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Modesty reviews “The Spotty Revolving P-Spot Massager” from Nomi Tang

SpottyUnboxedSince I first discovered Nomi Tang’s designer sex toys when she approached me last year to review her wonderful Infiniti Vibrator, I’ve become more and more intrigued by her interesting designs.

So I was delighted . . . and once again intrigued . . . when her “Spotty” . . . a revolving, vibrating, prostate massager, arrived in my post box recently.

First of all intrigued by the name of course . . . but it’s not called “The Spotty” because it’s covered in spots, rather because it is a P-Spot vibrator. Actually not just a p-spot vibrator, but also a p-spot massager!

So . . . a massaging, as well as a vibrating toy for one’s bottom certainly sounded interesting to me . . . even though I’m not personally equipped for the precise target of the Spotty’s revolving and massaging tip.

SpottyBoxCompositeLike all of Nomi Tang’s products the packaging is well designed and constructed and very stylish. The outer black and silver presentation sleeve has an illustration of the outline shape of the toy . . . and some bullet point type graphics of it’s main functions, printed on the spine. The actual storage box inside is a wonderfully strong, matt black cardboard box with the silver foil Nomi Tang logo on the top, which just oozes class and style. The Spotty itself sits inside it’s own black-foam cushion inside the box, along with a small manual and the USB charging cable.

The manual is very small . . . and in dim and subdued and sensual lighting is actually very difficult to read. So I would recommend that you read it through in advance, perhaps whilst you are charging it, rather than risking frustration . . . and eye-strain, and spoiling your mood and desire just when you thought you were ready to play.

SpottyAndChargerThe Spotty is charged either through a standard USB charging adaptor, or by plugging it into the USB port on your computer. It will take two and a half hours to charge and, apparently, will then run for up to three hours depending on the speed and vibation patterns you select. (Though I can’t imagine anyone could take three hours of continual anal vibrations!!!)

The Spotty has two completely independent motors – one in each “stem” – which are operated by two separate buttons. You press each button to turn on, and then press again to cycle through the five different vibrations, or three different revolving functions, on the massaging head itself.

To turn the motors off you have to hold the respective button down for two seconds. It’s actually a bit tricky to get used to at first, as it’s so easy to get lost in concentration and hold onto the button for just that extra second too long and turn-off the motor by mistake, just when you thought you’d found the setting you most enjoy. But like all things . . . practice makes perfect!!!

The Spotty’s insertable length measures 4 inches, with the revovling head part being almost two inches from the tip down to the part of the vibrator that is designed to massage and stimulate the prostate gland. The head is one and a half inches wide tapering down to a narrower neck before widening again further down the shaft.

Although I obviously don’t have a prostate I did want to try the Spotty myself !!! So . . .  after a liberal coating of lube (water-based only due to it’s silicone coating) . . . I did find the revolving motion quite a pleasurable sensation inside my bottom, especially when alternating the speed and vibration patterns. My “assistant”, who of course does have the right gland in the right place, also reported similar enjoyment from alternating the speed and vibration settings . . . although he did have a little more trouble with the length than I did!!!

SpottyInHandThe other “stem” of the Spotty, the more bulbous one, is designed to stimulate the perineum. Although it doesn’t revolve, it does have five different vibration patterns, and, actually quite strong ones!!! It is two and a half inches long and almost two inches wide. Hubby tells me the straight vibration patterns didn’t do anything for him at all, but he found the pulsing settings actually did enhance what was going on inside his bottom!!!

The Spotty is completely covered in a lovely feeling, FDG Grade silicone and is 100% waterproof. If you have seen my video review of Nomi Tang’s Infinity you will know that I took it into the bath with me for part of my review. Well although I don’t do that during my video review of the Spotty, I do show you a little demonstration to illustrate the strength of the vibration settings when submerged. Nomi says it is useable up to one metre underwater . . . though I think the insertion angles required would make that rather difficult to achieve!!!

I do love the feel of silicone toys . . . they always feel so nice to hold . . . and therefore nice to use. And in the case of the Spotty, the design which utilises a hole for one’s finger or thumb as part of the natural gripping motion makes it easy and comfortable to hold onto during play.

And, speaking of play, how was it during use? Well, both of us feel it is fun . . . and interesting . . . to play with. And it certainly has added pleasure to our play sessions each time we have used it. And, although he feels he probably couldn’t orgasm from using just the Spotty on it’s own, once it is inserted and buzzing away I only have to start stroking his willy for a few moments to bring him to a wonderfully impressive and intensive cum. So, from that point of view, he says that using The Spotty gives him probably the most stimulating and pleasurable anal play he’s had.

So, there you go boys, if you’d like some new and rather varied twisting and vibrating sensations for your bottom, The Spotty certainly gets the “thumbs up” from us!!!

Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10
Pros: Different and fun for some “alternative” anal play.
Cons: Fiddly to control at first, especially during “solo” use.
Material: Completely covered in seamless medical grade silicone.
Vibration Modes: 5 different patterns.
Revolving Head: 3 functions (slow, fast, interval).
Lubrication: Use with water-based lubricants only.
Measurements: Height 135mm; Width 128mm; Depth 19mm (at anus); 30mm (at revolving head); 36mm (at base).
Noise: <45dB but actually very quiet for such powerful vibrations.
Available Colours: Black.
Weight: 0.164kg
Waterproof: Up to one metre apparently.
After-care: Clean thoroughly in hot soapy water after use.
Supplier Product Link: Nomi Tang
Twitter feed: @NomiTang

ModestySpottyCoverMay2915You can watch my Video Review of the Spotty Revolving P-Spot Massager by clicking the title screen above!

The Spotty Revolving P-Spot Massager was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Nomi Tang  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx – K

 

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-up: HedoVibes#92 & Pink Intimate Lubricants for Women

Doc-Johnson-Fisting-Dildo-Cara-Sutra-Review-14Photo courtesy of Cara Sutra

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

CONTESTS

DILDOS

VIBRATORS

ANAL TOYS

RINGS & STROKERS

BONDAGE, IMPACT, & FETISH GEAR

STRAP-ONS/HARNESSES

LUBES & CONDOMS

LINGERIE & SHOES

ADULT VIDEO

EROTIC BOOKS

MISCELLANEOUS

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews The Cleopatra Clit Jewellery Set from Uberkinky

CleoPurpleBack600x450I’ve always had a sneaking envy for “personal” jewellery . . . No not just earrings and necklaces and bracelets – though I do love those of course! But I mean those more “personal” more permanent jewellery accessories . . . such as nipple and clit piercings. I’ve always been curious about those . . . but have never been brave enough to get anything like that added to my own personal bits.

So this Non-Piercing . . . Non-Permanent . . . Cleopatra Clittoral Crystal Jewellery set from . . . my favourite on-line Toy Shop, Uberkinky . . . is an ideal addition to my jewellery collection.

CleoPackedThe Cleopatra is nicely packaged in a thin, clear-plastic, sleeve . . . and it’s vacuum-shaped outline in the plastic itself makes it perfect to neatly store-away if you prefer, rather than dropping loose into one’s jewellery box.

It is non-piercing because the extending arms, (see my picture), allow you to attach and gently clamp the Cleopatra over your clitoris with the crystal “jewels” dangling below.

CleoHandsIt is just under three inches long, with the curling crown at the top . . . which is what clips over one’s clit . . . about half an inch across. The translucent crystals themselves are one and a half inches in length.

I found it slightly tricky to actually attach initially . . . so for the first few occasions you will probably need to practice in front of a mirror, as I did, to find the best way of fixing it in place. Once it is on though, the pinching sensation, as it squeezes around your clitoris is quite arousing . . . I certainly found it so anyway!!!

The metal arms are made from a nickel-free, non-tarnishing metal, so are quite safe to wear . . . as long as you clean thoroughly after each time you have worn it.

I do love the way the Crystals sparkle in the light and they feel quite light to the touch . . . but you do notice a slight feeling of weight when they are attached. It’s the sense of their dangling movement as I walk around . . . coupled with the gentle squeezing of one’s clit . . . that is quite an arousing sensation. I suppose it’s also to do with the fact that you KNOW you are actually wearing them and you are more conscious of the slight tinkling sound as you push your shopping trolley down the ailses at the supermarket!

As I say they are a bit fiddly to get on at first. I had to experiment with a few different methods and angles . . . and found the most comfortable way for me, is to slide it in under my labia lips and then open the arms at the end . . . so that I can manoeuvre the rounded clip over my clitoris.

ModestyCloserCleopatraI think you, obviously, have to go “commando” to get that full “swinging” sensation, so I certainly wouldn’t wear them with knickers on. I have worn them out during a shopping expedition or two . . . but did notice that over a period of time . . . with my mind wandering to other “normal” things . . . that they did begin to slip down a bit. Perhaps as my clit became a little more used to the squeezing, and my muscles down there relaxed. And also I suppose from the movement of walking about, sitting down to drive the car and so on.

But the thing about clit jewellery of course, is that they are not really designed for normal everyday things are they? They are much better for wearing in a more intimate situation. Perhaps to surprise your lover as he slowly unzips your skirt . . . or lifts your negligee over your head . . . to suddenly discover two sparkling crystal jewels dangling from your pussy lips. I know that I certainly had a wonderfully appreciative reaction when I wore them in just that sort of situation recently!

And my lovers excitement led to ME getting VERY excited as his fingers and tongue started playing with my already squeezed and tingly clit.  He wanted to take his excitement further of course, but I did find that I couldn’t take full penetration as the arms of the Cleopatra became uncomfortable and obstructive as his excitement mounted.

I have tried some solo play sessions with one of my favourite vibrators and . . . again . . . whilst penetration doesn’t work for me, the heightened squeezing of the Cleopatra does mean that even the gentlest of vibrations over my clit brings me to a hugely intense, possibly even too quick, orgasm.

