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Lovely Latex from Honour.co.uk & Lacey Lingerie @ Buttress & Snatch

I know we are all comfortable with buying clothes and accessories on the internet nowadays, but I still find it’s nice to have a personal recommendation or to physically see and touch and feel something. At least it is for me . . . and especially so when it comes to my latex and lingerie.

ModestyHonour1So I was really excited to discover two new (to me anyway) companies during my visit to The Great British Tatoo Exhibition recently.

I love latex, but for me it is just one of those items that I just have to see and feel so that I know it is right for me. It always looks so pretty and stylish in those on-line photographs with all those slim and shapely young models. But however much I may like the look,  I am never confident if it would actually be “right” for me. So it was wonderful to discover that Honour had a booth at the show . . . and this “Glamour Corselette” immediately caught my eye.

Lilly, one of the charming young Honour girls, was extremely helpful and suggested a size that she assured me would be the perfect fit. And I’m happy to say she was right . . . it just felt so wonderful to slide into and I just loved the stylish little bow-tie. Sometimes latex can be difficult for me to easily get in and out of (my bumps are not in the right places!) but with a liberal sprinkling of talcum powder, or my “special latex-friendly body moisturiser”, I’ve never had any problems when I’ve worn it since. The shoulder straps are adjustable and it has underwired bust cups which just seem to fit so comfortably and make it feel as though it could have been custom-made especially for me.

ModestyHonour4Hubby was transfixed by lots of the other items on display . . . but I told him I WANTED “this one” . . . and I  received lots of nice compliments when I wore it out to one of our club-visits recently. It has suspender clips attached at the hem (I have them tucked-up here for these photographs) so I wore it with simple black stockings.

And then imagine my delight when just two stalls along from Honour, I discovered the absolutely wonderful lingerie and swimwear of Buttress & Snatch.

ModestyStairsSnatchBumI just LOVE clothing that is different, and fun, and stylish!!! And it’s not very often that I find all three of those elements combined. But finding the Buttress & Snatch stall was like discovering a treasure trove of all sorts of wonderfully colourful and intriguing garments that made me just want to stop and feel them all.

Buttress and Snatch Tassle Skirt Knickers

Hubby’s initial reaction was that the clothing seemed “out-of-place” at such an event and he wanted to lead me straight past. But I exclaimed that they “were all so sexy” . . . and I immediately fell in love with a pair of beautiful black lace knickers with a tassel-skirt attachment. “These are lovely, so unusual” I showed him.

Rachel, the wonderfully friendly owner, explained that the garments were all custom-made . . . normally to order, and that this was the first time she had exhibited at a show of this nature.

I was completely enthralled and enchanted by so many of the unique items hanging from her stall . . . they had an almost vintage, retro look about them, yet every item seemed to exclaim “I am a one-off, I am yours, no-one else will look like this”. Rachel explained that her company had been making lingerie for almost 15 years and that her garments had been worn by people like Madonna, Neneh Cherry, Kate Upton and Kate Moss.

But I wanted those knickers . . . before any other Kates (or Katies) came along!

And they are so lovely. They have this wonderful tassle-skirt which can be worn at the front (see my picture above) for those more “modest” moments . . . or reversed to cover one’s bottom (as in my photo below) and display the delightful sheer black lace at the front, and . . . encourage me to wiggle my bottom more!

Buttress and Snatch Lingerie

I just LOVE them . . . they make me feel special . . . and unique, whenever I wear them.

And even better for me having met Rachel, albeit very briefly, I immediately felt at ease in her company and knew I was talking to someone who has a passion for what they do. I love her story (Our Way) and the history of her Buttress and Snatch.

I’m sure I will ordering more from Rachel’s sewing machine very soon.

So, if like me, you like something a little different and unusual . . . I certainly do recommend you explore both of these exciting Latex and Lingerie companies.

Honour.co.uk

and

Buttress and Snatch.co.uk

 

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adapt at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me sexy clothes and lingerie . . . and sexy toys . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

 

Xxx – Katie

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Why I so love #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

If you have visited me here before you will know how much I love the message, and videos, of #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

From a women’s point of view, I find MLNP so empowering because it is so real and portrays sex as I feel it should be portrayed. Completely consensual, fun and loving and yet still arousing and erotic. And yes, I really do think that #realworldsex can still be exciting and “naughty” and stimulating . . . in fact much, much more so than what you see on those “other” on-line sites.

I like watching sex that is erotic . . . BUT . . . I want it to be real and respectful and fun. Something that I can relate to on my own, personal, level. And that is why, since discovering MakeLoveNotPorn.tv , I haven’t watched any of those other sites at all!!! Because I want my adventures to be fun, and respectful and . . . real, not forced, not staged or choreographed . . . just wonderfully indulgent, fun and enjoyable as the best sex should always be!!!

