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Modesty’s “Cane Love” #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

ModestyCaneLoveVideoEven though Caning & Spanking is talked about more openly than ever before, I think a lot of people still feel that it is always about trying to hurt someone.

Well, I’ve always enjoyed spanking and bondage play in my relationships as a way of introducing FUN and extra excitement. Something different that I never take too seriously. And whether I am the one giving, or the one receiving, I actually find it to be a really strong, loving and sharing experience. And that can be a huge and wonderfully all-consuming emotion. And I hope you will agree that my new “Cane Love” video at  MakeLoveNotPorn.tv illustrates that perfectly.

It is from a lovely hotel-evening early in March, with Lover No.1. Starting out with some gentle caning with my new Manila Cane from Uberkinky . . . and a spanking-induced orgasm for my submissive . . . I soon commanded him to give me those deep loving kisses I do so really, really love.

Urging him on with my Riding Crop and then my throbbing Doxy Wand . . . more multi-orgasms for us both followed, before a wonderful finale of a loving and relaxing foot massage.

And I was so thrilled when the lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn mentioned “Cane Love” in their latest blog post:

“In this delicious new video, Modesty Ablaze showcases something we’d love to see even more of – a woman turning the tables and dominating her man in the context of a loving relationship! Excited to try out her brand new cane on her more than willing sub, Modesty teases her husband, allowing the whacks to build in intensity, much to his delight. Continuing to steer the action and ‘get hers’ by way of lover no. 1’s tongue and fingers (operating a Doxie wand) Modesty comes and comes before proceeding to pass out completely. I just love that she left in the gentle snoring at the end of this video, and I think you will too!”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Cane Love”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . or, you can view my introductory video >here<.

“Cane Love” is my sixteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 16 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!


And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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The Uberkinky Manila Skinned Cane reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

UberkinkyManilaSkinnedCaneA nice cane is one of my favourite corporal punishment implements . . . so I was really excited to receive The Manila Skinned Cane from Uberkinky for my latest review.

The cane is made from authentic Brazilian Manila Cane – and it is just ideal for dealing out some serious punishment to my lucky submissives.It is almost 3ft long (85cm to be exact) and although there is a slightly thinner cane (0.8cm in diameter), I chose the thicker option of 1cm in diameter. But even with this extra thickness, it is still quite “springy” and makes a lovely swishing sound when you swing it through the air. And . . . I can assure you . . . it makes a lovely smacking “thwack” when it makes contact with my subs bottom. AND, it leaves some lovely marks.
(Some of which you may just see on one of the Gallery pages when I next update my Mistress Modesty site).

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The Manila Cane has a firm rubberised handle which makes it quite easy to grip and hold onto – even when getting a little carried away during a session.

I do feel though that the cane would benefit from a loop, or strap, of some kind attached to the handle in some way. Not just for slipping it over one’s wrist during play – but also because I like to hang all of my crops and canes and floggers up together in my wardrobe. It just makes storing them so much easier and neater – and also gives me something to smile about each time I open my wardrobe doors (“happy memories”). But, so far at least, that is my only criticism of the Brazilian cane.

It is surprisingly light to hold and yet gives an extremely impressive and strong impact and, depending on your subs experience . . . and pain threshold . . . I personally think that it needs to be used carefully, perhaps alternating it during play with a spanking paddle or flogger. And certainly some regular rubbing and smoothing of your subs cheeks.

UberkinkyCaneTipThat’s because although the cane is reasonably smooth . . . with just quite shallow grooves from the grain of the wood . . . it is quite hard and perhaps doesn’t have that little bit of “give” that my riding crops, for example, do. But of course that hard, sharp impact, is just what some submissives crave for.

The tip is nicely tapered and slightly curved at the end (see the picture above) so there are no sharp edges. But nevertheless this cane has left some really lovely stripes and marks on my subs bum. Surprisingly strong marks for such a lightweight cane!!! You can see some of those marks, (but only if you are really sure please as it is adult viewing only) at my Mistress Modesty Review Extras page >here<.

So I really do love my new toy . . . and would thoroughly recommend the Manila Skinned Cane from Uberkinky if you are looking for an easy-to-handle impact toy!

Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10
Pros: Light to wield and the rubber-grip makes it easy to hold even during extreme impact.
Cons: No holding strap or looped tie (as I would like to store hanging-up in my wardrobe).
Material: Body-Safe(??? LOL!!!) authentic Brazilian Manila Cane.
Does Not Include: Phthalates.
Length: 85cm (33 inches).
Diameter: 1cm or 0.8cm if you prefer slightly thinner.
Available Colours: Natural cane (with black rubber grip).
Power: Does not require batteries, just strong wrist action.
Lubrication: Does not require lubricants.
Waterproof: No . . . and don’t soak in water (that would really be too cruel!)
After-care: I rub down with a soft-cloth . . . and do the same to the cane!
Supplier Product link: Manila Skinned Cane with Rubber Grip
Uberkinky: Canes and Spankers
Recommended Reading: Beginner’s Guide to Caning

You can also find Uberkinky on Twitter @UberKinky.

Modesty Ablaze reviews the Uberkinky Manila Skinned Cane

You can watch my Video Review of the Uberkinky Manila Skinned Cane by clicking the title screen above!

The Manila Skinned Cane was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.


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Man Caged? #sinfulsunday

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Admiring . . . in more ways than one! . . . Silverdrop’s wonderfully inspiring post this Sunday, I thought I would join in their suggestion of “More Men in Sinful Sunday”.

This twisting and turning offering from a recent play session is just a little frivolous and naughty fun. But fun is pleasurable and fulfilling . . . and actually I like to think that when I am asked to cage or chastise, it is because the subsequent “release” gives fulfillment and pleasure to both body and mind.

And, of course, fun and frivolity can be motivational and inspirational as well . . . and Silverdrop’s message certainly achieves both!

For more motivation and inspiration twist or turn
the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#83 & The Uberkinky Spiral Steel Male Chastity Device

stainless-steel-butt-plug-review-forbidden-obsessions-14Photo courtesy of Cara Sutra

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

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Xxx – K

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Uberkinky Stainless Steel Chastity Device reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

As I’m sure you’ll know if you are a regular visitor here, I do love seeing one of my submissives wearing cock and ball rings, or “accessories” of some sort “down there”. But although I’ve often thought about it I’ve never had the opportunity to lock one of my slaves up in a chastity device before.

So you can imagine how thrilled I was when Uberkinky (where it’s not just a fetish – it’s a way of life) offered me the chance to try one out.

But of course . . . just like the Ro-Zen Cock and Ball Ring and Vibrating Butt Plug that I reviewed here last month . . . I haven’t got the necessary “equipment” to actually try it out myselfBut, luckily, I had several willing assistants desperate for the chance to help me actually physically test the device . . . and more on that in a moment!!!

Now, for the purpose of this review . . . AND in my video review (see below) as well . . . I just can’t keep referring to The Chastity Device as a “device”. Sorry Uberkinky, it’s probably just me, but “device” makes me think of some sort of automated, mechanical road-sweeper or TV satellite dish! So to me it’s a “cage” . . . a lovely cage, but a cage all the same.

Lovely glossy presentation box

So . . . the chastity cage arrived in a lovely strong, glossy white box . . . after removing it from it’s discreet plain brown corrugated cardboard delivery package, of course.

The box has an almost magnetic flap that snaps nicely closed so it can quickly and easily be stowed away in your toy drawer . . . the box that is, not the Chastity Cage itself, as I’m sure you’ll be wanting that to be out of the box . . . and in use more often than not. I know I was !!!

Now . . . I’ve seen a number of different designs of chastity cages being worn when I’ve been at various Fetish events and Club nights . . . or hanging up on the racks at several dungeons I’ve held sessions at. But what immediately caught my eye when I first saw this one on the Uberkinky website . . . was it’s open design. It just gives a real impression that the wearer will be truly locked behind bars! With his cock completely caged in it’s own little prison cell . . . and I rather liked that idea!!!

The Chastity Cage is made of body-safe stainless steel and comes with a choice of three different cock rings . . . to suit different sizes of ones cock and balls obviously!

Supplied with 3 different cock rings.

The rings have a protruding shaft, which extends horizontally from the top, with a hole at the end for securing the lock once the cage is position. The larger of the three rings has a restricting diameter of 5 centimetres . . . the middle one is 4 and a half centimetres . . . and the smallest one is 4 centimetres. So there is plenty of choice for the best fit and comfort for the wearer . . . not that we would want him to be so comfortable as to completely forget what he was wearing, now would we girls???

Anyway, the sub pushes his cock , and then pulls his balls one-by-one through the ring so that he is gripped tightly enough around the base of his cock and under his scrotum to hold everything in place.

The stainless steel is perfectly smooth and seamless and . . . I was assured by my testing-assistant . . . doesn’t cause any chafing or rubbing. Even after being worn for several days.

