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Modesty Ablaze reviews The Blackhorses-of-India Flogger

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I must admit to being a little skeptical when I was approached earlier this year by an Indian Fetish Product company asking if I would be interested in reviewing some of their items.

I get lots and lots of emails from all over the world offering lots of different things . . . if you know what I mean . . . so I am always cautious in my initial replies to such “enquiries”.

However, after exchanging a number of emails, and browsing the company website at Blackhorses.in, my interest was tweaked . . . and I duly agreed to test some of their products “in the flesh” so-to-speak. Well !!! . . . to say I was pleasantly surprised and astonished upon receiving my first delivery, would be a huge understatement.

Because the look, feel, quality and craftsmanship . . . of every item I received . . . is quite simply outstanding! Easily the most impressive, and most well-made assortment of whips and paddles, floggers and crops I have ever had the pleasure to handle.

LeatherFloggerHandleEvery implement just oozed quality from the very moment I unwrapped them. And, as if that first wonderful smell of new leather wasn’t intoxicating enough, the weight and substance of each item had me immediately swooning with delight and excitement as I lifted them up and swished them through the air, imagining I was slapping at the quivering cheeks of one of my willing submissives bent before me. I simply couldn’t wait to test them . . .

And, over the past few weeks I have, delightfully, been able to road-test them all . . . and, without exception, each has become my next new favourite . . . one after the other.

I hope over the coming weeks to feature a review of each of the different items I received, as to try and describe them all in one posting just wouldn’t do these wonderful products the justice they so completely deserve.

LeatherFloggerStrandsSo let’s start with . . . The Flogger FL0021 . . . not because it is my favourite (they ALL are), but because I used it just last night and the wonderful fun memories of that session are still so fresh in my mind.

As I think you can probably tell from my photos here, this flogger is certainly very impressive . . . in every respect. The solid wooden handle is one and a half inches in diameter and 12 inches long, with a circumference of 4 inches, so is easy and comfortable to grip, and easy and comfortable to use. The 10, strong leather, strands are each 17 inches in length and are 8mm wide and 3mm thick, so very, very substantial. And that makes the full “swing” length of the flogger 29 inches from the base of the handle to the tips of those thick, brown, leather strands.

Unfortunately, no documentation regarding the materials, was supplied by Blackhorses (more on that later), so I can’t tell you the exact type of wood that the handle is made of, nor the type of leather in the strands. But what I can tell you is that the workmanship is by far the best of it’s kind that I have seen.

I’m not sure how the strands are actually secured into the handle itself (the lovely woven-effect of thinner black leather banding where the strands join the wood is for decorative purposes only I’m sure). But they seem strongly and permanently attached, and having put the flogger through some vigorous use during several sessions recently, they still look and feel brand new, just as when I first unwrapped them.

And despite feeling “heavier” in the palm of one’s hand than any of my other floggers, it is actually very comfortable to hold and very easy to use. In fact I would say that it’s heavier feel actually makes one much more relaxed and confident when using it . . . and I find myself enjoying it more and more with each swing and slap I make across my slaves back and bum. It does leave some lovely, lovely marks, usually for a couple of days apparently. And, to a man, they all seem to love it, describing it variously as “stinging”, “harsh” and “quite brutal” . . . but they all have come back asking for it again at their next session!!!

Now as I mentioned, no documentation was supplied with the Flogger so I can’t give you any pricing details, nor specific information about materials. For the purposes of accuracy here my direct questions emailed to Blackhorses, and their emailed answers, were:

Q: Can you tell me more about the manufacturing process and materials please. Ie: “handmade”, but in just one factory or do you have more than one production facility? What sort of leather and how is it sourced? And also, my readers normally like to know that products are ethically produced (ie your workers are employed under proper conditions etc. etc.)???
A: We manufacture handmade products by using little help of machine. We using leather and iron hardware and other articles to produce our products. We have our one factory to mainly and some of articles provided by other sources. We are using best Indian buffalo leather for production. Our workers are skilled and experienced.

So, as you can see, not the most comprehensive of answers . . . but, what can I say other than, I am totally, totally in love with my Flogger FL0021, and all of their other wonderful products hanging in my session wardrobe.

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Wonderfully made. Strong, thick leather and solid and substantial real wooden handle.
Cons: None what-so-ever . . . well apart from the lack of documentation / information.
Material: Apparently . . . Indian Buffalo Leather and locally-sourced wood.
Measurements: Overall length 29 inches. Handle length 12 inches, circumference 4 inches, diameter at the grip 1 1/2 inches. Leather strands (10 of them), length 17 inches, width 8mm, thickness 3mm.
Noise: A wonderful “swish”, followed by a loud “thwack”.
Colour: Dark brown wooden handle and dark brown leather strands.
Waterproof: No I would think not.
Cleaning: Obviously always wash thoroughly after use. I first wipe with my anti-bacterial cleansers then with warm soapy water and allow to dry, naturally, before next use.
Supplier Product Link: Blackhorses India
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow . . . let me know if you are interested, or if you would like some video-links of the flogger in action, from the comments form below!

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This Brown Leather Flogger was sent to me, free-of-charge by Blackhorses,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Loving Joy Dream Eggs @Belle_De_Soir

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I’ve always been intrigued by the thought of vibrating balls or eggs . . . but never owned any! So I was thrilled that the Loving Joy Dream Eggs were among some suggestions that the lovely people at Belle De Soir recently asked me if I’d be interested in receiving to review.

As always the parcel arrived within two days of me emailing my request and, again as always with everything from Belle De Soir, was wonderfully packaged inside a neat white plain cardboard box. As you can see from my photo above, the Dream Eggs box itself is a really nice strong black cardboard design with open-window type top. (Though I did wonder if the spelling of “12 Funtions” was a deliberate play on words . . . or just that they’d missed out the “c” when proof-reading the design!)

The controller and the three eggs are perfectly packed in a clear plastic moulded pack of their own which, when one slides it out from the box, has a hinged lid which can be easily opened and closed again each time you use them.

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I was a bit disappointed that the hand-controller felt quite light and “plasticky” when I first lifted it out. But the Eggs themselves are much nicer and more silky to the touch . . . and as the price from Belle De Soir is so reasonable for an item of this nature, one really shouldn’t quibble about the “feel” of the controller . . .
so I won’t !!

What I had forgotten though, when I read the initial blurb about the Dream Eggs, is that the handset requires two AAA Batteries which are not included with the item. And a quick rummage through my toys drawer wasn’t helpful either, as all my other battery operated vibes used ones of a completely different size or type. But wait, the TV remote control? . . . Ah ha, perfect . . . I certainly wasn’t going to be watching television at the same time!!!

As I mentioned, the eggs themselves feel nicer than the controller. The exact size of each one is noted in my summary panel below, so for now I’ll just refer to them here as Small, Medium and Large. The Small and Large ones feel quite similar in shape and smoothness, but the Middle one is different actually. It has a slightly ridged or grooved feel to it . . . so I was keen to “feel” the difference, in practice so-to-speak.

