Modest Epiphany #wickedwednesday

Modest Epiphany Wicked Wednesday

We were becoming regulars at The Club now … so much so that B, our lovely hostess, welcomed us for our fourth Saturday evening visit in a row with “See, I said that you would be coming every week”, laughing at her own choice of wording. “We’re like your local pub now aren’t we”.

“Well I could hardly wear this at our local pub now could I”, I giggled in reply as I took off my coat before sending Hubby downstairs to the cloakroom with it.

“No perhaps not” she said as she hugged me and kissed us both on each cheek. “It is very sexy. You look so beautiful and amazing. As you always do of course”.

I was wearing a brand new, short, red satin dress I’d brought specifically for the Club. Easy to lift off over my head, with loosely laced open sides which clearly revealed I wasn’t wearing anything at all underneath.

With B as such an affectionate chaperone … and her continuing flattering comments week on week … I was growing in confidence and losing my inhibitions more and more with every visit. And knowing that Hubby was enjoying all the fun attentions I was receiving as much as I was, meant I was striving to “dress to impress” with a different new outfit for every visit.

But despite feeling more at ease than I had on our first few visits, I would still always insist on arriving early-ish, to give me time for a few glasses of wine to settle the initial butterflies.

I was still chatting to B when Hubby returned from the cloakroom, but before we could order our drinks she linked her arms through each of ours and said “Come, I want you to meet some one”. She led us around the corner of the bar and up to a very striking blonde lady sitting on her own in the far corner. “Hilary, this is K and her lovely Hubby”.

Hilary beamed and immediately took my hand “Your dress is absolutely gorgeous” she said. “B has told me all about you both and she is absolutely right, you are stunning”. She continued squeezing my hand as she nodded to a tall man who had suddenly appeared behind us. “This is my other half, Steve. Buy this lovely couple a drink darling”. She patted the empty stool next to her and said “Sit and tell me about yourselves, B tells me you’re quite new to the scene”.

I giggled rather nervously and explained we’d actually been visiting every week for the past month or so now, but hadn’t been to any other swinging clubs previously. “I haven’t seen you here before though” I said.

She smiled and said they’d been abroad for several months but had returned during the week and she couldn’t wait to get back to “our favourite fun place”, emphasising “fun place” with a wonderfully wicked laugh and sweeping hand gesture.

I was immediately warming to her outgoing personality, and I could tell Hubby was quite taken with her as well as he and Steve passed us our drinks. We were soon sharing our experiences and life-stories with such ease and openness … and I was telling her things without a second thought … pausing only to instruct Hubby to get another round of drinks for us all.

“I’m a slut and I love it” she was squeezing Hubby’s hand now, “spent 12 years in a boring sexless marriage and now I’m making up for lost time” she laughed. “Fuck anything with a hard one”.

We’d been chatting and laughing … and squeezing each others hand … for quite some time now, and it was getting busier and noisier around us with more arrivals, many of whom Hilary seemed to be on nodding terms with.

She reached over again, took me by the hand and stood up. “Come on, let’s go and find some fun”. She winked at Hubby and said “are you going to join us?” as she stepped between him and Steve … and led me down the corridor towards the main playroom.


The above is Part One of a Chapter from “Modesty Unleashed”, the eighth of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” Ebooks which is soon to be published at my Amazon, Gumroad, Fun Store and Etsy pages.

And … if you’ve read down this far … I’m hoping to add Part Two of this chapter to the appropriately themed “Gang Bang” Kink of the Week page in the next few days.


However, in the meantime, for lots more “Epiphany” moments, I suggest you visit this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, by clicking on the lovely rainbow button below!

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Kink of the Week

Xxx- K

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Pour Me A Glass Members Newsletter – November 2021 #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Pour Me A Glass Newsletter November 2021

Hello everyone and welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast and Newsletter for November 2021 … my monthly round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.

Now,  before I tell you about my new Members content for this month, I just wanted to mention that you can now also find me on Medium dot com.

For those of you who are not familiar with Medium, it is a huge website … primarily for authors and writers … that I was told about by Marie Rebelle and May More.

Now I am not a writer … my Ebooks are just auto-biographical excerpts from my personal diaries over the years. But Marie and May both write wonderfully exciting and entertaining erotic stories … and both post regularly there and I soon found I was returning to browse their Medium pages more and more.

So much so that I thought I would post a few pages there from my diaries occasionally as well. I highly recommend you visit and sign-up for Medium because I am sure you will enjoy browsing the vast library of erotica there.

So … my first Members video of the month is Part Two of my feature video from last month, “Ass Lover POV”.

It follows on directly from where I paused Part One and features my favourite Ridged Titanium Dildo … exploring all sorts of “private” fun places.

I’ve made a late change for my new Photo Gallery this month, because when I recorded my Modcast yesterday, I’d planned to feature some more exclusive first-view photos from my summer holidays. But … last night I received a lovely email from new member Craig who asked if there were any “still life” photos from my “Hotel Me-Time” video he’d seen on one of my Clips sites. So, as a special treat for his flattery and lovely words, I’ve included some in this month’s first Photo Gallery. (My summer holiday photos will be added later).

So I hope you will all enjoy these first updates for the month … and do send me some requests of your own as well … because … as I always say … the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send in your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them. 