But as well as looking lovely . . . I think the Cleopatra Clit Jewellery is quite fun to wear . . .  and a lovely accessory to add to one’s jewellery!

Stop Press Update: I made a little unintentional blooper during my video review of the Cleopatra Clit Jewellery . . . so the lovely people at Uberkinky have donated a Cleopatra-set for the first person to spot that blooper. Simply tell me what I said wrong in the (completely confidential) form below to receive the Cleopatra with our compliments! (But be quick, there’s only one, first correct answer wins . . . and I will email you how to arrange delivery!)

Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10
Pros: Fun, non-piercing and non-permanent “personal” jewellery.
Cons: Fiddly and tricky to attach.
Does Not Include: Phthalates, Nickel.
Measurements: The arms measure just under three inches in length whilst the Crystals themselves hang for one and a half inches.
Available Colours: The metal arms are gold. The crystals are translucent clear.
Waterproof: I would think so but would probably avoid wearing them at the seaside.
After-care: Clean thoroughly with a damp cloth and dry before storing away in your jewellery box.
Supplier Product Link: Cleopatra Clit Jewellery
Similar at Uberkinky: Clit Clamps

You can watch my Video Review of the Cleopatra Clit Jewellery by clicking the title screen above!

The Cleopatra Clit Jewellery was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Enter my Video-Review Blooper competition from the form below. I will email the, one, lucky winner to arrange delivery.

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Modesty Ablaze reviews Pink Intimate Lubricants for Women

ModestyAblazePinkGroupAs I’ve begun to get just a little bit older over the past two years or so, I have realised that I don’t get quite so naturally “wet” as I used to. It’s nothing to do with a lack of desire or arousal, of course . . . in fact I’m finding thatI get more easily aroused than ever!

It’s more to do with just the natural changes in one’s body as we . . . “mature” . . . a little more. Our bodies produce less hormones, or estrogen, and so our “lady bits” tend to not get quite so moist as they used to. That’s why it’s important to have a nice lubricant close at hand for whenever the need may arise.

So I was absolutely thrilled to receive a parcel from Empowered Products in Los Angeles with their range of Pink personal lubricant products.

As I hope you will be able to see in my video review, or from the pictures here, the individual dispensers are just wonderfully presented. And what I particularly like is that as well as the twist-to-open, and twist back to lock-closed, nozzle to actually dispense the lubricant . . . each bottle is also supplied with a pull-off and then push back on, protective cap which means the bottles can be stored away after use without any dribbles . . . or unexpected ejaculations on their own accord.

Now all of the Pink Lubricants use a variety of botanical ingredients (including Aloe Vera, Ginseng and Vitamin E) specially selected to help minimize irritation and add protection to your skin tissue and private moving parts and membranes. These can also help increase blood flow and heighten sensations during those special moments.

And by using different combinations of these ingredients, Pink have six different products to try . . . all colour coded to make it easy to remember which one is best for you.

Pink240x300The first of that range, the “Pink” Pink . . . is available in four different sizes. 200 millilitres, 120ml, 100ml and 50ml. It is a silicone blend which Pink say is their most lubricating and long-lasting formula. It is water-resistant . . . so you can move into the shower, or even the pool, if you feel inclined! And like all of the Pink range, it is unscented and flavour-free (so none of that false sickly strawberry flavoured taste that I just don’t like at all !!!) It doesn’t contain any Glycerins or Parabens at all and is safe to use with most toys, but not recommended for any of your porous silicone ones.

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The next bottle I tried . . . and actually my favourite . . . is “Pink Water”. As the name suggests, it is water-based and feels slightly “wetter” and lighter in texture than the silicone Pink. But it is still very smooth and slippery and doesn’t dry out. “Pink Water” has a nice subtle pale blue branding and has added extracts of Aloe Vera and Oat to minimize irritation, and Ginseng to increase blood flow and enhance sensation. It is available in three sizes of 200ml, 100ml and 50ml, free of Glycerin and is safe for use with all of your toys.

 

Indulgence240x300“Pink Indulgence” is also available in 200ml, 100ml and 50ml sizes and it’s unique combination of pure-water and crème emulsifiers . . . with a touch of silicone added . . . gives it an ultra soft and silky smooth feel, which makes it ideal for both lubrication AND foreplay massage (or perhaps, AFTER-PLAY massage if you’re like me and just love some “unwinding-time” massage on your back or feet after you’ve just enjoyed your ultimate pleasure!!!) “Indulgence” is free of Glycerin and is safe for use on all toys.

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How about “Hot Pink”??? Pink say that this lubricant has their own, patented, warming agent that combines with your own natural lubrication to give an exciting and thrilling sensation that both parties will be able to sense. I must say that you don’t necessarily feel that when you squirt it onto the palm of ones hand . . . but both I, and one of my lovers I recently used it with, did notice a different sensation during play. So . . . !!!

“Hot Pink” is available in two sizes, 100ml and 50ml, and is not recommended for use with silicone toys. (It’s just a little too-hot for those toys!!!)