And I hope you might be able to enjoy and experience some of that fun by discovering the huge and growing variety of MLNP-porn stars and their videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . I urge you to investigate!!!

**It is FREE to register at MakeLoveNotPorn and FREE to view >**Free Peeks< of all the videos available for rental at this wonderful #realworldsex-positive website. I hope you will register your support for the message . . . and FUN . . . of this truly wonderful concept.


I currently have THIRTEEN #realworldsex videos at MLNP, (with several new ones cumming shortly):

1) Modesty Ablaze Toytime – Playing with several of my toys, (mainly solo with just a brief cameo appearance from Hubby!!!)

>** Toytime Free Peek Pictures<                   >My Video Intro<


2) Modesty Unmasked – Introducing our wonderful friend, Lover.14, along with his whips and canes . . . and yes, I am not wearing my mask!!!

>** Unmasked Free Peek Pictures<                   >My Video Intro<


3) Modesty Bound & Unbound – Over 40 minutes of an amazing multi-orgasmic session . . . again with Lover.14 who this time brought along his ropes to have me Bound and then slowly, and delightfully, Unbound . . . whilst he and Hubby played with me!!!

>** Bound & Unbound Free Peek Pictures<         >My Video Intro<


4) Modesty Winding Up & Then Winding Down – The first video where Hubby really comes out from behind the camera and Lover.14 takes over the filming . . . well just for awhile, as he then gives me a wonderful “relaxing” full massage!!!

>** Winding Up & Winding Down Free Peek Pictures<


5) Modesty Hubby Gets a Beating – Hubby really does “come out” in this video (in more ways than one! – LOL). I loved helping giving him a tender beating . . . but don’t worry, he certainly gets his reward !!!

>** Hubby Gets a Beating Free Peek Pictures<


6) More Fun with Rope – Another session with Lover 14 and his ropes and cane . . . and another multi-orgasmic scene climaxing with some passionate kissing of the kind I really, really love!!!

>** More Fun With Rope Free Peek Pictures<     >My Video Intro<


7) The Main Squeeze – Featuring one of my newest lovers, Lover No.36. And I think you’ll understand why I’ve called this session “The Main Squeeze“ when you view it. You can see a snap-shot of Lover 36 at one of my Sinful Sunday posts from August of last year . . . but only the video can completely reveal the real fun of an amazing evening!!!!

>** The Main Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<      >My Video Intro<


8) With She Lover – This is a really very, very special video for me. I’ve tried to explain just how special in my “Special Edition“ post . . . but suffice to say it shows a wonderful moment sharing some “girly fun” with my friend, and lover She Lover. I hope you will be able to see how easy it is for me to just completely let myself go in her company!!!

>** She Lover Free Peek Pictures<                   >My Video Intro<


9) Mistress Modesty – Normally I’m the one being spanked, but in this video I am the one in complete control . . . and I really enjoyed it. AND, my “mystery submissive” enjoyed it too. I loved being Mistress Modesty, using my strap-on, and I loved using my cane and whip. But, despite all the caning and flogging, there is a happy (if rather messy) ending!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     >My Video Intro<


10) Modesty & The St. Andrews Cross – I was recently given the opportunity to enjoy an evening at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite with Lover No.14 and Hubby.
This 20 minute video is just part of our wonderful evening, and following morning, of naughty fun. I will, perhaps, post more if you let me know you’ve enjoyed my “Modesty and The St. Andrews Cross” !!!!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     >My Video Intro<


11) Modesty & The Secondary Squeeze – After just a few minutes to recover after “The Main Squeeze” (No. 7 above), Lover No.36 was ready to start again!
And, of course, I find his attentions so irresistible that . . . well, what’s a girl to do???

>** The Secondary Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<    >My Video Intro<


12) Completely Hooked – The Dungeon Part Two – Featuring a return to The Hoxton Dungeon with Lover No.14 for more multi-orgasmic fun. But this time experiencing completely new, and different, sensations of rope and anal-play . . . and even gentle hook-suspension!!!

>** Completely Hooked Free Peek Pictures< >My Video Intro<


12) Sunburnt – The Movie – From a simply amazing holiday Hubby and I had in the summer on a beautiful Greek Island. We both got quite sunburnt, as you will see, but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times even with the balcony doors open to the pool below!!!

>** Sunburnt Free Peek Pictures< >My Video Intro<


 

You can ask me ANY questions you like about the other MLNP porn stars, and their videos at MakeLoveNotPorn from the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K

 

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Modesty & The St. Andrews Cross #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

My latest #realworldsex video is now on-line at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv  . . . featuring just some of the fun that Lover No.14, Hubby and I enjoyed on our recent evening at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite.

