“I told you didn’t I? … I said that I expect all of my nooks and crannies to be thoroughly cleaned … outside and in!!!”.
“It’s no excuse to say you kept getting distracted and couldn’t concentrate!”
There’s sure to be more sinful distractions to be had this weekend, by stroking the Sinful Sunday lips below!!!
Xxx – K
After a lovely day on the beach it was nice to sit out on the balcony of an evening … catching up with all the texts I’d missed during the day!!!
Another candid holiday Boobday Friday moment I thought you wouldn’t mind me sharing with you all!!!
BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!
And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<
Xxx – K
Xxx – K
Hello my lovelies and welcome to my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Modcast and Newsletter for October 2021 … my monthly round-up of my most read posts over the past month … AND news of this months Exclusive Members Video and Photo Gallery.
Now I’m thrilled to say that September was a record month for new Subscribers to my Members page here … so this month’s first feature video AND this month’s photo gallery … are to fulfill “special request suggestions” from two of those new Members.
So … my first video of the month is for Nigel who has messaged me some very flattering comments about my bottom, and how he would like to see “more close-ups” of it. So I’m hoping that “Ass Lover – Part One”, which is a custom video I filmed some months ago for a gentleman who also has a thing for my bottom, will be to Nigel’s liking … and all of you bottom lovers too of course.
And my Photo Gallery is especially for Charli who is very intrigued about my Mistress Modesty Strap-On sessions with my Dungeon Submissives. She has been asking all sorts of questions about sizes … and angles … and positions. So I’m sure that these photos will provide some visuals to the answers I’ve given in our email exchanges over the past two weeks.
So I hope you will all enjoy these first updates for the month … and do send me some requests of your own as well … because, as I always say, the choice of what videos and photos I post on my Members Pages is completely up to you. Just send in your own requests and I will do my best to fulfill them.
Now … speaking of my Dungeon Sessions, September was a very busy month with more session applications than I could possibly fulfill … obviously lots of slaves desperate to make up for all the lost opportunities during the pandemic.
But I still managed to post another four Boobday Friday posts during the month with Modestly Cooled, A Modest Flax, A Modest Iced Coffee and Modest Boobday Bagels. All of them taken during my summer holiday in August.
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And my holiday snaps also featured in two of my Sinful Sunday posts … Waterwheel Revisited was from a return visit to a lovely bar and restaurant location on the island which we try to return to each year. And Modestly Wrecked was a brand new location which we’d never managed before as it is sited right on a busy road into the main town. But we were lucky to manage a few short minutes between passing traffic, to capture a “Wreckers Yard” category for my Scavenger Hunt pages.
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My Modest Vibrations posting for my first Sinful Sunday of the month, was back in my favourite Dungeon again for a Double Domme session for a very lucky gentleman seated in the medical chair where … as you can probably imagine, there was lots of humming and vibrating going on.
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One of the weekly themes for Wicked Wednesday during September, was “Shameless Promotion” … so I couldn’t resist joining-in for my very indulgent Modestly Shameless post where I provided links to all of my “London Hotwife Diaries” as well as my “Used Clothing Store”, my Etsy Poster Print pages …. and of course my Clips profile at Clips4Sale and AVN Stars.
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So I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.
If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.
Bye for now !!!
P.s. – For over two years now, I have been reading this newsletter out aloud and I keep being asked to carry on reading . . . so, if you wish, you can listen to this month’s “Modcast” from the screen below . . .
Xxx – K
When I first visited this spot back in the summer of 2016 I was questioning Hubby’s assertions that this really was a Lighthouse!
It seemed more like a scenic lookout to me … with coachloads of visitors posing for photos between the pillars.
But despite it always being quite windy, it quickly became a favourite place that I love to return to each year!
And enjoy that cooling breeze blowing in from the water …
and to pause for a few moments and relax and take in the view before …
having to step aside and let the next visitors take pictures of their own!
This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is “something beginning with L”.
Click on the lips below to explore!
I added my first visit in 2016 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but simply have to add this year’s to my other favourites at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.
Xxx – K
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This lovely gift from an admirer arrived yesterday … and I’m so tempted to wear it into the office today … under a modest jacket of course!!!
It would make for a perfect Boobday Friday … and I’d be smiling all day!!!
BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!
And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<
Xxx – K
Xxx – K
I first created my Exposé Vŭ pages back in 2017 because, as I mentioned then standing on my Special Stairs, there are just so many places on my favourite holiday island that I enjoy re-visiting again and again.
Maybe for a morning coffee, an afternoon wine … or evening cocktail.
And this lovely, peaceful Waterwheel is one of those places. So it was simply wonderful to be able to return once again this summer!
For more fun images at this week’s Sinful Sunday kiss the lips below!
P.S. – There are lots more of my Re-visited Adventures at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.
Xxx – K
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I prefer a Cream Cheese dressing with mine … what about you?