Frolic240x300But “Pink Frolic” is safe for all toys because it is a purified water-based lube that has a thicker, longer-lasting feel than most other standard water-based lubricants. It is highly-concentrated and so is ideal for applying specifically to the spot(s) just where you want it as it quite thick and not so “watery” as the other bottled lubricants in Pink’s range.
“Frolic” comes in either 100ml or 50ml.

 

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Now, as I said . . . I love the twisting dispenser caps to unlock and lock the bottles, but if during the heat of the moment you would prefer to be able to reach for a larger pop-top tube lubricant, then “Pink Unity” is probably the Pink Lubricant for you.

“Unity” is a hybrid silicone gel which combines silicone molecules and purified water to produce a satiny-smooth slippery-ness, so it is ideal if you feel you really do need extra lubrication. And I can certainly tell you that it does really seem to stay slippery for a long, long time! The tube is 100 millilitres and like the bottled Pink lubes, it is unscented and flavour free. Because it does contain some silicone it is not recommended for porous or silicone toys.

Sparkle240x300And speaking of toys . . . and I’m sure you all enjoy having some toy-time fun occasionally . . . Pink also have their very own Foaming Toy Cleanser . . . called “Sparkle”.

It is alcohol free and contains anti-bacterial and anti-fungal properties to properly and safely disinfect and sanitize . . . and it’s soft foamy-spray content makes it really easy to evenly apply all over your favourite toys. And because it is foam-based, Pink tell me that it goes twice as far as most of the regular spray or liquid type toy cleaners you might be more familiar with.

You can see just how easy it is to use on my video! After you’ve applied it you should always wipe your toys over with a clean cloth and rinse with water and dry before re-using. “Sparkle” is available in 200mls or 50mls . . . and I really LOVE it!!!

I’ve mentioned when talking about lubricants in the past that I do think it is really, really important that what we put onto our private bits is safe and not going to cause any discomfort or infection. As you would expect, all of the ingredients are clearly listed on the labels of each of Pink’s products. But if you are like me and don’t have a degree in chemistry or biology . . . those lists can often be more confusing rather than enlightening. So I tend to base my acceptance of a product on the way it “feels” and looks to me . . . and I think all of Pink’s samples I was sent, do just “feel” and “look” right. The packaging of the lubricants themselves is stylish and professional . . . and the product catalogue that accompanied my “Pink Pack” is crammed full with information on all of the ingredients and elements used. And also has a really helpful “Frequently Asked Questions” section and information on the difference between Silicone, Hybrid and Water-based lubes.

So after having “tested” . . . quite thoroughly I might add . . . all of the different “Pinks” here, I can thoroughly recommend them all!

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Wonderfully packaged and easy to use.
Cons: I haven’t discovered any yet.
Does Not Include: Glycerins or Parabens.
Measurements: Various (see individual product specifications from weblink below).
Available Colours: Colour coded for individual products.
Waterproof: See individual product specifications from weblink below.
After-care: See Pink Sparkle Toy Cleanser.
Pricing: Individually priced at extremely reasonable prices!!!
Supplier Product links: Empowered Products

You can also find Pink on Twitter @pinkforus.

 

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You can watch my Video Review of Pink Intimate Lubricants for women by clicking the title screen above!

The Pink range of Intimate Lubricants for Women was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Empowered Products for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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The Uberkinky Manila Skinned Cane reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

UberkinkyManilaSkinnedCaneA nice cane is one of my favourite corporal punishment implements . . . so I was really excited to receive The Manila Skinned Cane from Uberkinky for my latest review.

The cane is made from authentic Brazilian Manila Cane – and it is just ideal for dealing out some serious punishment to my lucky submissives.It is almost 3ft long (85cm to be exact) and although there is a slightly thinner cane (0.8cm in diameter), I chose the thicker option of 1cm in diameter. But even with this extra thickness, it is still quite “springy” and makes a lovely swishing sound when you swing it through the air. And . . . I can assure you . . . it makes a lovely smacking “thwack” when it makes contact with my subs bottom. AND, it leaves some lovely marks.
(Some of which you may just see on one of the Gallery pages when I next update my Mistress Modesty site).

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The Manila Cane has a firm rubberised handle which makes it quite easy to grip and hold onto – even when getting a little carried away during a session.

I do feel though that the cane would benefit from a loop, or strap, of some kind attached to the handle in some way. Not just for slipping it over one’s wrist during play – but also because I like to hang all of my crops and canes and floggers up together in my wardrobe. It just makes storing them so much easier and neater – and also gives me something to smile about each time I open my wardrobe doors (“happy memories”). But, so far at least, that is my only criticism of the Brazilian cane.

It is surprisingly light to hold and yet gives an extremely impressive and strong impact and, depending on your subs experience . . . and pain threshold . . . I personally think that it needs to be used carefully, perhaps alternating it during play with a spanking paddle or flogger. And certainly some regular rubbing and smoothing of your subs cheeks.