Modesty Ablaze Uplifted

Now … as I mentioned in my “Modestly Uplifted” post last Friday, my Boobday Fridays continue to be amongst my most popular and I was able to post another five during the month including …
“Modestly Rocked”, “Modestly Unzipped”, “Modestly Texting” and “Modestly Sheer”. “Uplifted” was my 233rd Boobday and I hope to be able to keep posting for as long as you all ask me to. >>> Read more >>>


Modesty Ablaze No Regrets

One of the Wicked Wednesday themes during the month wasNo Regretswhich allowed me to look back on the past three decades of fun which I have been lucky enough to enjoy … and hope that it has brought lots of enjoyment to lots of other people as well.
>>> Read more >>>


Modest Lighthouse Revisited

MyLighthouse Revisited Sinful Sunday post early in the month also gave me the chance to look back on a lovely venue I enjoy visiting each year during my summer holidays … and fingers-crossed I will be able to visit again next summer too.

>>> Read more >>>


Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap-On

And I was so thrilled that myTaking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On was so well received at my Make Love Not Porn profile during the month. I have over 90 videos at Make Love Not Porn now, but not very many of my “Mistressing themed” ones and I wasn’t sure if this video would be popular there. But … I have already received lots of messages asking for more … So … there will be a Part Two to follow soon.
>>> Read more >>>


So thank you all once again, for continuing to support me here at my Pour Me A Glass pages … I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .

Xxx – K

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A Modest Ice Cream? #sinfulsunday

Modest Ice Cream 1

“Yes I know it’s nearly November … but surely they can’t be closed … it’s been quite mild today, and I just fancy one!”

Modest Ice Cream 2

“I mean it’s always nice to end ones afternoon stroll with a cooling, creamy, lick”.

Modest Ice Cream 3

“And look … they do doubles … you know I always enjoy doubles!”

Modest Ice Cream 4

“And I think they’re missing a trick because look, the car park’s still quite full”.

To see how others have been spending their afternoons this weekend at Sinful Sunday just lick the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Even though I’ve missed out on my afternoon licking, I’m hoping I may still be able to add “Ice Cream Van” to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Uplifted #BoobDay 233

Modesty Ablaze Uplifted Boobday 233

Of all the emails and messages I receive about my postings here, my Boobday Friday posts are among the most popular!

It’s always flattering … and quite uplifting … to receive so many nice requests for more of course.

And it’s quite astonishing to think that this is my 233rd Boobday Friday submission. Enjoy!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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A Question of Balance … #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 1

As I mentioned in my Boobday Friday post during the week, I became almost obsessed on our summer holidays this year, with building new Rock Sculptures on the beach each day.

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 2

It was all a question of balance of course … placing one stone at a time …

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 3

Knowing one’s limits and when to stop … before moving onto the next ...

Modesty Ablaze Rock Balance 4

I found it very calming and therapeutic actually. And the fact that they all seem to have a “phallic” appearance is … obviously … purely coincidental.

More more calming therapeutic coincidences this Sinful Sunday just tap the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Rocked #BoobDay 232

Modestly Rocked Beach Boobday 232

This photo is from our first day on the beach in August for our Summer Holiday. I became almost obsessed this year with building new Rock Sculptures on the beach each day … building new ones, or re-building ones that may have fallen during the night.

So much so, that there will be several full-length videos of me searching the beach for suitable shaped rocks and stones … and careful construction … to be published to my Pour Me A Glass Members page in the coming weeks.

But in the meantime, I think this photo from my first attempt, is just perfect to add to my Boobday Friday collection!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Taking Mistresses 10 inch Strap On"

You may recall that last year I published a series of Stand To Attention videos … on my Make Love Not Porn profile … that I’d filmed with Lover 83 at my favourite London Dungeon.

Well those videos certainly generated quite a lot of interest in my “Mistressing hobby” … as I’ve been regularly receiving emails and messages on my social sites ever since, asking for more similar-themed videos from those chambers.

So … as my Femdom Sessions are always based around Role Play and Sensual Teasing Fun … and, as many of the most recent emails I’ve received have been asking if I do any “Pegging or Strap-On” sessions … I thought it would be fun to addTaking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On to my collection here.

It features my favourite Strap-On Submissive, whom as well as being a lovely play-partner who simply loves receiving, also has a very impressive appendage of his own … which I absolutely love playing with!

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Part 1

Now you may find some of my language rather unbecoming of a “mature lady” such as myself … but as I said, this session is just as much about Role Play and Fun Teasing as it is about my Strap-On-ing … so my language and humiliation-teasing is exactly how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On  is my 91st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On Five

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – October 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Mistress Modesty Cheeky Peek Cocktails 2021

As I’ve mentioned on my Members pages before, I enjoy sharing lots of my “candid” #exhibitionist moments. Photos and videos with no filters, no re-touching, no pretences, no “breathy, over-acted voices”, no “creative editing”. Just the REAL ME having fun and being just who I am … with all the lumps and bumps of the “mature” lady I am.

And my first mid-month Members update for October, is one such short video from my holiday in the summer.

New member Stewart requested “more flashing, exhibitionist” videos, whilst another new member JPS asked if I had any “vaping clips”.

So I think Cheeky Peek Cocktails will fit the bill on both counts. (By the way, the blurring at several points is completely intentional so as to mask the identity of innocent passers-by).

But if neither of those kinks is to your taste, then perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered**.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from October by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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Modest Black Net … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Black Net Stockings

As I mentioned in my October Newsletter, September was a record month for new Subscribers to my Pour Me A Glass Members pages.

And it was also a record month for session appointments as I sought to fulfill postponed sessions from the past year.

So I thought I would include a screen-snap, from my most recent appointment, to also fulfill a request from new subscriber Phil who has a thing for Black Net Stockings.

There’s sure to be more sinful appointments to be had this weekend, by stroking the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Unzipped #BoobDay 231

Modestly unzipped Boobday Friday 231

I always like to be prepared when choosing an outfit for a “special” date … after all, it’s important to make a memorable first impression … don’t you think?

And to give Hubby the opportunity to add a new photo to my Boobday Friday collection of course!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Xxx – K

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