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August 3, 2018 · 6:31 am

Modest Bulbs #Boobday Friday

Sometimes it’s nice to have a little extra light when one is out for an evening stroll . . . even if they are a little difficult to keep attached!!!

I’m sure there will be more “enlightenment” to turn on to at this week’s Boobday Friday.

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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August 1, 2018 · 9:37 pm

Modest Thoughts #F4TFriday

Modesty Ablaze Food For Thought Friday

I haven’t participated in “Food for Thought Friday” before . . . and as you can tell, I am almost a week late in joining in on this occasion. But a regular reader suggested that I definitely should partake in this Friday’s theme, because it asks several questions that she apparently has always been curious about when visiting my “modest” pages here.

So Food For Thought Friday asks:
A number of us in this community take part in the #SinfulSunday or FebPhotoFest memes run by Molly Moore, while others share photos via Boobday by Hyacinth Jones.
1) If you take risqué photographs, what is it that you enjoy most? The creativity, the composition, the feedback you get from those who see them?
2) If you participate in any of the memes above, what made you decide to take part? How did you feel the first time you linked a post for others to see?
3) How comfortable are you sharing semi-nude/nude/sexually explicit photos of yourself, either online or via a “sext”?

Well as I do, quite regularly, join in with SinfulSunday and BoobdayFriday, I would answer:
It was Sinful Sunday that first motivated me to begin including more “risqué” photos on my blog. I found the different array of images each week interesting and inspiring, and whilst I knew that the artfulness and creativity of many of the images were beyond my abilities, it was the fun aspect that appealed to me. I’ve always wanted to have . . . and share . . . fun in everything I do, and if I don’t feel that fun or enjoyment in something, then I know it isn’t for me.

As I began (slowly and “modestly” at first) submitting images to Sinful Sunday I eventually became aware of other memes such as Scavenger Hunt and Boobday Friday that appealed to me not only for the obvious enjoyment of the images I was discovering there, but also because of the pride and positivity of those taking part. Being proud of one’s sexuality, positive about our bodies and so strongly expressing the right of each of us to be able to follow our natural desires and worth as a person, just struck a chord with me.

Yes I did feel nervous, and apprehensive, after those first posts . . . in fact I still often do. But then I remind myself that there is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s natural . . . it’s fun !!!

Of course I do admit, particularly with my Scavenger Hunt posts, that I enjoy the thrill of the “outdoors-nature” of the poses. It brings out the exhibitionist streak within!

But most of all, as I say in the “Rider / Warning panel” at the top of my pages, I hope my posts will go some way to promote Body Positive and Sex Positive issues and to bring smiles and giggles to those that come across them.

For more Food For Thought on the subject of “Photos”
just click on the button below.

#F4TFriday

Xxx – K

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July 1, 2018 · 5:00 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Sticky, Wet & Sweet” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Sticky Wet & Sweet at MLNPIf you viewed my last video with Lover No.14 , “Day 2 – Starting Over”,
you will know that having been bound in rope and brought to an amazing orgasm, I just needed to collapse onto the bed and slowly come-down from that lovely, exhausting high!!!

And, as you will see in this video, No.14 did gently untie me and then gave me a lovely, soothing massage. But it wasn’t long before his fingers and thumbs . . . and his licking tongue . . . began exploring all over again.

So my massage was slowly turned into another, calmer, but still rippling orgasm, eventually followed by some giggling recovery-time . . . and a new way to enjoy eating chocolate!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Day 2 – Starting Over” in their special Make Flourishing Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze had so much fun showing up at lover No. 14’s hotel suite wearing nothing but a trench coat, that she decided to do it all over again — this time with the added excitement of riding the train all the way there! Once en suite, Modesty quickly disrobes and No. 14 sets about doing what he does best — tying Modesty up and making her delirious with delight! Totally focused on Modesty’s pleasure, this video has the same charming banter we’ve come to enjoy from Modesty’s other videos with hubby and Lover No. 14. I just love how polite they all are while indulging in exhibitionism, bondage, and some intense #realworldorgasms!

