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August 19, 2015 · 9:35 am

Open Monogamy and Modesty Ablaze? #wickedwednesday

ModestyAblazeMonogamyToday I’m “opening-up” to this weeks prompt of “monogamy” at Wicked Wednesday . . .  the popular definition of which (from Marie’s source) is: “Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time . . .”

Opening-up because, If you’ve visited me here before, you might be surprised to hear me say that I have been in a completely . . . and wonderfully fulfilling . . . monogamous relationship for over 33 years (31 of them married).

Monogamous? . . . How??? . . . when, from almost the very beginning of those 33 years, I have indulged in “extra-marital partnerships” with lots and lots of different lovers, many of whom I still regularly meet with . . . and many of whom have become wonderful friends as well as wonderful lovers.

Now I know that many people may describe the partnership I share with my Lover No.1, as an “open relationship” and completely the opposite of a monogamous relationship. But I would disagree . . .

Because . . . for me at least . . . I would define monogamy very simply as sharing absolutely everything with one special person.

And by “absolutely everything” I mean every emotion, every desire, every touch, every sensation, every want . . . and every need . . . completely and exclusively with someone in your life that you just know you would never want to be without.

So, whilst my own relationship may not match that “only-one-partner” of the conventional definition of Monogamy. . . for me, my “only-one-partner” makes for a truly Monogamous Modesty Ablaze.

And as with everything in life, I believe that every description and every convention, should have a different and entirely individual meaning for all of us.

We should all be happy to be who we are . . . and not what the conventions of society would have us be!!!

You can read lots of other thoughts on Monogamy this Wednesday by tapping the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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June 2, 2015 · 10:44 pm

Two’s Company, Three’s . . . #wickedwednesday

Mmm . . . TWO is nice company . . .

ModestyThree1 But . . . THREE can be such fun !!!

ModestyThree2Naughty . . . but Nice Fun . . . and that’s just how I like it!!!

ModestyThree3Marie’s  Wicked Wednesday is three years old this week, and I’m sure you will find lots more people helping Marie celebrate Naughty Number Three’s from licking the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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May 25, 2015 · 8:48 am

“A Gentler Squeeze” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

GentlerSqueezeCoverMay1615I like sex . . . in fact I LOVE sex . . . and it is always especially sexy and exciting sharing new experiences and sensations with a different lover.

But I also have to feel comfortable with that person . . . I can’t just jump into bed with anyone I meet . . . there has to be a connection, a chemistry if you like, before I can become intimate with someone new.

I have been incredibly privileged over the years to have met some wonderful lovers and had some amazingly fun times. And I have “connected” with several people who have not only become regular lovers, but regular friends as well. Lovers I may occasionally meet not just for sex . . . but for lunchtime coffee or after work drinks . . . as well.

And luckily for me several of those lovers share my excitement and enjoyment at sharing my videos of our meetings on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

No silly, not videos of our meetings for coffee or drinks, but videos of our wonderful “real world sex”. Those times when we really do just let ourselves go and indulge ourselves in each others company . . . and each others passions . . . and just see where our emotions take us.

And that’s what makes these “real world sex” videos at Make Love Not Porn, so special for me. They are just that . . . just REAL WORLD in REAL TIME . . . like a video diary of our lovemaking. There is no plan, no script for what we are going to do. We quickly forget about the camera and just . . . MAKE LOVE . . . and not make Porn!!!

“A Gentler Squeeze” . . . my latest video at MLNP.tv . . . is exactly one of those occasions.  It is from a new meeting a few weeks ago with Lover No.36. Although we had met for coffees on several occasions . . . we hadn’t been able to get together “intimately” . . . since the evening of our “Secondary Squeeze” video late last year. So it was really lovely to be able to arrange a new meeting . . . back at our favourite hotel . . . and make up for lost time.

GentlerSqueeze1If you’ve watched “The Main Squeeze” and “Secondary Squeeze” . . . my two previous videos with Lover 36 . . . you’ll know that he is one of the most “energetic” of lovers I have ever been with.

But in this new video, I think you will see a different side to our relationship . . . gentler, calmer moments of just how much we’d missed each other. Almost like getting to know one another all over again, with some sensual kissing and re-acquainting myself with his . . . rather MAHOOSIVELY thick manhood . . . and then some lovely slow fucking . . . building up to a wonderfully fulfilling ending.

“A Gentler Squeeze” is just part of our time together and perhaps if you enjoy it . . . and let me know that you would like to see more . . . I could upload a “Part 2” from the rest of the evening.

But . . . in the meantime . . . I hope you will enjoy Lover 36 and his Gentler Squeeze !!!