Each Egg has it’s own cable with which to attach them to the controller. The cables are very light and unobtrusive and at 33 inches long give one plenty of scope for position and eventuality. At the egg-end they are moulded into the shape itself . . . so there is no danger of the cable becoming detached and leaving the egg behind! The other end of each cable has a small plug, rather like a headphone-jack for ones phone, which plugs into the controller. And a note here re the “Wired remote control vibrating eggs” description on the Dream Eggs product page at Belle De Soir which should perhaps be a little clearer. Ie: “remote” doesn’t mean “wireless” because the Eggs do have to be physically attached to the controller by plugging in their cable. (So my fantasies of wandering around my local supermarket aisles, or perhaps dining-out with a lover at an exclusive West End restaurant, whilst having an Egg wildly vibrating inside me, will be difficult to achieve. But . . . never say never . . . so watch this space!!!)

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Anyway . . . on with the task in-hand!!! There are just two buttons on the controller, one to turn on and off, and the top one (with x12 printed on it) from which you can scroll through the 12 different speed-settings with each push of the button. You can only scroll upwards, so if you select a setting to see what it is like only to find you prefer the previous setting, you have to turn the unit off and then start again. So, like all things, it’s a question of trial and error to determine one’s favourite setting and remembering how many “pushes” on the button it was to find it. Or of course you may find it’s just fun to change the setting every-so-often anyway.

I won’t describe each setting one-by-one, but each are a little faster or more intense, or may have a more “pulsing / throbbing” vibration as you change from one to the next, and for such small batteries the vibrations are surprisingly strong, and surprisingly quiet as well. And actually I was really quite impressed with the different variety and throbbing-patterns of the pulsing options as I scrolled through them whilst holding each Egg in the palm of my hand.

But how do those vibrations feel where they should really count??? . . . Well . . .

Sometimes I get a bit greedy, but I resisted the temptation to go straight for the Large one and started, where one always should, at the very beginning . . . with the Smallest.

Now I am a clittoral girl and I love the feeling I get from being tingled and buzzed, stroked and vibrated there . . . and that is, of course, where things normally start for me at playtime. (Not always, but mostly!) And as I said, for such small batteries, the vibrations even on the smallest of the eggs are surprisingly strong and very pleasant. But I can get quickly bored . . . and anyway, the thing I’d always been interested in about Eggs was how they might feel once inside me.

So, buzzing away, I slid No.1 (Small) inside . . . and . . . well I could feel it . . . just.
I squeezed my legs together and worked on my pelvic-routine a little, but . . . it wasn’t giving me the sensations I’d hoped for. I experimented with the settings, faster, and searching for that really nice pulsing one that I’d discovered whilst holding it over my clit. But did it give me the same sensation inside? No . . . not really.

Perhaps I needed larger, and perhaps that slightly ridged Middle one, would do the trick? It certainly felt nice rubbing back and forth over my clit again . . . and because it was a bit larger the vibrations did feel stronger . . . but once inside I’m afraid I was left with the same feeling of not really feeling that much. I twisted it round and round as well, trying to sense if those “ridges” made any internal difference, but sadly they didn’t.

So . . . I was sure that the Large egg was going to be just what I needed . . . I always like large, from my glasses of wine to . . . well, you know !!! And on the outside ooohh those vibrations certainly felt even stronger, so . . . ???

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Well I could feel it buzzing away inside, and I could sense the changes in speed and vibrations as I pushed away at the button. But . . . I still wanted to be feeling more. I wanted it to be making me twist and shake, and shudder and sway, but it didn’t . . . and because I knew I would lose the moment and lose my concentration completely, I slid it back out . . . and up over my own button again. And, yes, bliss . . . if you know what I mean!!!

But as nice as that was, it wasn’t really the sensation I’d been hoping for from the Loving Joy Dream Eggs.

However, first-time play is often not what you hope it will be. And I also know that when I’m trying out a new toy that I have been asked to review, my mindset is not always as it would be if I was just playing normally. So I always pack the toy away and come back to it again for a fresh approach a few days later.

S0 I have tried it again on a number of different occasions . . . both on my own . . . and also “in company” . . . and although it has been fun and has introduced a different approach to my playtime, it still hasn’t really moved me as much as I’d hoped it might.

I do enjoy those different and quite clever pulsing motions. But, for the times I like to be . . . “filled-up” more . . . I need something which can thrust further and deeper, or perhaps stimulate my g-spot . . . which even with the Largest egg, it just isn’t possible to achieve.

But . . . we are all different and all enjoy stimulation and play-times in different ways don’t we . . . and so, if you know that you enjoy internal vaginal stimulation, then I would certainly recommend giving the Loving Joy Dream Eggs from Belle De Soir a try . . . because they may just do for you what they don’t quite manage for me. Well, apart that is, from those lovely “external” pulses!!!

Oh, and what about the TV remote control? Well yes . . . I did put them back . . . but only after instructing Hubby to “buy me two brand-new batteries for my Eggs please”.

Modesty Rating: 6 out of 10
Pros: Surprisingly strong vibrations and surprisingly quiet, especially when inserted, (but see **Batteries below).
Cons: For me, personally, they just don’t move me to “that other place”.
Material: Skin-safe, ABS plastic. Latex and Phthalates free.
Measurements: Small Egg 4.5 x 2.5cm; Medium Egg 5.5 x 2.5cm; Large Egg 7.5 x 3.5cm. Hand-controller 11.5 x 4.5cm. Connecting cables 33 inches long.
Noise: Quite quiet, especially when inserted.
Colour: Pink.
Lubrication: Water-based only!
Batteries: 2 x AAA required and are not included. Although I haven’t run the Eggs continuously for any long period, I have been using quite regularly over the past two weeks and they are still buzzing strongly!
Waterproof: No information supplied, but I would suspect not. Well certainly not for the controller.
Cleaning: Obviously always wash thoroughly before, and after use. I first wipe with my anti-bacterial cleansers then with warm soapy water.
Supplier Price & Product Link: Belle De Soir Loving Joy Dream Eggs
Additional Links: Belle De Soir Lingerie & Sex Toys Boutique
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow. If you let me know you are interested I will email you!

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The Loving Joy Dream Eggs were sent to me, free-of-charge by Belle De Soir,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Trinity Vibes 11-inch Inflatable Dildo” @UberKinky

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You probably already know that I like Black . . . Black and Big !!! So I was very excited to receive this Trinity Vibes 11 Inch Inflatable Dildo to review from my favourite on-line Kink store Uberkinky.

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I must admit that the outer box isn’t particularly impressive when you first remove the package from the Postal Jiffy Bag, and bubble-wrap, that the parcel arrives in. It’s a thin glossy cardboard box with a rather unflattering design and rather garish (for my taste anyway) colours. But once I opened the top and pulled out the inner plastic bag containing the Trinity, I quickly forgot about it’s packaging . . . because it is . . . certainly BIG!!!