I’ve always loved a little light bondage and BDSM play, and have always been curious and intrigued by “The St. Andrews Cross”, so you can imagine my excitement when I learnt that was just one of the many items available at The Hoxton Dungeon.

In fact there were so many tools and toys, it was quite overwhelming at first deciding exactly where to start. But my choice was always going to be the St. Andrews Cross . . . and you know how much I like to get my own way!!!

The video intro below doesn’t actually show the cross, but you can probably sense the excitement in my voice remembering just how much fun we had . . . and some of the toys we played with.

Modesty Ablaze & The St. Andrews CrossThere are some screen shots and Free Peek links to this, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

So . . . I hope you will enjoy not just my fun on the St. Andrews Cross, but lots more of the #realworld sex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv !!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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My Bondage Boutique Slim Riding Crop

What’s to review about a riding crop you may ask?

Well actually . . . despite it not having many moving or detailed parts to describe . . . this has become one of my most favourite, and most used, toys over the past few weeks. So much so, that I thought I just had to share my excitement and enthusiasm with you here.

And what has made it even more exciting is that it arrived totally by surprise as a gift from one of my followers via my “Wishlist page”.

I have owned one cane before (from a-n-other toy supplier) but it had snapped after just a few sessions, and quite mild usage really. So I’d just added the Bondage Boutique Crop from Lovehoney to my wishlist more out of mild curiosity and “when I have the time”, rather than “a must have” item.

So I was intrigued when a long, brown corrugated-cardboard box arrived at the office . . . and then absolutely delighted, and so flattered . . . when I opened it up and unravelled all the white tissue wrapping and packing, to discover a long black riding crop, in it’s sealed clear plastic bag, staring up at me from inside the box.

I just couldn’t wait to get it home and try it out. And, of course, my lovely and ever-willing Hubby, was only too pleased to submit!

Modesty's Bondage Boutique Riding CropThe crop is 27 inches long from tip to tip, including it’s strong wooden handle (5½ inches long and 3/4 of-an-inch in diameter) with a lovely-to-feel 4½ inch long and 1½ inch wide leather slapper at the “business end”. That means 17 inches of a delightfully flexible, but surprisingly strong, shaft.

The crop is just wonderful to hold as the grooved handle seems to fit just naturally (lol!!!) in the palm of my hand, giving me immediate tingles of command and being in control. There is a thin leather strap attached to the handle, where it joins the shaft, which you can slide over your wrist if you wish, although I haven’t felt the need for that because, as I say, the handle just feels as though it “belongs” in my hand. (But I have actually found the strap very useful for hanging the crop up in my wardrobe after I’ve had my fun).

Modesty Ablaze holding the Bondage Boutique Riding CropIf just holding the crop makes me tingle, you can imagine how excited I feel as I begin to administer those first few strokes (gentle to begin with of course!!!). The “swishing” sound it makes as it swings through the air is wonderful . . . and then hearing, and watching, that smacking sound as the slapper makes it’s impact on my submissives bottom is simply thrilling. I just love it . . . and watching it swat from cheek to cheek with the shaft springing and bending in time to the sounds gives me an amazing feeling. It is command, and power I suppose . . . but fun as well, as I know (from his whimpers and then rising gasps) that my submissive is also loving every stroke.

Modesty Bondage Boutique Slapper

The flexibility and strength of the shaft can, so I’m told (lol!!!), create quite an intense stinging . . . so I always pause after every dozen or so strokes to smooth my partners bum cheeks with the palms of my hand.

CropAndBumHis cheeks feel perfectly smooth and warm . . . and have a wonderfully red glow (which the picture below doesn’t really do justice too).

Modesty Ablaze Red BumAnd the slapper also seems just the perfect size and shape to teasingly slide, gently at first, and then “slap” with increasing firmness, against my submissives hanging balls as I command him to “lift your bum, come-on, up on your knees”.

In the two weeks or so since it arrived, I’ve had four or five evenings of fun which have begun with me pulling the Bondage Boutique Riding Crop from my wardrobe and ordering my submissive to “assume the position . . . NOW!!!”

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Feels wonderful to hold . . . and to use !!!
Cons: I can’t think of any.
Material: Wood, plastic and leather.
Size: 27 inches from tip to tip.
Weight: Manageable . . . and strong!!!
Noise: Depends how hard you strike.
Ease of Use: Very easy.
Waterproof: I don’t know, but I wouldn’t put it in the bath.
Lube: Not required . . . but Arnica Cream might be helpful!
Cleaning: I would imagine just a wipe over with a clean cloth.

Buy Link: Lovehoney

NB: I was sent the Bondage Boutique Riding Crop anonymously by one of my followers ordered from my Lovehoney Wishlist . . . if it was you, please email me because I just might have a special, surprise, gift for you in return**.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adapt at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me sexy clothes and lingerie . . . and sexy toys . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Xxx – K

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