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June 19, 2018 · 9:20 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Unmasked” – Part 7 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries

As I’ve mentioned on several occasions previously, my pages here at Modesty Ablaze started almost as a form of therapeutic release.

Celebration and release actually, because I can’t deny that it was a thrill to satisfy that exhibitionist streak within that we all have, and to be able to share . . . “anonymously” . . . some of the personal diaries that I’d been writing for years and years.

Because I often wanted to shout-out to many of my “normal” friends, that one shouldn’t be ashamed of, our sexual feelings or desires. And that if we all talked about, and expressed those more openly with our partners, it just may lead their relationships to places they’d never imagined . . . as it had for myself.

Because for years I had been meeting several different lovers . . . with the complete knowledge and acceptance of Hubby . . . and had been keeping a record of every meeting in my diaries. So sharing some of those diary entries in the early pages of my blog, made me feel as though I was sharing the joy . . . and love . . . that such wonderful relationships can bring.

And to my absolute surprise, within the first month of those initial postings,
I began receiving emails asking for more . . . and then several suggestions
that I should publish them as Ebooks.

So . . . slowly at first . . . “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” were born.

And, as I still often receive requests for more, I am happy to say that “Modesty Ablaze Unmasked – Part 7 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” has recently been published at both my Amazon, and Gumroad pages.

“Modesty Unmasked” follows on directly from “Further Adventures”, with more diary entries of my personal meetings and . . . in the latter chapters . . . how those  “meetings” just seemed to naturally evolve into amazing three-some fun with Hubby as well. And then from there, into our first wonderfully sex-citing Swinging Adventures.

And . . . if you are sitting comfortably . . . you can listen to a reading from the beginning of Chapter 19 – “New Club Couple” from the audio link below.

“Modesty Ablaze Unmasked” is now available in Ebook format from my Amazon US, and Amazon UK pages . . . or in downloadable and printable PDF format at my Gumroad pages.

Visit my Ebooks page >here< for information, and links, to all six
of my previous editions of “The Modesty Ablaze Diaries”.
I hope they may bring you fun and enjoyment!!!

Xxx – K

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April 29, 2018 · 9:03 am

Modesty Ablaze “Lace & Lingerie” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

We all love lingerie don’t we ? Well, I know I do . . . although it never seems to stay on for very long ! (LOL !!!)

But . . . it does make me feel sexy whenever I slide into one of my outfits. Not that I ever wear nighties or pyjamas to bed of course!

Instead, I wear my lingerie items for special occasions . . . perhaps for entertaining a special friend . . . or, perhaps when Hubby and I are going out for an evening of fun at a local club or bar.

But . . . I do like to feel sexy . . . just in case. (LOL !!!) So, before setting out for the evening, I always like to take my time, going through my wardrobe, to choose an outfit that best suits my mood at the time. Pulling out one item after another, trying them each on . . . and teasing Hubby with a mini fashion-parade . . . which often leads to a fun delay before reaching a final decision.

And as an extra part of our playtime . . . those “fashion-parades” are often captured on Hubby’s video camera. So I thought it would be quite fun . . . especially as last Thursday it was National Lingerie Day . . . to put together a compilation of some of those different outfits, coming out of my wardrobe and being slid into . . . and out of.

Now, as I said, I always end-up feeling quite sexy and aroused on occasions like this. So sometimes one just has to calm things down, before leaving on our journey for the evening ahead . . . by laying down and having naughty flashbacks about previous occasions when I have worn some Lingerie and Lace!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” in their special Make Lingerie Love Not Porn edition as:

In Modesty Ablaze’s 50th #realworldsex video to MLNP (!!!) she shares some of her favorite lingerie moments. This compilation has a fashion show for hubby where Modesty shows off her enviable lingerie collection, and then flashbacks to some amazing nights with Lover No. 36 and Lover No. 50. Congratulations on 50 videos, Modesty!!!

You can view my introduction to “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie”  is my 50th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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April 23, 2018 · 11:00 am

“Further Adventures” – The Modesty Ablaze Diairies @Gumroad

The Modesty Ablaze DiariesWhen I first began posting pages here at the end of 2011, the purpose of my Modesty Ablaze blog was almost as a form of therapeutic release.