Eleven inches long from tip-to-toe, nine-and-a-half inches of which is actual “insertable” length. And . . . getting straight to the point . . . I can tell you that having shared my bed for the last two weeks, it is absolutely ideal for those moments when I just can’t get the “real thing”, because it’s actually quite realistic in both looks, and “feel”, with a smoothly curved and shaped head . . . and lovely ridges running down the shaft.

The Trinity is made of a soft rubber and is quite pliable and flexible in it’s “flaccid, floppy” state. At this point it’s under two inches in diameter. But, once you start giving it a few little squeezes on it’s hand pump, it soon starts to become quite . . . “erect” . . . and quickly becomes quite firm. Mmm . . . just how I like it!!!

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Because it is completely hollow and doesn’t have any core, or shaft inside, I found the best way to play with Trinity was to give him a few squeezes on the pump . . . just to get him started . . . apply some lube (water-based, rubber friendly only of course) and then slowly slide him inside. I then start gently squeezing the hand pump (I imagine it’s his balls I’m playing with) and I can soon feel him swelling and getting bigger and definitely firmer inside and quite quickly filling me up. And, as we all know, it’s a lovely feeling to have that sense of being filled-up inside!!!

Just how filled-up? Well I can’t take any measurements “internally” of course, but just holding the Trinity in my hand, I’ve been able to coax him to well over 8 inches in circumference, and I’m sure you’ll agree, that’s quite “big”.

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Unfortunately as the connecting tube attaches into the base of the dildo, it means you can’t actually stand him up on a table or chair or something, or sit down over him. But I suppose if I’m being honest, the only way I could really enjoy something of this length . . . and girth . . . is to be laying down on my back and completely losing myself in some lovely sliding and stroking. That’s much more comfortable than I’d be able to manage if I was trying to sit-down onto it. And the tube which connects the hand pump to the dildo is also 11 inches in length, so it’s quite easy to manoeuvre, even when one is lying back and getting completely lost in “pumping” him up.

The pump is easy to use and even after a few gentle squeezes you can certainly feel the dildo “growing” and you will soon find your own “comfort” level. And should you feel you quickly need to release some of his “size”, just a squeeze on the quick-release valve will immediately shrink the Trinity, just-a-little with a short squeeze, or if you hold the button down, the dildo will deflate completely in a flash. So there is no danger of you getting stuck if you get over-excited.

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The Trinity can also . . . apparently . . . be used anally as well. But I haven’t tried that, because I think it’s size would be a little too much for me to feel comfortable with. And besides which, my pussy has been enjoying playing with him so much that I’m perfectly happy with that for the moment . . . thank you very much.

But, if you enjoy being stretched anally . . . as well as vaginally . . . I’m sure you’ll find this impressive dildo will more than fill your needs.

Of course, which-ever entrance you use your Trinity in, you’ll obviously need to give him a thorough cleaning all over with warm soapy water afterwards. I leave it to dry naturally rather than wiping it dry as I find the rubber picks up fibres otherwise. And once dry, I pack my Trinity away back in it’s box to keep it separate from my other rubber or latex toys for the same reason.

Now, I know I keep mentioning that the Trinity is big (certainly big-enough for me) but UberKinky do have even bigger members available at their Dildos page.

But, as I said earlier, I’ve become rather fond of my Trinity Inflatable and I’m sure he’ll be a regular playtime companion in the Modesty Boudoir.

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Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Pros: Big and fill-filling! And, of course, he does exactly what I command him to do when, where and how hard I want him. Never talks back . . . and when I’ve had enough, he’s completely deflated at the push of a button.
Cons: I’m thinking . . . still thinking . . . Oh, well perhaps it would be nice if the air tube joined horizontally into the base, rather than vertically. And maybe he could have a suction cup there on the base instead. Just for when one does feel a bit more “adventurous”.
Material: Rubber.
Measurements: Circumference (unpumped) 6.25 inches, (pumped) 8.25 inches. Diameter (deflated) 1.9 inches, (inflated) 2.5 inches. Overall Length 11 inches, Insertable Length 9.5 inches. Air-tube Length 11 inches; Hand Pump & Valve Length 4 inches; Circumference 6 inches.
Adjustable: Oh yes!!!
Noise: Squeezing air noise, and lots of gasps and moans!
Colour: Black.
Lubrication: Yes you’ll definitely need some! Water-based, Rubber friendly only!
Batteries: Not required.
Waterproof: Yes.
After-care: Obviously always wash with hot soapy water after, and before, use.
Supplier Product Link: Trinity Vibes 11 Inch Inflatable Dildo
Additional Links: Dildos at UberKinky
The Modesty Video Review: View my Video Review of the Trinity Inflatable Dildo >here< or from the Preview Screen below!

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The Uberkinky Trinity Vibes 11 inch Inflatable Dildo was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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15% OFF at my fav Lingerie & Toys Boutique @Belle_De_Soir

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I know I’ve mentioned it before . . . so forgive me if I’m repeating myself (I’ve always been a “repeater”) . . . but my favourite, very, very favourite Lingerie and Sex Toys Boutique Belle De Soir always offer some of the most reasonable prices I think you’ll find anywhere across the world-wide web.

So . . . imagine how excited I am to tell you that up until next Thursday (March 17th) they are running a Flash Sale . . . and you know how much I LOVE a Flash
. . . of 15% OFF Everything by tapping-in the voucher code BDS15OFF at the checkout.

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Yes . . . that’s 15% OFF their already amazing prices of EVERYTHING at Belle De Soir . . . even, even (and I’m throbbing as I’m telling you this) 15% OFF the world’s most wonderful Doxy Wand Massager or, if you’re feeling even more adventurous, the new Doxy Skittle!!!

You can read just how I feel about the Doxy Wand >here< and the Doxy Skittle >here< . . . but I really do recommend that if you are looking for any new toys, or lingerie . . . then you must, Must, MUST start your journey at Belle De Soir . . . I am sure that you will not be disappointed!!!

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Colt Inflatable Butt Plug” @UberKinky

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If you’ve visited me here before you probably think that I have a “thing” for anal, as several of my most recent “Toy Reviews” have been for items of that type. But it’s more coincidence, rather than preference, as it just seems to be that those are the sort of toys I am most often being sent for review nowadays. Because, although I definitely don’t have a “thing” for bottom-play, I do if the mood takes me, enjoy a “different approach” from time to time. (Though please do check my retrospective A Cautionary Tale Update” addition to one of my very first bottom-approach reviews from 2014).

And “mood” certainly is key for me when it comes to bottom-play of any type. If I’m not in the right mood, at the right time, then no matter how hard I . . . or my playmate(s) . . . may try, I just know it won’t work out and I will quickly insist that we leave it for another time. And my mood can be influenced by any number of things . . . who I’m playing with of course (I rarely feel in the mood to play this way alone!), the environment and surroundings I find myself in . . . and the aesthetics of the actual toy itself. The way it looks and the way it feels . . . I mean to the touch, before it actually goes (or tries to go) in!!.

