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Modesty Ablaze “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Taking Mistresses Strap On Part 2

A few weeks ago I uploaded one of my Femdom Role-Play videos to my profile at Make Love Not Porn … after I’d received several emails asking if I had any “pegging” content to share there.

Well of course I do have lots of “Strap-On” videos from my “Mistressing Sessions” … so I thought it would be fun to add one of them, “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On” which featured “SubbyBoy” who, as well as being one of my favourite Submissive play-partners, also loves receiving a good old fashioned pegging.

And I’m delighted to say that I soon received a number of emails asking to see more of that session … and how “far” … that particular Strap-On actually went.

So … I’ve just uploaded “Part Two” of our fun which will show just how far, and how intense, our play-time actually was!

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt2 One

Now as I mentioned in my introduction to “Part One”, I suppose you could say that some of my language in the video is rather aggressive and forceful. But my teasing humiliation is just how SubbyBoy likes to be treated in our play-sessions, because it adds to the intensity of his emotions and enjoyment.

And I think you will be able to see just how much he’s enjoying himself, when you watch the video.

You can view my introduction to “Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two”  is my 92nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Taking Mistresses 10-inch Strap-On – Part Two” with tags such as:

#roleplay #intense #joyful #loud #spirited #pegging #strapon #inthedungeon #backdoor #fun

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

Taking Mistresses Strap-On Pt.2 Two

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety Two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modest Tease & Denial … #sinfulsunday

Modest Tease and Denial Sinful Sunday

“So let’s just see shall we. It could be double-the-pleasure couldn’t it!!!”

For lot’s more Teasing Pleasure this Sinful Sunday just squeeze and pinch the lovely lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Unbra’d #BoobDay 236

Modestly Unbra'd Boobday #236

I don’t often wear one, but when I do … oh the relief, and release, at the end of the day when I can finally unclip myself and take it off.

And then it’s just a question of waiting for those unsightly marks to fade … so that I can feel my, normal, unrestrained self again!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be perfectly happy to link to your own posts directly from my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 230 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – November 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Modesty Ablaze Oral Feast Cover

Not one, but two Members Videos for my first mid-month Pour Me A Glass Members update for November.

The first of which is for a new PMAG Member Rosie who has been catching-up on my previous “Lavender Lover” videos here and has asked to see more of my fun with him.

So “Oral Feast – Feeling it Grow” carries on with our fun evening … after I’d had a little time to recover from the amazing finger-fucking cum he’d just given me, of course … when I felt I should spoil him with some attention of my own. And, as you will see, I just love licking and sucking on him and feeling him grow harder and harder in my mouth!

Oh, and speaking of new members, I am now selecting one lucky new subscriber each month and sending them a code for a one month’s free subscription to one of my other Fans sites to which I post almost daily-updates of “catch- up” short preview clips and photo excerpts from my fun-archives over the past decade. So … apart from all the other fun benefits for Subscribers, that is now even more reason to join me here at my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members pages.

And, for my second mid-month update video for November? … Well, that is something completely different because I always give my accompanying holiday submissive lots, and lots, of different Submissive Tasks every day on my Summer Holidays … and mopping up my holiday balcony is just one of them. Naked of course! See for yourself by clicking on the cover below from the link in the Members page!!!

Pathetic Dick Mopping Mistresses Balcony

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from November by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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Causeway Revisited 2021 #sinfulsunday

Modest Causeway 21 1

It’s always windy on the Causeway of course … but this year Hubby complained it was so windy he could hardly hold the camera still!

Modest Causeway 21 2

At least that was his excuse for taking so long between each click.

Modest Causeway 21 3

But despite it always being windy, I simply love strolling out to the Monument each year!

Modest Causeway 21 4

And just enjoying the cooling wind blowing in from the water … and admiring the lovely view!

Fingers crossed we will be able to return once again next year!

To enjoy more lovely views being shared at this week’s Sinful Sunday just kiss on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

I added my first visit in 2016 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but simply have to add this year’s to my other favourites at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

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A Modest Parapet #BoobDay 235

Modesty Ablaze Parapet Boobday 235

There’s just something so calming about leaning against ancient, cold stone! From one of my favourite UK places … and perfect for some peaceful BoobDay Friday reflections.

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be perfectly happy to link to your own posts directly from my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 230 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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Modestly Lost in Lust #KOTW

Modesty Ablaze Lost in Lust

The first part of this excerpt from my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” was shared at last week’s Wicked Wednesday Epiphany … so today’s excerpt follows on directly from where Hilary led me away from the bar.


On our previous visits to the club, my first venture away from the bar had always been to one of the private rooms off of the main corridor. Rooms with a lockable door where it was possible to indulge on a more personal level with someone I’d met at the bar … and decided I’d like to “get-to-know-better”. And always with Hubby at my side, even if it was just with a single gentleman. That was our thing, I might play, Hubby would watch, or perhaps join-in if we all felt comfortable. But now Hilary had led me into the open-plan main play room, the largest space in the club with cushioned benches along three sides, and a large, very large, play-bed in the middle.

