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October 30, 2019 · 7:55 am

Modest Secrets #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Secrets

Well not so much a “secret” . . . more a philosophy really . . . but trying
to never take anything too seriously, and just having fun in everything I do
here at Modesty Ablaze, allows me to celebrate and enjoy my, slightly
out-of-character, double-life.

Actually I’m not sure if that should be triple, or quadruple life? Lol!!!

But what I do know, is that Modesty allows me to have that fun and celebration and freedom of expression, without having to bottle all those feelings up inside!

For more on Secrets, and Out-of-Character revelations, visit this week’s Wicked Wednesday and Food For Thought from the buttons below.

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October 23, 2019 · 7:57 am

The Road Not Taken #F4T

Modesty Ablaze thinking on the rocks

This week’s theme of Relationships at Wicked Wednesday, and The Road Not Taken at Food For Thought, are both trigger-points for me, because they both relate to one of the reasons I actually first began my diary-come-blog postings here at the end of 2011.

Marie’s Relationships asks “what kind of relationship works the best for you?” Whilst Food For Thought asks “what kind of person do you think you would be, or what would you be doing now, if you had taken the other road?”

I’ve recounted on lots of occasions over the years, how Modesty Ablaze began and evolved . . . The More I Have is a brief synopsis if you have not visited me here before . . . but all of us encounter moments that can redefine or change our lives . . . and our relationships. And I know that I have been incredibly lucky that that one specific moment that changed my own path, could have turned out so very, very differently.

For me, not being able to live with the feelings of terrible guilt I was going through at the time, I just had to confess to Hubby that I was having an affair. But instead of creating arguments and disgust . . . and the end of our marriage
. . . that confession directly led us both into the most fulfilling and wonderful lifestyle that neither of us could have possibly imagined.

It didn’t all happen at once, of course, but that long, long night all those years ago, started us on a new road, new journeys and new experiences that we are still enjoying and discovering today.

So . . . and I know this is a terrible cliché . . . but I really do think that it is from that honest communicating, opening-up, and talking about things, that the best relationships are built on.

If I had tried to keep my “infidelity” secret, tried to carry on with lies and deceit, with all the “out for the night with the girls” excuses, I will never know where life may have led me. But I am certain it couldn’t have possibly been as fulfilling and empowering . . . and fun . . . as the journey I am, still, enjoying now!!!

And, of course, it almost certainly would never have led to Modesty Ablaze.

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October 16, 2019 · 8:00 am

Modestly Awkward Moments #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze at The Sun Dial

I always try to be discreet during my Scavenger Hunt excursions . . . as it is never my wish to upset or cause offence.

But, due to the very “public” nature of the locations we like to choose, we have occasionally found ourselves having to quickly re-robe and move on.

Such as during our Sun Dial photos above when a couple suddenly appeared behind me. The husband just stood speechless for a moment, until his wife pulled him away and said to Hubby as they passed, “it is a lovely setting here isn’t it”.

But much more worrying was the occasion below, in 2014, during a fun night
out in Hoxton, when a police car actually pulled-up and an officer told me to “Get down off that Post Box please madam!”. I was petrified that I was about to be arrested but, wonderfully, they just smiled and pulled away.

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Xxx- K

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September 25, 2019 · 6:59 am

Modestly Piercing #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty Red Dildo Strap On

Whilst I do enjoy the look of piercings, and am always in awe of those who have them, I am just not brave enough to have one of my own.

Instead . . . I much prefer to be the one actually giving the piercing !!!

But as “Piercings” is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, you will find lots of information . . . and photos I’m sure . . . on wearable jewellery of just
that kind, by pushing at the button below.

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Xxx- K

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September 11, 2019 · 6:59 am

Modestly Matching #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Red Knickers

Favourite colour? Well that’s easy . . . Red of course!

But here’s something that lots of people won’t know. If I do actually have to wear any at all, I always make sure my knickers match my shoes.

I mean . . . one wouldn’t want to ever be found to be . . . un-coordinated !!!