So, enter (if you will excuse the pun), the Uberkinky Colt Inflatable Butt Plug. Now when I was first offered the opportunity to review the Colt, I was certainly interested and intrigued. I’ve never owned an “inflatable” before, so straight away that made me curious?

UberKinky does, of course, have quite a range of Inflatable Butt Plugs and browsing through them all aroused my curiosity even more, but I felt the Colt was probably an ideal starting point. And when the tell-tale-shaped, padded envelope arrived, I excitedly opened it and quickly began unrolling the layer of bubble-plastic wrapped around the inner bag. As the plug itself, and the hand-pump and tube were revealed . . . my immediate aesthetic-reaction was, I have to admit, one of disappointment. “It looks industrial” I said to myself, “like something from the plumbing section at B&Q”. But functionality, rather than beauty, is obviously the main factor with anal toys . . . so onwards we go . . . if not immediately upwards.

The toy is supplied in a plastic bag with a small (very small and very basic) multi-language, black and white leaflet. The text is obviously generic for all rubber toys rather than specifically for this toy itself, so is not particularly useful or helpful.

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As you can see from my photographs, the Colt consists of a bright red hand pump, and a 15inch tube, which attaches to the black plug itself. Made of a latex rubber material the plug doesn’t look too imposing does it? It’s insertable “erection” is about 4inches tapering from a rounded end to a circumference of about 4.5inches . . . that’s four-and-a-half, by the way, just in case the decimal point doesn’t display well on your tablet screen, (I wouldn’t want to frighten you unduly!!!)

The plug was wrapped in a vacuum-sealed plastic and once I’d peeled that off, it felt reasonably soft and pleasant to hold in my hand. Not as nice as my silicone favourites of course, but a normal rubbery feel. It felt quite firm and solid, so I was intrigued as to how it was actually going to “inflate”.

So, after giving it all a thorough wash over in some warm soapy water, I attached the tube to the hand-pump and began squeezing!

ModestyInflatable1Now it does actually require quite a firm squeezing and for a moment or two, as I squeezed the pump with one hand and cradled the plug in the other, nothing seemed to be happening. But then, to my delighted giggles, I began to feel the plug moving, and expanding, in the palm of my hand. And with a gentle, almost throbbing-pulsing sort of motion, I could definitely feel, and see, the plug beginning to grow . . . wider.

It has an outer skin, like a thick black rubber condom over it’s inner-shaft which, as you pump the air into it fills and expands this outer skin. As I said, it does require quite a firm and gradual squeezing . . . but that, of course, is a good thing isn’t it! I mean you wouldn’t want it to suddenly blow-up like a balloon in a few seconds would you! That wouldn’t be safe . . . well, certainly not for a cautious and slow-starter like myself!!!

But don’t worry, because from the safety point of view, the Colt has a quick-release valve that, with a gentle press, immediately releases all the air . . . backwards down the tube . . . not inside one’s bottom!!!

So . . . initial exploration and working procedure over . . . what about the practical “field test” . . ???

Well I’m happy to report that, as I later unwrapped it for my testing-assistant, he wasn’t put off at all by my pre-warning of it looking a “bit industrial”. His reaction was, “That’s a fetish for some people isn’t it? That rubber and mask, red and black thing!”

I giggled back with delight, “Well that’s good then.” Waving the lube bottle under his nose, “Let’s get started!!!”

Now I often find that when I’m trying out, or for all intents and purposes, “testing” new toys, that the actual process of “testing” rather spoils the real fun or enjoyment that one would hope for when playing with ones toys. I want it to be natural, and spontaneous, and part of an overall session of pleasure rather than a “laboratory assessment”. So usually I find those first occasions to be unsuccessful . . . a case of the anticipation upsetting the reality.

But on this occasion, perhaps because of the necessity of that slow pumping motion, the response slowly built from curious expectation to . . . giggling twisting and turning . . . to gasping and squirming! For the both of us . . . !

So later . . . some-time later if you know what I mean, after my asking “too many questions” . . . and in the interests of proper and thorough scientific research of course, I decided to try it for myself. (Without wishing to spoil the momentum, it goes without saying that after a thorough washing . . . and the application of a fresh condom . . . I always use condoms with these sort of toys and have black ones which helps with that sense of the aesthetic I mentioned earlier).

And???

Well it is different, quite different, and . . . still giggling at first . . . my reaction was that it is fun.

I am one for normally using my anal toys in conjunction with other things going on at the same time, so am not always conscious of any specific feeling down there, other than one of sensing that “pressure” and of being filled-up. I don’t often orgasm from just anal-play. But “being pumped” with the Colt and probably because I was conscious of wanting to feel it, and wanting to think about it, meant that on this occasion I got quite carried away.

With the application of a healthy portion of lubricant . . . water based, latex friendly only please . . . the plug slides in quite easily. And, as the pump was squeezed to increase the pressure with gradual “pumps” I certainly could sense that throbbing and pulsing that I’d felt in the palm of my hand earlier. I reached my comfort level quite quickly and was able to continue my play for several more minutes before, in the natural sequence of events, I needed release . . . in more ways than one! The sudden relief of pressure, as the quick release valve was pushed, probably heightened my convulsions (though at times like that my sense of observation and recollection becomes numbed, so to speak).

So . . . whilst it is not something that I could use all the time, because I still have to be in that right “mood”, it was fun. And fun is what it is always about for me:

Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10
Pros: Nice in size and reasonably comfortable and “interesting” to use.
Cons: A little bit too “industrial” to look at in the first instance. The air-tube enters directly from the base of the plug which means it can’t be placed onto a flat surface to “sit down upon”.
Material: Latex Rubber.
Measurements: Plug Circumference (unpumped) 4.5 inches, Insertable Length 4 inches. Air-tube Length 15 inches; Circumference 0.75 inch. Hand Pump & Valve Length 6.5 inches; Circumference 7 inches.
Noise: Silent, well except for the gasps & giggles during!!!
Colour: Black and Red.
Lubrication: Yes definitely!!! Water-based, Latex friendly only!
Batteries: Not applicable, just a strong squeezing-grip required.
Waterproof: Yes.
After-care: Obviously always wash with hot soapy water after, and before, use.
Supplier Product Link: Uberkinky Colt Inflatable Butt Plug
Additional Links: Inflatable Butt Plugs
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow if you are interested!

The Uberkinky Colt Inflatable Butt Plug was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Flexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy”

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There is no doubting that sexuality and relationship-topics have certainly moved further and further into our “mainstream” way of life over the past few years . . . which is, of course, a wonderful thing!!! And as sexual awareness and our right as women to express our feelings and desires has (rightly) become more acceptable and more openly discussed, I find that one of the first subjects that usually comes up in conversation is about one’s collection of . . . “sextoys”.