UberkinkyCaneTipThat’s because although the cane is reasonably smooth . . . with just quite shallow grooves from the grain of the wood . . . it is quite hard and perhaps doesn’t have that little bit of “give” that my riding crops, for example, do. But of course that hard, sharp impact, is just what some submissives crave for.

The tip is nicely tapered and slightly curved at the end (see the picture above) so there are no sharp edges. But nevertheless this cane has left some really lovely stripes and marks on my subs bum. Surprisingly strong marks for such a lightweight cane!!! You can see some of those marks, (but only if you are really sure please as it is adult viewing only) at my Mistress Modesty Review Extras page >here<.

So I really do love my new toy . . . and would thoroughly recommend the Manila Skinned Cane from Uberkinky if you are looking for an easy-to-handle impact toy!

Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10
Pros: Light to wield and the rubber-grip makes it easy to hold even during extreme impact.
Cons: No holding strap or looped tie (as I would like to store hanging-up in my wardrobe).
Material: Body-Safe(??? LOL!!!) authentic Brazilian Manila Cane.
Does Not Include: Phthalates.
Length: 85cm (33 inches).
Diameter: 1cm or 0.8cm if you prefer slightly thinner.
Available Colours: Natural cane (with black rubber grip).
Power: Does not require batteries, just strong wrist action.
Lubrication: Does not require lubricants.
Waterproof: No . . . and don’t soak in water (that would really be too cruel!)
After-care: I rub down with a soft-cloth . . . and do the same to the cane!
Supplier Product link: Manila Skinned Cane with Rubber Grip
Uberkinky: Canes and Spankers
Recommended Reading: Beginner’s Guide to Caning

You can also find Uberkinky on Twitter @UberKinky.

Modesty Ablaze reviews the Uberkinky Manila Skinned Cane

You can watch my Video Review of the Uberkinky Manila Skinned Cane by clicking the title screen above!

The Manila Skinned Cane was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.


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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#83 & The Uberkinky Spiral Steel Male Chastity Device

stainless-steel-butt-plug-review-forbidden-obsessions-14Photo courtesy of Cara Sutra

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

CONTESTS

DILDOS

VIBRATORS

ANAL TOYS

BONDAGE, IMPACT, & FETISH GEAR

LUBES & CONDOMS

STORAGE & FURNITURE

LINGERIE & SHOES

EROTIC BOOKS

MISCELLANEOUS

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Visit my Sex Toys page for some of my previous Video Sex Toy Reviews!

Xxx – K

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Uberkinky Stainless Steel Chastity Device reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

As I’m sure you’ll know if you are a regular visitor here, I do love seeing one of my submissives wearing cock and ball rings, or “accessories” of some sort “down there”. But although I’ve often thought about it I’ve never had the opportunity to lock one of my slaves up in a chastity device before.

So you can imagine how thrilled I was when Uberkinky (where it’s not just a fetish – it’s a way of life) offered me the chance to try one out.

But of course . . . just like the Ro-Zen Cock and Ball Ring and Vibrating Butt Plug that I reviewed here last month . . . I haven’t got the necessary “equipment” to actually try it out myselfBut, luckily, I had several willing assistants desperate for the chance to help me actually physically test the device . . . and more on that in a moment!!!

Now, for the purpose of this review . . . AND in my video review (see below) as well . . . I just can’t keep referring to The Chastity Device as a “device”. Sorry Uberkinky, it’s probably just me, but “device” makes me think of some sort of automated, mechanical road-sweeper or TV satellite dish! So to me it’s a “cage” . . . a lovely cage, but a cage all the same.

Lovely glossy presentation box

So . . . the chastity cage arrived in a lovely strong, glossy white box . . . after removing it from it’s discreet plain brown corrugated cardboard delivery package, of course.

The box has an almost magnetic flap that snaps nicely closed so it can quickly and easily be stowed away in your toy drawer . . . the box that is, not the Chastity Cage itself, as I’m sure you’ll be wanting that to be out of the box . . . and in use more often than not. I know I was !!!

Now . . . I’ve seen a number of different designs of chastity cages being worn when I’ve been at various Fetish events and Club nights . . . or hanging up on the racks at several dungeons I’ve held sessions at. But what immediately caught my eye when I first saw this one on the Uberkinky website . . . was it’s open design. It just gives a real impression that the wearer will be truly locked behind bars! With his cock completely caged in it’s own little prison cell . . . and I rather liked that idea!!!

The Chastity Cage is made of body-safe stainless steel and comes with a choice of three different cock rings . . . to suit different sizes of ones cock and balls obviously!

Supplied with 3 different cock rings.

The rings have a protruding shaft, which extends horizontally from the top, with a hole at the end for securing the lock once the cage is position. The larger of the three rings has a restricting diameter of 5 centimetres . . . the middle one is 4 and a half centimetres . . . and the smallest one is 4 centimetres. So there is plenty of choice for the best fit and comfort for the wearer . . . not that we would want him to be so comfortable as to completely forget what he was wearing, now would we girls???