Now, this latest video . . . which I’ve called “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” . . . follows on directly from “Day 2 – Starting Over” and is still from early-on in our evening. So, as the night was still young, I’m sure you can imagine that there was lots more fun to come . . . and that will be for a Part Three which be available in the next week or so.

But, in the meantime, I hope you will enjoy . . . and feel part of . . . our “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” fun..

You can view my introduction to “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

Modesty Ablaze at MLNPThere are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Sticky, Wet & Sweet”  is my 52nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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June 19, 2018 · 9:20 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Unmasked” – Part 7 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries

As I’ve mentioned on several occasions previously, my pages here at Modesty Ablaze started almost as a form of therapeutic release.

Celebration and release actually, because I can’t deny that it was a thrill to satisfy that exhibitionist streak within that we all have, and to be able to share . . . “anonymously” . . . some of the personal diaries that I’d been writing for years and years.

Because I often wanted to shout-out to many of my “normal” friends, that one shouldn’t be ashamed of, our sexual feelings or desires. And that if we all talked about, and expressed those more openly with our partners, it just may lead their relationships to places they’d never imagined . . . as it had for myself.

Because for years I had been meeting several different lovers . . . with the complete knowledge and acceptance of Hubby . . . and had been keeping a record of every meeting in my diaries. So sharing some of those diary entries in the early pages of my blog, made me feel as though I was sharing the joy . . . and love . . . that such wonderful relationships can bring.

And to my absolute surprise, within the first month of those initial postings,
I began receiving emails asking for more . . . and then several suggestions
that I should publish them as Ebooks.

So . . . slowly at first . . . “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” were born.

And, as I still often receive requests for more, I am happy to say that “Modesty Ablaze Unmasked – Part 7 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” has recently been published at both my Amazon, and Gumroad pages.

“Modesty Unmasked” follows on directly from “Further Adventures”, with more diary entries of my personal meetings and . . . in the latter chapters . . . how those  “meetings” just seemed to naturally evolve into amazing three-some fun with Hubby as well. And then from there, into our first wonderfully sex-citing Swinging Adventures.

And . . . if you are sitting comfortably . . . you can listen to a reading from the beginning of Chapter 19 – “New Club Couple” from the audio link below.

“Modesty Ablaze Unmasked” is now available in Ebook format from my Amazon US, and Amazon UK pages . . . or in downloadable and printable PDF format at my Gumroad pages.

Visit my Ebooks page >here< for information, and links, to all six
of my previous editions of “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries”.
I hope they may bring you fun and enjoyment!!!

Xxx – K

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June 15, 2018 · 6:55 am

Modestly Impressive #Boobday Friday

I’ve always been impressed by a BIG one . . . and usually feel that I just
have to have it . . . immediately!

So when this lovely big one caught my eye walking down the salad aisle recently, I just couldn’t resist! I needed to hold it . . . feel it’s firm length and girth . . . and take it home with me!

“But what has a cucumber got to do with Boobday Friday” you may ask???
Well . . . I always feel fruity by the time Friday comes around!!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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April 29, 2018 · 9:03 am

Modesty Ablaze “Lace & Lingerie” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

We all love lingerie don’t we ? Well, I know I do . . . although it never seems to stay on for very long ! (LOL !!!)

But . . . it does make me feel sexy whenever I slide into one of my outfits. Not that I ever wear nighties or pyjamas to bed of course!

Instead, I wear my lingerie items for special occasions . . . perhaps for entertaining a special friend . . . or, perhaps when Hubby and I are going out for an evening of fun at a local club or bar.

But . . . I do like to feel sexy . . . just in case. (LOL !!!) So, before setting out for the evening, I always like to take my time, going through my wardrobe, to choose an outfit that best suits my mood at the time. Pulling out one item after another, trying them each on . . . and teasing Hubby with a mini fashion-parade . . . which often leads to a fun delay before reaching a final decision.

And as an extra part of our playtime . . . those “fashion-parades” are often captured on Hubby’s video camera. So I thought it would be quite fun . . . especially as last Thursday it was National Lingerie Day . . . to put together a compilation of some of those different outfits, coming out of my wardrobe and being slid into . . . and out of.