Well . . . release AND celebration.

Release, because I can’t deny that it was a thrill to satisfy that exhibitionist streak within that we all have, and finally be able to share “anonymously” some of the personal diaries that I’d been writing for years and years.

But also a celebration, because I so often wanted to shout-out to many of my “normal” friends, that one shouldn’t be ashamed of, our sexual feelings or desires. And that if we all talked about, and expressed those more openly with our partners, it just may lead their relationships to places they’d never imagined
. . . as it had for myself.

At that time I didn’t actually have the courage to tell any of my friends that for years I had been meeting several different lovers, all over the same period of time, and with the complete knowledge and acceptance of my Hubby. And that I had been keeping a record of every meeting in my diaries . . . but sharing some of those diary entries on my blog, made me at least feel as though I had told them.

And to my absolute surprise, within the first month of those initial postings, I began receiving emails asking for more . . . and then several suggestions that I should self-publish them as Ebooks. I originally replied that my posts were just journal entries that probably wouldn’t best suit the format of a proper book, but after being assured that they surely would . . . I decided to “at least give it a try”.

It took me a little while of course . . . but eventually I had three short diary compilations on Amazon, and was amazed to start receiving regular requests to publish more.

I kept promising myself . . . and all those responders who kept asking over the following (three !!!) years . . . that I would publish more from my “archives” just as soon as I could find the time.

I did manage to publish several, short, diary excerpts on Gumroad. But despite several “starts” at compiling a longer, more complete book from my diaries, I just couldn’t get one finished. Life seemed to get busier and busier . . . not just with the normal everyday routines of work and family . . . but with new adventures and fun experiences to explore!

However last year I received a lovely series of emails, and subsequently a wonderfully flattering review on a French literature website La Bauge littéraire, that made me determined to publish another compilation of my diary entries “before the year was out”.

I failed of course! But . . . eventually and finally . . . “Further Adventures – Part 6 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” . . . has made it up into the ether-world of Amazon and Gumroad.

And, unlike my previous compilations which were random excerpts, “Further Adventures” is a chronological, virtually “cut and pasted”, sequence of diary entries from the same period as “Part 1 – The Journey”.

It features several of my earliest “acquaintances” . . . and how our relationships developed and “blossomed” . . . and how I shared those experiences so openly with Hubby, every evening on my return.

“Further Adventures” is still just £1.75 from my Gumroad page . . . and as well as being downloadable from there as a printable PDF file, that PDF format can also be read on your Kindle and other Ebook Readers.

I hope you will enjoy . . . and discover how these Further Adventures helped shape and define what has been, (and still is), a wonderfully fulfilling and loving open way of life for Hubby and myself!!!

Enjoy – Xxx – K

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April 15, 2018 · 6:14 pm

A Modest Cover Reveal

It has been so very flattering since the release of my “Further Adventures – Part 6 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries” to have received so many requests for more excerpts from my personal diaries.

So I am delighted to reveal that “Modesty Unmasked”, my seventh published Ebook Diary compilation, will soon be available from my Amazon and Gumroad profile pages.

But . . . I have a dilemma for which I need some help and advice!

You see, it’s become more and more difficult as I have published each of my diary excerpts, to choose a Cover image for each book. And as “Modesty Unmasked” is perhaps the most open, and un-edited of my journals so far,
(in that it recounts my experiences evolving into three-somes, and more-somes, and fun “swingers club” adventures), I really did want the cover of the book to reflect that title.

But I realise that, in the interests of common decency . . . and despite what you may think, I really do never wish to offend, or disturb, anyone . . . I wonder if my first choice of cover photo might be rejected by both Amazon and Gumroad as displaying “too much”.

The very reason I publish both my Diaries . . . and my posts here at www.modestyablaze.com . . . is because I really do feel that we all have the right to express our own sexuality and enjoyment of who we are, and who we enjoy sharing our love and freedom with.

