Category Archives: Wicked Wednesday

Shame is such a strong word isn’t it? An emotion that almost seems a natural part of our personality, one of our earliest memories, one of our earliest fears. And it is such a negative word . . . a negative feeling . . . a feeling of fear and uncertainty that can actually be very shameful in itself. Is there a word, or meaning, for that? A double-negative? No, that’s not it . . . but I hope you will know what I mean . . .

Feeling shameful about a spur-of-the-moment deed or perhaps a reaction or argument with a friend or colleague that you almost immediately regret, is one thing. An apology and words of “so sorry, I really didn’t mean to be like that” can . . . and should . . . convey ones true feelings of sorrow for those momentary lapses in our patience, and temper, that we all suffer from.

But I think that far too often shame is used as such a hurtful and unnecessary emotion. Something used to restrict our right to express ourselves freely and openly about the choices we make in our normal everyday lives. Beliefs, fashion, food, sexuality . . . all of the things that are personal, and important, to the way we want to live our lives.

Thankfully, through Memes such as Wicked Wednesday some of us are able to express our own feelings through words and . . . for some like myself who find words more difficult to come by of late . . . pictures.

And that can make us feel closer to one another and give us a sense of belonging and sharing . . . and help us to celebrate our lifestyle, rather than to feel a sense of guilt or shame about it.

To me, as long as the fun is genuine and consensual . . . and not harmful or taking advantage of anyone other than ourselves . . . then the “rest of” society would be a much better, more open and a much more fun place.

Feeling shameless!!! . . . (I used to worry about others seeing my body . . . until I discovered memes such as “Wicked Wednesday”, “Sinful Sunday” and “Scavenger Hunt”).

So let’s celebrate ourselves . . . our bodies . . . our experiences and desires . . . our lifestyles . . . and not let ourselves be made to feel any sense of shame!!!

There are more thoughts and experiences about shame at this week’s Wicked Wednesday from the button below!

This weeks theme at Marie Rebelle’s wonderfully Wicked Wednesday  is “Flight Attendants, Champagne and First-Class”.

Well, all of our Flight Attendants here at Modesty Airways are expected to always provide a First Class Service . . .

. . . serving welcoming glasses of champagne and wine . . .

. . . and an appetising entrée in our First-Class Departure Lounge . . .

. . . and, of course, attending to every passengers personal needs before, and after, take-off.

You can read much more about other first-class travel experiences this Wicked Wednesday by pushing the button below!

My kink(s) may not be your kink(s)  . . . and yours may not be mine.

But isn’t that just what makes life so wonderful, fun and exciting??? Just the fact that we are all different, enjoy different things, different situations, different experiences . . . not just sexually, but in everything we do.

The word kink is most commonly used to describe something, or some form of behaviour or expression, that is different, abnormal, unconventional, even undesirable . . . but who, or what, defines convention and normality? Who has that right to decide? Because we are, we can be, we should be . . . all different.

As long as our different kinks are completely consensual, and between responsible adults, we should all be able to celebrate that difference and be proud of it, because that is what defines us as individuals, it is our right to choose, our right to enjoy.

And to take that right and live and experience those choices is to understand and accept the rights and choices of others to do exactly the same . . . exactly the same in their own, different, way.

Of course, knowing that our own difference may seem strange and bizarre . . . and even naughty . . . to others, often makes experiencing that difference even more fun. But for me . . . and I’m sure for everybody here at Wicked Wednesday . . . the most fun, the most excitement, the most fulfilment is having someone to share those differences with. Discovering new experiences, trying new situations and deciding what we like . . . and what we don’t. What is fun and acceptable and exciting for us and our partner(s) and what isn’t. Finding our boundaries, our limits, our levels of enjoyment. And respecting those boundaries . . . and accepting that everyone will, and should have, boundaries and beliefs of their own.

So . . . All Day and All of the Night . . . your kinks will always be All Right With Me . . . as I hope Mine will be with You.

You can experience more kinkiness this Wicked Wednesday from smacking at the magic circle below!