Anyway, the sub pushes his cock , and then pulls his balls one-by-one through the ring so that he is gripped tightly enough around the base of his cock and under his scrotum to hold everything in place.

The stainless steel is perfectly smooth and seamless and . . . I was assured by my testing-assistant . . . doesn’t cause any chafing or rubbing. Even after being worn for several days.

The Spiral Cage itself has an accommodating space . . .  or “cock room” as I call it . . . . of 9 centimetres inside and despite being really strong and robust, it actually feels quite light in ones hand.

The inner diameter is 3 and a half centimetres wide. So even your “largest” submissive should be able to easily slide his cock into the cage, which then slots onto the cock ring’s protruding shaft, positioned directly above his cock obviously. The shaft is 2 and a half centimetres long and gives just enough space for the wearers balls to hang through below. There are also two thin pins which slot snugly into corresponding holes to help secure the cage onto the cock ring.

And then . . . of course . . . there is the lock! It’s a small brass lock, just like the sort you would use as suitcase or luggage lock when you’re going off on holiday. Mine was supplied with three keys. The lock clips easily through the hole on the cock ring shaft . . . and his manhood is then completely caged!!!

Strong and yet surprisingly light.

Now, as I said, I had several willing volunteers who wanted to be my “body-tester” for the Spiral Chastity Cage . . . but for my first occasion of being a “key-holder” I wanted to be able to monitor my new cage at close-quarters. So I commanded my “not quite so willing” Hubby to be my assistant for . . . “well let’s just try it for a day shall we ? . . Just to see how you get on with it!” I told him!!! Being a “chastity virgin” he showed some concern initially, reminding me that I often lose my keys in my bottomless handbag, or put them down somewhere and forget exactly where . . . but with a little not-so-gentle persuasion . . . he agreed to be locked-up for the day. (You can see the evidence, if you are sure you really want to, on one of my Mistress Modesty pages >here<).

Now, although I’ve always been curious about being a “key-holder” . . . I never expected to enjoy it quite as much as I did! It was actually quite empowering and I loved looking at it . . . making him spend all of our time indoors that day, completely naked.

And I was enjoying it so much that I decided to add a little customisation to the cage by attaching a little bell that I just happened to have to hand. (Obviously Uberkinky doesn’t supply a bell with the device but perhaps they should consider it as an optional extra!) I just loved hearing him moving around and the tinkling getting louder as he brought me my glasses of wine . . . or knelt down to massage my feet!

TwoHandsBut I’m sure you want to know how long it kept him chaste . . . and how it felt for him???

Well . . . he found it quite comfortable to wear. And, whilst always being conscious of the tightness around his balls, he said he actually enjoyed the feeling of moving about and having it knocking against him as he walked or sat down or stood up. He did have difficulty at first whenever he had to have a pee . . . spraying everywhere apparently . . . but with some careful practice he soon mastered that art.

I’ve now extended that first-day “trial” to several days in a row . . . although I have let him take off the bell each morning as he goes off to work. And I can report that my “assistant” has had no problems with showering and cleaning . . . or even sleeping . . . apart from just the obvious discomfort of his “morning glory” . . . so from that point of view it certainly works.

And from my own point of view it works as well . . . because I love feeling empowered and even more in control of my submissive . . . literally holding the key to his chastity . . . and his “erectile” freedom.

So much so that I think I’ll soon be ordering two or three more of my submissives to purchase  one of their own to send me.

And . . . if any of you other boys reading this are looking for a “key-holder” . . . I would be more than willing to offer my services . . . with BELLS on of course!!!

Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Pros: Light weight Stainless Steel and lovely “cage” design so all his lovely bits are clearly visible.
Cons: I haven’t found any yet.
Material: Body-Safe Stainless Steel.
Does Not Include: Latex or Phthalates.
Size: Length of Cage 90mm. Inner Diameter 32mm.
Cock rings (3 different sizes) – 40mm, 45mm, 50mm.
Available Colours: Silver Stainless Steel
Power: Does not require batteries.
Lubrication: Does not require lubricants.
Waterproof: Yes
After-care: Once . . . eventually . . . removed, it should be washed with hot soapy water and dried before storage (or in the ever-so-short periods you allow it to be removed).
Storage: Strong, glossy white cardboard box supplied.
Supplier Product link: Spiral Stainless Steel Male Chastity Device
Uberkinky: Chastity Devices
Additional Information: Beginner’s Guide to Male Chastity

You can also find Uberkinky on Twitter @UberKinky.

Modesty reviews The Uberkinky Stainless Steel Chastity Device

You can watch my Video Review of the Uberkinky Spiral Stainless Steel Male Chastity Device by clicking the title screen above!

The Spiral Stainless Steel Chastity Device was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.


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Modesty’s Review Revue #wickedwednesday

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For this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday we are asked “Do you write Reviews?” and “Why?” and “How?”