So I would hope that either of the above Cover images would be accepted . . . but what do you think? Which image do you think I should submit?

Any advice in comments, or emails, gratefully accepted.

Xxx – K

 

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April 8, 2018 · 6:46 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Day 2 – Starting Over” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

If you’ve watched my previous “Modest Exposure” series of videos from our amazing evening with Lover No.50 . . . in his fabulous hotel room overlooking London’s busiest railway station . . . you may remember I travelled all the way there by Taxi. I was dressed in just my coat and scarf, and nothing else, and handing him my coat as I walked into his room, led to wonderful welcoming kisses . . . and much more!!!

And, if you’ve watched those four videos from that first night, you will know just how much fun we all had . . . so much so, that No.50 insisted we come back again for the second night of his stay.

Well . . . how could a girl refuse? But how could I possibly better my journey back to his hotel for that second night???

Well, I thought it would be fun to travel by train and taxi this time! With a different coat of course . . . I mean a girl can’t wear the same outfit two days in a row, now can she?

But . . . yes . . . still completely naked underneath, for the whole journey. And I must say it added even more excitement to my tingly anticipation of the evening ahead . . . particularly with those rhythmic vibrations that the train made as it sped along the tracks from station to station.

Our evening started with Hubby and I relaxing . . . and me giving him some of those special, so satisfying, loving kisses he enjoys . . . whilst No.50 uncorked and poured the champagne.

And then??? . . . well, No.50 proceeded to tie me in knots with his lovely rope, completely exposed in front of the windows, and in full view of whom ever may be looking upwards from the station below.

And then ??? He reached for the Doxy . . . so oh my lord . . . a not so “Modest Exposure” after all !!!

So I hope you will enjoy “Day 2 – Starting Over”, as much as we enjoyed it ourselves . . . and possibly some of those people waiting for their train on the platforms below!

You can view my introduction to “Day 2 – Starting Over” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Day 2 – Starting Over”  is my 48th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty-eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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February 17, 2018 · 5:12 pm

Special, Special Kisses #sinfulsunday

Sometimes a chance meeting can turn into the most wonderful and loving . . . and fun . . . of relationships.

And at one such chance meeting six years ago, I was so lucky to meet with,
and begin one of those special fun and loving friendships.
One which I’m sure will last forever.

And as today is that special person’s birthday, and for reasons beyond our control I am unable to give my kisses in person, I just had to send them here.

See who else is sharing special moments this Sinful Sunday,
by kissing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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February 12, 2018 · 8:39 am

The Modesty Ablaze Diaries at Gumroad

To celebrate the publication of my new book “Further Adventures“, Part 6 in my The Modesty Ablaze Diaries series , two of my previous short-story excerpts “My Cougar Moment” and “A Naughty Surprise” are on sale for just $1 each at my Modesty Ablaze Gumroad profile page.

They are both short extracts from different years in my Personal Diaries Collection . . . and from very different meetings with different lovers.

“My Cougar Moment” – Normally when Hubby and I have a night out at our Swingers Club we will spend the first hour or so sitting at the Bar chatting to staff or to other couples, or singles, that we have met previously.

But on our most recent visit, I did something I’d never, ever done before.

And it turned into one of the most exciting evenings we’ve ever enjoyed there.

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“My Cougar Moment” – $1 at Gumroad

 

“A Naughty Surprise” – I knew one shouldn’t play too close to home, but Scot was only my second lover. I’d met him on the morning school run and with my new-found ‘freedom’ I just couldn’t resist his flirting. I knew it was dangerous and risky. What if the other Mums noticed our playground glances and private jokes? What if they put two and two together?

But we just couldn’t control ourselves. Our affair exploded into almost weekly meetings of passion and excitement.

“A Naughty Surprise” – $1 at Gumroad

“Further Adventues” . . . 233 pages from one year of my Diary entries . . . is also available in downloadable PDF format at my Gumroad page, as well as in Kindle format from both my Amazon UK and Amazon US pages.

You can listen to me reading a short extract from “Further Adventures” from the audio link below.