The recent “Make Radiant Love Not Porn” post on the MakeLoveNotPorn-blog previews “A Gentler Squeeze” as:

“Is it just me or does Modesty just get better and better? In this video, Modesty meets up with a lover that she hadn’t been able to rendez-vous with seen since late last year. Maybe there’s some truth to the statement that absence makes the heart grow fonder ’cause once they were given the opportunity, these two sure couldn’t keep their hands off of each other! Filmed by lover no. 1, hubby, this sweet reunion is filled with all sorts of ecstatic moments and a surprising downtown adventure that you’ll have to rent to see!”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “A Gentler Squeeze”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Gentler Squeeze” is my 18th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my seventeen #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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May 4, 2015 · 9:42 am

“Steamy Kisses” #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

ModestyAblazeSteamierKissesI had such a wonderful night of “Passionate Kisses” with Lover No.50 on our first evening together, that I just couldn’t wait to arrange another meeting. And I was so thrilled when he said he felt the same way! And that second meeting . . . on International Happiness Day . . .  was even more passionate than the first!

Starting with a steamy, soapy shower together, this is the longest of any of my MLNP videos . . . fifty minutes long in fact! But it was all so lovely that I just didn’t want to leave anything out. With multiple orgasms from all three of us (yes Hubby comes out from behind the camera on several occasions) I think the wonderful, fun, #realworldsex we all enjoyed, will be obvious throughout our “Steamy Kisses“.

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The latest “MakeCheekyLove” post on the MakeLoveNotPorn-blog previews “Steamy Kisses” as:

“Modesty Ablaze’s longest MLNP submission to date starts out with some #showertime fun. Because, as we’re sure Modesty knows, getting someone nice and slippery in the shower also provides great lubrication for some steamy #handy action! Things then heat up on the bed between her and Lover No. 50, with hubby filming the entire rendezvous. He eventually joins in, much to everyone’s delight, leading to a menage-a-trois filled with giggles, orgasms, and a raw candidness that’s incredibly real, hot and mesmerizing to watch.”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Steamy Kisses”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Steamy Kisses” is my seventeenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my seventeen #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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March 7, 2015 · 10:59 am

Modesty and #realworldsex @makelovenotporn

After my Wicked Wednesday post last week, I received several emails asking just why I think the message and ethos of #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . is so important.

So I thought it would be useful to replay my video from March of last year . . . gosh, where has the year gone???  You can >click< on the screen below to hear my thoughts on MLNP and why I love it so much.

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I always tell anyone who asks me that, from a women’s point of view, I find MLNP so empowering because it is so real and portrays sex as I feel it should be portrayed. Completely consensual, fun and loving and yet still arousing and erotic. And yes, I really do think that #realworldsex can still be exciting and “naughty” and stimulating . . . in fact much, much more so than what you see on those “other” on-line sites.

I like watching sex that is erotic . . . BUT . . . I want it to be real and respectful and fun. Something that I can relate to on my own, personal, level. And, as I say in the video, that is why since discovering MakeLoveNotPorn.tv , I haven’t watched any of those other sites at all!!! Because I want my adventures to be fun, and respectful and . . . real, not forced, not staged or choreographed . . . just wonderfully indulgent, fun and enjoyable as the best sex should always be!!!

And I hope you might be able to enjoy and experience some of that fun by discovering the huge and growing variety of MLNP-porn stars and their videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv . . . I urge you to investigate!!!

**It is FREE to register at MakeLoveNotPorn and FREE to view >**Free Peeks< of all the videos available for rental at this wonderful #realworldsex-positive website. I hope you will register your support for the message . . . and FUN . . . of this truly wonderful concept.

I currently have FOURTEEN #realworldsex videos at MLNP, (and hope to have several new ones cumming shortly):

1) Modesty Ablaze Toytime – Playing with several of my toys, (mainly solo with just a brief cameo appearance from Hubby!!!)

>** Toytime Free Peek Pictures<

2) Modesty Unmasked – Introducing our wonderful friend, Lover.14, along with his whips and canes . . . and yes, I am not wearing my mask!!!

>** Unmasked Free Peek Pictures<                   

3) Modesty Bound & Unbound – Over 40 minutes of an amazing multi-orgasmic session . . . again with Lover.14 who this time brought along his ropes to have me Bound and then slowly, and delightfully, Unbound . . . whilst he and Hubby played with me!!!

>** Bound & Unbound Free Peek Pictures<         

4) Modesty Winding Up & Then Winding Down – The first video where Hubby really comes out from behind the camera and Lover.14 takes over the filming . . . well just for awhile, as he then gives me a wonderful “relaxing” full massage!!!

>** Winding Up & Winding Down Free Peek Pictures<

5) Modesty Hubby Gets a Beating – Hubby really does “come out” in this video (in more ways than one! – LOL). I loved helping giving him a tender beating . . . but don’t worry, he certainly gets his reward !!!