Because, of course, your suggestions for Boobday Friday are always welcome!
BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!
Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!
And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<
Xxx – K
Xxx – K
This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Film” and favourite films and favourite movie stars.
In the nine years of my posting here at Modesty Ablaze, I have mentioned numerous times before how much I admire both Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper for the empowering and pivotal roles they have both played in championing sex-positive feminism, and women’s rights in the “adult film industry”. And though I would never ever claim to match their professionalism, and strength of purpose, there is no doubt in my mind that without the sense of naturalness and enjoyment that always shone through in their performances, I would never have embarked on sharing any of my own videos online.
So, if I had to choose favourite “movie stars”, both of those ladies are the first that would spring to mind.
But thinking about the “genre” that Nina and Jeannie are part of, made me think back to a posting I first published on my blog in December of 2013 … and reading It’s Been A Marvellous Year again made we want to re-post it here. Not just because I am included in the scores of videos available on MLNP, but because I still feel the same way about this wonderful sex-positive, and fun, movie site now as then!
First posted in December 2013 – It’s Been A Marvellous Year
Pornography has always been a bit of an enigma for me. Yes, I would usually find watching initially arousing … but often I would find my excitement wane quite quickly as I began instead to focus on the clearly apparent falseness of the situations, or the unrealistic moans and groans of the participants. And then, worse still, I would wonder if the women were really enjoying themselves or if their motives for being involved were dictated by circumstances that had nothing whatsoever to do with their own excitement or enjoyment.
Of all the videos we would ever watch, I would always tell Hubby “the only ones I really, really find exciting are Nina’s” … because for me, Nina Hartley was the only one that seemed “natural” and “real” and the only one who really seemed to be enjoying herself. So for years and years, Nina’s films were the only erotic-movies (pornography?) I really would enjoy and watch again and again. And, when we started watching, I’m talking about video cassettes!! (you know, those book-sized cartridge thingys with reels of black film-tape inside them) long before DVD’s and the internet.
That was until this year (2013) when I discovered Cindy Gallop and Make Love Not Porn. Suddenly, here was an on-line erotic-video site which IS “real”, and where the participants are clearly involved because they WANT to be. A site where real people can share real videos of themselves in real-life situations. And I found that empowering for me as a woman … and empowering for Hubby and I as a couple … because MLNP gives the “video-stars” (everyday people like us) the opportunity, and control, over the content and nature of every film we wish to share.
And it is that word “share” … that for me makes’s the MLNP experience so captivating, exhilarating … and yes, arousing!!! Sharing the wonder and excitement, and personal fulfilment, of our lifestyle with a community of like-minded people. People who are only there because they want, like us, to “share” the things that arouse them about their own relationships and their own life-styles … and therefore possibly, hopefully, may influence others to open-up and express their own desires and experiences.
Of course the voyeur/exhibitionist in me (in ALL of us???) means I have found all the emails I have received from people who have rented the videos, to be flattering and exciting. But it is the “sharing” that I have found to be the most enjoyable thing about being part of the MLNP community.
And by sharing and being part of the community, I don’t just mean posting our own videos … we have also rented and enjoyed many different videos from other MLNP-stars.
BUT, most importantly, both Hubby and I agree it has actually added yet another level of fulfilment to our relationship … that fact of sharing part of our own personal-lives that seems to have given lots of people extra excitement and enjoyment … and hopefully may have made some positive contribution to the way they view, or live their own relationships.
So … no specific “favourite movie” as such … rather a favourite movie channel !!!
For many more Film links at this week’s Wicked Wednesday just push the button below!
Xxx- K
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Whilst on our 3 week Summer 2021 Vacation I expected to have my every whim fulfilled and obeyed by Subby1. From pouring me ice cold beers on the beach, adjusting my sun umbrella and re-applying my sun tan lotion.
Then constantly topping up my wine glass when we got back to the apartment, giving me an after-sun full body massage and taking me out every evening for cocktails and a special meal.
And, of course, I instructed him to make sure he had his camera charged and ready at all times to keep a video diary of every fun moment … day and night … that I desired.
Which is good news for all you Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members, because that means I have lots and lots of candid … very candid in some cases … fun, silly and sexy videos to share.
Such as today’s new Members update “Subby1’s Holiday Tasks” which I hope you will all enjoy.
Or perhaps you would prefer more of my Femdom Mistressing, or Swinging or Me-Time videos instead … because, as always on my Members Page, the choice is yours to make … all sensible requests considered**.
**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms,
P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.
So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.
I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.
If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.
Bye for now !!!
P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from September by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!
Xxx – K
“Now just stand still … I always set my alarm to remind me how long you booked for … and when your time is due to end”.
“And, I find it also helps remind you … that your clock is ticking … starting now!”
For more pleasant alarms at this week’s Sinful Sunday just stroke the lips below!!!
Xxx – K
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