“Further Adventures – Part 6 of The Modesty Ablaze Diaries”

Enjoy – Xxx – K

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January 6, 2018 · 5:55 pm

Modest Beds #sinfulsunday

Beds . . . I’ve lost count of how many I’ve laid on over the years. Especially as
I’ve often been in more than one on the same day!!!

Whether just indulging in mirrored-ceiling fun, whilst running a bath.

Or recovering, re-energising . . . and admiring the view.

Or maybe standing-up to stretch one’s tired limbs.

Or, perhaps just relaxing and sharing the moment !!!

So yes a lovely . . . firm . . . bed is certainly one of my favourite, regular,
everyday things!
And “regular, everyday things” is this week’s topic at Sinful Sunday . . . see for yourself by gently pulling at the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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December 26, 2017 · 12:48 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Modest Exposure Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

If you have viewed my recent “A Modest Exposure” real world sex video at Make Love Not Porn, you will have gathered that there was more fun to come. Lots and lots more fun actually . . .

Well I’m thrilled to tell you that I have just uploaded Part 2 of that amazing evening to my pages at Make Love Not Porn Dot TV.

And it continues on from where we all left off in Part One . . . with more champagne and more loving kisses . . . I’m sure you can guess just where . . . and with all three of us celebrating our own special Love-In !!!

Things start out with some more “Exposure” by the windows . . . before moving back to the sofa where we become entangled in a loving . . . threesome circle . . . of fun and indulgence.

Lover No.14 always inspires that sense of naughtiness in us . . . and with lots of fingers and thumbs and kisses and tongues . . . I’m soon engulfed in lovely, if somewhat muffled, orgasmic pleasure. And face-timing certainly takes on a whole new meaning!!!

We do eventually take a short break to re-energise ourselves with more champagne and snacks . . . but as you can probably imagine, it’s not too long before our fun play time begins again . . . though I think we shall probably save that for a Part 3 of “A Modest Exposure”.

You can view my introduction to “A Modest Exposure Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Modest Exposure Pt.2”  is my 44th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty-four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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December 17, 2017 · 12:33 pm

Modesty Ablaze “A Modest Exposure” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

When Lover No.14 joked that I should arrive at his plush hotel dressed in “as little as possible” . . . I took that as I challenge that I couldn’t possibly refuse.

The hotel was right in the middle of central London . . . so about a 30 minute Taxi journey from our home . . . and, as it was just a couple of weeks ago and the start of some really cold weather here, I had to wear a coat . . . the coat I’m wearing in my video intro above actually . . . but that was all I wore, just my coat
. . . oh, and my black-net hold-ups of course.

I don’t know who was more excited, Hubby or I, as we sat together in the Black Cab, knowing I was completely naked beneath my coat as we travelled slowly through the West End traffic, chatting away to the driver . . . London’s Black Cab drivers are always chatty and friendly.

And, as I’m sure you can imagine, there was lots more excitement to follow after we arrived and joined No.14 in his room . . . with champagne on ice and lots of fun and abandonment ahead of us.

And lots . . . and lots . . . of that fun is featured in my newest Real World Sex video at Make Love Not Porn.

I’ve called it “A Modest Exposure” . . . and you will see just why I’ve given it that title as you watch the movie unfold.

But, first things first . . . I start out with a little mini-tour of the very fancy hotel room . . . before teasingly opening the shoulder bag I’d brought along and showing No.14 the array of toys I’d packed before leaving home.

No.14’s room directly overlooked one of the busiest mainline train stations into London . . . so once we’d popped-open and poured the champagne . . . we began to admire the view and indulge ourselves in some of that fun exposure, that I mentioned earlier.

Watching the trains arrive and depart in such close-proximity outside our window, just seemed to heighten our playtime fun and excitement even more, as I’m sure you will be able to tell when you watch my “Modest Exposure”.

As you can probably guess . . . this video is just the first of several that we recorded over the course of the evening . . . and if you watch this introductory video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn . . . you will see some “Free Peek Clips” from the movie itself included at the end of the intro.

You can view my introduction to “A Modest Exposure” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Modest Exposure”  is my 43rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty-three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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