>** Hubby Gets a Beating Free Peek Pictures<

6) More Fun with Rope – Another session with Lover 14 and his ropes and cane . . . and another multi-orgasmic scene climaxing with some passionate kissing of the kind I really, really love!!!

>** More Fun With Rope Free Peek Pictures<     

7) The Main Squeeze – Featuring one of my newest lovers, Lover No.36. And I think you’ll understand why I’ve called this session “The Main Squeeze“ when you view it. You can see a snap-shot of Lover 36 at one of my Sinful Sunday posts from August of last year . . . but only the video can completely reveal the real fun of an amazing evening!!!!

>** The Main Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<      

8) With She Lover – This is a really very, very special video for me. I’ve tried to explain just how special in my “Special Edition“ post . . . but suffice to say it shows a wonderful moment sharing some “girly fun” with my friend, and lover She Lover. I hope you will be able to see how easy it is for me to just completely let myself go in her company!!!

>** She Lover Free Peek Pictures<                  

9) Mistress Modesty – Normally I’m the one being spanked, but in this video I am the one in complete control . . . and I really enjoyed it. AND, my “mystery submissive” enjoyed it too. I loved being Mistress Modesty, using my strap-on, and I loved using my cane and whip. But, despite all the caning and flogging, there is a happy (if rather messy) ending!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     

10) Modesty & The St. Andrews Cross – I was recently given the opportunity to enjoy an evening at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite with Lover No.14 and Hubby.
This 20 minute video is just part of our wonderful evening, and following morning, of naughty fun. I will, perhaps, post more if you let me know you’ve enjoyed my “Modesty and The St. Andrews Cross” !!!!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures<     

11) Modesty & The Secondary Squeeze – After just a few minutes to recover after “The Main Squeeze” (No. 7 above), Lover No.36 was ready to start again!
And, of course, I find his attentions so irresistible that . . . well, what’s a girl to do???

>** The Secondary Squeeze Free Peek Pictures<    

12) Completely Hooked – The Dungeon Part Two – Featuring a return to The Hoxton Dungeon with Lover No.14 for more multi-orgasmic fun. But this time experiencing completely new, and different, sensations of rope and anal-play . . . and even gentle hook-suspension!!!

>** Completely Hooked Free Peek Pictures< 

13) Sunburnt – The Movie – From a simply amazing holiday Hubby and I had in the summer on a beautiful Greek Island. We both got quite sunburnt, as you will see, but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times even with the balcony doors open to the pool below!!!

>** Sunburnt Free Peek Pictures< 

14) A Touch Of Glass – Possibly my most “personal” movie at MLNP yet. Just me alone with my Diamond Dream Glass Dildo, lost in my own private cocoon for 15 minutes of rippling, swirling, multiple orgasms!!! (And yes, there are some glimpses of my Diogol Plug as well!)

>** A Touch of Glass Free Peek Pictures< 

As I said, I hope to have several completely new videos published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv shortly . . . but in the meantime I really do urge you to investigate not just my own, but all of the growing number of MLNP-porn stars all of whom are sharing their own #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv .

Xxx – K

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December 29, 2014 · 4:53 pm

Modesty’s “Sunburnt – The Movie” #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

It’s turned very cold here in London at the moment, but watching my newest #realworldsex video just released at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, has been making me “hot and bothered” all over again . . . remembering, and
re-living, an amazing summer holiday on a beautiful Greek Island last August.

Sunburnt The MovieWe had a wonderful balcony room overlooking the pool and beach below . . . and it was very, very hot . . . in more ways than one!

Especially as such a relaxing, unwinding holiday seemed to make both Hubby and I feel even more amorous than usual!!!

We both got quite sunburnt . . . as you will see . . . but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times. And as each day seemed to get even hotter than the last, we just had to retire to our room each afternoon for cooling shade, cooling drinks and lots and lots of fun . . . some of which you might think a little “unusual” . . . but I hope you will still be able to enjoy along with us in “Sunburnt – The Movie“.

I just loved it . . . as I’m sure you will be able to tell!!!

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There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Sunburnt”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Sunburnt – The Movie” is my thirteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from the Modesty Ablaze page >here<.
It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 13 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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December 2, 2014 · 3:45 pm

Modesty “Completely Hooked” #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

I delighted to tell you that my latest #realworldsex video “Completely Hooked (The Dungeon – Part Two)” has just been published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv. And, as I mention in my introduction video below, (click the screen to view), it is my 12th video . . . and just over 12 months . . . since I submitted my first film to MLNP.