As my eyes adjusted to the dimmer lighting, I could see there was already a couple enjoying themselves on the bed, with a number of onlookers standing close by. Hilary led me over to where two gentlemen were sitting in the corner of the room. They were engrossed in conversation and not appearing to be watching what was happening on the bed, but they looked up with wide smiles as we reached them. Still holding my hand Hilary said “This is K”. Both of them stood to kiss Hilary on the cheek and then turned to introduce themselves.

“I’m Graham” said the taller of the two. “Pleasure to meet you”. The shorter, broader, gentleman introduced himself as Phil and immediately sat back down, taking me by the hand and guiding me to sit down next to him. I glanced back across the room and could just make out Hubby standing with several other people in the shadows near the door.

Graham had also sat down, or rather was pushed down by Hilary who had dropped to her knees between his legs and was immediately undoing his belt. I giggled nervously as Phil said to me “so you’re a friend of Hilary’s then?”
I had to turn away from watching Hilary’s progress to answer Phil’s question, and tell him that we’d really only just met at the bar earlier. “She’s quite a lady” Phil laughed. “So are you new here then?”

“No, we’ve been coming for a month or so” I replied. “My husband’s over there in the corner” I said, trying to sound confident and assured.
“Will he mind me doing this?” Phil said as he began running his hand across the front of my dress.

I knew my nipples were already erect beneath the satin, and the touch of his hands was making them even harder. Harder and tingling. I lifted my head back against the wall behind us and closed my eyes as he bent forward to suck at them through my dress. Then I felt his other hand sliding over my inner thigh. He dropped both hands onto my knees and parted my legs wider. I pushed my head back further as I felt his fingers already stroking against me. I lifted my bum and slid forwards on the leather, my knees wide apart now and gasping as I felt fingers pushing gently inside. I knew I was sighing and gasping, even if I couldn’t hear myself. But I could hear him telling me “Fuck you’re wet”.

I was amazed at myself being this aroused, so quickly, with a man I’d said less than a few words too. I felt myself squirming on his hand, pushing against it, yet accepting … and wanting … his slow and gentle thrusting. I opened my eyes searching the shadows for Hubby but couldn’t see him. I could sense shuffling next to me though and looked down to see Hilary on her back, her dress pulled up to her waist and Graham’s bare bum adjusting itself between her raised legs.

Phil was moving me round now as well, sliding me by the hips further along the leather and kneeling up on the bench. I felt myself being pulled along so that I was now laying back with the back of my head down on the bench and both of Phil’s hands spreading me wide, one fingering into me and the other expertly swirling around my clit. I came really quickly, surprising myself with my own loud screaming.

Laying completely on my back I could hear the bouncing sounds on the leather of Graham obviously fucking Hilary behind me … and her own loud grunting in time with his pumping. My recovery was interrupted though by Phil lifting me up by my arms. “The bed is free now” he said. As he led me across to the mattress I saw Hubby again, sitting down on the bench next to the side of the bed. He was smiling and nodding his head, so I knew he’d enjoyed watching me with my new friend.

Phil had kicked off his shoes and was stepping out of his trousers now. He fell back onto the bed as I kicked off my own shoes and knelt down beside him. His erection was standing up at an impressively vertical angle and I couldn’t resist reaching out to stroke it. It was hard, and quite plump, and very warm.

I felt the mattress dip and Hilary was suddenly on her back next to Phil, she was completely naked now, except for a black suspender belt and one stocking. I giggled and pointed at her bare leg. “I gave it to Fifi” she said pointing back behind us. “One of his was laddered”. Fifi was a wonderfully outgoing cross-dresser Hubby and I had met on our first visit to the club, and on every occasion since. A regular at the bar, and in the glory hole corridor too, as he always loved to tell us. As I turned back to Phil I could see he’d pulled a condom from his pocket and was rolling it down over himself. A completely naked Graham had joined us on the bed now next to me and was doing the same to himself. “Not quite as impressive as Phil” I thought to myself, but from Hilary’s noises earlier, I’d gathered he’d filled one condom already.

Phil was pulling me closer to him now, obviously ready and expectant. I lifted my right leg over him and slid myself forward on his thighs, teasingly shuffling forwards until I could feel his erection against me. “Not with your shirt on” I told him as I leant forwards and unbuttoned him to reveal quite a hairy chest. He sat up to pull his arms free … then, as I threw his shirt to one side … he leaned further forward and lifted my dress up as well. “Not with your dress on” he laughed. I lifted my arms up and bent forward as he pulled my dress over my head …


The above is from a Chapter from “Modesty Unleashed”, the eighth of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” Ebooks which is soon to be published at my Amazon, Gumroad, Fun Store and Etsy pages.