Now, as I said, I always end-up feeling quite sexy and aroused on occasions like this. So sometimes one just has to calm things down, before leaving on our journey for the evening ahead . . . by laying down and having naughty flashbacks about previous occasions when I have worn some Lingerie and Lace!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” in their special Make Lingerie Love Not Porn edition as:

In Modesty Ablaze’s 50th #realworldsex video to MLNP (!!!) she shares some of her favorite lingerie moments. This compilation has a fashion show for hubby where Modesty shows off her enviable lingerie collection, and then flashbacks to some amazing nights with Lover No. 36 and Lover No. 50. Congratulations on 50 videos, Modesty!!!

You can view my introduction to “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie”  is my 50th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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April 1, 2018 · 12:15 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Spanish Showers” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

One of the things that is really nice about sharing my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn is reading the wonderful messages and emails that often drop into my box. I mean my “email box” . . . Silly !!!

To hear that my videos inspire other people to approach things differently . . . in their own relationships or sexual experiences . . . is a really wonderful feeling.

I do though occasionally receive “certain requests” . . . asking if I have any films of a specific subject matter or filmed in a specific location. And sometimes, as you can probably imagine, those “requests” can be a little . . . unusual . . . shall we say. I would usually reply that I don’t do requests as my films are never “scripted” . . . they just seem to happen . . . and develop naturally as we go along.

But, and I don’t know the reason why, the thing I seem to be asked about most often recently is . . . do I have any films involving . . . “Water” ???

Well actually I do . . . in fact one of my films “Steamy Kisses” from back in May of 2015 with Lover No. 50, started out in the shower with some very soapy rubbing of each others backs . . . and, well, rubbing of other bits as well. (Gosh, 2015, was it really that long ago ???)

Anyway, where was I . . . oh yes, water videos! Well, after yet another such request was emailed to me recently, Hubby reminded me that we did have some fun film from our Spanish holiday early last year.

We always take our video camera with us on holiday and always enjoy capturing our fun, and sometimes silly, moments together. So I thought that “Spanish Showers and Bathtime Fun” would make a perfect addition to my #realworldsex at Make Love Not Porn collection . . . especially for those people who like the sound of running water.

It starts out with me having some cheeky fun in our rather lovely curved glass-fronted shower, before I get so worked-up that I decide I need to lay back and relax in a warm, bubby bath, with my Satisfyer . . . my favourite “water toy”.

I know some of you probably have one of those little yellow rubber ducks sitting on the end of your bath . . . well I have my Satisfyer sitting there in pride of place. And, as you will see in this instance, I even take it away on holiday with me.

My “Bathtime Fun” ends with a rather satisfying . . . and convulsing climax . . . and then a calming stroll out onto our hotel balcony to catch some warming Spanish sun.

So . . . I hope that this video will “satisfy” those of you asking for some “water-play” fun. And you see, it just goes to show, that whilst I may not film specific requests for my MLNP collection, you may certainly ask me for the sort of things you enjoy, and I may just have something in my “archives” that would . . . in some way at least . . . possibly fit the bill.

You can view my introduction to “Spanish Showers & Bathtime Fun” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Spanish Showers & Bathtime Fun” in their special Make Spring Love Not Porn edition as:

After receiving many requests for videos featuring running water, Modesty remembered she shot a video on her last vacation in Spain that features just that! Starting off with a sexy, silly and sudsy scrub down in the shower as hubby films, she then moves into the bath where she experiments with a new toy. You’ll love watching the back and forth between Modesty and hubby, seeing her try out something new and seeing her #realworld reaction to a toy that blows her mind!

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Spanish Showers & Bathtime Fun”  is my 47th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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February 16, 2018 · 7:45 am

A Modest Stretch #Boobday Friday

Don’t you find that a low-ceiling tends to make things more . . . intimate?

Well I know I certainly did during our very decadent long-weekend . . .
during which quite a lot of “stretching” was enjoyed!!!

So I thought I would share one of them here at this week’s Boobday Friday.