Well, yes I do now post reviews here from time-to-time. Sometimes about a new book I have read, sometimes about a new sexy toy that I may have received from a special friend (or has been sent to me anonymously from my Wishlist pages) . . . or sometimes about new clothes or underwear that I have fallen in love with at first sight!

But the reason “why” I started is due to a suggestion by one of my special Friends after I’d taken him along to one of my favourite Toy Shops here in London. He joked “you seem to know about everything on the shelves, you should review them on your website” . . . and so, I suppose, more from a sense of “giggle and dare”, rather than from serious intent . . . I thought I would add an occasional summary of my experiences and my likes and dislikes of some of the newer items from my “Toy Shelf” (above).

And, much to my surprise, I started getting requests for more . . .

I’ve always been interested in anything to do with sex . . . and particularly fascinated by the thought of sex-toys themselves from the moment I first heard that such things existed! So, of course, I’ve been collecting all sorts of different items for years and years, long before the internet and being able to order on-line. (I can remember many nervous and hilarious visits to various dark and dingy establishments in Soho or the backstreets of Islington!)

Most of the items I purchased back then have long since been discarded, having lost their appeal . . . or broken and dead from under- (or over LOL!!) use.
But I have kept two or three for old-times sake (can you guess which ones from my shelf above???)

But I digress . . .

So . . . on being asked for more after my first review . . . I decided to add an occasional post as I went along, with the following disclaimer:

I realise that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me sexy clothes and lingerie . . . and sexy toys . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!!
Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating .

After all, everyone is different, and I would never expect things that thrill and excite me to necessarily have exactly the same affect on someone else. But I feel that at least by describing my basic feelings and experiences of a particular item, in as simple and straightforward language as possible, it may give my readers a clearer idea of what to expect . . . rather than rattling on about all the technical details.

But of course I’m sure that’s how all “reviewers” approach their reviews . . .
so I should probably just say that if you are intrigued or curious to learn more about the Modesty Ablaze Reviews Revue there are some video-links from clicking the images below:


The Rocks Off RO-Zen Vibrating Butt Plug

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Or, if  you prefer . . . and you may do LOL!!! . . . specific item reviews from my Toy Reviews page >here<.

Or, for a really comprehensive weekly compendium of Sex Toy Reviews I can thoroughly recommend you visit Karen Blue’s HedoVibes Review pages >here< . . . You just never know, you may be inspired to join in!!!

And for more (re)views on this weeks theme, be sure to visit Wicked Wednesday  by clicking the button below.

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Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#78 & The RO-Zen Double Cock Ring & Vibrating Butt Plug

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Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.

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The Uberkinky Rocks-Off RO-Zen reviewed by Modesty Ablaze

I really was excited to receive the Rocks Off RO-Zen Vibrating Butt Plug for my latest toy-product review for Uberkinky.

ModestyRocksOff2I do love seeing one of my lovers wearing a tight cock and ball ring and so the idea of combining that with an anal butt plug attachment. . . and a vibrating one at that . . . had me tingling with excitement and intrigue as soon as I saw it.

But, of course, not being physically equipped to wear this product myself, I instructed one of my regular submissives that he would be testing “a new toy” at our up-coming session over the weekend. He was curious and excited, begging with expectation “What is it? What is it?”

“You’ll have to wait and see, but I think it will be just perfect for you!” I replied.

The RO-Zen arrived neatly packaged in a firm cardboard box with a white slide-off open-ended outer cardboard sleeve. The main box itself has a clear see-through acetate viewing window displaying the RO-Zen beneath, whilst the reverse of the box has a descriptive illustration of the plug, and battery details, and a list of the toys main features. There is also a 66 page, full-colour brochure inside the box . . . small in size but packed with information on the huge range of bullets, plugs, vibrators and accessories in the Rocks-Off range.

ModestyRocksOff1Apart from it’s internal vibrating bullet, the RO-Zen is completely made of a silky, body-safe silicone that feels lovely to touch and squeeze. The rings which slide over the man’s cock and balls are quite pliable and stretchable and so would easily fit everyone I’m sure. The Cock ring-hole is approximately 1.25 inches in diameter whilst the Ball ring-hole is slightly wider at 1.5 inches in diameter.

The connecting strap between the ball-ring and the plug itself is just under 1 inch wide, 7mm thick and about 2.5 inches in length between the ball hole and the plug. There are eight little nodules which stick-up off the surface of the strap by a millimetre or two. They are designed to apply pressure and scrape against his perineum as the plug in his bottom pulls and holds it secure from the base of his cock. (More on this in a moment).

The plug itself stands proud at 2.5 inches tall (or “insertable” length I suppose it should be described as), with a girth or circumference of 4 inches. If that sounds rather “large” the diameter is approximately 1.5 inches at its widest part, tapering down to it’s rounded end. So you certainly wouldn’t describe it as a small plug . . . but I knew my “volunteer” was used to accommodating something of this size so was sure it wouldn’t be a problem.