And gone too are the days when “sextoys” meant . . . almost exclusively . . . a “vibrator”. Nowadays, we can all openly talk about such a wide variety of different toys, for different uses . . . and for different areas all over our bodies. But, it seems to me that most recently, the “sextoy” focus has moved from the front to . . . well, to round to the back, as it were . . . so much so that almost all of the toys I have been offered for reviews of late, have all been designed for one’s bottom.

ModestyAblazeFlexi3Which brings me to the latest parcel to arrive in my box . . . my mail box silly!!! . . . the “Flexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy”.

Now, I have to tell you that my bottom is not my preferred point of entry. In fact I do have to be in a certain mood, a certain frame of mind, and in a nice calming and relaxed environment before I feel relaxed enough to fully indulge.

And it  has taken me several weeks, and several occasions of opening, feeling, looking at . . . and then putting it back in the box . . . before I finally found the appropriate occasion to progress further.

So . . . if you are still with me . . . the “Flexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy”.

ModestyAblazeFlexi4The packaging itself is lovely. A 4″ wide, 7.25″ tall and 3″ deep, glossly and strong cardboard box with one of those hanging slots extending from the top of the back of the box so that the item can be hung up easily on the presentation racks in your local store. But curiously (perhaps to protect the more modest amongst us as we browse the aisles) the conically shaped clear plastic window which “displays” the toy itself is on the “rear” of the box. I suppose that could be considered as appropriate really . . . LOL!!! . . . but it does mean that if you were actually browsing the aisles of your favourite Toy Shop, you would have to physically slide the box off the rack and turn it around to view the Plug itself. I’m sure the box has been designed that way on purpose . . . and anyway, you can see my photos here to see what you would see once you’ve turned the box around. And, of course, it’s what’s inside that counts isn’t it!

For me it’s often first impressions that shape my acceptance, or interest, in new things . . . the way they look, the way they feel. And on sliding the inner clear-plastic box out from it’s outer packaging I must confess I did feel a little disappointed. Not so much at the colour (it’s, thankfully, a  much darker shade of blue than the photo on it’s link-page on the Amazon web-site which is a ghastly neon-blue) but more with the way it felt as I lifted it out of it’s plastic cradle. The actual product description is “FLEXIBLE SOFT JELLY, body-safe and latex-free”, but it felt a little sticky and plasticky to me. I suppose that’s just because I personally prefer the feel of my silicon toys . . . but I quickly reminded myself that I would be applying a condom, and lots of lube anyway, so . . .

The Plug itself is certainly flexible, bendy and pliable, and soft-ish yet reasonably firm in it’s erection. It tapers smoothly down for 1.5″ from it’s tip (approx 1/4″ in diameter at the top) to approx 3/4″ diameter before it reaches the first of it’s two beads where it swells to approx 1″ diameter before tapering in ever-so-slightly and then swelling to it’s second bead of 1.25″ diameter. This larger bead is about the same measurement (1.25″) in depth before tapering in again slightly to it’s short stem of 3/4″ diameter which joins it to the suction-cup base. This base has a diameter of 2.25″ and is actually wonderfully strong in the way it grips almost any flat surface you gently push it onto. It easily sucks itself and sticks to my wooden desk, wardrobe door, glass-topped dressing table . . . and the tiles of my shower (more in a minute!).

As I continued to bend and wobble the plug, and walk around sticking it to every flat surface I could, I began to warm to my Flexi Plug . . . and to it’s play possibilities.

The overall, insertable length, is 4″ so quite modest compared to some of the plugs I’ve been sent in the past . . . so for that reason I could certainly recommend it if you are just beginning to explore anal playtime.

So, how about that playtime?

ModestyAblazeFlexi5Well, although I was so immediately taken with the idea of the suction-cup application, I found that in practice it actually wasn’t the easiest of toys for me to indulge in solo play. I was quite excited to rush into the bathroom and push it onto the tiled wall of my shower. But trying to reverse onto it was difficult to manage, the actual “flexibility” of the plug seemed to work against me and made positioning, placing and inserting . . . well, just awkward. And as the running water, and rising steam (I do, of course, like it “hot”) combined with my giggles of frustration and poor balance, I had to give up on my fantasy of “a good shower plugging!”. And even more giggles followed in trying to pull it off the tiles . . . it wanted to move up and down and slide from side to side, but didn’t want to come off. So plus points for Strong Suction!!!

However, although solo-shower-play was a failure, I am happy to report that dual-play with Hubby was much more successful!!!

That gentle-taper . . . and comfortable length . . . has since provided us (both, if you know what I mean), with some enjoyable stimulating playtime fun. The suction-cup doesn’t stick so easily to the palm of one’s hand, but we found that pushing the plug in gently and slowly by hand is much nicer as the flexible bendiness is easier to control. And that wide tapered base keeps it safely in place, with no danger of it going further than it should!

So after my initial disappointments, my Flexi Plug has actually turned out to be quite fun . . . and I’m sure I will be reaching for it again, perhaps I may even try my shower-fantasy again as well!

The Flexi Plug is manufactured by Pink B.O.B, a company from New Hampshire in America. I’ve not heard of them before, and from their website they seem to have a reasonably small product range, but they do mention on the “About Us” pages that “Women play a large role” in their company, so that is always nice to hear! The Flexi-Plug didn’t include any specific product information, but did come with a small mini-leaflet noting “5 Steps to Have The Best Orgasm Ever” and “5 Kinkiest Sex Positions”, though curiously none of them seem to feature, or require, the Flexi Plug!

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I don’t know anything about costings, or product availability for customers from the UK, but if you are one of my readers from the USA then I am sure they would love to hear from you and answer any questions about their products, materials and manufacturing process. And of course there is a direct buy-link from Amazon in my summary panel below:

Modesty Rating: 5 out of 10
Pros: Strong suction-cup base and flexible soft but firm beaded stem.
Cons: I’m not a great fan of the “Jelly” material which looks and feels a little sticky and plasticky.
Material: See Cons.
Measurements: Overall Insertable Length 4 inches; Diameter 1.25 inches at it’s widest stem point, 2.25 inches Diameter for the Suction-Cup Base.
Noise: Silent, except for the gasps during insertion!!!
Colour: Dark Blue (thankfully not the neon blue of the Amazon page picture).
Lubrication: No specific instructions, but I used water-based (lots of it !!!)
Does not include: Latex-free and “body-safe”.
Batteries: Not required.
Waterproof: Yes.
After-care: No specific instructions, but I would certainly wash with hot soapy water after use.
Supplier Product Link: Flexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy
Additional Links: Pink B.O.B

The Flexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

 

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The Modesty Ablaze Valentine’s Day Bulletin No.2

Last week I mentioned in my Fantasy Bulletin No.1, that I would keep on at you about Valentine’s Day! So this is Bulletin No.2 to remind you to take advantage of a wonderful opportunity to give a little love to that person (or persons!) that have a special place in your life . . . or perhaps the person(s) you would like to have a special place in your life.