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Xxx- K

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September 4, 2019 · 7:00 am

Completely Naked #wickedwednesday

So . . . no, I haven’t forgotten to include a photo this Wicked Wednesday . . . I’m going completely naked today, because this week’s theme is “Skin”.

Normally, my posts here, are all about making light of things. Trying not to
take anything too seriously, trying to bring some fun out of normal, everyday . . . or even not so everyday . . . situations.

But I hope that people can sometimes, even if only occasionally, pick-up on the more serious side to my postings here too.

Which is . . . that I really do feel we should all try to be more accepting, and more comfortable, in our own skin.

I know that is easier said than done. We all have self-doubts and bouts of low self-esteem, particularly when it comes to our body shape and size.

We all worry about the lines and sags, the wrinkles and the spreads. And we are all still . . . it seems to me . . . constantly reminded by mainstream media that the young, slim and beautiful, are bound to have more fun and be more successful in their lives and relationships.

And for many years I know I felt those pressures and worries as well. It seems ingrained within us, part of our upbringing, part of who we should aspire to be,
rather than who we actually are.

Now there are many others who have written . . . and are still writing . . . far more eloquently than I could on challenging those mainstream views.

But as the years have passed . . . and through enjoying and sharing lovely experiences with so many wonderful people that I’ve been fortunate enough to meet . . . it’s become ever easier to shrug-off those worries and self-doubts.

To have the freedom to live, and enjoy life, as I really want to.

And, by doing so, I always hope that those around me can feel and enjoy and share that freedom too.

So . . . through all the postings, and pictures, the exhibitionism and making fun of myself and my situations here . . . I always hope that this tiny, tiny part of the internet exudes huge, huge waves of body-positivity and learning to be confident in one’s own skin !!!

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August 28, 2019 · 9:37 pm

Modestly Why ? @F4TFriday

Modesty Ablaze on the Rocks

This week’s theme at Food 4 Thought Friday asks “The Why of Blogging” and in particular, “What is it that compels you to write?”

I have posted before . . . in July 2014 actually . . . on how Modesty Ablaze first came about in my “Past, Present and Why I Blog” Wicked Wednesday post. But as to the how’s and why’s of continuing to post???

Well . . . I suppose it is partly because my pages here allow me to indulge my exhibitionist streak . . . though in “real life” I am actually quite shy and reserved.

But it is also because, despite often worrying that people will surely get bored with my constant “holiday snaps”, I do get so many emails from people asking for more.

No I don’t mean, just asking for more naked photos . . . I mean asking more about my lifestyle, my “kinks”, my experiences . . . and my thoughts on all sorts of relationship or personal issues.

And I often feel guilty that I just can’t seem to find the time these days, to answer all of those messages personally.

So . . . being a more “visual” person, rather than being able to easily communicate my thoughts in words . . . I hope that my occasional photo-posts here express my core belief that above all else, we should always be true to ourselves . . . and always be just who we want to be !!!

And so that is what “compels” me to keep posting . . . as often as time allows . . . here at Modesty Ablaze.

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at Food For Thought Friday simply click on the buttons below.

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August 21, 2019 · 7:05 am

Modest Holiday Panty Rituals

I don’t actually wear Panties on holiday . . . in fact for most of my vacation,
as you may have noticed . . . I don’t wear very much at all !!!

But there is, quite surprisingly, a wonderful shop in the main town which always seems to have an amazing collection of, very very cheap, sexy Panties.
I’m not sure how “authentic” some of the brand-labelling is, but they always seem nicely made, and fun to wear!

So, it has become a holiday ritual every year to journey into town to browse through the new range, and stock-up on supplies.

I immediately wash them, of course, before packing them away in my suitcase to bring home, because . . . one must always wash, and dry, new knickers before wearing for the first time, don’t you agree?

This weeks theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Authentic” . . . whilst over at Food For Thought Friday it is “Rituals” . . . and you can read more on both topics by clicking on the buttons below.

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