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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February 12, 2018 · 8:39 am

The Modesty Ablaze Diaries at Gumroad

To celebrate the publication of my new book “Further Adventures“, Part 6 in my The Modesty Ablaze Diaries series , two of my previous short-story excerpts “My Cougar Moment” and “A Naughty Surprise” are on sale for just $1 each at my Modesty Ablaze Gumroad profile page.

They are both short extracts from different years in my Personal Diaries Collection . . . and from very different meetings with different lovers.

“My Cougar Moment” – Normally when Hubby and I have a night out at our Swingers Club we will spend the first hour or so sitting at the Bar chatting to staff or to other couples, or singles, that we have met previously.

But on our most recent visit, I did something I’d never, ever done before.

And it turned into one of the most exciting evenings we’ve ever enjoyed there.

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“My Cougar Moment” – $1 at Gumroad

 

“A Naughty Surprise” – I knew one shouldn’t play too close to home, but Scot was only my second lover. I’d met him on the morning school run and with my new-found ‘freedom’ I just couldn’t resist his flirting. I knew it was dangerous and risky. What if the other Mums noticed our playground glances and private jokes? What if they put two and two together?

But we just couldn’t control ourselves. Our affair exploded into almost weekly meetings of passion and excitement.

“A Naughty Surprise” – $1 at Gumroad

“Further Adventues” . . . 233 pages from one year of my Diary entries . . . is also available in downloadable PDF format at my Gumroad page, as well as in Kindle format from both my Amazon UK and Amazon US pages.

You can listen to me reading a short extract from “Further Adventures” from the audio link below.

“Further Adventures – Part 6 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries”

Enjoy – Xxx – K

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January 31, 2018 · 7:45 am

A Modest Formula #wickedwednesday

Probably the question that I have been asked most often over the past two years, and one that I have not added to my  “Questions You Have Asked Me” pages . . . is what “satisfaction” do I get from my Mistressing adventures.

Most people seem to assume that it is just a simple “enjoyment” from administering pain. It is an easy assumption to make, given most people’s view of Domination and Submission, but actually for me nothing could be further from the truth.

Whilst I had always had a fascination for the “fashionista” imagery associated with Fem Dominatrices, I had also long been curious myself about the emotions and desires of both sides of the relationship for those involved. Surely it couldn’t all just be about the giving, and receiving, of pain . . . I knew there had to be more to it than that.

But for many years, it remained just fascination and curiosity . . . until, during a visit to Sh! my favourite women’s shop in London’s Hoxton, I read about an event they were hosting by Madam Caramel, one of London’s most well known dominatrix.

Fortified with lots of glasses of wine, and accompanied by my lovely friend SheLover, I was immediately captivated and entranced by Caramel’s larger than life personality, her wonderful candour . . . and most of all her engaging sense of “fun” as she explained her experiences and views on her role as a Fem Domme.

My curiosity and interest was instantly aroused. I just had to learn more, and soon discovered that the equally legendary, Miss Kim Rub, held Mistress Workshops nearby. I enrolled for one of her Saturday afternoon sessions . . . and a whole new world of understanding, and adventure, suddenly opened-up before me.

Like everything in life, the power of the dominant/submissive relationship, is different for everyone . . . but for me it is much more about the connection, the chemistry of the psychological aspect of the interaction, rather than just the physical.

And most importantly, it has to be fun . . . on both sides . . . for it to work and be enjoyable for me. Every situation has to be completely consensual . . . and have that fun-factor . . . because being able to fulfil another person’s strongest desires and fantasies, and share in their enjoyment of that fulfilment, is what gives me that sense of “satisfaction”.

And even three years on, I am still continually amazed and intrigued at the different requests I receive . . . and the relationships I continue to build with a growing list of eager submissives.

Because of course, domination and submission is not all about impact, and whether I am requested to “stamp-me-vitals”, or am asked for a “firm hand-spanking”, or a “judicial caning”, or perhaps just sit back and receive a 15 minute “foot massage” or “toe-sucking foot worship” . . . there must always be that interaction, that special chemistry.

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Xxx – K

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