after use with a soft dry cloth to remove your submissives excited sweat. Normal leather cleaning products afterwards.
Storage: Out of sight of the in-laws! Perhaps in the loose plastic-bag it arrived in.
Manufacturer Product link: Uberkinky Bondage and Slave Collars.
Buy Link: Strict Leather Premium Locking Collar.

 

Xxx – K

The Strict Premium Locking Collar was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adapt at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

 

 

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Modesty “Completely Hooked” #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

I delighted to tell you that my latest #realworldsex video “Completely Hooked (The Dungeon – Part Two)” has just been published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv. And, as I mention in my introduction video below, (click the screen to view), it is my 12th video . . . and just over 12 months . . . since I submitted my first film to MLNP.

CompletelyHooked600x370FinalDec114It features a return to The Hoxton Dungeon, the scene of Modesty & The St Andrews Cross (my most popular video to date) with Lover No.14

“Completely Hooked” is . . . even for me . . . not your average sort-of erotic video. But it was an absolutely fun and amazing, multi-orgasmic time, with lots of giggles, pop-corn(???), rope and bondage play, anal stimulation, gentle hook-suspension, wands . . . and oh, did I say . . . multi-orgasms?

And even though it probably isn’t the sort of film one would normally see on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, for me at least . . . it really is what #realworldsex is all about. Just having a wonderfully fun and arousing time, experiencing something completely different with people you feel happy and comfortable to be with.

I simply loved it . . . as I think you will be able to tell . . . and I hope you will too.

You can rent “Completely Hooked” from my Modesty Ablaze MakeLoveNotPorn page >here<. It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 12 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to this, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

So . . . I hope you will enjoy not just my naughty fun with Lover No.14, but lots more of the #realworld sex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv !!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Back Pages . . . #wickedwednesday

This week’s Wicked Wednesday theme is “Looking Back” and, of course,
I just couldn’t resist “looking back” with one of my Polaroids Past photographs from 1983.

But, I really, really, really don’t want to bore you all . . . so, if you are growing tired of faded, old (and hairy!) photographs from my Back Pages . . . please look away now!!!

My Modest Apron 1983

This picture is especially for the lovely She Lover . . . a picture of me modestly modelling my apron in my “brand-new kitchen” in 1983!!!

You are sure to find lots more people Looking Back by gently tapping on Marie’s button below!

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Xxx – K

 

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