The Spiral Cage itself has an accommodating space . . .  or “cock room” as I call it . . . . of 9 centimetres inside and despite being really strong and robust, it actually feels quite light in ones hand.

The inner diameter is 3 and a half centimetres wide. So even your “largest” submissive should be able to easily slide his cock into the cage, which then slots onto the cock ring’s protruding shaft, positioned directly above his cock obviously. The shaft is 2 and a half centimetres long and gives just enough space for the wearers balls to hang through below. There are also two thin pins which slot snugly into corresponding holes to help secure the cage onto the cock ring.

And then . . . of course . . . there is the lock! It’s a small brass lock, just like the sort you would use as suitcase or luggage lock when you’re going off on holiday. Mine was supplied with three keys. The lock clips easily through the hole on the cock ring shaft . . . and his manhood is then completely caged!!!

Strong and yet surprisingly light.

Now, as I said, I had several willing volunteers who wanted to be my “body-tester” for the Spiral Chastity Cage . . . but for my first occasion of being a “key-holder” I wanted to be able to monitor my new cage at close-quarters. So I commanded my “not quite so willing” Hubby to be my assistant for . . . “well let’s just try it for a day shall we ? . . Just to see how you get on with it!” I told him!!! Being a “chastity virgin” he showed some concern initially, reminding me that I often lose my keys in my bottomless handbag, or put them down somewhere and forget exactly where . . . but with a little not-so-gentle persuasion . . . he agreed to be locked-up for the day. (You can see the evidence, if you are sure you really want to, on one of my Mistress Modesty pages >here<).

Now, although I’ve always been curious about being a “key-holder” . . . I never expected to enjoy it quite as much as I did! It was actually quite empowering and I loved looking at it . . . making him spend all of our time indoors that day, completely naked.

And I was enjoying it so much that I decided to add a little customisation to the cage by attaching a little bell that I just happened to have to hand. (Obviously Uberkinky doesn’t supply a bell with the device but perhaps they should consider it as an optional extra!) I just loved hearing him moving around and the tinkling getting louder as he brought me my glasses of wine . . . or knelt down to massage my feet!

TwoHandsBut I’m sure you want to know how long it kept him chaste . . . and how it felt for him???

Well . . . he found it quite comfortable to wear. And, whilst always being conscious of the tightness around his balls, he said he actually enjoyed the feeling of moving about and having it knocking against him as he walked or sat down or stood up. He did have difficulty at first whenever he had to have a pee . . . spraying everywhere apparently . . . but with some careful practice he soon mastered that art.

I’ve now extended that first-day “trial” to several days in a row . . . although I have let him take off the bell each morning as he goes off to work. And I can report that my “assistant” has had no problems with showering and cleaning . . . or even sleeping . . . apart from just the obvious discomfort of his “morning glory” . . . so from that point of view it certainly works.

And from my own point of view it works as well . . . because I love feeling empowered and even more in control of my submissive . . . literally holding the key to his chastity . . . and his “erectile” freedom.

So much so that I think I’ll soon be ordering two or three more of my submissives to purchase  one of their own to send me.

And . . . if any of you other boys reading this are looking for a “key-holder” . . . I would be more than willing to offer my services . . . with BELLS on of course!!!

Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Pros: Light weight Stainless Steel and lovely “cage” design so all his lovely bits are clearly visible.
Cons: I haven’t found any yet.
Material: Body-Safe Stainless Steel.
Does Not Include: Latex or Phthalates.
Size: Length of Cage 90mm. Inner Diameter 32mm.
Cock rings (3 different sizes) – 40mm, 45mm, 50mm.
Available Colours: Silver Stainless Steel
Power: Does not require batteries.
Lubrication: Does not require lubricants.
Waterproof: Yes
After-care: Once . . . eventually . . . removed, it should be washed with hot soapy water and dried before storage (or in the ever-so-short periods you allow it to be removed).
Storage: Strong, glossy white cardboard box supplied.
Supplier Product link: Spiral Stainless Steel Male Chastity Device
Uberkinky: Chastity Devices
Additional Information: Beginner’s Guide to Male Chastity

You can also find Uberkinky on Twitter @UberKinky.

Modesty reviews The Uberkinky Stainless Steel Chastity Device

You can watch my Video Review of the Uberkinky Spiral Stainless Steel Male Chastity Device by clicking the title screen above!

The Spiral Stainless Steel Chastity Device was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.


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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#78 & The RO-Zen Double Cock Ring & Vibrating Butt Plug

missrubyPhoto courtesy of Miss Ruby Reviews

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

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