It’s the perfect time to be able to use a little imagination and perhaps suggest something different, or “spicy” for your relationship, that you might ordinarily feel a little awkward or shy about.

After all, Valentine’s is normally considered by most people to be fun and frivolous . . . extravagant and silly . . . racy and sexy! Just the ideal excuse to say “well it is Valentine’s, it is just a bit of fun!” even if that red latex cat-suit, or those fur-lined bondage handcuffs . . . or red riding crop . . . is something you’ve actually always wanted to try!!!

And just to help guide you in the right direction . . . and encourage you to be just a little Valentine’s-outrageous and fun-naughty . . . I highly recommend that you browse my favourite first-stop-shops for all things fun, fetish and sexy, below.


So in no particular order, something for the weekend sir or madam?

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From Belle De Soir . . . a wonderful selection of both sexy silky lingerie and super sexy toys at some of the most reasonable prices I think you’ll find all across the world-wide web.

I just love their Gracya range of Corsets, Thongs and Suspender Belts

Or to set your evening really throbbing, why not try my favourite Doxy Wand Massager or, if you’re feeling even more adventurous the new Doxy Skittle!!!

And, if you use the Val5off Discount Code before February 15th, you’ll be able to claim a 5% reduction on most of the lovely items throughout their shop.

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Or . . . if latex and lace, or pvc and pleasure is more what you have in mind . . . then Honour Clothing is a must visit on your Valentinian travels!

Because they have some of the most lovely creations that I have ever slid myself into.

Including the Glamour Corselette which you may have seen on these very pages before, or how about the simply fabulous Chimera Basque which always brings me lots and lots of compliments whenever I wear it out and about.

I have a wardrobe full of Honour, from basques to boots and bras to blindfolds . . . and everything feels so stylish and so, so sexily naughty!!!


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And speaking of naughty . . . then if you really, really want to try something really, really naughty and really, really kinky . . . then you must stop by Uberkinky.

Because as they say . . . for them “It’s Not a Fetish, it’s a Way of Life” and trust me they really mean it!!!

If you’ve visited me here often . . . or perhaps visited me in person LOL!!! . . . then you will have seen lots and lots of Uberkinky items.

So if this Valentine’s you’d like to add some real kink to your relationship, from Bondage Wear to Bondage Gear, from Collars to Cock Rings, from Vibrators for her to Vibrators for him, from Front to Rear . . . Uberkinky is truly out there!!!


Or, if I’ve left you feeling that all of the above is perhaps just little extreme . . . and you would prefer something a little more mainstream . . . may I suggest the largest online shop of all.

love-2433-300x225Because at Lovehoney you simply can’t go wrong . . . there is something within for everyone. And, I have to say, that whilst they may not seem as “specialised”, or “bespoke” to the naked eye as the shops I’ve mentioned above, in terms of service and delivery, they are second to none.

As I’m sure you will discover as you begin browsing their aisles, their product range just goes on for miles and miles.

There is something for every taste and every desire . . . with lots of little helpful reviews and extensive product details for every item that sparks your interest.


And, speaking of sparks, if you can’t start making some sparks of your own from the options above, I shall be very disappointed!

I’m expecting you to report back!!!

But in the meantime . . . until Bulletin No.3 . . . bye, bye for now!!!

Xxx – K

 

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Modesty Ablaze has been thinking inside “The Fantasy Box”

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Early in November I had the pleasure of visiting Sexpo UK at London’s Olympia Exhibition Centre. Sexpo was a three day “sexual-health and lifestyle” event featuring lots of adult-brand retailers exhibiting their latest products, some of whom I was familiar with and some not. And whilst I was browsing the aisles I was approached by two attractive young men.

Now, as you can imagine, I always enjoy being approached by attractive young men . . . especially when they actually have something interesting to show me . . . and my interest was further aroused when they began explaining the concept of their Fantasy Box Subscription Service.

ModestyAblazeFantasy1They explained that Fantasy Box had proved very successful in America since it was started there in 2012 . . . and that they were part of the organisation that was launching the service here in the UK.

Now you’ll probably already be familiar with all sorts of Subscription Box services . . . and in normal circumstances I would be quite sceptical of a Subscription Service offering sexual items and fantasies. After all, sex is quite a personal thing . . . for most of us at least . . . isn’t it?

But when Alistair and his young colleague showed me their “starter” Classic Fantasy Box and began to explain just how it all worked, I began to get quite interested and also quite intrigued by the stylish design of the box itself. And their explanation that The Fantasy Box was a luxury service designed to help couples explore new dimensions of their relationship, in a safe, fun and creative way, immediately struck a chord with me.

If you’ve visited me here regularly you will know that I’ve often mentioned that not enough of my friends and colleagues communicate properly or openly enough with their partners. For so many reasons, they find it difficult to express all of their sexual thoughts and desires and are afraid to be really honest and open up about those things . . . even with their closest and dearest of loved-ones.

Well, as Alistair explained, The Fantasy Box helps one to put all of those fears and worries aside, by offering a vast range of themed ideas and instructions for both partners in a creative and light-hearted manner. Approaching the subject almost as a fun party game . . . and making what, for some people, is an “uncomfortable thing” to begin talking about . . . into a situation that is much less difficult.

ModestyAblazeFantasy2So there are no worries about “How do I bring the subject up?” ; “What ideas can I suggest?” ; “What should I wear?”  or “What should I say” . . . because all of those things are planned and presented for you by the simple and well-written prompt cards in the box along with a lovely selection of the items needed to play out the suggested scenarios.

I always like to start at the very beginning of course, so my box (the one I’m holding and very briefly previewing in the little video-teaser above) was The Classic Box. The first, starter-box if you will, that you might suggest to . . . or perhaps buy as a surprise gift . . . for your special loved one.

Neither the photos here, nor my video teaser, will do the construction . . . or the packaging of the contents . . . full justice. Because the Box itself is made from a wonderfully strong and rigid (oohh I love that word so much that I’m going to say it again) rigid, and matt-laminated cardboard. It opens via a hinged fold-over cover which is secured initially with a magnetic catch . . . and the cover folds back to reveal this boxes specific welcome and prompt-cards, sitting atop a thinner black-card sleeve which initially hides the inner contents from view. The box is just wonderful and really it is the most beautifully packaged of products I think I’ve ever encountered. Stylish, classy and so well designed . . . and completely in-tune with the whole Fantasy Box concept. I love it !!!

The first “Welcome Card”, printed like an invitation on glossy card, explains that this first box is designed around “communication” and “anticipation” and suggests you begin your evening with perhaps a relaxed romantic dinner . . . and several glasses of Sauvignon for me please! . . . where you can share your first prompts and questions and answers from the folded “Hers” and “His” leaflets included with the Welcome card.