CompletelyHooked600x370FinalDec114It features a return to The Hoxton Dungeon, the scene of “Modesty & The St Andrews Cross“ (my most popular video to date) with Lover No.14

“Completely Hooked” is . . . even for me . . . not your average sort-of erotic video. But it was an absolutely fun and amazing, multi-orgasmic time, with lots of giggles, pop-corn(???), rope and bondage play, anal stimulation, gentle hook-suspension, wands . . . and oh, did I say . . . multi-orgasms?

And even though it probably isn’t the sort of film one would normally see on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, for me at least . . . it really is what #realworldsex is all about. Just having a wonderfully fun and arousing time, experiencing something completely different with people you feel happy and comfortable to be with.

I simply loved it . . . as I think you will be able to tell . . . and I hope you will too.

You can rent “Completely Hooked” from my Modesty Ablaze MakeLoveNotPorn page >here<. It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 12 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to this, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

So . . . I hope you will enjoy not just my naughty fun with Lover No.14, but lots more of the #realworld sex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv !!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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November 8, 2014 · 9:30 pm

Modesty & The Secondary Squeeze #realworldsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

My #realworldsex video “The Main Squeeze“ has been one of my most popular films at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv  . . . and I am delighted to say that a completely new video with Lover No.36 has just been published at MLNP.

I’ve called it “The Secondary Squeeze“ and I think you will probably be able to hear the excitement in my voice remembering that wonderful evening from my intro video below.

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Lover No.36‘s energy always seems endless . . . and my pauses for breath, to try to regain my composure, always seem (wonderfully) short . . . and I’m sure you’ll see why from the full video!!!

You can rent “The Secondary Squeeze” from my Modesty Ablaze MakeLoveNotPorn page >here<. It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 11 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to this, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

So . . . I hope you will enjoy not just my (exhausting) fun with Lover No.36, but lots more of the #realworld sex at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv !!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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October 11, 2014 · 2:30 pm

#afterrealworldsexselfies No.3

Not exactly a selfie . . . Hubby was too exhausted to move, let alone lift a camera . . . but still an #afterrealwordsex moment. Which I think I captured quite well, don’t you think?

HubbyBackPrelimAnd I think my handiwork is quite appropriate for my favourite website, MLNP,  #afterrealworldsexselfies theme showing, as it does, those immediate moments after some lovely . . . and loving . . . fun. (**See my P.S.).

Because . . . to quote Madam Curator Sarah from MLNP . . . #afterrealworldsexselfies are:

“a great way to spark a healthy dialogue around sex and to celebrate the fact that #realworldsex isn’t exactly over as soon as everyone’s had their orgasm. We truly believe that the cuddling, eating, showering, or whatever it is that you do after #realworldsex is also part of the fun!”

So why not join in with some #afterrealworldsexselfies of your own. You can find out more at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

It will make me smile (and tingle) if you do !!! – Xxx – K

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**P.S. In case you’re wondering about the “pegs & brushes”, we were on holiday and travelling light (so no room for my canes, floggers & paddles, so I just had to improvise!!!)
Oh . . . and I hope more will be revealed soon in a future MLNP-video!!!

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October 3, 2014 · 11:13 am

Nominations are open for the Top Sex Bloggers of 2014

Modesty Ablaze CuffedDoes October make you feel blue, bored, blasé . . . with the fun of your summer holiday already a fading, distant memory . . . and are thoughts of the pressure and chaos of Christmas already crossing your mind? 

Well here’s an ideal opportunity for some exciting and titillating distraction and enjoyment . . . not one, but two, Top Sex Bloggers of 2014 Nomination Websites for you to peruse and investigate!!!

Every year both Kinkly and Between My Sheets offer their readers the opportunity to nominate their favourite on-line reading, most sexciting, most sexformative, most-visited bookmarks in their browser.

Not only is it a great way of passing on a little thanks to some of the people that have entertained and informed you throughout the year . . . or who, perhaps unknowingly, may have given you strength and self-believe in sharing thoughts and experiences similar to your own . . . but I also find it is a wonderful way of discovering yet more interesting and fun erotic people and their blogs!

Blogs and experiences that you may otherwise have never come across . . . blogs and experiences that strike a chord, reinforce feelings and desires that you share . . . blogs and posts that make you laugh out loud in agreement (or sometimes wonder!)

So, I really do recommend that you follow both of the above links . . . because I am sure you will find fun times within.

And fun times, for me, is what life should be all about . . . so go on, click and enjoy.

Oh, and yes, I will feel flattered, and honoured should you wish to mention, or include, www.modestyablaze.com during your travels >here< at Kinkly or >here< Between Rori’s Sheets . . . but most of all, I hope you find fun times!!!

Xxx –  K

Oh, and p.s. – Huge thanks, as always, to the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar) for the picture of me above!

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