ModestyRocksOff4The actual vibrating bullet slides tightly into the base of the plug. It is just over 3 inches in length and has seven different vibrating settings which are controlled by a single push button on the cap of the bullet. The vibration-speed or pulsing settings are advanced by one push of the button to change to the next setting. But the change is only forward in direction, so if you want to go back to a previous setting you have to cycle forwards until you find that “favourite” setting again. The vibrations are turned off completely by holding down the button for a few seconds.

The Alkaline battery is included with the RO-Zen (always good as there is nothing worse than having to search for one at the last minute). The gold coloured cap protrudes by about 2cm from the base of the plug and I did enjoy squeezing the plug tightly in the palm of my hand and pushing the button, one push at-a-time, to change the speed and pulsing patterns which I could quite easily feel vibrating in my hand, even through the thick silicone skin. I was already smiling at the thought of instructing my submissive upon his arrival to “close your eyes and hold out your hands”.

And so, the RO-Zen looks lovely, feels lovely and is such a lovely idea . . . but how would it perform in practice . . . and would it test the endurance of my anal play-mate? The weekend couldn’t arrive fast enough!

When he opened his eyes his response wasn’t quite the reaction I had been expecting. “There’s not much of a neck is there?” As he ran his fingers around the point at which the bottom of the plug joins the perineum strap. And now that he had mentioned it, I realised that my own plugs (I have two different ones) do have a more distinct stem between the base and where the plugs begin to widen.

“Apparently it is designed to give you a larger, harder more prolonged erection”
I assured him, quoting the Rocks-Off blurb from the back of the box.

“Well then” he replied, “let’s give it a whirl”. And he eagerly proceeded with the task in hand . . . so to speak.

With the application of a little water-based lubricant (being silicone it should always be water-based lube) the cock ring . . . and then the ball ring, slid quite easily over his bits and he quickly declared that they felt quite comfortable. But inserting the plug, even with a more generous application of lubrication, wasn’t quite so straightforward. It appeared to go in without too much straining on his part . . . but he couldn’t get it to stay in place. Even with a more exaggerated clenching of his muscles, the slightest movement afterwards seemed to make it pop out again.

I suggested removing himself from the two rings and to try inserting the plug first so that there was no pulling pressure on the perineum strap. Again he was able to insert it but didn’t feel able to control his “grip” comfortably . . . and as soon as he attempted to slide the rings back over his balls and then cock, the plug would pop out again.

We did manage to combine our efforts and achieve some degree of success by pushing him down into a sitting position . . . although in this position of course there was no access to the push-button for turning on the vibrating bullet . . . and as soon as he lifted himself back into a standing position the plug would, frustratingly, pop out again.

By bending him over a stool I was able to apply enough pressure to hold the plug in position and begin pushing the button to engage the vibrations. His shifting motions . . . to achieve the right spot . . . and groans of pleasure, indicated that he was certainly finding this position, and the action from the plug, quite arousing.

But now that his erection had returned, trying to slide the cock and ball rings back over his firmness resulted in the plug plopping out again.

We continued our attempts with various positions and adjustments . . . but eventually had to admit defeat.

His, carefully considered, verdict was that this Butt Plug is just a little too thick, too quickly and then doesn’t allow enough of a change of shape for his sphincter to relax and close and “grip”.

So whilst he found the idea of it as exciting as I did, his body shape and that of the RO-Zen just wasn’t compatible.

But that doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work for someone else!!!

So . . . in the interest of complete impartiality, equality and, of course, scientific research . . . I decided to try the RO-Zen for myself. (I mean the Butt Plug part of it silly!!!)

And did it work for me? Well, you can find out about that from my video review of the RO-Zen 7 function Double Cock Ring and Vibrating Butt Plug >here<.

But in the meantime:

Modesty Rating: 5 out of 10
Pros: I love to feel and caress that silky Silicone. And the vibrating bullet gives a nice variety of speeds and pulsings.
Cons: The Butt Plug itself would not stay in place for my “testing” volunteer/assistant.
Material: Body-Safe Silicone.
Does Not Include: Latex or Phthalates.
Size: Length 10cm (4 inches); Circumference 10cm (4 inches); Overall Diameter 3.18cm (1.25 inches); Insertable Length 6.35cm (2.5 inches).
Available Colours: Onyx Black
Power: One single N LR1 (Alkaline) Battery which is included with the product.
Controls: Push button in the base of the Bullet to control seven vibrating speeds and patterns.
Lubrication: Water-based.
Waterproof: Yes
After-care: Wash with hot soapy water. Or boil to sterilise, (removing the bullet section first silly!!!)
Storage: Mine was supplied in a nice plastic holding base within a two-section cardboard box and outer sliding cardboard sleeve.
Supplier Product link: Rocks off RO-Zen at Uberkinky
Buy Link: Cockrings with buttplugs

You can also find Uberkinky on Twitter @UberKinky.

Xxx – K

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You can watch my Video Review of the Ro-Zen Double Cock Ring & Vibrating Butt Plug by clicking the title screen above!

The Rocks-Off RO-ZEN was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

 

 

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