The leaflets each have a numbered list of 20 different question points to ask each other, and short multi-choice selections for the answer that you think best fits your current mood . . . or perhaps your secret desire! Questions such as “I am turned-on by”; or “The best way to build up anticipation is to”; or “My favourite way to get in the mood would be to”; or, “I love it when you kiss & caress my . . .” Each of the questions have four or five suggested answer prompts, but of course you can reply with a completely different answer of your own. I know I certainly would . . . after all, being different is half the fun isn’t it!!

Now written here on this page, you may think these leaflets sound a little impersonal or tacky. BUT, I think you’ll actually find that once you start . . . even if only jokingly at first . . . you’ll soon begin to enjoy it more and more as you play along. AND very probably, become a little bolder and dare I say a little more honest, with every answer. And once you have giggled and gasped your way to the end of each others questions and answers, it will be time to progress to the next little cards that were included with your Welcome Card.

For my starter Box the prompt cards were “The Leader” and “The Follower” . . . with some quite specific suggested instructions for The Leader on what to command The Follower to do.

Now, of course, in my case I ALWAYS have to be The Leader and Hubby, naturally, The Follower. But for yourselves, either one of you could be The Leader . . . and perhaps this might be the PERFECT opportunity for you to reverse what you might think are your normal roles in your relationship!!!

Whoever of you plays which-ever part, you will now be instructed to remove the inner black sleeve-lid of the box to reveal it’s contents and the specific items your cards will be suggesting you use.

My box included a Mask, a wonderfully scented Ambience & Massage Candle, a quite large bottle of Organic Lubricant, a small but tingly-nice curved and ribbed Personal Vibrator (complete with batteries) AND a lovely Black Thong and matching Negligee . . . which actually fitted perfectly (thank you Alistair for such wonderful judgement)!

Now, just as with the “Hers” and “His” questions and answers, you don’t have to follow the Leaders prompt-points to the letter . . . but I’m sure they will “prompt-you” to make up your own twists-and-turns as you go along . . . because I just know a lot of you will be shaking your heads and muttering to yourself, “I don’t like being told what to do”. Well yes, I know, I don’t like that either (I rather prefer to be the one doing the telling!!!) But actually I’ve found that the sheer quality of the Fantasy Box presentation, and of the contents inside, has made me feel that I would certainly like to investigate more.

And I would whole-heartedly recommend you browse the website >here< for lots and lots of information on their Themed Boxes and options.

They have Sensual Themes . . . Costume Themes . . . Shower Themes . . . and definitely for me . . . Master & Slave and Dominatrix  Themes . . . and lots, lots more!!!

Each theme, or box, has different contents or options, with fully selectable sizing for clothing items . . . and often different tiers of the box contents. (More toys for example which obviously means, more possibilities and more fun!)

You can subscribe for monthly boxes, or quarterly boxes . . . or, if you prefer, for just one box of your choice for that special occasion. And you can change the frequency of your subscription, or pause, or cancel your deliveries at any time that you wish.

Or, if you’re just feeling a little adventurous . . . perhaps after re-playing the themes of one of your previous boxes and you’d like to add a little extra dimension by just ordering a new set of lingerie . . . or perhaps a new vibrator . . . instead of a complete box, then you can do that too.

The boxes are sent to you discreetly packaged in plain wrapping so they won’t have “SEXUAL FANTASY TOYS for that weird couple in No. 9” stamped all over the box in large red letters. Your postman will just think it’s your monthly delivery of choice biscuits or cheeses and crackers.

So, after my initial doubts, I have to admit that I’ve become quite excited by both the quality and the concept behind The Fantasy Box and . . . especially as they would definitely make an ideal surprise Festive Fun Gift for ones special partner . . . I have absolutely no hesitation in recommending everyone to explore The Fantasy Box  immediately! You never know, it could bring a whole new meaning to your Boxing Day!!!

Now . . . I’m off to re-play that “FOLLOW MY LEADER” prompt card again !!!

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Different and fun. Inspiration and motivational and, did I say FUN !!!
Cons: You may need a brand-new, larger, wardrobe to store all your boxes.
Material: The boxes themselves are constructed of wonderfully rigid and strong cardboard.
Measurements: Approximately 9 inches square and 4 inches in height.
Contents: Each box is different . . . fun . . . interesting!!!
UK website: The Fantasy Box UK
Twitter feed: @thefantasybox

You can watch my Video-Teaser Review of The Fantasy Box >here<.

The Classic Fantasy Box was given to me as a gift by The Fantasy Box, in return for an honest review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Skittle” personal vibrator @DoxyMassager

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Ok I’ll admit it . . . I’m a clit sort of girl, and you probably won’t be surprised when I say that I can get aroused by all sorts of situations and scenarios . . . not to mention all sorts of naughty thoughts and fantasies. But normally it’s having my clit stimulated in someway (oh alright, in anyway!!!) that brings me to the most fulfilling, earth-shaking and shuddering, exhausting, orgasm.

And nothing does that to my clit more powerfully, more completely . . . and more quickly . . . than my Doxy Wand. In fact, very often, it can be “too quickly” . . . and part of the Wand’s delight for me, if I’m using it on my own, is the challenge of teasing and pacing myself in it’s use. Prolonging the sensations, resisting the vibrations, denying it’s power and refusing it’s ultimate, total-control of my senses!

See . . . already, just talking about the Wand has got me pulsing, tingling and vibrating off on a tangent . . . BECAUSE this review is not about the Doxy Wand . . . it is about it’s new sibling the Doxy Skittle!!!

So, let me calm down . . . and start again . . .

Ok, I’ll admit it . . . I’m a clit sort of girl. Sooo . . . I was delighted and enthralled to receive The Doxy Skittle in my post box recently. Delighted because it was from Doxy (oohh shhh! don’t get me started again!!!) and enthralled because I’d not seen, heard, or read anything about it at all, until I opened the parcel!

SkittleUnwrappedAnd there, enticingly packaged in a white glossy box . . . and staring out at me from behind a clear, see-through acetate window, was a surprisingly and intriguingly shaped black object with a curling lead attached to what was obviously it’s push-button controller.

As I slid it’s holding tray from out of the box I could tell straight away that this was completely different from my wand . . . and that the raised and bulbous extension at the top was obviously designed for . . . well, for more than one “entrance point”.

SkittleGripSo, not only a dual-purpose vibrator, but a dual-gender one as well! Because . . . if you haven’t already guessed from looking at the photos here (go on, admit it, you’ve looked already haven’t you?) . . . the Doxy Skittle is a vibrator that can be used either externally or internally and for either clit and vagina OR . . . for one’s bottom and prostate.

As I unwound the Skittle and it’s controller and cord from the box, I was already vibrating and tingling with excitement and intrigue before I’d even plugged it in!!!

Thankfully, like the Doxy Wand, the Skittle is mains powered, so I didn’t have to wait around for it to charge for hours and hours before I could try it. And you know me, I’m petulant and impatient and I just hate waiting . . . so I was delighted to be able to just plug it in and turn it on . . . straight-away!