But, in the meantime … if you’ve read down this far and would like to read how things on the bed continued … I’m hoping to add more of this chapter to the appropriately themed “Gang Bang” Kink of the Week page in the next few days.


However, for lots more “Fun in the City” moments, I suggest you visit this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, by clicking on the lovely rainbow button below!

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P.s. – The photo above is not actually from this Club evening (cameras not allowed of course), rather it is from one of our other multi-fun evenings in a more private venue!
And of course, as is always the case in my Modesty Ablaze Diaries editions, the names of all of my “friends” here have been changed for the purpose of maintaining anonymity!

Xxx- K

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Modest Motion … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Motion Blur

“You know how you said our sessions seem to just race by in a blur? Well, today I thought we’d spend the whole hour just in this position … and just with this particular paddle”.

“Then perhaps you might remember every stroke and every word … don’t you think! Shall we try?”

This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is all about Motion Blur … for more clarity just swipe the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Blue Nails #BoobDay 234

Modest Blue Nails Boobday

A modest red is normally the go-to choice for my nails … but when I’m about to paddle out for some lounging lilo time, I think a cool sea-blue is far more appropriate. I mean one has to colour-coordinate doesn’t one!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 230 BoobDays now, you may
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Xxx – K

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Modest Epiphany #wickedwednesday

Modest Epiphany Wicked Wednesday

We were becoming regulars at The Club now … so much so that B, our lovely hostess, welcomed us for our fourth Saturday evening visit in a row with “See, I said that you would be coming every week”, laughing at her own choice of wording. “We’re like your local pub now aren’t we”.

“Well I could hardly wear this at our local pub now could I”, I giggled in reply as I took off my coat before sending Hubby downstairs to the cloakroom with it.

“No perhaps not” she said as she hugged me and kissed us both on each cheek. “It is very sexy. You look so beautiful and amazing. As you always do of course”.

I was wearing a brand new, short, red satin dress I’d brought specifically for the Club. Easy to lift off over my head, with loosely laced open sides which clearly revealed I wasn’t wearing anything at all underneath.

With B as such an affectionate chaperone … and her continuing flattering comments week on week … I was growing in confidence and losing my inhibitions more and more with every visit. And knowing that Hubby was enjoying all the fun attentions I was receiving as much as I was, meant I was striving to “dress to impress” with a different new outfit for every visit.

But despite feeling more at ease than I had on our first few visits, I would still always insist on arriving early-ish, to give me time for a few glasses of wine to settle the initial butterflies.

I was still chatting to B when Hubby returned from the cloakroom, but before we could order our drinks she linked her arms through each of ours and said “Come, I want you to meet some one”. She led us around the corner of the bar and up to a very striking blonde lady sitting on her own in the far corner. “Hilary, this is K and her lovely Hubby”.

Hilary beamed and immediately took my hand “Your dress is absolutely gorgeous” she said. “B has told me all about you both and she is absolutely right, you are stunning”. She continued squeezing my hand as she nodded to a tall man who had suddenly appeared behind us. “This is my other half, Steve. Buy this lovely couple a drink darling”. She patted the empty stool next to her and said “Sit and tell me about yourselves, B tells me you’re quite new to the scene”.

I giggled rather nervously and explained we’d actually been visiting every week for the past month or so now, but hadn’t been to any other swinging clubs previously. “I haven’t seen you here before though” I said.

She smiled and said they’d been abroad for several months but had returned during the week and she couldn’t wait to get back to “our favourite fun place”, emphasising “fun place” with a wonderfully wicked laugh and sweeping hand gesture.

I was immediately warming to her outgoing personality, and I could tell Hubby was quite taken with her as well as he and Steve passed us our drinks. We were soon sharing our experiences and life-stories with such ease and openness … and I was telling her things without a second thought … pausing only to instruct Hubby to get another round of drinks for us all.

“I’m a slut and I love it” she was squeezing Hubby’s hand now, “spent 12 years in a boring sexless marriage and now I’m making up for lost time” she laughed. “Fuck anything with a hard one”.

We’d been chatting and laughing … and squeezing each others hand … for quite some time now, and it was getting busier and noisier around us with more arrivals, many of whom Hilary seemed to be on nodding terms with.

She reached over again, took me by the hand and stood up. “Come on, let’s go and find some fun”. She winked at Hubby and said “are you going to join us?” as she stepped between him and Steve … and led me down the corridor towards the main playroom.


The above is Part One of a Chapter from “Modesty Unleashed”, the eighth of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife” Ebooks which is soon to be published at my Amazon, Gumroad, Fun Store and Etsy pages.

And … if you’ve read down this far … I’m hoping to add Part Two of this chapter to the appropriately themed “Gang Bang” Kink of the Week page in the next few days.


However, in the meantime, for lots more “Epiphany” moments, I suggest you visit this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, by clicking on the lovely rainbow button below!

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Xxx- K

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