And first impressions? Well it is quieter than the Wand, much quieter, but still holding it in my hand . . . and I must say the shape does allow one to easily grip and hold it . . . it was obvious that it’s vibrations are still quite powerful. The whole unit actually vibrates and you immediately think, as you push the controller buttons, “how the hell do they get it to rumble and throb so powerfully???”

SkittleHandfulThe extendable-bit . . . (I’m tempted to call it the “finger” but that doesn’t seem the right term for me, so I’ll just call it the “extendage”) wobbles and sort of shifts and twists. I immediately gave it my “nose-test” . . . after all, in my excitement and haste to unpack it and switch it on, I was still fully dressed.

My nose told me that as I push the +plus button (look at the pictures, I’ll get to the technical explanations later once I’ve calmed down again!) the “extendage” wobbles less but vibrates more powerfully, whilst as I (delightfully) squeezed the -minus button, the vibrations decreased but the wobbles became more pronounced.

I impatiently placed the Skittle on my bedside table whilst I quickly disrobed, pausing to note that it could have almost passed for a lovely bedside lamp . . . except of course that it doesn’t glow. That, and the fact that it was still vibrating and slowly moving across the table of it’s own accord!!!

The power cord is quite long (more on that later), so it was really easy for me to collapse back onto the bed and wriggle myself into my favourite “Doxy Do” position . . . and . . .

. . . now, as I’ve already said, I’m a clit-girl and despite my natural inquisitiveness about that extendage, my first instinct was to aim the Skittle at my truly, truly sensitive bit. And yes, it was nice. Quite nice in fact . . . though as I plussed and minussed away on the controller . . . I could sense it wasn’t quite as easy to position or control as my Wand.

I have learnt from later experience though, that the fact that the controller module is about 3 feet of cable away from the Skittle itself is actually a great advantage when playing with a partner, but I did find myself fumbling a bit when trying it out for that first time on my own. But that of course, is just because it was different from the buttons not being attached to the handle of the unit as they are on my Wand.

But anyway . . . that extendage, and the indented shape where it meets the top of the handle . . . soon had me realising that it has several different possibilities as I moved it around and around my lips . . . and then into my vagina.

SkittleTip2ToeIt was at this point that I decided to lift it away again and experiment with the “pulsing setting”. Just like the Wand, if you turn-off the power and then hold down that button for a few seconds, the Skittle will start-up again in a pulsing mode. So that wobbling and shifting and twisting will vary in motion and power and, I suppose, in intensity. And then start it’s pulsing-cycle again. Actually for me, although it is of course very clever, I found this setting to be more distracting and less enjoyable. But, returning it to the standard vibrations, I was soon swooning again as I twisted and pushed that wobbly, knobbly bit between my lips and held the curved nub of the unit against me. If you look closely at the pictures you will see the curved bit I’m talking about, and I could certainly feel it’s vibrations as I rubbed it against me whilst slowly pushing and probing with the extendage.

So . . . and remember that I was trying this on my own initially . . . leaving it on it’s vibrating setting, I then decided to experiment with that dual-purpose, secondary “entrance point”.

Now I have to be in a certain mood for anal play . . . and usually it is much, much easier when it just seems to happen spontaneously and naturally . . . and usually only when I’m in company. It’s not something I normally do when I’m alone. So possibly for that reason, and possibly because I couldn’t seem to find the right position, or way to hold onto the Skittle, and reach for and operate the buttons, I quickly lost my concentration . . . and my desire . . . resigning myself to revisit that situation when I would be accompanied by a companion. And, of course, very often when one is trying too hard to do something, the motivation or inspiration is all wrong anyway . . .

. . . but a few hours later (see I told you I was impatient!) . . . and on several occasions since, Hubby and I have experimented further and with a little more success. But whether because the extendage shape, or length, isn’t exactly right for either of us, or because the size of the handle makes the positioning difficult to achieve, the Skittle as an anal massager, hasn’t quite worked consistently for us. (Though it was great fun, and certainly a very interesting sight, making him sit down onto it as I held it beneath him . . . and NO, there are no pictures . . . well not here in this review at least!)

So . . . how does it compare with the Wand Massager you will, naturally ask, especially as it is a Doxy product after all?

Well, nothing can compare with the Wand of course . . . for sheer power, immediacy and ease-of-use, I suppose any other Doxy product will be forever in the Wand’s shadow. But the Skittle is fun and different . . . and certainly much quieter (so you could probably use comfortably with friends and family sleeping blissfully down the hall, instead of knocking on your bedroom door asking why you are putting-up shelving or assembling a wardobe in the middle of the night!)

And actually, you know what I think the main difference for me between the Wand and the Skittle is??? Well, I find the Skittle is much more fun to use during couple-play . . . fun and different, and leading to more adventurous play and situations. Whereas the Wand is more of a “this is all about me, give it here, it’s mine!!!” solo sort of experience. Well that’s how I’ve found it to be anyway.

So for those of you who find anal and prostate-play hugely satisfying and enjoyable, or for introducing some naughty fun into your playtime with your favourite lover, then I’m sure The Skittle would be a welcome addition to your Toy Drawer!!!

Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10
Pros: Different and fun for some “alternative” dual-penetration play.
Cons: Fiddly to control at first, especially during “solo” use.
Material: Medical grade PVC / silicone free of latex or phthalates.
Vibration Modes: I get so carried-away I can never count how many different speeds there are . . . suffice to say it is amazingly, unbelievably the most powerful I’ve ever vibrated against!!!
Pulsing Modes: Turned on by turning-off, then turning-on by holding power button down for two seconds. You release and the pulsing starts, rising in intensity with every pulse. Don’t worry, you can control it / slow the pulsing down by using the minus button on the controller.
Lubrication: Use with water-based lubricants only as oil-based lubes may damage the silicon parts of the unit.
Measurements: Height 7 inches from tip of the “extendage” to the base of the unit itself; the extendage is a 2 inch erection and just over 1 inch in diameter; the Unit section is 2 inches in diameter and about 5 inches in height from that “nub” to the base (where the cord is attached).
Button Controller: 4 and a half inches long and approx. 1 inch in diameter.  Contains three buttons, 1 for on/off, 1 for +plus and 1 for -minus. Positioned about 3 feet down the cord attaching it to the main unit.
Noise: Quite quiet for such amazingingly powerful vibrations.
Powered by: Mains operated only with almost 12 feet of cord from plug to unit.
Waterproof: Absolutely not. Please do not attempt to use in the bath or shower!!!
Available Colours: Black.
Additionally supplied with: Small, multi-lingual, black & white, user manual.
After-care: Always clean thoroughly after use (whichever entrance you’ve been using) with mild soap and a damp cloth.
Product Link: Doxy Skittle at Belle De Soir
Twitter feed: @DoxyMassager

You can watch my Video Review of the Doxy Skittle >. . .< well actually I’ve been too “busy” to do one yet . . . but if you ask nicely???

The Doxy Skittle Massager was sent to me as a gift by Doxy, and they did not ask me for a review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

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Xxx – K

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